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I'm 18 years old and I live on the Isle of Man :)
In my group of friends, I'm the person they turn to if they have a problem and I try to be there for them as much as possible.
I think I'm quite blunt in my answers to the questions on here, but I think it is needed under certain circumstances.
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I want to go clubbing, but I'm not quite 18, help, please.
Q. I want to go clubbing, I'm 18 in one month, but all my friends are 18, In a month they wont be here, we are all goin away, so i do not want to miss out. Have you guys got any ideas how i can get in?...
A. 24 June 2008: I'm 17 and I got into a club last weekend, I didn't get asked for ID either.
Maybe you should all try and get into some clubs and see how far you get. If the guy at the door doesn't let you in, go to another place and keep trying.
Act confiden... (read in full...)
We broke up but he is now asking if I will lose my virginity with him?
Q. I am only 17 years old, I've dated a guy for only a month then we broke up. We kept talking for a while and he's always been honest to me, even when we broke up. Know were going to see each other and he ask me if i want to lose my virginity with ...
A. 24 June 2008: I only have one thing really to say on this matter.
If you lose your virignity to this guy, you will regret it.
I have always felt that the whole "friends with benefits" idea is a bad one because it seems that one person in the mix will end up b... (read in full...)
My bf is really down at the moment...what can I do to help him??
Q. hii x i am having problems ! my boyfriend is soo cute n phitt but at the moment he has been really down ! he wodnt tell me what wa wrong and every tym i asked him he luked lyk he is gonna cry ! i asked is best m8 n he told me dat he has been ...
A. 23 June 2008: No problem :)
Glad it worked out for you!
Take care xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex gf is always around!! Should I ask him to cut ties with her or tell her to back off??
Q. i need help!! please! my bf's ex gf is constantly in my life. we tried to be friends but she then decided twice to go after him. she always talks about him telling everyone she loves him and soon he will be back with her. we have mutual friends who ...
A. 22 June 2008: I agree with lotus mama808,
Having you go up to her and tell her to back off will only encourage her further as she knows it's getting at you and if she knows she's getting at you, she knows that she's driving a wedge between you and your boyf... (read in full...)
My bf is really down at the moment...what can I do to help him??
Q. hii x i am having problems ! my boyfriend is soo cute n phitt but at the moment he has been really down ! he wodnt tell me what wa wrong and every tym i asked him he luked lyk he is gonna cry ! i asked is best m8 n he told me dat he has been ...
A. 22 June 2008: There's nothing much you can do other than just support him and comfort him. You could say something like this:
"Please listen to me, just for a few minutes. You mean a lot to me and it really cuts me up to see you so upset lately. I really want... (read in full...)
Any suggestions of how I can find an appropriate hairstyle?
Q. I Want to change my hairstyle, and have been growing my hair for quite sometime now. im not sure that i want long hair anymore and i want it changed but i dont no what to. does anyone know any good webites that i can look at of can you te...
A. 22 June 2008: Lol! Guessing the other answerers didn't realise that the quesiton asker was male... but I do agree with their answer - that you should look it up on google. Also if you go to your local newsagents they usually have lots of hair magazines, go take a ... (read in full...)
What should I do, stay with my boyfriend? Or get back together with my ex and get an abortion?
Q. I'm 19 years old, I meet my boyfriend in collage who i've been dateing for 5 months, and i'm between 4-5 months pregneat with his baby. I jumped into this relationship too quick, and i just got out of one with my ex, who i was dateing for 4-5 year...
A. 21 June 2008: I'm going to be rather blunt with this answer and I hope it doesn't offend.
You shouldn't have even thought about getting pregnant with someone you have been with for a month or two and if it was an unplanned pregnancy you should have cons... (read in full...)
What could this "bloating" in my lower left abdomen means?
Q. dear cupid i seem to have a problem, my lower right abdomen seems to have less fat and be in then my left lower abdomen, which looks kinda bloated. i would like to know what causes this? also its not hernia please help ...
A. 18 June 2008: It sounds like constipation to me. If you press gently on your left and right lower abdomen, which ever side feels more uncomfortable could suggest these two things:
Left side would suggest constipation
Right side would suggest something to do wi... (read in full...)
Age gaps, can they work??
Q. ok so i think some people have already asked this question but i can't find them at the mo so i'll ask it my self... Basically do people think that an age diffrence of 20 years is to much. I'm 18 and the guy i like is 37/38. We get on really w...
A. 11 June 2008: If you wanna go and date this guy, go out and date him.
Age is only a number and if you get on really well with this guy, then why not? What's stopping you?:)
You're friends seem to be okay with it.
My parents have a 13 year age difference a... (read in full...)
My sister gets me into trouble all the time. what do I do?
