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Hello, I'm Jenny :D

I'm 18 years old and I live on the Isle of Man :)

In my group of friends, I'm the person they turn to if they have a problem and I try to be there for them as much as possible.

I think I'm quite blunt in my answers to the questions on here, but I think it is needed under certain circumstances.

I have had couselling in the past, but I had bad experiences with cousellors who didn't know what they were doing. So I've learnt from their mistakes and I know how to talk to/help people.

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Should I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I'm falling in love with him?

Q.   Hello, my name is Holli Me, my boyfriend and his best friend all work together. They spend a lot of time together and recently ive realised that im falling in love with him, Everything about him's so sweet and he's never awful to me. R...

A.   7 September 2008: I'm not sure that's a good idea, hun. Are you even sure that his best friend feels the same way? I mean, if you did decide to stop going out with your boyfriend and be with his best friend: 1)It would ruin their friendship - You'd feel you were to ... (read in full...)

He wants a baby, I think I'm still too young, what should I do?

Q.   I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now, we have a house and a dog, he is ready for kids i am not. We argued about this early this year and in the end to keep him i agreed to start trying after our holiday in september.(yes he ...

A.   1 September 2008: He gave you an ultimatum? As in - We either start trying for a baby or I'm off? What kind of man is this? You're still young and there's plenty of time to start having kids. He shouldn't be forcing you into having children when you're not read... (read in full...)

I've been having pains near my stomach and it's starting to worry me.

Q.   hi, for the past couple of days, i have been having pains in my stomouch near the my hip bone when i eat it onli feels like a pin pocking me, but im gettin worried, because my friend said it could be my appendix? please could be able to tell me what ...

A.   28 August 2008: Your appendix is on the right side of the abdomen and usually if you have pain on the left it's a sign of constipation. If the pain is on your right or left I would suggest going to see your GP just to be on the safe side. It could be anything real... (read in full...)

Would people perseive me as curvy or fat?

Q.   heyx i am nearly 16 years old, 5ft 3 and weigh about 9 stone do you think this is an ok weight or do i need to lose some? I have 34E boobs (and really dnt want to lose them) and am size 10-12 in jeans would people percieve this as curvy or...

A.   28 August 2008: Curvy, hun! I'm 11 stone and I'm 17 with my bra size 36DD and I'm a size 12 too and I personally think that I'm more curvacious than anything. I can assure you that you ain't over weight or fat! I think you are about average which is great :) Mo... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's been nasty and treating me like dirt lately!

Q.   me and my boyfreind have been together 2 years in october but lately hes been nasty and treatin me like dirt he thinks he can walk all over me i thought it was just in my head and shurgged it off but my friend say i dont know why i put up with it he ...

A.   28 August 2008: WOAH Okay hun, your ideal man.. does he consist of: -Nasty -Walks all over you -Tells your mum to f*ck off -Nice when DRUNK -Only happy when he's using me for sex Get rid sweetheart! You're worth more than that! I'm sorry but he sounds like... (read in full...)

I need a major pep talk! This break up means I can't sleep, can't eat, can't concentrate. Help me PLEASE!

Q.   Well, I haven't heard from my ex since Sunday night when she called looking for her things. She drunk dialed me the night before, but I didn't answer it. When I dropped off her things Sunday evening I asked her if she had called me the night be...

A.   28 August 2008: I've been in this position before. I was with someone for a very long time and then 2 days after we split up which happened to be valentine's day, I found out that he had got back together with his ex girlfriend. I know how you are feeling now and ... (read in full...)

How can I get over this jerk?

Q.   How do I get over a guy? This guy I, for some unknown reason, really like, disrespects me, lies to me, ignores me and is currently secretly seeing someone else. He has had 6 women in the past 10 months and I dont think this new relationship wil...

A.   28 August 2008: I think you need a clean break. I know this is not what you want to hear but you are worth more than this! Think of your ideal guy... would his characteristics be : disrespects me lies to me sleeps around sleeps with other women while I'm wi... (read in full...)

Do I trust him again after he emailed his ex? He indicated an interest in her.

Q.   I have a boyfriend I have been with for a year and 3 months. Recently, we both deleted our "Myspace" accounts, because he (my boyfriend), wrote to another girl (one he has gotten pregnant long before I met him, She had an abortion), and he said to ...

A.   26 August 2008: Sorry, my mistake * myspace instead of facebook and * emailing instead of texting :) Half asleep! Sorry!! xx... (read in full...)

Do I trust him again after he emailed his ex? He indicated an interest in her.

