I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?
Q. Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...
A. 7 September 2006: I am glad you had a great time babes!!! Take care. xXx... (read in full...)
I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?
Q. Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...
A. 4 September 2006: My dear I said it before and I will say it again, BE YOURSELF!!
Forget trying to associate with so called "cool" people, he will notice the "cool" people and not you, the way men notice me, is the fact that I am not loud and in your face, I just b... (read in full...)
Too much air in my vagina!
Q. when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...
A. 4 September 2006: "consolution"
Dr Pete, that word is not in the English dictionary!!
To question poster: as I said before, I think your hubbie is being a bit petty, I am a bit miffed as to why this is a major deal, but Malyce Synn has given you some good altern... (read in full...)
My breasts are not so perky after a baby, is this a huge turn off ?
Q. I'm 23 and after having a baby i have sagging breasts! Is this a hugh turn off?...
A. 4 September 2006: To anon poster below: You go girl!!!
You bless him with 4 kids and he has the bare faced cheek!!!!!!!!
Good for you. xxx... (read in full...)
Why does my GF resist being touched all of a sudden?
Q. hi I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years and all of a sudden she won't let me touch her. I can't even kiss her without her sighing. Someone please tell me what I can do. I can't talk to her because I would'nt know how to put it. Please ...
A. 4 September 2006: My friend you say you cant talk to her because you dont know how to put it, but if you dont talk to her, you are running the risk of making her very annoyed and agitated with your behaviour. Its not normal behaviour, something has gone wrong ... (read in full...)
I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?
Q. Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...
A. 4 September 2006: My dear I totally agree with Ponungalungb. Just be yourself and let him see the true you, dont try and be something you are not. Good luck. xXx... (read in full...)
Too much air in my vagina!
Q. when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...
A. 4 September 2006: Dr Pete that was cold!!!!!! So I make a few ok LOADS of typos, but not in the titles of questions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Actually, I am gonna cry now,I am quite upset. ... (read in full...)
Too much air in my vagina!
Q. when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...
A. 4 September 2006: Dr Pete, SPELLCHECK!!!!! lol
Anyway, considering all the threats of terrorism in the world, third world debt and famine in many nations, I feel that your husband is being rather petty, my dear if you are happy with the hair being there, dont wor... (read in full...)
Too much air in my vagina!
Q. when my husband and have sex he complains about me having too much air in my vagina, i can feel it as well. how do i fix this dilemma? ...
A. 4 September 2006: I am way confused, air or hair? Sorry but I really am mystified!!!!! ... (read in full...)
Will the doctor have to tell my mum if I go for a pregnancy test ?
Q. i am scared incase im pregnant. is there any really signs that i could be i mean i do child care and it says that u can ave a strange tatse in ur mouth but is that all the time or just in the morning? and i ave also been feeling sick aswell b...
A. 4 September 2006: Swetie you may not necessarily be pregnant, periods are late for a variety of reasons. I dont think that they will need to in infrom your mum as you are 16, I think they will need to tell them if you were under 16. Have you done a pregnancy test as ... (read in full...)
Why does porn cause so much offence??
Q. Hi I know this sounds like a ridiculous question but why are most women so offended by their bf or husband looking at porn?...
A. 3 September 2006: Got to agree with Ariel, it really all depends on your morality, some think its ok, some think its abominable. Simple as that my friend. xXx... (read in full...)
My breasts are not so perky after a baby, is this a huge turn off ?
Q. I'm 23 and after having a baby i have sagging breasts! Is this a hugh turn off?...
A. 3 September 2006: Sweetie, you have brought a beautiful child into the world, so what if your boobs are as pert as Kelly Brook's my dear, you are a mother, you had to endure 9 months of changes to your body, dont worry, forget such loser men who are obssesed with the ... (read in full...)
She gave me her phone number so what am I waiting for?
Q. I if work a with a girl gives me her number, how soon should i ring her? I'm not the most confindent person on phone, better face to face......