Q. I really need help on this.... Family problem really. Well im 13 and my sister is 9 and we have to share a room. I hate her. Soon as i tidy our room she trashes it or Soon as i tidy the room my mum looks at it then tells me its still a mes...
A. 11 June 2008: I know you've said you have spoken to your parents about this but there is something you need to change about the way you talk to them.
If you say to them "You listen to her", "You ignore me". They feel accused rather than what you want - you want... (read in full...)
Why do I get scared when I have the chance to have sex?
Q. Ok im always horny, but when i get the chance to have sex i get scared, why do i get scared?...
A. 10 June 2008: It's a sign that you're not ready to take your relationship to that next step yet. I think you shouldn't have sex until you feel completely happy and you know that you want to go ahead with it.
Take care
xx... (read in full...)
This guy won't leave me alone!!
Q. Hello everyone, My problem is that there is a guy who won't stop texting me, when I don't reply, he emails me. He changes his MSN names and facebook statuses to the EXACT same as mine for instance I had a quote from my favourite TV show - Black Bo...
A. 9 June 2008: Thank you everyone for your advice.
I will speak to him and tell him to back off a bit and give me some space because I feel uncomfortable.
Thanks again.
Bubbloo24
xx... (read in full...)
I have Asperger's Syndrome so can't read body language easily, how can I tell if a girl finds me attractive?
Q. I'd like some help with a little problem I have, since I have a form of Autism (Asperger's Syndrome) I have a little difficulty understanding body language. My question is this, how can I tell if a girl finds me attractive or if they are flirting?...
A. 8 June 2008: My brother has Autism too so I understand some of the difficulties you have, but if a girl likes you there are a few things you may notice:-
she makes a lot of eye contact or stares at you a bit absent mindedly,
she plays with her hair when tal... (read in full...)
How can I cope with my spoiled autistic boyfriend?
Q. I have been with my partner for 3 years now and hes a great guy, hes got aspergers which is a form of autism, People with Asperger syndrome can find it harder to read the signals that most of us take for granted. This means they find it more ...
A. 8 June 2008: My brother has autism too and I can relate to what you are saying.
I know of a lot of people with autism who were spoilt when growing up due to their reaction when they didn't get what they want - ie. kicking things, yelling etc. Not all auti... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend's boyfriend and now I'm pregnant.
Q. i need help and quick. im 13 and about three months ago i had sex with my best friend's boyfriend. i regret it, because im pregnant. i dont know how to tell people. let alone my best friend. please help....
A. 7 June 2008: You only regret it because you're pregnant?
Well, to be honest, the truth would have come out anyway - I'm not gonna go into the fact that you shouldn't have done it because clearly there's no point.
I agree with Uncle Sneaker - talk to your mum... (read in full...)
He wants me to just forget about his cheating...
Q. my husband of 13 yrs, had an affair with someone I know, lasting 18 months. I always knew there was something going on, but was told bt=y him, that I was mad. He physically abused me, continued to want sex, and told me I was ungrateful, and had ...
A. 7 June 2008: Is this the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Is this the guy you want your kids to grow up with as a role model??
Get rid of him hun, you know that this is the right thing to do, he has abused you, cheated on you and told you that... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 6 June 2008: Yes, I agree with rcn.
I don't think the lie was the reason your husband left. I think there's something else. Unless the lie was particularly bad and affected him really deeply, I should think that there's something he's not telling you.
I thi... (read in full...)
My long distance girlfriend broke up with me, it's so hard and I've nobody to talk to as I would only confide personal details to her...
Q. Hi, I meet a girl a long time ago on the internet and we started to like each other. I live in the mid west and she lives on the west coast. We started going out becuase we discovered we were almost perfect for each other. We started to fly back and ...
A. 6 June 2008: What she has said to you is completely unfair on you.
She's left you with the hope that she will come back to you eventually and wants you to chase her, even though she's prepared to go on dates with other guys.
The fact that she's made it alright ... (read in full...)
Now my best friend has a boyfriend she treats me like crap. I don't know what to do.
Q. My best friend has now got a boyfriend and she now treats me like crap. I just dont know what the hell to do. When me and her are together were happy and laughing and enjoying life and university but then when she gets home and gets online to talk ...
A. 5 June 2008: I've been in this situation, have you tried talking to her?
Sit her down and say "You know I'm always here for you, I love you to bits but something is upsetting me and I want to talk to you about it. I don't blame your new relationship - I have... (read in full...)
My friend has gone a bit 'metal' and I don't know what to do. Please help.
Q. Hey, i'm really worried. i started college and met this guy (as a friend) he seemed really nice. call him J. we ended up being quite good mates.recently though he told me he liked me more than friends. i didnt feel the same way at all and told him...
