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Whats a guys fave nail polish color?
Q. ok this is probably a weird question but here it goes. is there any nail polish that guy especially like on a girl ? I know guys may not pay attention to that stuff but I'm going on my first date this weekend and I want everything to be great and ...
A. 17 December 2008: I agree, my boyfriend loves it when I paint my nails red.
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He's ok after we fight and I'm not!
Q. my boyfriend i fight heaps and then after we have a fight he says he loves me and thinks everything is ok but its not it always happens and lately ive been to scared to sleep because of the same dream i keep having buts only lately when we have a ...
A. 16 December 2008: Hun, what I'm about to say is probably not what you want to hear. But I'm saying it for your sake, not just to get a kick out of it or something.
You have to think about whether this is what a relationship should feel like:
-can't sleep
-unsolved... (read in full...)
How do I persuade my g/f to have a threesome
Q. I really want my girl to have a threesome with me and another guy. im straight but i think it would be hot to watch her enjoying 2 men. how do i persuade her?...
A. 13 December 2008: I absolutely agree with emporessmystique.
You can discuss your feelings with her, but I thouroughly suggest that you don't if you wish to have a long-lasting and loving relationship with her.
It really will drive a wedge inbetween you by getting ... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 12 December 2008: I'd personally say eyes, little bit of hair on the chest and yeah, like someone else said, the space inbetween his tummy and penis :)
xxxx... (read in full...)
Is masturbation giving me headaches?
Q. Hello everyone I have a rather odd question. but ok here it goes. I have been having a lot of headaches recently... I have also been masturbating more often then usual. can these to be related? could masturbating more cause my headaches? ...
A. 12 December 2008: It might be just that you are de-hydrated if you're getting yourself wet then it's taking a lot of the moisture out of your body so I'd say dirnk more water.
Take care xx... (read in full...)
Should I hire a private investigator to see if he's really single?
Q. I'm 24, and currently single. My best friend's 23, and had a lucky escape from a guy she met in a bar. She said he was 5 years older than her, single, and seemed like a nice guy, but when she told her friend about him, her friend suggested she hire...
A. 10 December 2008: I personally think it would be a step too far.
I think if there seems nothing suspicious about him and he seems geunine then you should avoid setting out a private investigator
a) Because it'll cost you and if you find out he is single then wha... (read in full...)
Please help just don't know what to do.
Q. This might be a bit long so sorry but really don't know what too do any more.. me and the boyfriend/ex have been together coming up 2 years!! 6 months ago he changed and decided he didn't wanna be with me any more and got with some one else. Him ...
A. 10 December 2008: I know how difficult this is as I have been in a similar situation.
What you need to do, even though I realise this is so hard, is tell him that he needs to leave you alone so that you can move on because you can't go on with him treating you in t... (read in full...)
I have ulcers and sores in my mouth after cheating on my husband. Is this an STD?
Q. Can anyone help me I am worried sick, I have cheated on husband for a few months now, I have only given the other man oral, he is married too and says he has never had an affair before, but over the last number of weeks I have started getting ...
A. 9 December 2008: If there is so much at risk, why are you still even considering cheating on your husband?
If you don't want him to find out, get yourself checked out and don't continue this affair.
I don't really understand why people use "the sex with his wife... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him stop this? It's freaking me out.
Q. Hi i was wondering if you can help me, I'm in a relationship have been for seven months, and I have this ex (it was a very young relationship) and he is still "in love with me" after 5 years (strange to me but anyway), is it normal for a person to ...
A. 9 December 2008: Go to your phone network place, wherever it is and get his number blocked. Have you text him and said you do not want this amount of attention and that it's pointless?
It is definitly not normal for someone to texts 70 times in such a short amou... (read in full...)
I have ulcers and sores in my mouth after cheating on my husband. Is this an STD?
Q. Can anyone help me I am worried sick, I have cheated on husband for a few months now, I have only given the other man oral, he is married too and says he has never had an affair before, but over the last number of weeks I have started getting ...