Q.   I have a boyfriend I have been with for a year and 3 months. Recently, we both deleted our "Myspace" accounts, because he (my boyfriend), wrote to another girl (one he has gotten pregnant long before I met him, She had an abortion), and he said to ...

A.   26 August 2008: Why have you deleted your facebook account? Did he tell you to? Coz in that case you've just given him control over you. It seems that he's basically blamed you for him texting his ex by saying that it's coz you go out to bars. You're allowed to g... (read in full...)

Why is my ex giving me the could shoulder? We ended on good terms.

Q.   my ex and i were together for 2 years and recently split about 4 months ago. it was NOT on bad terms. i did the breaking up after realising that it was going no where - he was not able to committ to anything and enjoyed being with his friends more ...

A.   26 August 2008: I really don't think that he'd be all too happy at the end of a two year relationship no matter what his actions were at the end of it. He may not have realised how he was acting... maybe you were acting differently too without realising? Or maybe ... (read in full...)

Why is my ex giving me the could shoulder? We ended on good terms.

Q.   my ex and i were together for 2 years and recently split about 4 months ago. it was NOT on bad terms. i did the breaking up after realising that it was going no where - he was not able to committ to anything and enjoyed being with his friends more ...

A.   26 August 2008: Hun, he probably doesn't want to see you because he doesn't want to bring back feelings that he now is supposed to not have for you. He probably feels that it will upset him seeing how much you have moved on when he still is not completely over ... (read in full...)

He means everything to me. The bestest friend I could ever asked for, but he want to die! Please please help.

Q.   I'm really upset because my best friend is. He is really depressed and wants to die. he wont tell me the reasons, but i assume its relationship problems. I love him loads in everyway possible. If he dies I dont even want to think what id do. He mea...

A.   26 August 2008: Gecko has give you very good advice. I do also suggest that you talk to him and maybe try to get a bit more information out of him as to why he's depressed. Obviously don't force him, just comfort him and maybe he'll open up to you a bit more. Tell... (read in full...)

He's crying because I won't take him back so easily this time! What now?

Q.   my boyfriend, well my ex boyfriend now, we'v been on and off 4 a year now, and throughout the realtionship hes cheated on me 5 times with 4 different girls, but iv done some wrong things, but iv never cheated on him! but usually evrytime he does it ...

A.   25 August 2008: No hun, do not take him back. He's had his chance... he's had a million chances! And he's blown all of them. He should accept that it's over because of him cheating. You shouldn't keep taking back someone because then he'll feel it's okay if he keep... (read in full...)

Is my belly button infected?

Q.   okay i have my belly button pierced and i love it. I have been cleaning it reguraly like i should but i have had it pierced for about 6 or 7 weeks now and i seem to be getting some yellowish-white-ish fluid to come out of it like 2 times already. So ...

A.   25 August 2008: When I got mine done, the person putting the piercing in told me that it would do that occasionally. I don't think it's anything to worry about, just keep washing it and keeping it clean and I think it should be fine. xx... (read in full...)

I love both my ex and my girlfriend. They give me ear ache about eachother. I need to pick one.. but which one?

Q.   The Girl I Am With Now Is Called Tasha I Bin With Her Nearly 2 Month Now But I Was With Her A Year And Half Befor The Ex [ Natalie ] When I Was With Tasha For The Year And Half Tasha And Nat Were Best Mates But Then They Fell Out And I B...

A.   25 August 2008: I agree with Emilysanswers - you need time alone to find out who it is you want. You may discover that it's less hastle to not be with either of them! Or that you want to be single. If I were you, I'd be single and not see either of them for a whil... (read in full...)

Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....

Q.   Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...

A.   25 August 2008: A man comes home one night with a girl on his arm not expecting his wife to be home but as soon as he walks in the door, she's standing there looking very angry. The girl makes a quick exit and the husband and wife are left on their own. Wife:... (read in full...)

Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?

Q.   i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is ...

A.   25 August 2008: Hun, I'm sorry but that's not the point we're trying to make. The fact that you are staying over at a guy friend's house while planning a wedding with someone else suggests that there's underlying feelings between you and your friend. Pleas... (read in full...)

Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?

Q.   i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is ...

A.   25 August 2008: As DiovanLestat has said, this will probably cause a lot of problems when you are married because it will seem that you are committing adultery. And maybe it seems to you that you arn't, but there will be people out there who will think you are, ... (read in full...)

How can I get my boyfriend to let go of my sexual past?

Q.   Hey all! Right im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for around 8 months, ive nown him since i was around 7. When i was 15 years old i did some bad things, i went on holiday and got in with the wrong crowd, it was 4 weeks of alcohol and boys,...