A. 5 June 2008: You need to get this guy out of your life.
Block him in every way you can - on your emails and through your phone because it seems that he knows that if he emails you or texts, he'll get an answer. He wants you to talk to him because it gives him ... (read in full...)
I lost my baby and feel so alone !
Q. I lost my baby 2 months ago and i am finding it very difficult to open up and talk about it with my partner. I'm so angry i can't let it out because I won't stop. He doesn't seem to understand this. can anyone help please? I really need some hel...
A. 4 June 2008: Yes I agree with the previous answer, you can seek help and advice through help lines and support groups, there are many women out there just like you who find it difficult (understandably) to try and pick themselves up from such an upsetting ... (read in full...)
He says he will not forgive my having cheated unless I do something amazingly big??!
Q. ok well,im only 14 but me and my bf where going out for nearly 7 months, at the begining of the relation ship wasnt very faithful to him, he found out about a few of the times that i cheated on him soon after it happened. and then for the next few ...
A. 3 June 2008: * it will always come round and bite in on the arse if you're not faithful... (read in full...)
MY BF told me the other night he's starting to hate me because everything I do annoys him. What do you think?
Q. I've started doing Ann Summers parties as a way to get extra money and ofcourse discount from the products!! I thought my boyfriend would like me doing this as we've always had quite a sexual relationship and have used toys etc before, and I we...
A. 3 June 2008: I suggest you leave this guy.
Anyone who you're with who starts to verbally abuse you, you need to leave.
That's the bottom line in ths whole story really -
The name calling says enough and with the hate comment, you can take that as your cue to ... (read in full...)
He says he will not forgive my having cheated unless I do something amazingly big??!
Q. ok well,im only 14 but me and my bf where going out for nearly 7 months, at the begining of the relation ship wasnt very faithful to him, he found out about a few of the times that i cheated on him soon after it happened. and then for the next few ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hun, he's just using you now. If he wanted you back, wouldn't he have just forgiven you and carried on going out with you? He just wants you to chase him, and you will end up getting hurt even more by just trying because what ever you do to try and ... (read in full...)
I love my best friend's BF!
Q. im in love wit my best mates boyfriend and dont know what to do we have been best mates for 12 years but her boyfriend is soo nice 2 me hes told me he likes me and wants to be with me and i want to be wit him soooo much what will i do???...
A. 1 June 2008: Good on you girl, you did the right thing :)
Take care and best wishes
xx... (read in full...)
Should I try and steal this girl from her long distance boyfriend?
Q. I am studying abroad right now and realized I like a girl here. The thing is this girl has a boyfriend. She has been dating him for about 7 months or so, but he moved to another part of the country about 4 months ago. She talks to him a lot, and I ...
A. 1 June 2008: Don't try and break them apart. She may end up turning against you for meddling in something that does not concern you.
I've been in a long dist relationship and if I found out someone was trying to weedle themselves in on me, I'd tell them wher... (read in full...)
Could anyone help this confused soul?
Q. I have been with this man for just over 6 months. Like all relationships there are so many little things that could be mentioned but it would take so very much time. Right now we're both in the middle of our exams, I have one tomorrow, my last, wh...
A. 1 June 2008: As hard as it may seem, you need to end this relationship for both your sakes.
I've been in a similar situation and believe me, it's better to end it now rather than drag it out.
If he has said such things to you as " I don't love you in the way ... (read in full...)
I love my best friend's BF!
Q. im in love wit my best mates boyfriend and dont know what to do we have been best mates for 12 years but her boyfriend is soo nice 2 me hes told me he likes me and wants to be with me and i want to be wit him soooo much what will i do???...
A. 1 June 2008:
If you go out with this guy, you lose you best friend automatically.
If you go out with him, the entirety of the relationship will be that you will think that he still likes your best friend and she will probably try to get him back to get reve... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend likes me
Q. i like this boy alot and he lkes me back alot he even carved my name on his arm!!!=0 but heres the thing he has a girlfriend man!! and shes mai bestfriend he ganna break up wit her n he said hes going to ask me out!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 31 May 2008: Right:
- If you go out with this guy, you lose you best friend automatically.
-If you go out with him, the entirety of the relationship will be that you will think that he still likes your best friend and she will probably try to get him back to ... (read in full...)
I only get to see my Gf once a week and feel lonely when we are apart, is this a problem?
Q. Not sure if this constitutes as a problem but I wanted some input on this. I've been with my girlfriend for quite a while (around 7 months) and I only get to see her once a week, when I'm not around her I sometimes feel lonely, any advice on what I ...
