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I think I'm quite blunt in my answers to the questions on here, but I think it is needed under certain circumstances.
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What do people think of this age gap??
Q. ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you thin...
A. 24 January 2009: Awww! Glad you're happy!
It's nice to hear a bit of good news on here for once :)
All the best,
xx... (read in full...)
Five guys and I like them all, but which should I pick????
Q. HELP!!!!!! i really need some help i have a real problem i like 5 guys all at the sane time i dont know which to choose cos i know it will be slutty and unfair to pick them all lol well the 1st guy is going out with my best friendso i know he's...
A. 2 April 2008: I would have to agree with Annalisa in that if there are five guys to pick from then you mustn't like one of them enough for a relationship.
If you had to pick one, I would say go for number three ( LOL sounds like Blind Date), because if you both... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
A. 1 April 2008: YYYYAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D xxxx... (read in full...)
My teacher likes me, kissed me and is scaring me! I'm feeling awful but no one will believe me if I tell them.
Q. Hi, i have this really bad problem it's about a teacher and it's nothing to do with me liking him its the other way round. We have just broke up from school for the easter holidays. The whole story started when i was walking down the corridor goi...
A. 22 March 2008: Right sweet, you need to tell the police.
The only way this man will stop is if you contact the police. They WILL take you seriously.
Tell your mum what's happened, she can support you can take care of you.
But you need to tell someone of a... (read in full...)
I helped a disabled girl-was it the wrong thing to do?
Q. I have a friend who nobody likes because she isn't fake like everyone else; she doesn't wear her hair like them, or make-up, or talk like they've never heard English before. She is very shy and only wants to be liked because she has no friends but ...
A. 22 March 2008: I must say that I have the utter most respect for you.
You did something that a lot of people wouldn't have even thought about doing.
You've done such a great thing, and you should be so proud of yourself for doing it.
My brother has a mental dis... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my best friend's ex!!!
Q. Well, I'm in love with this guy... but my friend dated him and they broke up over a year ago, she kinda still likes him. So, I've been talking to him, and I've fallen in love, same with him, he's in love with me. I haven't been this happy in ...
A. 22 February 2008: Listen. If you get with this guy, you automatically lose your best friend, don't you? Coz even though she may say " yeah, don't worry, I'm fine with it" She will not want to hang around with someone who makes her feel hurt. If you get with this gu... (read in full...)
My partner tried to choke me and I'm wondering if I should give him another chance... he says he'll never do it again.
Q. My partner tried to choke me on one occasion and I am wondering if I should give him another chance. He says he loves me more than anything but he panicked and he's so sorry and says he will never hurt me again. He wants to get married - we were ...
A. 22 February 2008: Exaclty what hlskitten said. You cannot allow that kind of thing, and you definatly can't allow him to have a second chance at choking you! Stay clear of him. He had his chance and he blew it. Take care xx ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: YAY! :D Good work keeping this site running Andrew! It's a wonder where people would be without dear cupid!!! Well done agony aunts! Keep going and let's get more people on here to see this terrific site! WOOP! :) Bubblooooooooo 24 xxx... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't love all her kids equally.
Q. My mum doesn't love all her kids equally. She loves her boys more than her girls. It's making me very angry, she treats them like they're the most important things in the world. I've heard her talking about me to my brother. They get to go on ...
A. 12 February 2008: I think the only way she's going to find out that you are upset about this if is if you sit down and talk to her.
Say to her that you feel completely pushed away and that you sometimes feel that she wants nothing to do with you.]
She may just ... (read in full...)
What do people think of this age gap??
Q. ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you thin...
A. 12 February 2008: If you're happy, your family and friends should all be happy too. There's nothing wrong with that at all! :)
Don't let anything stand in the way of your happiness.
Take care xx... (read in full...)
Pretty sure he's cheating on me..so what does his e-mail he sent (see posting)...really mean?
Q. I really could do with some advice please. To cut a long story short im pretty sure my partner of 10 has been cheating on me, he also lies about everything even when i have prof. I have caught him asking for sex on the internet and he has had n...
A. 12 February 2008: "this energy and distrust that has been wasting and building up could be better used – like loving me – not thinking I am fucking other people. Really sad hun"
"He has said before if i dont like his drug taking i can F***off."
It is HIM who... (read in full...)
Is our age difference too big?
