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Has everyone cheated at least once in their lives ???

Q.   I'm curious. I jus want 2 know has every person cheated at least once in thier lifes? I jus find that alot of people on here have alot of questions about it n it seems alot of us have done it....

A.   15 September 2006: Never ever cheated and I would like to think I never would. xxx... (read in full...)

Im 27, shes 19, would it be inappropriate to date her ?

Q.   Hi, um, first time here. I'm 27 and I've fallen for my 19 year old friend. She's wonderful and I think the feelings are reciprocated. But I've not made a move because I'm worried she'll think I'm too old. I've known her since she was 16 and I...

A.   14 September 2006: *feel* sorry but these typos are getting beyond a joke!! Why cant I spell, I mean really!!! sorry, not feek but feel. Goodness me!!!!!... (read in full...)

Im 27, shes 19, would it be inappropriate to date her ?

Q.   Hi, um, first time here. I'm 27 and I've fallen for my 19 year old friend. She's wonderful and I think the feelings are reciprocated. But I've not made a move because I'm worried she'll think I'm too old. I've known her since she was 16 and I...

A.   14 September 2006: You are not a peadophile, and you certainly should not feek that way if she was 12 and you were your age then there would be a definate problem, she is an adult, you are an adult, so please stop worring. I cant see a problem here friend, dont worry. ... (read in full...)

Im 24 hes 19, I feel a bit wierd about the age!

Q.   I'm 24 years old and seeing a 19 year old I feel really weird but he acts very mature and i do like him am i wrong?...

A.   11 September 2006: My sister is 26 next year her boyfriend is 21, I see no problem. If you are happy, if he is happy, if he is decent, caring, kind, loving blah blah blah what is the problem, there need not be one. Take care. xXx... (read in full...)

I love another girl aswell as my girlfriend!!

Q.   i need help im going with out with a girl that i love but i love another girl more and she knows but she is going out with someone too . if i tell my girlfreind it will break her heart what will i do xx ...

A.   11 September 2006: No you dont love 2 people at once, its not possible, you may think you do but it aint so if not the whole world would have fidelity problems. Yes you may be fondof someone else, even fancy someone else, be sexually attracted to someone else, but you ... (read in full...)

Who should I believe ?

Q.   A friend of mine clsims she walked into my gf cheating on me with some other guy and my friend has told me she has feelings for me and my problem is who do i believe and when she told me this i told her i still love my gf am i making a mistake by ...

A.   11 September 2006: Have you spoken to your girlfriend? This doesnt sound kosher to me, it sounds like she is telling some fibs, but then again, I dont know everything, so yo uneed to speak to your girlfriend first and obtain her version of what may or may not have ... (read in full...)

Can she really be certain this early on that she is pregnant ?

Q.   I stupidly had unprotected sex with my neighbour 7 days ago. And again 3 days ago. We are both single and at first I thought she was really nice. After the second time she told me she had missed her pill that morning. She has now been causing ...

A.   11 September 2006: After 7 days she is claiming that she is pregnant, wait a minute is this woman God, can she forsee the future? Of course she isnt so how would she know? After 7 days of intercourse, how will she even know truly if he period is late, this woman ... (read in full...)

he called me nasty names but claims he loves me!!?

Q.   What does it mean when your boyfriend of a year gets angry and starts calling you names when you are arguing and he makes you cry, by calling you a "slut", "hoe", "dirty" and that hes had better than you, even though he is in love with you???...

A.   11 September 2006: What sort of a loser is your boyfriend, he has absolutely zero respect of you, not even a gram of respect. My dear you know full well you dont desrve to be treated like a fool, so dont be. xxx... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to use this guy to make babies? Trapping him as a father?

Q.   I am a confident, intelligent, and independent 21 year old woman. I work full time, i am also a part-time university student (finishing my degree in 6 months). I own my own car and have recently moved out of my parents house and have had no troub...

A.   9 September 2006: Of course its wrong, why on earth dont you like monogamous relationships either? If you are not even in a proper relationship I think its absurd to just go and get pregnant by him, you are using him as a sperm donor and its not fair.I dont think ... (read in full...)

People around me are smokers and I'm concerned I will become addicted too. How can I avoid this?

Q.   Both of my parents were smokers, and so are many of my relatives and some of my really close friends. Also, all of my brothers chew snuff. I am having to make a really difficult decision whether or not to smoke. I know it is hazardous to your ...

