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Why would my friend want to hurt my feelings by telling me others say that I'm smelly?!?
Q. Hey. I've ben really bothered with this ...i think ive been going crazy just thinking about this.. So my friends calls me up to her and says, "hey..i heard someone talking about you..." and me, hoping it was something good , became all excited....
A. 17 November 2007: Shower everyday, use antiperspirant and deodrant and if needs be, bring the can to school and use it there if it bothers you.
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She called me a slut. Could he still love her?
Q. My boyfriend is going out with me but he talks to his ex. him and me been going out 6months, and his ex is that touchy type girl. she lived far away, about 8hrs away. I sadly had to move into dorms for college n mine is 1hr away. his ex just came ...
A. 31 October 2007: I'd talk to him about it. Don't yell but just say that you feel a bit concerned about the ex just appearing back again and you feel a bit upset by it.
Personally, I wouldn't stick around with a guy who still hangs out with someone who calls his girl... (read in full...)
What do I day to her?
Q. hi i been in a realtionship with my girlfreind for over 2 years and i feel like the passion is gone and we dont talk and when we talk i really dont no wat to say to her i need help...
A. 31 October 2007: You need to talk to her about it. Say that you feel that things arn't going as they should be. If there's no communication within this relationship, you're not ever gonna know how the other feels and that is a BIG problem.
Say that you feel that... (read in full...)
I love my aunt
Q. I am very fond of my step-aunt who is 18 years older than me and connect with her intellectually, emotionally and perhaps even spiritually. She has been married for a long time but we have fallen deeply in love with each other and want to marry ...
A. 29 October 2007: Woah! She's a relative AND she's married.
She's emotionally blackmailing you into getting what she wants with all the " My life is over if you don't marry me"
You KNOW it can't happen. It would break up your family should they find out - This is ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)
Q. Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...
A. 9 October 2007: YAYYYYYYY!!! :D :D :D :D :D... (read in full...)
He's 21, I'm 14 Should I ruin my plans OR dump my love.
Q. hi ive ot a problem because i'm young(14) and my boyfriend is older(21).please don't tell me how wrong our relationship is n illegal i've heard it so many times. my mom isn't worried shes meet the guy and she lets him stay round every night which i ...
A. 6 October 2007: Honey, he's not YOUR responsiblity. He's emotionally blackmailing you. If you dump him then you have no responsibilty for what he does. You carry no blame if he does anything to himself.
He's a fully grown man! Hun, get rid! He sounds like he's... (read in full...)
He abuses me, ...so why do I still love him?
Q. i am a 20 year old and my boyfriend is 31. we have been dating for a whole year and 6 months, well everything was perfect what any girl dreams for. its been like 6 whole months that our relationship just turned upside down. he calls me names ...
A. 6 October 2007: Lovely, you HAVE to get outta there. You can't POSSIBLY stay in this relationship. You will find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve. I promise you. I've been in a similar situation and I'm living proof that you CAN live after this ... (read in full...)
He's 24 and I'm 17 and wants to meet up. Is this too big an age gap?
Q. I meet a guy a month ago..who's 24 i dont think he realised how old i was ( 17) when he came over started talking to me and asked for my number, i wasnt sure of his age either. A few weeks ago he added me on facebook and he saw how old i...
A. 8 September 2007: Heya hun, to me, he seems a bit too enthusiastic to meet you... if you really want to meet him, meet him in a public place.
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 27. The age gap is no problem between us. It shouldn't be a problem for you unless you make it a... (read in full...)
I have had a miscarriage and don't know how to tell my partner?
Q. I found out thursday that I was 6weeks pregnant with his child. He really wants to be a dad so I had great pleasure in telling him on Saturday when I saw him on his own (finally!)The new problem is, is that I miss carried yesterday, and I'm so ...
A. 6 September 2007: Well done hun, it's a very good thing you have done.
I'm sure you will have a child or children in the future, just give it some time, like you said and decide when the time is right.
I'm glad the situation made you feel closer. It would seem lik... (read in full...)
I have had a miscarriage and don't know how to tell my partner?
Q. I found out thursday that I was 6weeks pregnant with his child. He really wants to be a dad so I had great pleasure in telling him on Saturday when I saw him on his own (finally!)The new problem is, is that I miss carried yesterday, and I'm so ...
A. 5 September 2007: Firstly, I'm so so so sorry to hear of your loss. I agree with the others, plan what your going to say and when you're going to tell him and say it. He will be able to support you and I'm sure that he won't be angry at you. Yes, he will be upset by ... (read in full...)