A. 9 December 2008: If you want my opinion on this, I would say it sounds a bit like oral herpes. I could be wrong. The problem with this is that I'm not a doctor and a lot of people on here won't be able to give you any correct medical advice on this matter. However, ... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 9 December 2008: I'm sure if she's the nice girl you think she is, she won't rip it up or throw it away. That would be just plain hurtful. And to be quite honest with you, if I was given a card from someone that I knew liked me, I'd be far too keen to read what ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared about everyone around me dying.
Q. I'm really struggling to deal with the death of my grandparents. About a month ago my grandmother died after a long illness. We knew she was dying and although she stayed with us a lot longer tha any of the doctors predicted she would, her ...
A. 6 December 2008: I think this is a feeling that everyone gets when they are hit hard with a death of a loved one.
I think you have to consider what your loved one would have wanted you to feel. You grandmother would not want you to be so upset by this. She'd want... (read in full...)
Opinions about perfume!
Q. Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...
A. 5 December 2008: Well, my boyfriend loves the perfume I wear called Diesel plus plus. Unfortuantly, the smell wears off quite quickly.
I agree that men seem to like the more floral smelling perfumes.
I really like J - Lo's perfume called Live, Kate Moss' new perf... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to make out but I don't and he doesn't get it!
Q. My boyfriend wants to make out and do other sexual things all the time. He said he will wait until I want to do them, but then he will go and bug me about doing stuff with him. I don't like to do that kind of stuff, and I don't want to. I tried ...
A. 11 November 2008: I had a boyfriend like this when I was 15 and I regretted losing my virginity to him plainly because I just let him do it when I didn't really want to.
Sit him down and say you feel a bit rushed and forced into things that you feel you are not read... (read in full...)
He likes looking at pornographic pictures of women with VERY large breasts. I have small breasts. Do I put up with this or move on ?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm writing in because my boyfriend has a porn addiction. He's been trying to break the addiction for almost 6 months but he hasn't done well. He's trying, but keeps slipping back into the habit. I'm trying to be supportive of his ...
A. 9 November 2008: I'm not going to deny it, hun. It's a very hard road to take, but sometimes the hardest route is the best path to take because it makes you a much stronger person and helps you learn from this occasion and know not to take it in future as you'll be ... (read in full...)
He likes looking at pornographic pictures of women with VERY large breasts. I have small breasts. Do I put up with this or move on ?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm writing in because my boyfriend has a porn addiction. He's been trying to break the addiction for almost 6 months but he hasn't done well. He's trying, but keeps slipping back into the habit. I'm trying to be supportive of his ...
A. 8 November 2008: You need to get out of there!
If this wasn't you writing this problem and you read it, what would you say? You'd tell them to leave because he obviously will not give up anything for you.
You want a guy who will do ANYTHING to make you happy.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me for his ex but now they seem to just be playing games on each others, what is going on??
Q. Hiya everyone Im finding it really hard to understand my ex bf at the moment, he left me to get bk to his ex gf the mother of his child, anyway one miniute he says he can see what everyone else sees in her not a very nice person, then he goes run...
A. 4 November 2008: Hun, I don't mean to be a bitch, but you gotta remember that now he's your ex, it's none of your concern what goes on in his relationship with this girl. Remind yourself of this. What happens to him now, is nothing to do with you.
It would seem... (read in full...)
Ex bf wanted me to stay over last night... What does this mean? He said he wanted to be single
Q. Hi all at dear cupid, Im really stressing out at the moment, im still really in love with my ex bf,we split about 3 weeks ago now, and i use to ring him every other day when we split, but this week, we've spoken every single day this week, and i al...
A. 1 November 2008: I know this is probably not going to be what you want to hear, but I think it needs to be said.
No sex with the ex is rule one of breaking up because if you keep doing it, your feelings won't die down and you'll find yourself even more hear... (read in full...)