A. 3 September 2006: Maybe its a flaw in my character but I am a very indirect person, so I dont ring people I "text" them or email them or leave voice messages, but dont it leave it too late to ring, give her a quick buzz and then arrange to meet up etc, you are gonna ... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 3 September 2006: I usually say names after food, cos I do love my food, here are some, "Muffin" depending on the skin tone its Chocolate, or Blueberry!! Other names I use are "Pud" or "Cupcake" or "Bun", dont really wanto to reveal ALL of the names, so are a top ... (read in full...)
These stretch marks dont seem to clear, any advice ?
Q. Recently i gained alot of weight at once and now i am left with these horrible stretch marks all over my stomach, back and boobs. I cant go to the beach anymore and everytime a guy tries to come close to me i back off cos im so self concious about ...
A. 3 September 2006: Hello, well I keep on seeing this advert like every day and its a cream made by Palmers, its called Palmers fade out Stretch Mark cream, I have been told that it works very well. Also I heard that Bio Oil as the person below has suggested really ... (read in full...)
I would like to make a move on my married boss
Q. Do you ever have that one true moment with someone that seems so right?? These feelings are something that you where put on this earth to feel? That's how I felt when I was with my boss when we were out of town together -we hardly worked-we were so ...
A. 3 September 2006: My dear how can something be right when its so wrong? Sweetie he is married, enough said. My dear I know its tough but you have to leave him alone, as the others have said, keep your distance. Its not healthy getting involved with a married person ... (read in full...)
He's a Muslim, Im a Catholic, is there any point to carrying on ?
Q. i am nearly 18 and hav been with my boyfriend 3 months. We have the best relationship and love eachother dearly. The only problem is hes muslim and im catholic. The whole thing is a secret and both our families would kill us if they found out. Is ...
A. 3 September 2006: Well my dear it would be absurd for me to say to you forget the whole thing but what you must realise is that it is maybe unlikely he would convert to being a Catholic but perhaps you would or its more than likely you will convert to Islam. It ... (read in full...)
Meet the parents...
Q. Hello everyone, Well basically I have to meet my boyfriends parents in a few days time and I'm really scared. I've never met any of my Ex boyfriends parents so I don't really know what to expect. I'm quite a shy person but I really want to m...
A. 2 September 2006: Sweetie just be yourself and dont pretend to be someone you are not. Let them see the real you, as I am sure you are a lovely young lady, the fact you are writing in for advice means that you obviously want to make a good impression and care about ... (read in full...)
I think I hurt his feelings and I am sorry
Q. A guy at work and I usually meet up a couple of times a week for a coffee and a chat. It's a cool way to break up the day and I enjoy hanging out with him. Yesterday I had a bad day at work - got some blame for something I didn't do - so was feel...
A. 2 September 2006: Leaving him to sulk wont achieve anything my dear, if you are truly bothered that you hurt his feelings, which I believe you are, email him to let him know and leave it at that, its up to him if he wants to start being "not moody" with you. Gently ... (read in full...)
Getting together with a friend of my Dad's?
Q. Hi,I like this 35 year old man and I am 18 years old.I know he likes me too,but I am not sure it is right for me to like him.I mean there is a 17 year age difference and he is good friends with my dad.I want to get togather with him but I don't know ...
A. 2 September 2006: I agree with the others, its wise to speak to your father first before you do anything because at least if he is ok with it, that is one less thing to fret about. You are an adult so there is no issue in my view reagrding age, but you need to weigh ... (read in full...)
We slept together, he got in touch, now I haven't heard anything? Why?
Q. I met a guy at a wedding last week. We got on really well I ended up sleeping with him. The next day he asked me to key my number into this phone and said he would call. He text me a couple of nights ago asking how I am? I replied and asked him ...
A. 2 September 2006: I agree with Gabriel below, there are so many reasons why he may not have been in touch since and like Gabriel also said, he bothered to het back in touch with you before showing that he has shown an interest in you and was not just using you. Give ... (read in full...)
Caught masturbating by my brother!!!