A.   9 September 2006: Agree totally with Martini, you have to avoid them, I havr to do it as well as I cant physically take the smell of it, it causes migraines and asthma attacks. You need to tell them that it bothers you and ask them just for your benefit if they could ... (read in full...)

Even after taking the morning after pill...Could I be pregnant???

Q.   i had sex with my boyfriend and he came inside me i got the morning after pill about 2 hours later and have taken my period for this month only it was a week late but it was normal could i be pregnant? ...

A.   9 September 2006: It seems a bit unlikely babes, however I am not the creator of life and even if we sometimes try to prevent it from being created, it may not be the case so in order to find out for true get a blood test. xXx... (read in full...)

Been having an affair for the past 5 years, he says he loves me but he won't leave his wife!

Q.   I am 28 and been involved with a married man for the past 5 years. I love him to bits. He won't leave his wife but he says he loves me! What should i do? ...

A.   9 September 2006: Of course he wont leave his wife, he is having the best of both worlds, dont you think that you need to end this affair? You are both hurting his wife, its not fair to her that for 5 years she has been sharing her husband with another woman ... (read in full...)

Brown periods. Normal???

Q.   ino this isn't really the sight to ask but i don't know who else to ask and i'm geting quite worried... i started my period around the christmas just gone and i've just come on this week and it is quite brown is this normal????...

A.   9 September 2006: Its normal babes, I get it sometimes so dont worry hun. xXx... (read in full...)

First night out with and we had sex...now I think I'm pregnant! Should I tell him?

Q.   I met this guy when i went back home this summer and on our first night out we slept together, later on we realised that we had been chatting on the internet for over a year and we both know a lot of things about each other so that made me feel ...

A.   8 September 2006: Of course you should tell him, he has the right to know is he has potentially fathered a child. I cant tell you what to do about the baby, I dont advocate abortion personally, but I am not you, its not my situation and my beliefs are not relavant to ... (read in full...)

I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!

Q.   My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...

A.   8 September 2006: He told you that you need help, sweetie, your ex boyfriend qualifies as the biggest AH in on the face of God's earth. Girl, he has serioous issues, be thankful you dont have to put up with that kind of attitude. All the best babes. xXx... (read in full...)

The skid marks on his boxer shorts is turning me off. He says it stings to wipe his bum...what is his problem?

Q.   Iv got a slight problem here and i welcome any help that i can get.My partner is a wonderful man and is very good with the kids but i am quickly going off him. He doesn't wipe his bum properly because he has loads of skid marks in his boxers! I am ...

A.   8 September 2006: This is not healthy because the germs contained in faeces are extremely poisonous. As Stina rightly says, get some baby wipes, they are gentle enough for a babys bum so they will do for his bum wont they. He needs to wipe the excrement away, ... (read in full...)

I s sex on the first night wrong?

Q.   i just wanted to know everyones opinion... do you think sex on the first night is wrong?? ive been talking to alot of people about this and everyone has mixed views, I'm not sure what exactly guys look for? do they all look for a quick shag on the ...

A.   8 September 2006: My dear its one of those situations where everyone will have a different opinion, some see it as wrong in terms of their moral beliefs etc etc, I am not going to sit here and say "well I think its wrong" or "I think its fine" my dearm you have your ... (read in full...)

Shall I stop my pill while my bf is away for 6 months ?

Q.   My boyfriend's going away for six months, do you think it's a good idea to stop my pill? (Note: I'm not going to be unfaithful to him)...

A.   8 September 2006: Babes its your choice but as the others have said, you may as well stay on it because your body is used to it now. Unless you are having problems with it, you may as well keep taking it. xXx... (read in full...)

Is his request normal ?

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to call out my ex boyfriends name when we are having sex. i find this uncomfortable. is this normal? ...

A.   8 September 2006: In my dictionary, normal means that which is not abnormal and my dear, thisis very abnormal. This is a sick, disturbing request if you ask me, down right weird. xXx... (read in full...)

He has slept with over 100 women unprotected...says he doesn't have children.

Q.   My partner has slept with over 100 women before he met me, most of them unprotected. I think he must have children somewhere but he claims he doesn't. How can he possibly know this? I know this is a bit crazy and they'd never be able to find him ...

A.   8 September 2006: Its amazing how small numbers can somehow mysteriously transform into 3 digit figures, like Irish49 said, I bet this figure is not even accurate. Saying you have slept with 100 women seems to be the standard number for most men but its just based on ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 years old and no girl has ever said she likes me!