Fancy dress prom coming up! I have naturally red hair. Which actress could I go as?
Q. Hey Not a relationship question, but I've seen random questions answered here...So here we go. I've got this fancy dress prom coming up (In my last year and a prefect) and I don't like wearing wigs and my hair is naturally a ginger-red colou...
A. 31 October 2008: Rose in titanic/kate wislet,
Lindsey Lohan,
Julia Roberts,
Nicole Kidman in some films has red hair,
Debra Messing from Will and Grace
Hope this helps a bit hun! Have a good time :)
xx... (read in full...)
We broke up but he said we can still be sex buddies!!!
Q. Hi guys on Sunday I split with my boyfriend of 8 months, the reason was he wasnt over his ex of four years and the mother of his child, he says he likes me but doesn't love me like he still loves her, anyway he said I can still ring him and go out ...
A. 27 October 2008: Hun, I can't emphasise this enough - no sex with the ex.
Your feelings will build up for him instead of dying down like they're supposed to after a relationship.
Please, please, please, realise your self worth and do NOT allow yourself to become h... (read in full...)
Will he leave me, to go home to his wife and 5 kids!
Q. I've known him for 5 years. I got along with his wife and him but I never knew we would end up having an affair together. The first time we got together it was just kissing and it felt so right. The next time I saw him I just wanted to be with him ...
A. 23 October 2008: I'm going to apologise in advance because a lot of what I'm about to say may offend. However, my advice is on here to give you my point of view and not just because I feel like having a go at you.
Hun, the point behind all this problem is trus... (read in full...)
My child's father is abusive, I am confused, should I leave him?
Q. I am currently staying with my daughters dad, in which he lives with his parents. everything was going great until we started arguing and now he is extremely aggressive. he punches me in my legs and threatens to kill me over the smallest arguments. ...
A. 12 October 2008: Right hun, get out of there. There is no excuse for abuse. None at all. By hitting you, he is automatically threatening his kids at the same time because it shows that he can't control his actions. This whole "I love you" thing is because clearly,... (read in full...)
Moisturer to apply on the vulva / anus to prevent dryness? Any advice about my breast problem?
Q. Hi.This is an embarrasing question,but i was wondering which moisturizer is best to put on the vagina,if any at all,and can you put moisturiser on the anus ?.The reason i ask is i sometimes get dry skin there. I have another problem aswell w...
A. 12 October 2008: I really suggest you go and see your GP.
I'm sorry that I can't give you any more advice than this, but it's better that you go and see you GP rather than wait for advice on here which may give you the wrong idea and prolong the problem, what... (read in full...)
My ex gf mum has cancer...and I don't know what to do...
Q. My ex girl friend mum has cancer. I still love her. Want to be there 4 her. We broke up not 2 long after we found out. Because the pressure on her was too much. Even I still want her back . I want to do the right thing. She does mean a lot tome ...
A. 10 October 2008: I'd suggest that you talk to your ex girlfriend. Sit her down and say that you realise that this is a very difficult time for her right now, but that even though you're not together, you want to be there for her. That you want to support her and ... (read in full...)
16 and want a baby with my 27 year old boyfriend!
Q. hi im sarah im 16 and in a relationship with an older guy. he is 27 and i do love him very much. the only problem is we have been talking about having a baby bt he has 1 with his ex. i reali want a baby but will he love is 1st more than mine? i am ...
A. 10 October 2008: It would seem that you want to have this baby to keep your boyfriend so that he doesn't run back to his ex.
Having a baby at this moment in time would be wrong because:
- You very young to be having children
- Having a baby will NOT make him sta... (read in full...)
I wanna have my own baby!
Q. ok im 13 and i wanna hav sex i already told ma mom to put me on the pill. she already made the appointment. i wanna have a baby wat do i do. i raised ma little brother all by myself and i loved it i want to do it again but with ma own baby. ...