Q. my brother caught me masturbating to porn...what should i do if he tells my parents and what should i do about him?...
A. 2 September 2006: Oh good, the title has been chnaged!!!! Now it aint so misleading after all. Cool! xxx... (read in full...)
2 Negative tests, could I still be pregnant?
Q. My period is a few days late: I took two home pregnancy tests today and they both showed me up as not pregnant. The tests were a supermarket brand, but it said on the box they were over 99% accurate. I know I got the 2 negatives, but I'm still no...
A. 2 September 2006: Sweetie there is always the small chance that tests are inacurate however if you have done 2 tests, the I would say that perhaps you are not pregnant, butin order to be 100% sure and not 99% go to the GP to have a proper test. Take care. xXx... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex whilst on your period ?
Q. Is it sick to have sex while you're on your period? I did it with my ex but my new boyfriend is sickened by it and will hardly touch me when I'm on! The other day, he was really in the mood and I was just coming off my period. We had sex but he ...
A. 2 September 2006: Its a matter of personal choice, I dont think your boyfriend is a jerk or indeed that he is treating you bad he obviously doesnt like it, every one has their own likes and dislikes, so now my dear now you have established that he doesnt like it, you ... (read in full...)
Hes not so good in the workplace, does this mean hes bad relationship material ?
Q. No one is perfect? I met a guy from my working place, his working attitude is not so good, kind of messy and sluggish at times. He likes me, I hestiate cos Im worried that he can't be a good lover, since he is irresponsible in work, shall I give h...
A. 2 September 2006: Good for you, I do hope it works out. Take care. xXx... (read in full...)
My married guy and I are so in love...and I want him all to myself. But how can we do that without hurting others?
Q. I have been seeing a married guy for 10mths now I am 24 and he is 40 and its really intense we spend 2 or so hours talking on the phone every night and see one another at work everyday, we spend a few hours after work with one another and every ...
A. 2 September 2006: But my dear you cant carry on and not hurt other parties, the man is married, and can I assume he has kids? If so there is a wife and kids who will are are being hurt by this sordid affair. Sweetie, it needs to stop, either he needs to say, he wants ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and texts me for quickies...
Q. This guy is confusing me. He has a girlfriend but he is texin me tellin me he misses. The thing is we hav history he used to call me everyday, nothing happened we didnt even go out,he tells me that hes with this new girl and its the type he wants to ...
A. 2 September 2006: So you have history but never slept together and the loser has the audacity to ask you for sex? Sweetheart, erase his number from your phone, block his number from calling ot texting you and wash that loser right out of your life. Ok? xXx... (read in full...)
Painful first time sex...we are having a few troubles!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been trying to have sex. i am a virgin and everytime we try it is really painful and he cant get his penis fully in. wot can we do?...
A. 2 September 2006: Yes I can agree with Malyce _Synn when she says to abstain from it, but I am not sure that, that is the answer you wanted huh?
Well, my dear are you emotionally ready for sex? Perhpas if you are having trouble its your bodys way of saying, ... (read in full...)
How can you start an office romance?
Q. How to start a office romance in low proflie? My manager is fond of me, he didn't approach me, however, he has been sending me lot of love signals + body languages, I know he is serious. How should I reponse to him, when he looks into my eyes, al...
A. 2 September 2006: My first question to you is, is he married?
My second question is, do you really want to be involved with your manager sexually and as partners as he is your manager first and foremost?
Dr Psych to me has covered everything, great advice she h... (read in full...)
Caught masturbating by my brother!!!
Q. my brother caught me masturbating to porn...what should i do if he tells my parents and what should i do about him?...
A. 2 September 2006: The title of this is misleading!!! Anyway, there is nothing you can do to your brother, all you can do is ask him not to say anything, andif you dont want him to get there first, you will have to confess to your parents, I am sure they wont want to ... (read in full...)
24, a virgin and feeling blue
Q. Hello i'm 24 years old, i'm a virgin and have neer had a girlfriend. I'm ugly losing my hair and have slighty crooked teeth, i'm in reasonable shape and very strong. I don't have much of a personailty. I don't want to be lonely anymore, there is a ...
