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I'm 18 years old and I live on the Isle of Man :)
In my group of friends, I'm the person they turn to if they have a problem and I try to be there for them as much as possible.
I think I'm quite blunt in my answers to the questions on here, but I think it is needed under certain circumstances.
I have had couselling in the past, but I had bad experiences with cousellors who didn't know what they were doing. So I've learnt from their mistakes and I know how to talk to/help people.
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Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 23 June 2007: I wanna go to London!!! I'm going there anyway soon hopefully! whoop!!
Go on Andrew, be the friend we all think you are!!
hehehe!!
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Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 21 June 2007: HAHA Dr pete!!
He better do or I'm not goin!!
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I really like this girl. How do I find out more about her without being too obvious?
Q. I really like this girl. I just need some advice on how i can talk to her more, find out what she's interested in? How do i do that without being too obvious. We are goin out on a date, but i want to know her bit more and make her feel really easy ...
A. 21 June 2007: Maybe you should get her MSN? just say " listen, do you have MSN?" just casually! Talk to her through that, it's easier to tell her about things online.
Maybe talk to her about her family, what she enjoys doing, favourite food.. there's so much you ... (read in full...)
Me and my bf had sex and he got angry because I didn't get anything from it. He told me to get out. I dumped him. I'm so upset. What should I do?
Q. I went to my boyfriends today we had sex but he knew i didnt get anything from it all i care about is holding him close not pleasure, he got really annoyed that i didnt and when i got upset saying its not his fault he told me to get out of his house ...
A. 21 June 2007: Hunnie. If all he cares about is sex and he gets in a huff about it, it's his problem and he had no right to tell you to get out when it wasn't your fault. Just coz he gets his knickers in a twist doesn't mean he has the right to give you such ... (read in full...)
My husband was seeing prostitutes while I was pregnant, has been searching for women to date online and is always bad tempered since the birth of my baby. Should I leave him?
Q. Hello, I have been married for 4 years, and together with my husband for the past 7, and I gave birth to our baby boy last September. My husband has been unable or unwilling to have sex with me for the past 3 years on and off, and since I was 8 we...
A. 21 June 2007: Woah anonymous answerer, there's no need to be so harsh. It's bound to be difficult for her - she's married to him and he's the father of her baby. Less of the harshness please.
You do what you believe is best for you and the baby lovely, don't list... (read in full...)
Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 21 June 2007: Andrew's it is then!!
Sounds fun!
I'll bring the wine!
x
PS I wanna see Andrew's reply to all this haha... (read in full...)
My girl has bad breath! How should I tell her?
Q. Is it likely that someone who is physically imperfect is more likely to hurt you than someone who is quite good looking and pretty? I got hurt by a girl once in past and i thought she looked pretty ok, to my opinion, she had ugly teeth and nose ...
A. 21 June 2007: Yeah Stina's right, get some chewy on the go and make sure you have it on you at all times that you're with her and just offer her some.
Welll.. the nose.. how important is a nose in a relationship?? I'm sure you can look past that.
x... (read in full...)
Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 21 June 2007: Ace idea!!! I'm in!... (read in full...)
I found out that my husband is sending emails with photos of himself in his underwear! What am I to think?!
Q. Recently I found out my husband has been emailing photos of himself in underwear to another man. I was emailing a friend we haven't seen for a long time some photos of our recent holiday, checked the outbox to see if it had sent, and was stunned ...
A. 21 June 2007: Gosh, what a situation!
I don't understand why he would be sending this man such pictures of himself if there wasn't anything weird about it.
I think you need to sit him down and talk to him about it. Tell him that you are concerned about the emai... (read in full...)
My husband was seeing prostitutes while I was pregnant, has been searching for women to date online and is always bad tempered since the birth of my baby. Should I leave him?
Q. Hello, I have been married for 4 years, and together with my husband for the past 7, and I gave birth to our baby boy last September. My husband has been unable or unwilling to have sex with me for the past 3 years on and off, and since I was 8 we...
A. 21 June 2007: Honey, you would be so much happier if you left him.
He's messing you about and by seeing prostitues while you were pregnant and looking up girls to date online... well that's just waayy out of order and shows he has no respect for your marr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me, then I found out I was pregnant. He threatened me alot and when the baby was born she was stillborn. Should I send him a picture of what we made together?
Q. My ex and I have been separated for the past 8 months (he initiated it after 5 years together). When we split I discovered I was 5 wks pregnant. He didnt want me to carry on with the pregnancy and told me to abort. I told him where to get off and ...
A. 21 June 2007: I'm so sorry to hear about this. I really am. I'm actually near to crying... I'm so proud of you for getting through all this. You're truely inspirational.