Does my married boyfriend still love me?
Q. My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six ...
A. 5 September 2007: Hun, I really really doubt that this will work for you. He's married and with children, staying with you would mean that he'd lose that. You need to step away from their relationship now and find someone who's single. He's used you for sex and now ... (read in full...)
My mum has MS and my dad is having an affair with my mums best mate! Do I tell???
Q. My mum has MS (Multiple Sclerosis) and uses a walking stick most of the time. But even when she does not use a walking stick, she totters around and can barely walk. She cries most of the time and is very depressed. Dad has told her he is leaving ...
A. 3 September 2007: Honey, keep it to yourself. What a horrid situation you're in. Yes, I agree with the other aunts, tell your dad you know about it and tell him how hurt you are by is and how disappointed you are in him. This may help him realise what he's actually ... (read in full...)
Do girls like chest hair?
Q. Do girls like chest hair??...
A. 3 September 2007: Yeah, like hlskitten said - everyone's different. I personally like a bit of hair. Not too much though. I'd say if you've got chest hair leave it there and don't try to wax it off or something!!! I think women look for more valuable things in a rel... (read in full...)
My bloke went off with my best mate, they split and now he seems to want to come back? What do you think?
Q. i broke up with ma boyfriend 2 months ago,actual he started dating my so called bestfriend,i hear they broke up, he never wanted to talk to me but a month a go he started sendin me IMs asking me if i hate him,why am i acting like he is not ...
A. 1 September 2007: Tell him to f*ck off in my opinion. He hurt you and now he thinks he can click his fingers and you'll come running. Is that a relationship you want?
As well as this, this so called " friendship" is just to try and get back with you, and I'm pret... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 31 August 2007: Well, in all honesty, I think that you've already made your mind up about this one haven't you?
We can't make you stop loving someone. No one can stop how you feel.
It's up to you really what you do with your life, I hope that in some way it will ... (read in full...)
He loses his erection when it comes to condoms. Help!
Q. My boyfriend never has any problems getting an erection during foreplay. He can whenever and wherever. But when it comes to sex he goes limp. He says its due to nerves. Ive tried helping him right before but when he goes to put the condom on it ...
A. 30 August 2007: Maybe try puttin it on for him?? give him oral and then wam it on! Make him feel really good and then put it on for him. Maybe that will work? it's worth a try!
xx take care xx... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and me and my girlfriend keep breaking up. Should we be together? Help please.
Q. me and my girlfreind keep breaking up and getting back together over and over should we be together i am eleven...
A. 30 August 2007: Hun, if you don't see a future and it's hurting you, it's probably best to end it and move on.
You're only eleven after all, you've got a whole life time of dating and meeting new people. If you don't think the relationship's worth saving, it's prob... (read in full...)
He broke up with me and I texted him that I love him but got no reply!
Q. My ex has been to pick up his things and we sat and chatted for a whole hour and a half and he was saying things like he needs time off work and hes not feeling well etc. He works as a Taxi Driver and lives over 200 miles away we met on the internet ...
A. 30 August 2007: Sorry hun, he's made up his mind. When someone hugs someone goodbye and says something like " take care of yourself" they're either not coming back, or not coming back for a looong time. And it would seem that at that point when he hugged you, he ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 30 August 2007: You are married. And if your sister in law is a good enough sister and friend, she will tell your wife what you are up to. This simply cannot happen and you KNOW it.
You can't do anything about it. Simple as. If you even attempt to, you are chea... (read in full...)
I broke up with him, but I really want to get back together
Q. hello all! I dumped my boyfriend just over a week ago i really love him but felt it was the right thing to do! He isnt ready to settle down yet and that is what i wanted! I still really love him and in the time i have been apart from him i ha...
A. 20 August 2007: Hi anonymous. I think that he feels that he can't kiss you because, as he has said -he still loves you, but you rejected him. And as kissing you would make him have stronger feelings for you and as it is, he was hurt when you broke up with him ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to get rid of it, if I don't then he does not want anything to do with me.
Q. I've been with my Asian boyfriend for 3 years, in that 3 years he was made to get married by his dad. I've got 1 child to him and another to another man but he has brought her up as his own, now I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to ...
A. 20 August 2007: Get rid hun. What a bastard. He has no respect for you what so ever. If you wanna keep the baby, keep the baby, it's your body that is affected. Not his.
There are two people who create a baby. It's not only one person's choice what you do with... (read in full...)
How can I spice up the action or revive this relationship?