A. 5 October 2008: Heya sweet,
The good thing about looking after a younger brother or sister is that you can give them back to your mum once they get a bit annoying!
Having your own baby means a lot, and I mean A LOT of hard work. Waking up all night to feed the... (read in full...)
How can I be a better sister if he hates me?
Q. Hi. Sorry it’s so long. I'm 16 years old. I’ve written on this subject before, but now things are much worse. My brother has aspergers syndrome, which is on the autism spectrum. It means, among other things, that he is very narrow minded, quick to...
A. 3 October 2008: I also have a brother who has autism and he can get quite violent, but I must say he's never been as bad as this.
I would suggest that you talk to a teacher at school about this. They can probably organise councelling sessions for you and then tell... (read in full...)
If I get pregnant what would I do?
Q. Hi another one form me My boyfriend keeps suggesting sex. But as I am only 15 and it is against the law at the moment, I am scared of what people will think or if I get pregnant what would I do? I do want to but above are my worries. What shall I ...
A. 1 October 2008: The fact that you are questioning whether you actually want to take this step says to me that you're really nor ready for this. I'm not trying to be really annoying or anything by saying this, but if you're really worried about it, tell him no and ... (read in full...)
2 days after first time (unprotected) sex, I feel pain while on the toilet and can see a tiny faint bit of blood when I wipe myself, could this be an STD? How can I help the pain?
Q. Okay am worried. I lost my virginity 2 days ago. I'm on the pill, n we didnt use a condom. well now wen i go to the toilet it really hurts so bad that i want to cry and i been needing the toilet more often. also wen i wipe myself there is a tiny f...
A. 28 September 2008: This is where we can't really help you anymore, sweet. It could be something from him, it may not be.
The only way to find out is to get to a doctor and find out what actually is the problem before finding out the causes.
I'm sorry that I can't he... (read in full...)
I never know when my violent boyfriend will lash out and hit me again!
Q. Hi there. I have recently separated from my husband and met a guy who I really like and I fell in love with him. We have been together for about 3 and a half months, the only thing is he hits me. He does not hit me in my face just my body like my ...
A. 27 September 2008: Hun, get out of there. I know it is hard. But for your own safety and well being, you have to get out of there.
He's unpredictable - like you said. And you have no idea of whether he'd kill you next time or beat you to an inch of your life. Is this... (read in full...)
2 days after first time (unprotected) sex, I feel pain while on the toilet and can see a tiny faint bit of blood when I wipe myself, could this be an STD? How can I help the pain?
Q. Okay am worried. I lost my virginity 2 days ago. I'm on the pill, n we didnt use a condom. well now wen i go to the toilet it really hurts so bad that i want to cry and i been needing the toilet more often. also wen i wipe myself there is a tiny f...
A. 27 September 2008: It sounds to me very much like a urinary tract infection. My friend had something very similar. She went to the toilet but would urinate very little and she would still feel like she needed to go.. is this similar to what you're experiencing?
I thin... (read in full...)
Do you think he let me down gently by saying he was going out of town?? Should I go over to his house since he invited me?? He is 10 years older, by the way...
Q. I have a really big crush on my neighbor. It all started about a month ago when we started talking outside and we realized that we had a lot in common. He gave me a few signs that he was interested in me so I decided that I would ask him out. I saw ...
A. 23 September 2008: No problem :) I hope everything works out for you!
Take care xx... (read in full...)
Do you think he let me down gently by saying he was going out of town?? Should I go over to his house since he invited me?? He is 10 years older, by the way...
Q. I have a really big crush on my neighbor. It all started about a month ago when we started talking outside and we realized that we had a lot in common. He gave me a few signs that he was interested in me so I decided that I would ask him out. I saw ...
A. 21 September 2008: In my opinion, he is actually going out of town. He just may not have taken his car?
I think if he really wasn't going out of town, he would have made a better excuse than that coz if you saw him that weekend then you'd know he was lying.