Lovely, if that's what you want to do, do it. You have every right to do what you think is b... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep with another girl. He said that we both can have one person on the side to sleep with.
Q. Okay... My boyfriend just popped this thing on me. He wants to sleep with another girl. He said that we both can have one person on the side to sleep with. We will use protection and we will both know that we are more important than the side people. ...
A. 20 June 2007: I would honestly say get rid of him lovely.
If he cared about you so much then he wouldn't need anyone else. And I have no doubt in my mind that this would cause much jealousy and heartbreak in the relationship, as yummymummy said.. it's down to y... (read in full...)
I'm 58 and I'm with a 19 year old polish waitress. Am I just a silly old fool, and if so, should I call it a day?
Q. Last Christmas when I was out eating with friends they dared me to ask out a young Polish waitress. Now I'm 58(and Single) and I was amazed when she said yes.I later found out she is 19. We had a tremendous time and I've been seeing her ever since. ...
A. 18 June 2007: Nahhh I don't think you're being an silly fool! You're living your life and having fun. If you're both happy then why should age difference stand in the way!
Take care and have fun! xx... (read in full...)
He loves her AND me. What should I do?
Q. ill start from the beggining here as i need some advice. me and partner meet six years ago and have had a good relationship with a few minor disagreements but we never argued he did his thing i did mine. we had ourfirst child after a yr and t...
A. 18 June 2007: I'm really sorry that you've been treated like this :(
I know you still want to get back together but he's picking you up and dropping you when he feels like it. He wants two ladies at once by the sounds of things. Tell him to either leave you alon... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period in 3-5 months and I haven't been sexually active! What could be wrong?
Q. Hi plz can u help me i am really scared my period hasn't started 4 nearly 3-5 months now and i haven't done anythin if u know wot i mean,and is this normal plz plz can u help me out thanx ...
A. 18 June 2007: I know it'll be something you don't want to do but you really need to go and see your gp. It's really the only way to find out what's going on.
Look after youself and get yourself to your gp hunni
Good luck lovely!
xx... (read in full...)
They said if I don't break up with her, I'l regret it. What should I do?
Q. i have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and we know each other fairly well. however a few weeks ago i went to a party with her that was with people she mostly knew. this included some guys a few years older than me (i'm 20 she's 18...
A. 18 June 2007: You need to tell someone in authority about the beatings. If you split up with this girl, God only knows what will happen to you AND her. Have you thought about that? She's at risk. You need to take action now because both of you are in danger of ... (read in full...)
He abuses me all the time, especially when I don't respond to the names he calls me. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Q. I fell for one of my close friends a while ago and he realised this and forced me to admit it to him (which i did). Before he knew for sure, we used to joke and have fun. Since then so much has changed and he abuses me all the time. I'm not sure ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hun, I know it's really hard but you need to walk outta there and not look back. He is abusing you mentally. Pick a time you know he'll be out, pack your bags and get outta there and don't look back. If he acts all upset, it's his own fault. He had ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me for someone else, how do I get on with my life?
Q. My relationship with my fiance has recently come to an end, a big shock to me but not to him supposedly. He proposed at Christmas, wedding booked for next July. His initial reason for our break up was that he didn't know what he wanted, then it was ...
A. 17 June 2007: He's not worth your tears lovely.
If he's not going to treat what you had with respect, why give him respect at all?
He's not the one doll, I'm sorry.
Look in the mirror. What do you see? A beautiful lady is what you see and you can have anyone ... (read in full...)
I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?
Q. hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...
A. 17 June 2007: You can have anyone you want if you put your mind to it but seriously hun, get someone who's worth it. This guy is using you and obviously has no respect for you or your wishes by pressurising you into these situations. Tell him that he appears to ... (read in full...)
Ladies! What do you think of Latin American partners?
Q. This isn't really a question about relationships in itself. I just would like to ask girls and women what thing would come first to their minds if they were asked to give an opinion about Latin American men as partners....
A. 17 June 2007: I don't generally think of latin americans having a bad reputation, I generally think that there are good looking Latin American guys out there and they are all different in their own ways, just like other people from different countries. ... (read in full...)
I lied to him about an abortion. He got back with his ex. I still love him. We've kissed but he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?
Q. To cut a long story short, I've liked this guy for over a year and a half now. We had oral sex and I lied about being pregnant and having an abortion because he got back with his ex after, but he doesn't believe me. Since they have split up and we ...
A. 17 June 2007: Hunni, he's most likely using you as a rebound and just plain using you. NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS.
And NO MAN IS WORTH YOU HURTING YOURSELF. You're only hurting and scarring yourself. You don't want a scar that reminds you of him, do you?
Look ... (read in full...)
My man is jealous of me spending time with my children. He left me a week ago and now he wants me back. What should I do?