Q.   Hi, im 14 years old now and just frustrated now. In all my life i have never had a girlfriend and no girl has ever said she liked me. people say oh it doesnt matter when your young but it does, I know from experience. I admit im shy but i do talk ...

A.   8 September 2006: Friend, stop worrying, men didnt even start showing real interest in me till I was about 19 and I am 23!!!! Seriously, all my other friends were with boys and having a great time, but when it came to me, that wasnt the case, but stop worrying, you ... (read in full...)

I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!

Q.   Ok so my new boyfriend pete that i had a crush on for 5 years and i finally got him =D. But ive never had a boyfriend before i dont really know what to do thats sweet, and something he will love me for and most of my friends do really cute things f...

A.   8 September 2006: Hiya, no I am not disappointed but I am still happy for you though either way!!! I am glad when people can find true happiness!!! All the best.... (read in full...)

I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?

Q.   Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...

A.   7 September 2006: I am glad you had a great time babes!!! Take care. xXx... (read in full...)

I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!

Q.   My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...

A.   7 September 2006: David Lewis you joker!!!!!! North West people have the best humour dont they??!!!!!! lol Seriously, this boyfriend is a complete loser, I am still in shock after reading that post.... (read in full...)

I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!

Q.   My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...

A.   7 September 2006: *was* not wss, sorry!!!... (read in full...)

I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!

Q.   My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...

A.   7 September 2006: So I assume that your boyfriend never passes wind?? What a loser? As someone else said, he wss only using that as an excuse, you are perhaps better off without such a complete fool. xXx... (read in full...)

Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?

Q.   Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't ...

A.   7 September 2006: I agree with you Yos, using a real example always makes better sense as well, but as I said before, I dont really think you can truly be in love with 2 people at the same time. ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 and like a 13 year old - does that make me a pervert?

Q.   Ok guys i really need to know this... I'm 16 and there's this guy i like and i want to ask him out but the only problem is that he's 13 ( he's 14 in about 3 months) is this too much of an age gap???? I'm also worried becasue if i do ask him out will...

A.   7 September 2006: I wouldnt say you are a perv, but as David Lewis said, you need to be careful, its not a good idea to get involved just yet. xXx... (read in full...)

I love him, but dont like sex, I will do anything to avoid it, could this end our relationship ?

Q.   i know this may seem realy silly but i do not like sex. i have been with my partner just over 3 years and try everthing to avoid it. We are both very much in love but have only slep together around 10 times, he keeps asking me but i try my best to ...

A.   7 September 2006: Sorry I meant to type xXx but for some bizarre reason my finger went on the c button!!! I am sorry about that minor hiccup.... (read in full...)

Should I trust the man who had an affair with me?

Q.   After having an affair with a married man for three and a half years, am I a fool for trusting his word on anything? I have just found e-mail correspondence from him to another young woman which seems perfectly innocent, but is this man incapabale ...

A.   7 September 2006: Dear, you are sleeping with a man who is MARRIED to another woman, how can he possibly not be a liar, he is already lying to his family, so what makes you think he isnt doing it to you? My dear, I think you have already answered your question... (read in full...)

Is a 7-year age gap too much?

Q.   Hi all, I was wondering whether you thought a 7 year age gap is a big deal or not? (If both are of legal age). We were born in the same decade, just 7 years apart. Everyone says that the age gap will cause problems, and so far I haven't e...

A.   7 September 2006: Hi babes, I cant see any issue at all with the age gap, and even if I was so ignorant as to think there was a problem, would it make any difference? Of course not, you live your life and forget anyone else. You are both mature, so whats the problem? ... (read in full...)

I love him, but dont like sex, I will do anything to avoid it, could this end our relationship ?

Q.   i know this may seem realy silly but i do not like sex. i have been with my partner just over 3 years and try everthing to avoid it. We are both very much in love but have only slep together around 10 times, he keeps asking me but i try my best to ...

A.   7 September 2006: Sweetie, its not silly, but it is not normal that you dont like being intimate with the man you you say you are in love with? Why dont you like sex with him, is it him, is it his technique, is it sex in general? Why? Sex should be something that ... (read in full...)

I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!

Q.   Ok so my new boyfriend pete that i had a crush on for 5 years and i finally got him =D. But ive never had a boyfriend before i dont really know what to do thats sweet, and something he will love me for and most of my friends do really cute things f...