A.   24 August 2008: The only way he's gonna know how you feel is if you talk to him, hun. Sit him down when things are okay between you and say "You know that there are things in my past that I'm not proud of and that I wish I'd not done, but I need you to listen t... (read in full...)

Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?

Q.   Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he ...

A.   19 August 2008: Right... hun, read through your question again. Imagine this is not you, it's someone else. Would you remain/become friends with: A liar An abuser Sleeps with other girls then lies some more Tells you that you're a nut case Tells you to f... (read in full...)

Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?

Q.   I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 ...

A.   19 August 2008: I'm sorry, but the last answer was just not good advice for you. Please do not "go for it" because if you care about this guy, you will not risk him going to jail. The advice telling you that this relationship would be a bad idea couldn't be more... (read in full...)

I just want some advice from some ladies that know what to do and help me get round these problems with my gf

Q.   Dear Cupid I have a chat moment with my girlfriend coming up. Its something not good. Shes getting frustrated with me. I got her upset about a board game time. I have a thing called Asbergers syndrome and she knows it. I don't think she knows ev...

A.   17 August 2008: Hi, My brother has Aspergers as well so I can understand your difficulty with communication. I think what you need to do is sit her down and calmly say "I understand why you are upset with me, I understand that I can get pretty frustrating at times... (read in full...)

Any tips that can help me pass my driving test?

Q.   Hey everybody... Okay, I understand that this is a website for relationship troubles [hence 'dearcupid'.com] but this is the ony place i could think of coming for help with a problem that isn't anything to do with a relationship. I have just book...

A.   17 August 2008: I would say, get in the car and be positive. Before your exam, listen to self empowerment music such as "till I collapse" by eminem or any music that makes you feel like you can take on the world. Then when you get in to the car, visualise that you... (read in full...)

Can anyone give me some tips about makeup?

Q.   hiya erm this is just basically and ordianry girly question but i when i wear make-up i wear mascara and blusher and thats about it i dont really think i need foundation plus its a faff on. but my main problem is eye-liner, other girls where it...

A.   15 August 2008: I think you need to practise.. my best friend's eyes used to water when she put eye liner on her eyes but she's got used to it now. I would suggest using eye pencil and not eye liquid liner. It's easier if you melt it a little bit before you use ... (read in full...)

I want to sleep with my boss

Q.   I fancy my boss like crazy and i WANT to sleep with him, even though hes married and got kids? how do i get him 2 want me too? how shall i act? dress? make up? perfume? hair? ...

A.   14 August 2008: Hun.. you've asked a question before about you're boyfriend not pleasuring you during sex... 1) Are you still with him? Because sleeping with your boss is going to cause problems as it is without you being taken. 2) Are you sure that you acutally... (read in full...)

Nipples, or cleavage?

Q.   Do men prefer seeing hard nipples through a shirt or ample cleavage?...I have both...

A.   14 August 2008: Haha Uncle Phil! Yeah, all guys are different!... (read in full...)

Nipples, or cleavage?

Q.   Do men prefer seeing hard nipples through a shirt or ample cleavage?...I have both...

A.   14 August 2008: I'm not a guy, but I'm guessing clevage because it leaves much to the imagination and a bit of mystery as to what's underneath. ... (read in full...)

Is it worth finishing a degree?!

Q.   Not a relationship question sorry but a life decision question. Is it worth completing a degree? Does having one actually change people's lives that much? Just in a quandry about whether to finish it. Thanks...

A.   10 August 2008: How close are you to finishing it? I would stick to it and see it through because then you can move on to something else if you would rather with the degree under your belt. My two sisters have both considered to stop studying for their degrees ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a bad boy in public, but a sweetheart with me. His drinking habits make me worry... how do I deal with this?

Q.   Hello My boyfriend, (only just started daring him) - He's a bit wreckless and... well I guess you could call him a "bad boy". He told me that he uses this "bad boy image" as a kind of protective shield because he feels that everyone around him that...

A.   9 August 2008: Thank you for the advice, it's really helped a lot and sorted out my head a bit. He didn't drive in the end so I told him how much I appreciated him taking what I had said on board. Thanks again! Bubbloo24 xx ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of ten months, likes to be with his friends more than me, when we get together he makes me cry or gets me mad, I am thinking of dumping him, would you?

Q.   SO I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO IS INTO HIS HOMIES MORE THEN ME I MEAN LIKE WE HARLY TALK AND WHEN WE DO HE AKES ME CRY OR GETS E MAD WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 10 MONTHS and I DONT EVEN GET TO SEE HIM BUT LIKE I SAID HE ALWAYS ENDS UP GETTING ME MAD ...

