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writes:I am in my 40s and have been divorced now for 7 years, I have been seeing a younger man for 6 years now ( he is 10 years younger ). My question is that we get along really good for about 6 months and then everything bothers me about him, he is very jelous of my older son, and when my children are around he is always wanting all my attention and when he is not the focal point he gets very verbally abusive. He broke it off with me a week ago because he said he was tired of me telling him what he can and can't do, now he is telling me he misses me and wants to get back together. We have tried living together 4 times now and it always ends up where I ask him to move out. He drinks to much, is very absive about sports, but when he is not around I miss him. What should I do.
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 hun! any guy who is jelious of your own child is not worth it!
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 don't bother with him to be honest my mum was in your shoes once this guy she was seein got all jeloious when me or my younger brother hugged my mum or just wanted somethin from her he wouldn't let us near her he would grap hold of her and tell us she was his only, she left him ad never looked back u don't want to set a bad example to ur children its hard to accept another man into ur kids lifes but don't go back down that road its not worth it. he doesn't make u happy so he ant worth it good luck in finding someone worth ur love xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you bubbloo24", for your quick response and wise insignt. I hope I can follow through with yur advice, I am usually very good at giving advice bad at taking it myslef.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 Hun, if ya don't see a future, then there most likely won't be one. The fact that he got verbally abusive with you - if you stay with him, what are the odds of that playing on your mind and him doing it again and again and gaining full control over you? it's VERY likely isn't it?
It's probably best that you end it here rather than making it drag on and on. Tell him that he messed you about, he left you, he had his chance and he blew it.
You're worth more than just being picked up and dropped when he feels jealous.
Keep your standards high and keep your head held high.
I wish you all the best. x
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