The f... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with my younger stepsister. How do I get over this?
Q. well for starters i have a stepsister who is younger then me and we were close or what i thought was close. ive been around her since she was a baby. i have a daughter by this guy that i was with for three years that she kind of knew because of ...
A. 19 September 2008: Has she even apologised?! Why should you forgive her? She slept with your boyfriend and ON TOP of this, she tries to break you up?
Cut all ties with this girl, sweet, you're worth so much more than that.
I'm glad to see that your boyfrien... (read in full...)
I lied to make it seem I was thinking about her, she's mad, I want to fix it because I'm in love with her!
Q. i went out with this girl who i was madly in love with and she broke up with me and went back to her ex who treated her very poorly. she now left her ex in hopes of going back out with me but i messed it up. one night we were talking on the phone ...
A. 14 September 2008: Hmm... two things:
- I'd be p*ssed off with her for getting with her ex and thinking that she can come crawling back to me, if I were you.
- You know you were wrong or lying. If I were you, I'd try to talk to her and say that you were wrong to... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with this online guy I've known for 3 years? I'm scared...
Q. I met this guy online three years ago we talked ever since but he lived in london which is otherside of england to me. we never met up and havent talked for about 6 months. Today i got a text from him, he is in Leeds for a year and wants to meet up ...
A. 12 September 2008: As the others have said... if you really want to meet up with him, then meet him in a public place but if you feel in any way troubled or uncomfortable with him, order a cab and go home.
I would talk to him on the phone first to see if you feel comf... (read in full...)
I love this girl who is very abusive, and controlling, I have broken up with her, she makes her way back, she has hit me, how do I end this completely?
Q. Basically Iv been dating a girl on and off for about 4 months now, and she's spoken to me like dirt for pretty much the whole time, except for the first 2 weeks when I met her. I really want to end it, and I have 9 times now, but everytime I do she ...
A. 10 September 2008: Right, read through your message again.
What would you tell someone else if this was their question?
You'd tell them to get outta there, and get outta there fast, wouldn't you?
I understand that you don't want to break up with her again, but a... (read in full...)
Why do I keep on getting these bumps after I shave?
Q. I am really worried so any help will be great! Im 15 and have quite a embarressing problem. I shave all my pubes off, as i dont like having hair down there. The other week after shaving a day or two later a hard lump appeared and it wouldt pop ...
A. 8 September 2008: I'm no doctor but it sounds to me like you're getting cysts.
Cysts are nothing really to worry about - they're just spots that are quite deep in the skin.
I think a lot of people get these but if you're really concerned about it, I'd suggest ... (read in full...)
I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?
Q. I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...
A. 7 September 2008: Rule number one of breaking up, hun - No sex with the ex. It just gives you false hope. I have a few suggestions:
-As one of the previous answerers said, block him out of your life now - on your phone, on facebook, any way possible.
-Draw a line i... (read in full...)
She's suddenly incredibly insecure! How can I fix it?
Q. Hi. My girlfriend and I have a great relationship in almost every way. We have been together since we were 17, and we have never broken up. I love her more than anything, she is the most beautiful person inside and out. But there is one problem we ...
A. 7 September 2008: If I were you, I'd sit her down and tell her everything that you have just told us. She's not going to know how upset the accusations make you if you don't talk to her.
Always start your snetences with " I feel that" or " I think that" because if y... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I'm falling in love with him?
Q. Hello, my name is Holli Me, my boyfriend and his best friend all work together. They spend a lot of time together and recently ive realised that im falling in love with him, Everything about him's so sweet and he's never awful to me. R...
A. 7 September 2008: I'm not sure that's a good idea, hun. Are you even sure that his best friend feels the same way?
I mean, if you did decide to stop going out with your boyfriend and be with his best friend:
1)It would ruin their friendship - You'd feel you were to ... (read in full...)
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