Q. I need some advice and my story might be a little long so please bear with me. I have fallen for a guy who is a regular customer at the store where I work. The problem is there is quite a big age difference between us. Iam almost 21 and he is 38. He ...
A. 10 February 2008: Age is only a number.
If you two are really great for each other there's nothing wrong with it, and if your family are caring enough then I'm sure they will accept it because you are happy.
As for other people who see it - Who gives a crap wha... (read in full...)
I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?
Q. i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him som...
A. 9 February 2008: I went to the doctor about my circulation, and he said that I should go for a blood test to check for anemia, thyroid problems, and diabetes - but that was just in my case.
The doctor pressed down on my fingers and toes to see how fast the capi... (read in full...)
My very good friend and I now both like my 'ex'. What should we do?
Q. So wow, where do i even begin? Okay, so I've dated this guy *Jack* on and off for a couple of months and i recently broke up with him again. He started talking to my friend *Amy* and then i realized how much i missed him and stuff. So we started ...
A. 9 February 2008: You did the right thing :) You're a good friend, stick with her.
I told you what I thought you should do based on the fact that I've been in a similar situation and I lost a very good friend. I'm glad you did what you did, you're strong, I made the ... (read in full...)
My very good friend and I now both like my 'ex'. What should we do?
Q. So wow, where do i even begin? Okay, so I've dated this guy *Jack* on and off for a couple of months and i recently broke up with him again. He started talking to my friend *Amy* and then i realized how much i missed him and stuff. So we started ...
A. 8 February 2008: You should trust your best friend.
If she says that your guy has been hitting on her and saying he wants to be with her, are you just gonna ignore that?
She's your BEST FRIEND. I hardly think that she would make this kinda thing up. Does she norm... (read in full...)
We used to be best friends until this boy (her ex) chose me over her. Now she won't stop flirting with him, what do I do?
Q. I am going out with this boy (lets call him danny) and his ex, (she can be maddy) won't leave him alone. Me and her use to be best friends until danny dumped maddy for me - now she won't stop flirting with him. What do I do?...
A. 7 February 2008: Ok, fair enough, but there are boundaries in friendship.
He was your bestfriend's ex and that's a line you shouldn't cross.
It's up to you what you do, but it seems to me like you've already made your decision on this.... (read in full...)
I am cold all the time, even in the blazing sun. What is wrong with me?
Q. i'm just wondering does anyone out there get really cold n i mean freezing cold. what ever the weather even blazing sun shine i'm cold. i'm never able to get a warm, i work in a kitchen and still cold. my boyfriend hates me touching him som...
A. 7 February 2008: Yes, it does sound like Reynards.
It's probably best if you go to your GP and talk to them about it, my friend has it too and they managed to give her something that made it easier to deal with.
Take care xx... (read in full...)
Met her in the internet, she said she'd be back in my life by the end of the year as she planned to move closer to where I live. Do I drown my suspicions and wait out?
Q. Ok so I met this girl a year ago on the internet, she lives across the country from me. We instantly hit it off and spent hours talking to each other. After a few months we met up and we were inseperable for the whole day. A month or two lat...
A. 7 February 2008: Hey,
Woah, what a horrible situation, I do sympathise with you.
I think you need to tell her that you know that there is another guy and that yuo just can't share her.
Tell her that you feel that you can't deal with this kind of thing anymore beca... (read in full...)
We used to be best friends until this boy (her ex) chose me over her. Now she won't stop flirting with him, what do I do?
Q. I am going out with this boy (lets call him danny) and his ex, (she can be maddy) won't leave him alone. Me and her use to be best friends until danny dumped maddy for me - now she won't stop flirting with him. What do I do?...
A. 7 February 2008: Sorry but I have to agree with Leanna, you shouldn't have gone for a best friend's guy. No wonder she's upset. When you make a friendship with a girl, you make sure that you promise yourself that you're not gonna let a guy come between you.
T... (read in full...)
She is the love of my life, but her ex is in the way
Q. Last June, I bumped into a girl I once worked with. We never had a relationship at that time - in fact we were both married. A few weeks later, she contacted me saying she was single and miserable (recently broken up from a two-year relatio...
A. 3 February 2008: I've been in a similar situation... and what I'm gonna tell you to do will be really hard to do but I think it's best all round.
I think you need to give her space, tell her that you're not going to contact her for a few weeks until she gets her ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your period to come after Sex?
Q. Is it normal if after sex, your period comes??? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 3 February 2008: It could happen if you were due on that date, it doesn't necessarily mean that the sex made it happen or anything!