Q. Help me with my relationship... My girlfriend is getting bored and and I don't know what it is she wants, she just says she's bored but loves me still. How can I spice up the action or revive this relationship?...
A. 20 August 2007: Take her out on a date, tell her to be ready at 7 on Friday or something but don't tell her why!
Take her out for a meal, go watch a movie,buy her some flowers or something. And on that date tell her how much she means to you when it's sunset or s... (read in full...)
Is it ok for me to date her?
Q. Hi i'm 22 year old guy and i was wondering if it is ok to date a 16 year old girl. I'm really quite fond of her as i have been freinds with her family for many years, but i met her only a year ago.Though i did find her attractive, and she admitted ...
A. 19 August 2007: I'm a 16 year old girl with a boyfriend who's 27. I think that only you can decide whether you're willing to take it on. I don't think that the age gap would be much of a problem, but I think that there will be people who will come on here and think ... (read in full...)
Why can't he tell me he loves me?
Q. Hello, i have been with my bf for a few years and we now live together. He no longer tells me he loves me, i know he does deep inside but he find it very hard to express himself. He find it's very hard to show any nice feeling towards me...but...
A. 19 August 2007: Absolutly brilliany advice there from skye.
Try to do what she has said sweetie. I couldn't posibly add more to that sound advice!
Take care and good luck
x... (read in full...)
What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?
Q. What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?...
A. 17 August 2007: I think everyone has slightly different views on this. I mean, it all means the same but with slightly different views on the term. If that's what you think a committed relationship is then no one will judge you.... (read in full...)
I was a mistake getting involved with this guy, but I'm still hooked on him! What do I do?
Q. I'm upset at everything...I shouldn't have had sex with the guy that I liked...it was a mistake. It was a mistake talking to him. I know he didnt want to hurt me...but yet here he is doing it. I'm tired of playing the fool. I'm tired of being nice ...
A. 17 August 2007: Right ok, hun, you know what you did was a big mistake. Here's where you draw a line in the sand and say "It's over."
Realise that everyone makes mistakes, everyone gets hurt by making mistakes in love especially and I think you need to real... (read in full...)
Been sleeping with, and in love with a guy who has a girlfriend!
Q. I'm in love with this guy who has a girlfriend. We have been sleeping together for 8 months now. Almost two weeks ago he said he was going to leave her and be with me. He said just give him two weeks to end things with her. Well the two weeks is ...
A. 17 August 2007: Hun, he's a guy. He loves having two women after him and I'm sorry to say but you are most likely his bit on the side. I doubt he'll leave his supposedly happy relationship with his girlfriend to be with you.
It would be too hard for him to just... (read in full...)
What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?
Q. What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?...
A. 16 August 2007: It means that you are totally devoted to your partner and neither of the two people within that relationship would cheat on eachother and will always be truthful to one another. Basically, they would never do anything to hurt the other person in the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend
Q. okay well i have two guys that really like me and it is confusing cause i am dating one of them but the other one i have liked him for 3 years and i realllllly like him and he reallllly likes me too but the thing is is the guy that i am with now ...
A. 14 August 2007: I say you take a time out - go on a break with your bf, don't see either of them until you've sorted out in your head which one you like coz it ain't fair of you to keep dragging them both along and tbh, I can see why your bf is fed up of it.
T... (read in full...)
How do i confront her?
Q. I've been with my for boyfriend for one year starting today! My best friend used to date his brother, but he's moved on. She continues to come to his house though. I recently discovered that she brought a girl over to his house and was trying to ...
A. 13 August 2007: I think you should just tell her straight off in the face. Tell her to explain everything. You deserve that much.
If she won't give you an explanation, get rid. What a bitch!... (read in full...)
When my son tells his girlfriend that she can't have her way, she threatens to harm herself.
Q. Hello, my nineteen year old son has a girlfriend. They have been dating for about 8 months, he away at University. Last term as he was preparing to go back she asked how 'can you choose university over me if you loved me you would stay'. Now she is ...
A. 13 August 2007: I think he needs to sit her down and talk to her calmly saying "I feel that I have no control of my own life because it feels that a lot of the time, if I mention something that is something you don't want, I can't do it because I'm worried you'll ... (read in full...)
I'm moving away, but I don't want to dump my bf however my mate likes him!
Q. i im moveing from a small village to the lake districk it is about 3 hours away i have been going out with this really nice boy i love him and i dont want to dump him but one off my m8ts fancies him (so she isnt that good of a m8t) WHAT SHALL I DO ...