A.   7 August 2008: Is this really your ideal man? Someone who you rarely see and when you do, makes you cry and distressed? Never settle for second best. You're worth more than that. I think you know what you have to do, hun. Get rid. Take care xx... (read in full...)

I've missed him so much since he's been locked up, I'm going crazy!

Q.   I miss my man so bad, but he's locked up, all i can think about is him, and i'm going crazy. I try to keep myself busy but i'm still thinking about him. What should i do? ...

A.   7 August 2008: My boyfriend is probably gonna get put inside for a few months too for something he didn't actually do. So I know how you feel. As the others have said, go see him as much as you can and write letters to him. If you don't mind me asking, how long... (read in full...)

Does anyone know of any good ways to reduce the the cramps and general discomfort during periods?

Q.   This is not quite relationship directed, more of an issue of those monthly 'lady problems'! I suffer from quite uncomfortable periods and after 3 years of taking the pill i forgot how unbearable it was when i stopped a month ago. So when i starte...

A.   7 August 2008: I went to the doctor after having really bad pains that were so bad I had to stay off school for two days and he prescrbed me anti inflammatory pills. I'm sure if you went to your doctor they could prescribe something for you. xx... (read in full...)

My periods have been regular for more than seven years - until now. What could be causing the difference?

Q.   am 17 years old and started my periods when i was 9 and they have been regular but this month my period only lasted 3 days when they usually last for 5 to 6 days there is no chance of me being pregnant i was just wondering is this normal ...

A.   31 July 2008: Yeah it's normal hun. I was regular every month until recently and now it's all over the place since the stress of my exams! Don't worry, little things in life can change when you're on your period and when you finish, little things like stress, ... (read in full...)

Thrilled about a new pregnancy! What is something special that I can do for my wife?

Q.   Hi all not really a question but more of an announcement! I want to tell the world but I think this is the closest I shall get! I am very excited, my beautiful goddess of a wife has just informed me we are about to have another child!! It wil...

A.   31 July 2008: CONGRATULATIONS! :D xx... (read in full...)

I'm having unbearable period cramps, is this normal? What can I do?

Q.   Hey, I'm 15 and I started my period when I was 11. So I've been used to it for 4 years now. It has always been extremely heavy, but then I got a little used to that too. But for the last couple times I've had my period, I get unbearable pains, ...

A.   25 July 2008: I have this very same problem. You need to get some to take you to your doctor who will probably prescribe anti inflammatory pills. I was given Menfanamic acid and this helped SO much. I had to leave my AS level exam because of this so I can real... (read in full...)

I'm self conscious about my weight and small eyes, please help me!

Q.   well im 12 years old and weigh 11 stone. im very concious about my weight. i dont look 11 stone but under all my clothes im a mess. this has put me of having a boyfriend and meeting new boys. all my friends have boyfriends and i dont. not alot of ...

A.   23 July 2008: I used to be like this and have this problem.. although I've never been threatened to be jumped on. As the previous answerer said, it is the weak people who bullies like to pick on. It's summer holidays soon, yeah? Over this time, you're gonna ge... (read in full...)

My roomate has a girlfriend but he wants sex with me. Is he just using me?

Q.   My friend and I have slept together a few times. I talk to this boy everyday. We get along great, trust each other and have not once argued. We tell each other stuff we would not tell anyone else. He just recently started seeing this gir...

A.   22 July 2008: You know this says wrong all over it so if it feels wrong, it will 99% certain that it is wrong. He wants to have his cake and eat it, what Askoldersister has said is all true. If he wanted you, he would try to be with you, but he wants both of you.... (read in full...)

The thought of getting caught really turns me on!

Q.   the thought of getting caught really turns me on when were having sex, i know it sounds really strange. when me and my boyfriend are having sex, i prefer to do it like, in his bedroom when his parents are in, or in his car, where its risky, i dont ...

A.   22 July 2008: You ain't the only one hun!! xx... (read in full...)

I love her. I don't know how to tell her.

Q.   We are just friends but I love her. She was my best friend but I fall in love first time I saw her. I don't know how to tell her. I'm sad and if I don't tell her I'll die :(...

A.   22 July 2008: I think you should just go and tell her. You have one life, and you will probably regret it if you don't tell her. If she's your very best friend and very understanding, it won't affect you both if you tell her how you feel and she doesn't feel the... (read in full...)

Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???...

A.   21 July 2008: Then there's nothing stopping you :) Go for it :D xx... (read in full...)

Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???...

A.   21 July 2008: If it isn't a problem, don't make it a problem. If you're both happy then go for it, but you might wanna get her to have a talk with her parents about it first. Age is only a number. If you act maturely about this there shouldn't be a problem. Be... (read in full...)

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