Try not to worry! :)
x
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Been trying to concieve for awhile..and now I have to ask--am I pregnant ??
Q. ok here goes. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 18 months and no luck yet. BUT i feel pregnant this month...does that sound weird? I have a bad lower back, twinges and aches in my womb and more so towards the left around the ovary, I ...
A. 29 January 2008: I say that you do what the two other aunts have said - try not to get your hopes up too high but take the test as soon as possible. It does seem like a lot of signs of being pregnant though!
I wish you all the best and all the happiness for the futu... (read in full...)
My Abusive Ex- Boyfriend
Q. My Abusive Ex Boyfriend... The abuse started on my 21st birthday just last July. He beat me bad and I was really scared. I was new to the City and staying with him till I found a place so I did not know anyone yet. I stayed in the relation...
A. 29 January 2008: Hun, I've been here. DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM.
He will treat you the same way he has been doing.
Please, find someone who'll respect you and treat you right. This guy won't change and God only knows what he'll do to you if you go back.
Don't tal... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and seeing a 22 year old guy, my Mum's gone mental
Q. hi i need a lot of help i've been going out this 22 year old he says he really like me and i like him my mum found out yesterday and is punishing me by the way i'm 13. I need a way to convince her i haven't had sex yet please help!!!!...
A. 25 January 2008: Good on ya girl, I'm glad to hear it.
Take care hun
xx... (read in full...)
About stopping bulimia?
Q. Recently i have become bulimic, and have told my best friend and my boyfriend. they tell me that i am skinny enough, wich i now am but it is addictive, how do i stop...
A. 25 January 2008: I've just written the answer to what I think is the same question. You need to talk to someone. Call the number which Kelly P has given you and do what they say. Take care x... (read in full...)
Please help, I love her as she is.
Q. My best friend and girlfriend who is 13 yesturday told me that she is bulimic. Only me and another friend no. We swore to secrecy that we wouldnt tell any 1, which is what we are going to do but how do i try and talk her out of this as she is very ...
A. 25 January 2008: You HAVE to tell someone. As rcn says, if you don't, she's going to die. She's in a really really bad situation, and if you don't tell anyone, she won't get the help she needs, and she will die. This is serious, not just a secret that you keep in ... (read in full...)
He says they're just friends. Am I wrong to be upset by this?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and we have become very close. I really care about him and he's nicer than any other man I have met. About a year ago he lost his girlfriend and he is very close to her sister who had set ...
A. 19 January 2008: It would seem that you don't trust this guy - and I don't think anyone can trust someone they've dated for only three months really.
rcn is right, I think you've just stumbled upon a very close relationship which seems very strange because you don'... (read in full...)
His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies ...
A. 19 January 2008: Wooaahh! What a pickle!
But you REALLY need to think about how you see yourself... from your post it would seem that you accept being treated like this. You don't deserve to be treated this way! He needs to sort himself out!
Think of your ideal gu... (read in full...)
If your happy and you know it!!!
Q. I know this isn't a question, but I'm just happy =] I want the whole world to know!...
A. 18 January 2008: Good on ya girl! :D
xx... (read in full...)
Is this verging on rape?
Q. I'm in Year 11 at school, and one of the boys who I've like for a while is apparently into me. I would do anything for him to like me, and we are quite physical anyway. We have intimate hugs a lot. (He's always been a player.) However, lately, ...
A. 18 January 2008: Hun, two words - get rid!
You're worth more than that! If HE RESPECTED YOU he would NOT even try when you've made it clear that you don't like it.
Just say "It just ain't happenin, so if you're really that desperate that you have to do it at schoo... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and seeing a 22 year old guy, my Mum's gone mental
Q. hi i need a lot of help i've been going out this 22 year old he says he really like me and i like him my mum found out yesterday and is punishing me by the way i'm 13. I need a way to convince her i haven't had sex yet please help!!!!...
A. 16 January 2008: ***You're too young to have sex. Please don't, if he wants to, tell him that he should respect your wishes and say no.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and seeing a 22 year old guy, my Mum's gone mental
Q. hi i need a lot of help i've been going out this 22 year old he says he really like me and i like him my mum found out yesterday and is punishing me by the way i'm 13. I need a way to convince her i haven't had sex yet please help!!!!...