A. 31 May 2008: I was recently in a relationship where we rarely got to see each other... probably about 2-3 months each time. At one point, we didn't see each other for 6 months so I know how you are feeling. To begin with, when we were together it was really ... (read in full...)
He asks my friends to do naughty things, should I trust him?
Q. hi, i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont kno...
A. 10 May 2008: TOTALLY agree with Starfairy.
Get rid of him, he sounds like a slimeball.
xxx... (read in full...)
My date for the prom...do I greet her with flowers, a rose or what?
Q. I'm taking girl to prom. I'll be meeting her there because she's arriving with friends. Do I bring flowers? A Rose? Please explain in much detail. Thank you....
A. 9 May 2008: Yep, one single rose would be sooo sweet!! :D
Have a lovely time!
xxx... (read in full...)
SITE VIDEO: April 2008 video from Andrew
Q. Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??...
A. 25 April 2008: Awww wow! We'll be able to see what people really look like!
*agrees with Taste of India!* You are very cute! :)
Take care x
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What would you do??? Feeling nauseous ever since I read his ex's f'book messages..
Q. i looked at my boyfriends ex-girlfriends facebook profile last night and was very surprised to see that he had commented on her wall (a space where you leave messages)... he must delete the posts she makes on his wall so i cannot read them or ...
A. 14 April 2008: You need to get rid of him.
I don't think you should care whether he knows what you saw although I would put it as "I saw on your facebook certain messages that are NOT what I'd expect from someone I trusted so dearly."
If he asks how you knew and... (read in full...)
We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!
Q. i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...
A. 14 April 2008: As I said, you let him back in and he messes you around.
It doesn't matter whether it was her virginity lost or not she still slept with your boyfriend.
You KNOW what you should do but I think that you feel that you don't want to be alone or feel ... (read in full...)
He never trusts me! Now I've broken up with him but I love him and need him.
Q. my bf has a problem with trusting people. and because of my past he doesnt trust me, and he has never trusted me for the 5 years we have been together. last week i just got really mad and broke up with him for not trusting me. he is also going ...
A. 13 April 2008: If you wanna make this work you have to sort out this trust problem.
Sit him down and say - Listen, to make our relationship work, you need to start trusting me. I have changed and I will not break the trust as long as you don't.
WE have to work ... (read in full...)
We broke up because he slept with my sister, but I want him back!
Q. i really need some help, i dont know what to do about the situation im in.. ive being goin out with my boyfriend for over a year now, (16 months) and i adore him! but last night i found out that he has slept with my 13 year old sister!!!!!!! he is ...
A. 13 April 2008: Woahhh!!!
Get rid! a Guy of 18 sleeping with a 13 year old?!
YOUR SISTER?!
You need to realise your self worth, I cannot believe you'd even contemplate taking him back.
Yes you love him, but if you let him bsck into your life you cannot possi... (read in full...)
He's doing the dirt behind my friends back what can I do that wont affect our 11-year friendship?
Q. I have a best friend who has a boyfriend, Ok all of a sudden other females are trying to let my friend know that he's still talking to his ex girlfriend. Because 1 how did his ex girlfriend find out about them moving, that he has a new car, and that ...
A. 2 April 2008: The only thing you can do is sit her down, without her boyfriend, or anyone else in the room for that matter and say "I really really really don't want to hurt you. I've been your best friend for eleven years and I'd never say anything to hurt you, ... (read in full...)
I threw out my younger husband for cheating online, but I still love him what should I do?
Q. Hi. I'm really in trouble. My new husband have just taken out a remortgage on my house so that he can set up in business and make a better life for us. I'm much older than him and this was a very big thing for me to do, but I trusted him as I ...
A. 2 April 2008: If he loves you, he would understand that him being on sex lines, and watching porn upsets you and he shouldn't do it for this reason if nothing else. He should respect your wishes whether he's Turkish or not. If he had views that women shouldn't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex but I'm only 12!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for three months but his sister says he says he wants sex. The problem is i'm only 12! I just turned 12 this month and he's turning 13 in April we love each other so much that i don't know what to do, so i ...
A. 2 April 2008: I know how annoying and patronising I sound but you gotta listen to what we all have said.
You don't want to turn on this when you're older with complete regret because you lost your virginity at 12. You will regret who you did it with, and you'... (read in full...)
Five guys and I like them all, but which should I pick????
Q. HELP!!!!!! i really need some help i have a real problem i like 5 guys all at the sane time i dont know which to choose cos i know it will be slutty and unfair to pick them all lol well the 1st guy is going out with my best friendso i know he's...
A. 2 April 2008: I would have to agree with Annalisa in that if there are five guys to pick from then you mustn't like one of them enough for a relationship.
If you had to pick one, I would say go for number three ( LOL sounds like Blind Date), because if you both... (read in full...)
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