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Hello, I'm Jenny :D

I'm 18 years old and I live on the Isle of Man :)

In my group of friends, I'm the person they turn to if they have a problem and I try to be there for them as much as possible.

I think I'm quite blunt in my answers to the questions on here, but I think it is needed under certain circumstances.

I have had couselling in the past, but I had bad experiences with cousellors who didn't know what they were doing. So I've learnt from their mistakes and I know how to talk to/help people.

Ask away!!

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My bf said he didn't think being with me was right. Then he changed his mind! It's messed w/ my head and I don't know what to do!

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Guys don't like me b/c of my hair color, so how do I get the boy I'm after?

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A.   17 July 2007: Be proud of it. If you feel that you are inferior to other girls, guys can see it from a distance. Guys love confident girls and as one of the other aunts said on here, some guys really really like red haired girls. If you are proud of what you have... (read in full...)

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A.   13 July 2007: I say, candle lit room, quiet classical music, dress up ( little black dress ALWAYs goes down well). What is his absolute favourite meal?? I think Spaghetti bolagnaise would be good ( orignal but classic) Maybe not tell him what your planning... (read in full...)

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A.   11 July 2007: hun, 6 times? how much more of a wake up call do you need? He has no respect for you or your feelings. You're worth more than that!! Don't be scared of being alone, we all have to go down that path sooner or later and it can really do us good to r... (read in full...)

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A.   11 July 2007: How horrific for you. But hear these words and believe them - it takes any man to be a father, but it takes someone special to be a daddy. You love her don't you? then love her and be her dad. The rest is just biology. Take care xx... (read in full...)

How do I tell my partner that I no longer am in love with her?

Q.   Recently I have stopped being in love with my partner and we are just getting more and more distant how do I tell her that I'm no longer in love?...

A.   11 July 2007: It's true, you do need to tell her soon because if you have any respect for her you will tell her now so that it would stop dragging her, and the relationship along. It will be hard, I'm not going to deny that, but it needs to be done. If you ever... (read in full...)

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A.   11 July 2007: I agree, the relationship isn't equal and if there's violence within a relationship the other person should always walk away. It's not fair. Take care xxxxx... (read in full...)

I saw my best friend's husband cheating on her!

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A.   11 July 2007: Be a true friend and tell your best friend the truth, if it was you who as being cheated on, wouldn't you like to know? yes, it will cause problems in their relationship but she has to know the truth and make her own decision on what to do next... (read in full...)

My friend got naked at a party to show my husband what a great body she has

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A.   10 July 2007: Totally TOTALLY agree with Stina, ditch that friend!! xx... (read in full...)

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