A. 2 September 2006: Stop this right now, dont say you are ugly, thats not true, you may think you are ugly, but I bet that is simply not true. You need to love yourself before you can love anyone else, so in order to get a girlfriend, you need to love yourself and have ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant by giving a blow job???
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant by giving a guy a blow job?...
A. 2 September 2006: Perhaps I should explain why you cant get pregnant via oral sex. If you have penetrative sex, when a man ejaculates in you, his semen contains sperm as you know, and that sperm has one mission which is to fertilise an ova (egg) found in your womb, ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant by giving a blow job???
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant by giving a guy a blow job?...
A. 2 September 2006: No sweetie you cant, trust us all, you CANT. xXx... (read in full...)
I look so young for my age...any way I can make myself look older?
Q. I need help, asap. The thing is, I look really young for my age. I'm 19, 20 in November and I still get asked for ID. Most of the time I even get asked ID for a 15 rated movie. When I got to clubs it's really embarrassing to be stopped infront of ...
A. 2 September 2006: My dear when you are 40 you will wish you still had the youthful fresh look!!!! If you have ID whats the problem, you are 19 so you are allowed in any bar arent you? Be glad you have young, fresh looks. xXx... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me ? what do you reckon ?
Q. Hi can u help me can sum one tell me if this lad i like likes me becasue i cant tell well. i was out last night clubbin with my mate her lad n my crush and all of thier fireiends and then my crush comes and sits next to me and we start chatting and ...
A. 1 September 2006: Hold off on the word love dear!!! I think he likes you, but lets not talk about love just yet. Stina's advice is great, cant really add anymore, but yes I think you should try and go out just the 2 of you and then see how it goes from there, maybe ... (read in full...)
Hes not so good in the workplace, does this mean hes bad relationship material ?
Q. No one is perfect? I met a guy from my working place, his working attitude is not so good, kind of messy and sluggish at times. He likes me, I hestiate cos Im worried that he can't be a good lover, since he is irresponsible in work, shall I give h...
A. 1 September 2006: I agree with Stina, go out with him a few times and get to know him outside of work, sometimes, some people may act a certain way at work, but in reality and outside of the office, they may be a totally different person. There is no harm in giving ... (read in full...)
I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?
Q. well i had unprotected sex when i was ovulating, about 5 days after i started spotting i took 3 pregnancy test but all are negative, and i'm almost a week late for my period. pregnant? ...
A. 1 September 2006: Sweetie, pregnancy tests are not always that accurate so even if they are coming up negative, there is always that possibility you may be pregnant, go the docs for a blood test. Take care. xXx... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I think I'm pregnant. Can my 18 yr old bf get into trouble for getting me pregnant?
Q. ok i have a boyfriend that is 18 years of age. well i have a feeling i maybe might be pregnant and im 16 (gonna turn 17 soon tho) we are a year and 3 months apart. so can he get in trouble for being 18 aand im pregnant? jus wonderin thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: Not if you are in the UK because the age of consent is 16. Take care. xXx... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me?
Q. I'm 14, does my boy mate fancy me cos he's always txting me like every night. One night he asked if I could send him a picture of me naked! I said no obviously. He always smiles at me when I walk past. Does he like me do u think?...
A. 31 August 2006: Hello again sweetie, well even if he is the same age as you, its a bit upfront asking for a naked pic, you are not a sexual object, you are a lovely young lady who deserves to be treated with respect, ok? xxx... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 31 August 2006: To Ariel:
AMEN!!! ... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 31 August 2006: Here is a definition of average:
"approximating the statistical norm or average or expected value"
Whats the average weight, whats the average height, whats the average shoe size, whats the average amount of time we spend talking, friend,... (read in full...)
My wife left me. How can I get her to fall in love with me again?
Q. my wife of 15 years has left. how can i get her to fall in love with me again. ...
A. 31 August 2006: Friend, you were married for a long time, did your wife give an explanation for why she left? Were you arguing all the time? Were you intimate regularly, what happened.
