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What can I do about erection problems?

Q.   I have erectal and low libido problems, more than two years ago, and my wife is very upset about it, as she thinks, its because I don't love her anymore. I don't know what is wrong with me,I went t the doctors and they say there is no indication ...

A.   25 January 2008: Women get problems too you know, low libido, never feeling sexy. You are in a rut, nothing other than that. You are also under far too much pressure to be able to perform. You need to relax, take away the stress of everyday life, talk your... (read in full...)

Is it a myth that men move on quicker than women??

Q.   Is it true ,that men only leaving the marriage, when he has someone else already in place? AND woman will leave ,even if there is no lover on side ,because they are more independent than man? I heard ,when the woman dies , no man stays alone ma...

A.   25 January 2008: It is not a myth, albeit all men are not the same. I would say just a handful can survive alone, those who have inner strength, financial stable, able to cook and iron for themselves. ... (read in full...)

He shows he loves me but little things kil and confuse me inside.

Q.   Hi Everyone, So I am dateing this guy for almost a year now. I know he loves me and I know I love him too. I am very happy when we are together and we always have a great time. He is very friendly, loving, sensitive and nice. If I am sad he drops ev...

A.   25 January 2008: I think you both have problems that need resolving. You should write down what gets on your nerves about him, and he do the same with regards you. Sit down and go thru' the list together and try to compromise on things. With regards you sati... (read in full...)

Is cyber sex cheating??

Q.   Is cyber sex cheating? I have a bf but i ended up having cyber sex just once with one of my friends i met online. Should i tell my bf? My bf and i have been together for 2 months now, we havent told eachother we loved eachother, so it hasent g...

A.   25 January 2008: You yourself obviously have some doubts as to whether or not it is cheating. Personally for me it would be. I see no reason to tell him, for what end? ... (read in full...)

How will I know if she is cheating on me?

Q.   Hi guys... Im going through the phase of i think my Girlfriend is cheating on me im not so sure i need your thoughts please!!! and its tricky! I live in derby and she lives in tamworth about 30 mins apart im 19 and shes 17 we met at a party an...

A.   25 January 2008: Simon Is she keeping her options open? She is so young, whilst you probably heard it before, nothing lasts forever at that age. I understand the reason for her passwording her Lappy and phone, it is personal. Has she changed towards you? do you ... (read in full...)

Did the guy I like have a one night stand or not?

Q.   hi. I like my flatmate at uni and recently, through a stupid mistake, he has found out that i like him. So now he nows how i feel. However, since he found out he has not backed off at instead of starting to keep a slight distance, as ...

A.   25 January 2008: Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? Maybe he is being nice to you because he feels guilty he does not feel the same, and is compensating by being friendly. It is possible that he just does not feel the same, the best thing you can do... (read in full...)

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant. What should we do?

Q.   me and my boyfriend dated 3 years ago for a year. we were truley in love. Because of my family not being to fond of him we broke it off and i was depressed for along time. I never really got over him and he never got over me. We met up again and my ...

A.   25 January 2008: You should not be jealous of a child. Could it be you are concerned he might bond with the mother? Would you rather not have a partner who wants to do the right thing and be responsible? Surely that is why you love him, because of who he is. ... (read in full...)

Do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn?

Q.   do guys compare their girlfriends to the girls in porn? I was just wondering because my boyfriend watches porn all the time and lately I have had a hard time in bed because I am worried that I am not attractive enough because he'll be thinking...

A.   25 January 2008: I think men are more intersted in the act itself as opposed to who it is. Remember too, that these are not the normal girl in the street, these are being paid to have sex, do you really think he is going to be thinking of someone who gets paid to... (read in full...)

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