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Is it common for women to cry during or after intercourse?

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Question - (21 September 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2008)
A male age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I have heard that women sometime cry during intercourse or after

sex. Is this common? What does it mean?

I appreciate your time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008):


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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi hunny

The girls are right the relationship im in now is a very good and loving one and ive cryed on occation at the closness and the bond I feel spiritually. This is before an orgasm has even taken place love, Also it has happened after orgasm being so intense TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXX

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A male reader, dannyg909 United States +, writes (22 September 2008):

ok girls, check this out, thats probably true about the connecting part but i found that i have given my girfriend orgasms that are so intence that she crys and she dont know why! well the reason is that when women have orgasms they release a hormone that makes girls cry! its a chemical thing, if you dont belive me look it up!!! i also found that this only happens in certain positions!!!

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A female reader, GirlyonFire Canada +, writes (21 September 2008):

Sex is very emotional for women and it is quite common to cry. many women don't even know why they are actually crying. It's just the body's way of releasing emotions and tension. Kind of the mind's way of rejuvinating it's self. in a good way.

If the woman is crying because she doesn't want the sex then this is very bad. and she should say no or stop the sex if she can, if she can't put a stop to it then it's rape. When you get older and start to have sex always be 100% sure the woman wants to be doing it with you before you even start. this will keep you out of lots of trouble.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

natasia agony auntIt is true. I don't know how common it is in terms of how many women it affects, but in terms of how often it might happen to one woman, in my own experience it has always been very rare, apart from my most recent relationship, which is very intense, emotionally, physically and spiritually, and where it has happened to me more often.

It means that the woman has connected not just physically, but in other fundamental ways, with the man. It means she is almost in awe of the response he has engendered in her. It means she has had more than a good time.

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (21 September 2008):

It is either because we love what is happening or we hate it. She is crying because it is so beautiful or she is crying because she doesn't really want to have sex and she doesn't know how to say NO. Its the only to reasons a girl will cry.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2008):

BigSis agony auntYes actually, in my opinion, it's fairly common.

If you're not crying because it was a total shambles or disaster, you're crying because of the wonderful fulfillment of an overwhelmingly passionate bond of love and sexual pleasure.

It's happened to me a few times at both of the above.

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (21 September 2008):

sappygirl agony auntwe cry sometimes because it's pretty emotional for us. Men know how to block out their feelings, but sometimes for us it builts up and we can't help but to release it during sex. i've cried before just because it was so intense, emotionally, physically and spiritually.

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