Tell us a bit more so I can better understand the situation, then I wil try ... (read in full...)
I think Im in love with my boss!
Q. Help, i think im in love with my boss. Last xmas we slept together and yes it was awkard after we came back to work purely on my part because i felt guilty as he has a wife. I know its wrong and nothing has happened between us since. But he gets ...
A. 31 August 2006: My friend, I advise you to see this as a terrible mistake, forget him and try to move on. You know what you did was wrong, you acknowledged that, so I think you need to explain to him that he cant be getting jealous when you date other men, he is ... (read in full...)
When I see him..I get hurt and start shaking inside. Why am I this way?
Q. hey guys, What does it mean when you start shaking in front of a person that you had been attracted to for a long time or may be in love. This man in particular and myself are at a stage of life where we know we can never be together as we both are...
A. 31 August 2006: Sweetie, yes it sounds to me like you are in love!!! I know the feeling all to well, thats the problem when some men are just too unbelievably gorgeous!!!! Dont worry babes, you will be fine. xXx... (read in full...)
When I try and contact him the phone cuts off.....
Q. I am going with a guy who is 21 i am 22 i have not heard from him for nearly three weeks and when i try to phone him it cuts off please tell me what to do as im really worried about him ...
A. 31 August 2006: Are you ringing a mobile? If so, try texting him, if your phone has delivery reports and it says "Delivered" when the message is sent then his phone perhaps is working ok. Try ringing him but witholding the number so see if he picks up to other ... (read in full...)
When I see him..I get hurt and start shaking inside. Why am I this way?
Q. hey guys, What does it mean when you start shaking in front of a person that you had been attracted to for a long time or may be in love. This man in particular and myself are at a stage of life where we know we can never be together as we both are...
A. 31 August 2006: Sounds like me and this man I met at work every day I see Pete I go all "girly" inside, he is like the most beautiful man on the face of God's earth and when I see thay bling bling wedding ring, I get depressed! My dear, its just that you are deepy ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me?
Q. I'm 14, does my boy mate fancy me cos he's always txting me like every night. One night he asked if I could send him a picture of me naked! I said no obviously. He always smiles at me when I walk past. Does he like me do u think?...
A. 28 August 2006: Hi babes, I would say its a bit disrespectful in that your nudity is something private and precious and for him to just boldy ask to see you in the nude, its as if he sees you as a mere sex object as opposed to a beautiful, smart girl which I am ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me?
Q. I'm 14, does my boy mate fancy me cos he's always txting me like every night. One night he asked if I could send him a picture of me naked! I said no obviously. He always smiles at me when I walk past. Does he like me do u think?...
A. 28 August 2006: Hi babes, well yes maybe he does like you however if you did have a boyfriend can you see that by asking for a naked pic, your boyfriend would be annoyed so thats why he is glad you are single. But David Lewis has made a good point, its not ... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me?
Q. I'm 14, does my boy mate fancy me cos he's always txting me like every night. One night he asked if I could send him a picture of me naked! I said no obviously. He always smiles at me when I walk past. Does he like me do u think?...
A. 28 August 2006: I answered a similar question to this earlier! Anyway, its hard to say my dear. You say he texts you every night, well what sort of stuff does he text, is it suggestive stuff or just mate stuff? Maybe he is very fond of you and you know what boys ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I think I'm pregnant. Can my 18 yr old bf get into trouble for getting me pregnant?
Q. ok i have a boyfriend that is 18 years of age. well i have a feeling i maybe might be pregnant and im 16 (gonna turn 17 soon tho) we are a year and 3 months apart. so can he get in trouble for being 18 aand im pregnant? jus wonderin thanks...
A. 20 August 2006: No he wont be in any trouble as you are 16 and you were 16 when you conceived as well, so you certainly have no worries and in the UK thats the legal age and I am quite sure that the legal age is no higher than 16 in any other country. Take care ... (read in full...)
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