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*ostnconfusion
writes:what should i do? me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months and were engaged now. i found out today that he cheated on me 9 months ago. should i forget about the hole cheating or confront him about it and if i should what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): you need to tell him it may hurt but it will teach him a lesson im in the same kind of relashinship as you but were not ingaged and im younger than you but that doesnt matter i know things and you need to tell him that you know and see what happens and go from there
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reader, ass  +, writes (22 June 2007):
hello again, i am so happy that things are beginning to look up for you. all the best. xxx
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reader, Lostnconfusion +, writes (21 June 2007):
Lostnconfusion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice but i found out that he actually never cheated on me.. thank god
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): This happened to me only I didn't know my bf was cheating while dating him, I only found out after marrying him. I would run from this guy because take it from me (believe me I've been there!), you will only have heartache. I couldn't let it go that he would lie and cheat on me and I just basically lost all trust in my husband. When you became engaged, he should have let you in on this piece of very important info so you could decide if you wanted to go on with the marriage or not. If I would have known in my situation ahead of time, I would have not followed through with the marriage - I feel I deserve better and so do you!
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 confront him! though yeah its hard its the best thing you could do, the secret of a healthy relationship is a proper communication, give him another chance, but if he react violently and denied it, that's the time that you should broke up with him, because if he did it once he could do it again.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Hun, if he didn't tell you and you only found out from someone else this amount of time later, can you trust him? he's been unfaithful to you.
Talk to him about what you've heard and then if he admits to being unfaithful, do you think you could stay together because: if he has, will he do it again?
he didn't tell you so can you trust him?
Will the relationship continue in you being suspicious of his every move?
If he says he didn't to it and you are absolutly sure he did, leave him, he can't be trusted and is taking advantage of the trust you've already given him.
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reader, ass +, writes (17 June 2007):
Hi babe, first you need to ask yourself, are you parpard to fogive him? If so then you should confrount him and here what he has to say. if not then just walk away. If it was me then i would walk away in fear that he would do it again and because of the feeling of not knowing how many times he had cheated on me. Good Luck xxx
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