Q. I am in my 40s and have been divorced now for 7 years, I have been seeing a younger man for 6 years now ( he is 10 years younger ). My question is that we get along really good for about 6 months and then everything bothers me about him, he is very ...
A. 17 June 2007: Hun, if ya don't see a future, then there most likely won't be one. The fact that he got verbally abusive with you - if you stay with him, what are the odds of that playing on your mind and him doing it again and again and gaining full control over ... (read in full...)
The father of my baby tells me I do everything wrong when dealing with her when he's the one not feeding, playing or bathing her!
Q. do i break up with my partner of 3 years and the father to my 6 mth old daughter? b4 the baby was born things were tough he alwsys seems to manage to put me down. Call me stupid and a liar (i am defo not a liar but maybe stupid sometimes, but n...
A. 17 June 2007: It's at time like these hun that you've gotta think about yourself and the respect you deserve. You gotta forget about how other people see you by your actions on this one because it appears to me that this guy you're with is disrespectful to the ... (read in full...)
Ladies! What do you think of Latin American partners?
Q. This isn't really a question about relationships in itself. I just would like to ask girls and women what thing would come first to their minds if they were asked to give an opinion about Latin American men as partners....
A. 17 June 2007: I know a lot of ladies who'd like to go out with latin american men judging on looks. But I personally don't care about nationality, just personality :)... (read in full...)
We're engaged but found out he cheated on me 9 months ago. Do I confront him?
Q. what should i do? me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months and were engaged now. i found out today that he cheated on me 9 months ago. should i forget about the hole cheating or confront him about it and if i should what should i do?...
A. 17 June 2007: Hun, if he didn't tell you and you only found out from someone else this amount of time later, can you trust him? he's been unfaithful to you.
Talk to him about what you've heard and then if he admits to being unfaithful, do you think you could stay... (read in full...)
If he loved her, wouldn't he do anything for her?
Q. If a man really loved a married woman but they split up because she felt she had to,wouldn't wild horses not keep him away and he would try to get her back,even though she is married to someone else,like he knows her address but she has changed her ...
A. 17 June 2007: Doll, he's probably realised that he can't have what he wants and is moving on. Love is one thing, reality is another. He's sure that this girl doesn't want to be with him so he's backed off so he doesn't get hurt anymore than he is.
He's real... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is becoming obsessive and touching me up when I don't want him to! What should I do?
Q. recently i have just gone back out with my boyfriend again since we have a break away from eachother,as i had not wanted to do well at school and being in a realonship at that time it wouldn't be such a good idea.but now school has finish,we are ...
A. 17 June 2007: Hey hun, Think it's best that you ditch him. He obviously doesn't respect you as a human being... more like an object for pleasure.
Tell him that because of the weird way he's acting you have been forced to end it with him because you are wort... (read in full...)
She lied to me about her abortion, and admitted to sleeping with another guy. But she wants me to marry her next week!
Q. I have been dating a girl for 2 years and living together with her for 1 year. We were engaged and things were going good for a while. Well she got pregnant about 6 months ago and told me she had a miscarrage. She later tells me she had an ...
A. 16 June 2007: You can't allow yourself to be picked up and dropped when she clicks her fingers. I really don't think you can rust her. She's abused your trust too many times and she lied to you about aborting YOUR child. I think you should tell her that you can't ... (read in full...)
He says that he wants to have sex, I said no and now he's being all weird on me. What should I do?
Q. i got a boyfriend who says he loves me, he told his best m8 he had feelings for me and then we started going out, however before we started going out we were really close m8s i was like his 2nd best m8, i love him n i no he loves me well he says he ...
A. 16 June 2007: I assure you that if you go ahead with sleeping with him, as soon as he's had his way, he'll leave you.
He doesn't have any respect for your wishes or for you, find someone who does.
You're worth more than just someone to have sex with. Don't le... (read in full...)
I ust want to post and say Thank You to everyone who has helped make me feel so welcome here.
Q. This is not a question, this is a big thank you to everyone who has helped make me feel so welcome finding this site has had a huge impact on my life so thank you to one and all of you for your wonderful support YOU HAVE ALL BEEN SO SPECIAL! Thank ...
A. 16 June 2007: I agree, Andrew is the one to thank, he's been amazing making this site and makes sure everything is well under control.
But no problem!! Hope we can be of some help some where down the line :)
xxxx... (read in full...)
Obsessed with taking my wife's 17 year old sister to bed!
Q. I am happily married,,my wife is 26yrs old and I am 46.The problem is that I have this obsession with my wife's sister,,she is 17yrs old I want to take her to bed and she seems to have feelings for me as well.What do I do?...
