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My boyfriend is becoming obsessive and touching me up when I don't want him to! What should I do?

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Question - (17 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

recently i have just gone back out with my boyfriend again since we have a break away from eachother,as i had not wanted to do well at school and being in a realonship at that time it wouldn't be such a good idea.but now school has finish,we are back out with eachother i think is he is coming to obessessed as he is wanting to see my all the time.and i just don't know what to do as it seems he is controlling my life revently we have started to kiss and he suddenley started to touch me up,i am so confused as i think we are to young to do that but i don't want this to ruin our realonship.If i didn't do it.I don't know but it seems he wants sex with me as he touchs me in the way he does.Does he? do you think i should tell him how i feel that it's to soon?

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A female reader, mum2be United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2007):

Tell him!

tell hime he cant do that

and be firm... dump him if you need to, you shouldnt have to put up with it.

all the best

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (17 June 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntHey hun, Think it's best that you ditch him. He obviously doesn't respect you as a human being... more like an object for pleasure.

Tell him that because of the weird way he's acting you have been forced to end it with him because you are worth more than that and want some respect.

Hope I helped.

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A female reader, unknown1234 United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2007):

hiya. ive just finished school to and i just start going out wid my bf again 2days ago, my situations a bit differenr cause he asked me to have sex with him, i was so confused cause i no im to young and im not ready and i was really scared to tell him this but then thats all he kept talking about so i confronted him and he got angry etc and i told him im not a slag and not that kind and if he loved me he would respect my decision and then he apoligised and told me we would talk about when i was ready so for your self tell him and if he loves you he will understand, and if he does say go away then you will no what he wanted from you its ganna be hard but tell him. talk to him hes your partner at the end of the day he needs to take into cinsideration your feelings.

gudluk

let me no how you get on tc x x x x x

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