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*llergic2liars
writes:I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by herself one night and got to drunk and he was at the same place so she had him drive her home cause she was too drunk to drive. Do I believe this story?
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reader, MR C  +, writes (13 February 2009):
Counting condoms... there is obviously a question of mistrust here. What is the daughters father doing sleeping there in the first place? Why on the living room floor? Is there not a couch? How often does she go out by herself.. personally I find it a little boring going out by myself. So you want my opinion..? 1. he wanted to sleep with her and she said no.. but how does that explain the missing condom?? were they already naked together when she said no?if that is the case then sorry to tell you but she did it. You don't go as far as to opening a condom package and not doing anything. this is 2009 here. 2. It's ok if she was too drunk to drive but if he had to sleep in the living room floor then I imagine he wasn't feeling any pain either or she wouldn't of invited him in. She would of said thanks and goodnight. so I think you have to open your eyes and realize that it's just as easy for a girl to lie as it is for a man.. you have been had my friend. Tel her to face up to her lie.. you have a right to know!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): You've just been on with other doubts in another question. Sounds like the trust is not there. Without trust a relationship cannot survive.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Hi,
sorry to say but that is a pretty pathetic excuse. Sorry to say but it looks like they restoked a few old fires.
It's just a case whether you can forgive her or not, but she has to admit it to start with, if she doesn't you haven't got much to go on for your future .
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): This brought up an amazing flash back for me!. Condom missing, found used in the rubbish. But hubbie never knew anything about it. Not so!
You want us to tell you what you perhaps already know. I am sorry but it sounds off - majorally off to me.
Where were the condoms kept? How did he get hold of one of your condoms? Her? I am wondering what her answer is on how he 'tried' to have sex with her with your condom and then 'apparently' nothing happened? I always thought a guy could only put a condom on when erect? She must have made him erect? I know this is horrible talk but is it the reality?
She got caught. Now she is wanting to find a way to make the story plausible.
I have an ex, father of my son, NEVER ever have I had social drinks since our breakup. Never got drunk with him or would have him take me home. Never should she be in that situations, with unresolved emotional ties. The bond they have is acceptable, with the child. But you would have to consider if it is really over between them. I am not a guy but I would suspect that he had some encouragement that night hun.
Sorry for this situation, it hurts like hell! All the best and think long and hard about what you should do now with this information.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): "When in doubt....do without"!You are wasting your time. You already know the truth , but yet you ask the question which is very obvious to everyone...even yourself?
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Ohhh!
I dont think I would believe it, sounds very fishy to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): If you have doubts like that then why are you still with her? I would be worried if i was you, but there again, i dont bloody trust exs. But if i was you i would run, not walk.
take care
x
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Allergic......The Curb....make sure you drop her off there as soon as possible.The girl is lying. No ifs and or buts.That line about sleeping on the floor after the guy tried to have sex with her is about as fresh as a FOGHAT CONCERT!Sorry...but you already knew that! I'm sorry for your pain from this disrespectful person.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Whether you believe it or not , what has happened has happened. Some day you may learn the real truth and if you know the truth what will you do?
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reader, red1982 +, writes (27 February 2008):
If you were worried enough to be counting condoms them you must have thought something was going on in the first place.
If you don't think she can be trusted then you should call the relationship quits.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (27 February 2008):
 So shes not only possibly telling porkies about the co worker, but her ex too?
I would definately run a mile if i was you.
Too much smoke i think.
C xxxx
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reader, Serinity +, writes (27 February 2008):
 Bits and pieces may be true, but you've got to know that's not the whole truth. Out by herself (I doubt that). She probably met him for a few drinks, got drunk (yes I believe that part) and went back to your place and had sex with her ex. Whether or not he slept on the floor after that is irrelevant. But, that's just MY opinion, take it for what it's worth. Sorry for your luck!
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