A. 16 January 2008: Hun, I KNOW this won't be what you want to hear... but I think I need to say it.
You need to listen to your mum on this one. It's not right that a 22 year old guy should like someone so young.. in fact, it's not right at all.
Have you thought ... (read in full...)
I got naughty with my ex on webcam while my boyfriend slept
Q. Last night I got naughty with my ex on webcam. My boyfriend was asleep in the other room at the time and I feel really bad about it but I don't want to stop. I don't want to be a lying cheat but I just can't help myself. My ex wants to be with me ...
A. 16 January 2008: There's a reason that he's your ex. Remember that reason.
If you find yourself completly unable to control yourself between two men, maybe you should stay single because it seems obvious that you arn't going to be committed.
Can you imagine ... (read in full...)
Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.
Q. hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure...
A. 12 January 2008: Hun, don't get drawn into his trap. If he cared about you, he would leave you alone and realise that you're out of bounds.
He's only after one thing. And you DO NOT want to be his bit on the side... God knows what he'd do to you if you decided to m... (read in full...)
Is my teacher a pervert?
Q. Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...
A. 7 January 2008: Report him - any kind of contact like this is unacceptable and he knows it.
If you don't, he may do something to you that you may not like... he may do that to one of your closest friends.
He is a threat. Report him.
Take care xx... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and he's 28
Q. So we've sort of known each other (only in a certain context, through which we met) for over a year and about a week ago we admitted to having feelings for each other...We both know that this is a rather delicate situation and we know that there are ...
A. 13 December 2007: I've just turned seventeen and my boyfriend is 27.
What I would suggest is saying to your parents " I've known this guy for a long time and we've recently discovered that we have feelings for eachother, he is a lot older than me but I don't want... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with two close friends havng a cuddle every now and again?
Q. Ok i have this best friend and we are extremely close. Me and her at mind and just having a cudle on the sofa when my sister came in and one of our other friends and saw us. We are only close friends but feel comfortable enough with each other to do ...
A. 18 November 2007: Do you really REALLY care that much about what other people think?
They're the ones with the problem. It only becomes a problem if you make it your problem as well.If they say anything, look them in the eyes and say "it's none of your business, if y... (read in full...)
What do I do to get him to listen.
Q. oki so im dying inside becuase my boyfriend doesnt even want to look at me because of all teh shame he had put apon me and my daughter for what hes put us through. Being a addict so he goes to get help for crack buts still drinks alot, and hasnt ...
A. 18 November 2007: If you write a list of things you want in your ideal man... what would they be?
They wouldn't be - drug addict.
gives up on family easily.
doesn't listen to you.
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Has my boyfriend cheated and given me a sexually transmitted infection?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year (we don't live together) left his email open on my computer recently. I couldn't help but look, and as it turns out he has a profile on AdultMatchMaker looking for someone special to share 'oral sex and one on one sex'. when ...
A. 18 November 2007: It's a case as "wanting his cake and eating it" He wants you AND the other girls on the internet.
If you've paid for this holiday, tell him he has to pay for his share of it and don't go. Leave this bastard before he hurts you even more.
Or ju... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my best friend's ex, how can I make him feel alright with me dating her?
Q. ive had a crush on my best friends ex for a few months and im starting to think there might be something between us but im worried that if i start dating her then my best friend make think of it as a conflict of interest and i want to stay friends ...
A. 17 November 2007: Talk to your best friend about it. Just say " I need to talk to you... I've started having feelings for ______. I felt that I should speak to you about it because I don't want this to make a mess of our friendship.
If he feels that he wouldn't want... (read in full...)
Do all this mean that she likes me?
Q. Ok I'm quite confused...... I have reason to believe that this girl likes me....but am not sure I know her from school she is quite nice and flirty. What makes me believe that she likes me is that we talk quite a bit, she flirts with me, I ...
A. 17 November 2007: If you like her, ask her out! What have you got to lose?
If she's the nice of enough girl that you think she is, she'll be nice about it should she not feel the same way. If she acts this way all the time, then I should think she does like you. Ask ... (read in full...)
Why would my friend want to hurt my feelings by telling me others say that I'm smelly?!?
Q. Hey. I've ben really bothered with this ...i think ive been going crazy just thinking about this.. So my friends calls me up to her and says, "hey..i heard someone talking about you..." and me, hoping it was something good , became all excited....
A. 17 November 2007: Shower everyday, use antiperspirant and deodrant and if needs be, bring the can to school and use it there if it bothers you.
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