A.   7 September 2006: Hi babes, are you the girl who was the poster of the question "Pete is AMAZING shall I go for it?" If so CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! I am glad you got your Pete, the one I work with who is MARRIED has just returned from holiday with the finest tan and ... (read in full...)

Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?

Q.   Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't ...

A.   7 September 2006: NO. I dont care if people go on at me for mentioning the Bible but I dont care, it says in the Word that that NO man can love two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other..... basically, you cant love 2 people at the same time ... (read in full...)

Sex and cigarettes...

Q.   Does smoking cigarettes decrease a person's sex drive? Also if a person were to stop smoking would their sex drive improve or would soon after, take time, or have been forever decreased? Thanks....

A.   7 September 2006: Quite simply yes it can and also it lowers a males sperm count, that has been clinically proven. xXx... (read in full...)

We Kissed - Does my brother's friend like me - or not?

Q.   There is a man 3yrs younger than me that has told me that I am a fetish to him and that he could never think of anyone better to be with. We've been through the same old thing him telling me he really likes me etc, etc. He's my brothers mate and ...

A.   5 September 2006: I am a fetish to him and that he could never think of anyone better to be with You said it babes. I have to agree with the previous 2 replies as well, Ms. Tanya and Ponungalungb, it may be that he is really only after one thing. Do you really w... (read in full...)

I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?

Q.   Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...

A.   4 September 2006: My dear I said it before and I will say it again, BE YOURSELF!! Forget trying to associate with so called "cool" people, he will notice the "cool" people and not you, the way men notice me, is the fact that I am not loud and in your face, I just b... (read in full...)

I have decided to give up drinking and people think I'm a freak!

Q.   Hi I recently made a decision to give up drinking. I have drank for 10 years and to be honest never massively enjoyed it...... I loved the social aspect but it always gave me headaches and terrible next day hangovers, as well as occasional memor...

A.   4 September 2006: Friend first of all let me say how glad I am to hear that you have made such a good decision. Easier said than done, but you have really go to try and ignore the ignorance ofothers, forget the fact that they think you are weird for not drinking, I ... (read in full...)

Too much air in my vagina!

Q.   when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...

A.   4 September 2006: "consolution" Dr Pete, that word is not in the English dictionary!! To question poster: as I said before, I think your hubbie is being a bit petty, I am a bit miffed as to why this is a major deal, but Malyce Synn has given you some good altern... (read in full...)

My breasts are not so perky after a baby, is this a huge turn off ?

Q.   I'm 23 and after having a baby i have sagging breasts! Is this a hugh turn off?...

A.   4 September 2006: To anon poster below: You go girl!!! You bless him with 4 kids and he has the bare faced cheek!!!!!!!! Good for you. xxx... (read in full...)

Why does my GF resist being touched all of a sudden?

Q.   hi I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years and all of a sudden she won't let me touch her. I can't even kiss her without her sighing. Someone please tell me what I can do. I can't talk to her because I would'nt know how to put it. Please ...

A.   4 September 2006: My friend you say you cant talk to her because you dont know how to put it, but if you dont talk to her, you are running the risk of making her very annoyed and agitated with your behaviour. Its not normal behaviour, something has gone wrong ... (read in full...)

I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?

Q.   Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...

A.   4 September 2006: My dear I totally agree with Ponungalungb. Just be yourself and let him see the true you, dont try and be something you are not. Good luck. xXx... (read in full...)

Too much air in my vagina!

Q.   when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...

A.   4 September 2006: Dr Pete that was cold!!!!!! So I make a few ok LOADS of typos, but not in the titles of questions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Actually, I am gonna cry now,I am quite upset. ... (read in full...)

Too much air in my vagina!

Q.   when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...

A.   4 September 2006: Dr Pete, SPELLCHECK!!!!! lol Anyway, considering all the threats of terrorism in the world, third world debt and famine in many nations, I feel that your husband is being rather petty, my dear if you are happy with the hair being there, dont wor... (read in full...)

Too much air in my vagina!

Q.   when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...

A.   4 September 2006: I am way confused, air or hair? Sorry but I really am mystified!!!!! ... (read in full...)

My breasts are not so perky after a baby, is this a huge turn off ?

Q.   I'm 23 and after having a baby i have sagging breasts! Is this a hugh turn off?...

A.   3 September 2006: Sweetie, you have brought a beautiful child into the world, so what if your boobs are as pert as Kelly Brook's my dear, you are a mother, you had to endure 9 months of changes to your body, dont worry, forget such loser men who are obssesed with the ... (read in full...)

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