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writes:hi can you help me Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid!!!!I don't know if it's just me as I have had my little boy I don't feel as braw as I used to!!!! and am not as slim as I used to be can you please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Just watch the direction of his eyes. You'll know if he's looking or not.
Btw, if he is looking at females, there are better ways to look at them besides oogling them and being disrespectful to you and to them!!!!!!!
Things like side-ways glances, etc.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (17 March 2008):
 I agree with Doctor Vendetta, I have a boyfriend and I look at other guys, but not in front of him of course and I am sure he does the same. Its human nature to look at people of the opposite sex as long it is not blatently in front of them.
I make comments about Johnny Depp and say "cor he is gorgeous" and he does the same with the singer Alicia Keys but it does not mean to say I'm gonna sleep with him or he is gonna sleep with her. So relax he can look but as long he does not touch.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Hello love. I thought the exact same thing when I was with my boyfriend. Every time his eyes were in the direction of a girl or a group of girls, Id always question him saying 'what were you looking at them for?' and he would always reply with 'Im not' or 'Im just looking to see if I know them' and etc etc.Most of the time, watever your guy says, is probably true. Anyway its nature for guys (and girls) to look at the opposite sex, doesnt mean they want to go out with them instead of being with you. If you have low self esteem and dont think of yourself as beautiful or pretty, then maybe its your problem and you are paranoid. The way to get over it, is to love yourself. I know, many people have said this too me and I thought...'dont bother saying that coz it doesnt help', well it did help me. Get yourself out to the shops with your friends and look around for some gorgeus new outfits. If you have to, flirt with other guys just a lil lil bit. That will boost your confidence up and when you next see your bf looking at girls, dont ask him if hes doing it, becuase in no doubt, as much as you ask him and he denies it he will do it more. Just forget about those other girls. He chose you becuase he loves you and cares about you and obviously finds you very attractive. If it does get get out hand and he does it even more, then you should settle him down for a chat. By no means you can have a chat about how your feeling now about it, just make sure he knows how you are feeling and how he could possibly help you get your confidence back.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (17 March 2008):
 do you look at other guys?.... and be honest. I dont' care if you lie on here you just have to be honest with yourself.We're all human, we all do it. If you feel you're unhappy with the way you look, do something about it, join a gym or work out at home while the kids there.Guys will Always look at women, I personally feel that most women dress up as cock teases simply to be nothing more than a tease with your tits and arse hanging out dressed like hookers.If you're worried then do something about it and give him something to look at.
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