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Hey,my name is jacinta,im 22 and from ireland.i joined this site to help others,i reali like giving advice and helping people and im the first one my friends come to when they have a problem so i quess dat a good thing :)im sure i might have a few question for ye so if ye guys could help me out wit a bit of advice that wit be great too. Thanks xxxx

My girlfriend returned a gift I bought!

Q.   I have been dating my GF for four years now and this year is our fifth year. The problem is since 2008 we started a long distance relationship because we both went to different universities, and now I am working while studying at the same time I ...

A.   25 January 2011: What an ungrateful person.!! she should have been delightd wit ur gift instead she gives it back to u and gives out to u 4 not buyin a dearer more fashionable phone.she has no consideration 4ur feeling bcos if she did she would nevr have done that. ... (read in full...)

I am horrible to my girlfriend when drunk

Q.   I want to know peoples views on what I should do, and how I can ensure this never happens again. This new years myself and my girlfriend went to a party. I got extremely drunk. I hurt my girfriend's wrists by holding them extremely hard (...

A.   2 January 2011: Simple,give up the drink,it dont agree with you,you act disgraceful with it,i mean come on you held your gf hands so hard she had bruising and your askin what should you do,give it up,plain and simple.... (read in full...)

I just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a ...

A.   31 December 2010: Hes one ungrateful guy,he should have been so thankful and grateful that u sacrificed ur sleep to do his work for him,he obviously takes you 2much 4granted because he shouldnt have asked u to do it in the first place and then he had to cheek to try ... (read in full...)

First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few ...

A.   31 December 2010: it think its definetly because of his son,hes his number one priority when hes taking care of him which is admirable,he seems interestd in you so i wouldnt stress about it.im sure hel get in contact when hes finishd his time wit his son.x... (read in full...)

While she has all these boundaries, I have needs too. What do I do??

Q.   I have a real problem and hope the folks here can give me some advice. I was previously married for 18 years. The relationship was loveless, sexless, and just bad. I felt unwanted, unneeded, etc. No sexual contact, no hugs, kisses, etc. ...

A.   31 December 2010: To be honest i tink ur a bit selfish,al ur tinkin of is u,u u,wat bt her.she has said no many times to u and is clearly uncomfortable in wat ur asking her to do.no is no nw get over it or your goin to lose the person u love because ur nagging her ... (read in full...)

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

Q.   My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

A.   31 December 2010: Hes worried bout your feelings for him,he prob thinks you dont want to be wit him anymore bcos he broke ur trust.have a chat wit him and ye should be able to sort things out!x... (read in full...)

Girlfriend finds me physically repulsive now

Q.   I would like to get a read on what is considered "normal" loss of attraction in a relationship, so I can at least put upper and lower bounds on what would be reasonable as it applies to my circumstances. Backstory: I am 31 years old, and have be...

A.   30 December 2010: I think there is way more to this than u putting on a few pounds,yere relationship does not sound too good,everything youve said about her makes me believe that shes not happy in this relationship.i recommend sitting her down and asking her how she ... (read in full...)

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

Q.   Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i di...

A.   30 December 2010: If dat woman had been interested he wouldnt be wit you right now,dont believe his lies,uve seen the proof for yourself.you cant realisticaly stay wit this man,itl eat you up inside knowing wat you know.good luck.x... (read in full...)

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

Q.   So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

A.   30 December 2010: im really sorry to tel u dis but dis guy does not want to be wit u,.doubt he has aspergers,he just sounds to me like a lazy guy who doesnt want to make an effort wit u Nd is hoping ul get the hint,i would seriously cancel moving, uprooting urself ... (read in full...)

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

Q.   So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

A.   30 December 2010: im really sorry to tel u dis but dis guy does not want to be wit u,.doubt he has aspergers,he just sounds to me like a lazy guy who doesnt want to make an effort wit u,i would seriously tink more bt uprooting urself for this guy,he wasnt even happy ... (read in full...)

Sometimes it's like he's choosing weed over me

Q.   My boyfriend is a really good guy who treats me well but I hate the fact that he smokes so much (I don't smoke at all) I don't mind that he smokes with his friends or on occasion but he can't go one day without getting high. There were several ...

A.   28 December 2010: yes,if its affecting ur relationship dis much u need to give him an ultimatum,eithr he gives it up altogetr r he doesnt do it around u or before ur due to spend time wit him etc, up to him den to c whats more important you or the weed!!if he ... (read in full...)

Why did my sister in law include photos of my husband's exs from 20 years ago?

Q.   Two months after our wedding, at the family gathering for Christmas, my husband's sister presented everyone with a slide show put together of all the kids growing up. She hooked it up to a big screen television and we all began to watch. At frst it ...

A.   28 December 2010: No u didnt over react,what she did was very disrespectful to u and ur husband,im glad that you left the room and that your husband stood up for you.personally i think it was intentional on ur sister n laws part but i dont undestand y she would do ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship

Q.   Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...

A.   27 December 2010: I agree wit all of the above,he should not have degraded u like that,it has completely ruined ur confidence in the relationship.get rid of him.u deserve way better!... (read in full...)

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