A. 12 August 2007: Still go out with him and see how it goes. You arn't gonna know till you try are you?
As for your mate, she's not in the equation. It's you and him so she's nothing to do with your relationship is she?There's your relationship with him, and your... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend just asked me if I want to "mess around"
Q. Hi there, I've just received a text from my ex boyfriend asking if we want to mess around..! We broke up about 6 months ago and we've 'messed around' once since then. I do still really like him and I know that we could never get back together be...
A. 12 August 2007: If you still like your ex, stay away from him.
Doing sexual things with him will just make it soo much worse.
I've been there, I know.
You know it will do no good for you what so ever, it'll just satisfy his needs. You don't wanna be used like th... (read in full...)
I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?
Q. I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?...
A. 12 August 2007: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-acts-young-so-does-that-make-my.html Hang on, isn't this you again??
If he tried anything with you, and someone found out, he'd lose his job and have a bad reputation and as duskyrowe said - he would never be a... (read in full...)
The guy i am seeing has a pregnant girlfriend, what should i do?
Q. I've been seeing a lad that I've really started to like but he also has a girlfriend but the real problem is she's pregnant now but I started seeing him before we knew this but by that time I really really liked him, it all got too much for me the ...
A. 12 August 2007: Woah... I'm sorry I have to agree with Eddie. He won't leave his pregnant gf for you. She was probably really happy that she's pregnant.. until you told her what had happened.
I think you and him have caused enough problems together and got noth... (read in full...)
My daughter is going out with other men while I look after her baby!
Q. My daughter is in a relationship and has a baby, recently my other daughter told me she is going out with other men and whilst I have the baby too, and I thought she was out with a girlfriend, what shall I say or do about this? Her partner is a ...
A. 12 August 2007: You need to sit your daughter down and say "Look, what you told me the other day has really affected me. You know I'll always be here for you but I feel that I'm being taken for granted as I'm constantly having to look after your child. Have you ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 12 August 2007: Awww I'm sorry salad barbarian.. we're all so depressed!!!!!... (read in full...)
He acts young so does that make my relationship with a 26 year old ok (I'm 14)... ?
Q. Is it ok to have a relationship with a guy whose age gap is 12yrs.older than you? I'm 14 and he's 26... I mean, he looks like a teenager and sometimes acts like one... and we can relate to some things......
A. 12 August 2007: Hey, I'm 16 and I'm going out with someone alot older so I know where you are now.
As the person before me suggested, I think you should speak to your parents, I did and I just said that I had feelings for an older guy and he felt them back and they... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and he's 27. How do I tell my mom I really like him?
Q. i have been talking to this lad lately and i really like him and he likes me to, we have been texting secretly because i can let my mam find out because he is 27, when i am 18 i am hoping to tell my mam and getting with this lad i need to know how ...
A. 11 August 2007: I've been here. Except I'm 16 and he's 27, sit your mum down and tell her that you have met a nice guy, he's quite a bit older than you but he's prepared to show that he's not some sort of weirdo. I wouldnt tell her tha tyou've alreayd started a ... (read in full...)
I have a couple of concerns about marrying my older internet boyfriend guy!
Q. Hey everyone, I just made my account on this site last night and thus far, I've answered everything I could honestly. So, can I get a little help? I have a boyfriend of almost a year, and I love him more than anything. He's twenty eight years old ...
A. 11 August 2007: Hey hun, I've got the same age difference between me and my bf and I met him over the internet!!
lol!
Well, To be honest lovely, considering it's only been a year, and considering you are only 17, I would suggest, as everyone else on here has said... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Anti-spam technology now live :-)
Q. Hi everyone After the recent spate of "spammings" I've introduced some anti-spam measures. I don't want to go into them all in detail here but there are numerous systems in place now to help stop, mitigate and allow you to report spam. The...
A. 11 August 2007: Nice goin Andrew whooop!!! :)... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 11 August 2007: Haha! Ace Idea there Jamer70!!
And very true indeed. I want the witch's hussy love! lol!... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 11 August 2007: ...A hussy witch who spreads the "love" ..
I think she's got some nerve to even think that we wouldn't see that she had sent messages to ALL OF US after saying that we'd all been "specially chosen" or something crap like that. So... she thinks w... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 11 August 2007: lmao! Jamer70! "send a little magic to make your heart a little lighter".. so she's witch now??!...... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 10 August 2007: LMAO Martini! We should sooo fly her here
:)
x... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 8 August 2007: Thanks Andrew, a lot of ppl are getting these messages, I'm one of them!
Thanks for the notice :)... (read in full...)
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