A. 15 June 2007: You realise that it would wreck everything, you realise that SHE'S 17, and you step back and forget about it right? that's what you do mate.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...
A. 15 June 2007: I come on this site everyday, I've been writing advice on Dear Cupid for about 2 months. I could moderate about 10 questions a day if you like?
I'm good at English, and I'm quite highly rated from what I can tell.
Maybe I can help?... (read in full...)
He wanted space and now he has broken up with me out of the blue!!
Q. Hi i posted a question at the weekend saying that my bf had left for the summer saying he wanted space. He said we'd meet up in the summer and that he missed me and did want to be with me but he just needed to sort himself out. Admittedly i didn't...
A. 14 June 2007: This man obviously is very uncaring. If he's gonna mess you about and not give you a clean break up to keep you hanging, he's not worth it.
I know it's not what you want to hear, but if he texts you again, don't reply. It's time you didn't spea... (read in full...)
Had a hot dream about this guy I used to like. Does this mean I still like him?
Q. hey all i dont reali no who to talk bout this.. but here goes last night i had a dream about a lad i used to like,we went out for a couple of days but werent anythin serious i wont go into details but it was very erotic and when i woke up i was ...
A. 14 June 2007: I should think that it was just a dream, I mean, you could have had an erotic dream about anyone. Dreams like that tend to make you like the person who you've liked in the past because you feel that it was real. I think that it was probably just a ... (read in full...)
I think he wants me just for sex..how can I make him want me in a proper way?
Q. Dear Cupid. There is this guy that I really seem to like. When im not with him, I want to talk to him, and I constantally think about him. The proble is, I know that he doesn't feel the same way. I really think that his whole intentions for c...
A. 13 June 2007: I would say that you should go out there and find someone whom you know will respect you because if his intentions involve sex, how do you know that if he says "I want a relationship" he won't just use you for sex?
Find someone who you can trus... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me, or am I just wasting my time?
Q. Okay. So, I met this guy at a grad party a couple of weeks ago, and we started talking for a good hour or so, and I thought he was flirting with me--he had a good many friends at this party and he spent his time there talking with me--he got me a ...
A. 13 June 2007: Hey! you're young and you're free, go for him! He's showing interest by the sounds of things! And if it doesn't turn out that way, well atleast you'll know but until then, flirt, have fun and just see how it goes!
His mixed messages are a bit weir... (read in full...)
This is my last term at school.Should I kiss this guy I'm totally in-love with on the last day?
Q. This is my last term at school.Should I kiss this guy I'm totally in-love with on the last day? Please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Answer my questions....
A. 13 June 2007: You don't want your last day to be ruined if he rejects you.
I would say do it when you know he likes you back or find someone who you know likes you back.
Your young yet, just have some fun, don't get tied down with love.
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Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one?
Q. Why do my friends all have boyfriends when they say I am so pretty but I don't have one? i am 14 and have only had one boyfriend and that was in primary school so i have never had a proper one my friends say i am pretty and look like barbie but i am...
A. 13 June 2007: Nothin wrong with you at all babes.
It's better to wait for Mr Right I promise you! I got really messed up coz of the way I was treated by lads. Act confident and stop looking. It works everytime ;)
keep your chin up and smile - that's what guy... (read in full...)
I'm gay. My boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend for the last 12 months of our relationship!
Q. How do I get through this? Three months ago I broke up with my gay partner of 14 years. We did this because he told me he had been sleeping with my best friend for the last twelve months of our relationship. He said it was "just sex". But it was an ...
A. 13 June 2007: Look in the mirror. Tell yourself " I'm worth more than that." He is not worth you being upset becoz he's not the one. The one will be the person who doesn't hurt you.
I had the same thing happen in my relationship (I'm straight though) and I came... (read in full...)
Self-conscious about being called fat
Q. Recently, when I was out in public i've been hearing people calling me fat. That makes me feel awful and ashamed of myself. Why are people so mean? Why do they do this? I am 5 feet 4, and 138 pounds. Is that considered as fat?nSince of this incident ...
A. 13 June 2007: Hun, Don't change becoz of what other people say! The fact is probably that they have something about them that they don't want their " mates" to see. They're probably fat! So they point at you or someone else just so that the attention is drawn off ... (read in full...)
I proposed but I also want to sow some seeds
Q. I love my fiance very much but thought keep entering my head about cheating on her with my ex or one of her friends. I dont know what to do? I love my fiance very much, we've been together for almost 7 months now and i asked her to marry me a co...
A. 13 June 2007: Mate, you got all the time in the world!
Get married to her if you want, but if you have only been seeing her for a short while, I'd say wait a bit longer. It's better to wait for a while incase things slip out of hand.
Just MPO. Good luck x... (read in full...)
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