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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...
Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Am I losing my libido?
Q. Hi guys! It's me, again. That boyfriend that I've been talking about? Yeah, we've been together for over a year now, (hurrah, huzzah, love conquers all!) and I couldn't be happier with him. I do have a little problem, though. Recently, my li...
A. 17 December 2012: "And no, I don't expect an orgasm every time we have sex. More often than not I don't have one- which is perfectly okay. I'm more emotional than I am physical and he tends to be the same way. :)"
I wouldn't dismiss this so quickly. You say your libi... (read in full...)
Am I losing my libido?
Q. Hi guys! It's me, again. That boyfriend that I've been talking about? Yeah, we've been together for over a year now, (hurrah, huzzah, love conquers all!) and I couldn't be happier with him. I do have a little problem, though. Recently, my li...
A. 16 December 2012: Yes depo can absolutely cause a loss of libido. Every hormonal bc is different so if there was one you tried that didn't give you side-effects, you may want to try going back to it. Or you can also try a non-hormonal one for awhile (like condoms) to ... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 14 December 2012: "It's no more a lie of omission than not telling a girl you think she's fat. I guess we should tell everyone, everything and have no privacy just in case that thing is something they don't like? I don't think so."
That's a ridiculous comparis... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 14 December 2012: "It would be lying by omission if I thought the woman I was seeing wouldn't like it, I never thought that."
If you never thought that or think that then why do you put so much effort into completely eliminating any evidence? If you thought she woul... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 14 December 2012: If you went "oh Angelina Jolie is super hot" it's a completely different thing from going "oh Angelina Jolie is super hot" and then going, finding naked photos of her and masturbating to them.
It is lying by omission. I read your article and you ... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 14 December 2012: Cerberus you have admitted that you have completely hidden your porn from many of your previous girlfriends. You don't know if they would have been bothered because you were lying to them and never got caught.
Gushing over a celebrity is very dif... (read in full...)
I just found out a girl I really like has a boyfriend. Should I still attempt to get to know her?
Q. First, just a short question, should I feel sorry for flirting with her a little bit before I knew she's already seeing someone? She was really nice about everything towards me. Anyway, I asked this girl I like for her number, but she said tha...
A. 14 December 2012: Male anon, we are not property, we think for ourselves and decide who we are with.... (read in full...)
Now I'm being punished for what goes on in her mind only!
Q. For the past two years or so, my girlfriends insecurity has got worse and worse. I am constantly told who I am looking at, who I find attractive and told I am flirting with everyone she believes I find attractive. I have put up with a lot. I now ...
A. 13 December 2012: It's not really bizarre at all, she's simply a cheater who doesn't cope well with being called out. Just leave.... (read in full...)
I feel bad about my sex appeal knowing mean watch much better on a porn movie. Am I second best in a guy's estimation if he watches porn?
Q. I know there are many questions about porn, but plese bear with me. So when men watch porn, do they watch it for the women's bodies? Especially girl on girl, or girls masturbating, or stripping, ie. porn that doesn't involve men at all (so it's not...
A. 13 December 2012: If you dress up for Halloween you are still a real person. They wear a lot of makeup, but that doesn't mean what happens on screen isn't actually happening in real life.
This whole "women just don't understand" thing is a total cop out. It's muc... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 13 December 2012: "My girlfriend is very insecure of me seeing porn. Still, it does not stop her from watching it and commenting on the size of men`s penises. I think insecurity and double standards go hand in hand most of the time."
She could also be doing it on p... (read in full...)
Now I'm being punished for what goes on in her mind only!
Q. For the past two years or so, my girlfriends insecurity has got worse and worse. I am constantly told who I am looking at, who I find attractive and told I am flirting with everyone she believes I find attractive. I have put up with a lot. I now ...
A. 13 December 2012: "I am projecting my own dishonesty on to her"
Other way around dude! Lucky for you, she doesn't deal well with being put on the spot and you know her true colors. It's classic cheating behavior for the cheater to accuse the other of constant... (read in full...)
I want my mom to know that I'm sexually active
Q. Hi I have a little bit of a dilemma... I am 16, nearly 17 and am sexually active (I live in the UK) I have been with my boyfriend with 10 months and we have only ever had sex with eachother and we only did it after about 7 months.We did it...
A. 13 December 2012: Why do you want her to know? I really doubt she wants to know, what would you gain by telling her? How would it help your relationship with her or with your boyfriend to tell her?... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 13 December 2012: "I got no respect at all for them. I think they have no decency, yet I get off hearing them do nasty things."
This is why porn is harmful. Do you realize how much of a hypocrite you are? You dehumanize these women and act hateful towards them, but ... (read in full...)
I feel bad about my sex appeal knowing mean watch much better on a porn movie. Am I second best in a guy's estimation if he watches porn?
Q. I know there are many questions about porn, but plese bear with me. So when men watch porn, do they watch it for the women's bodies? Especially girl on girl, or girls masturbating, or stripping, ie. porn that doesn't involve men at all (so it's not...
A. 13 December 2012: Can we please stop calling porn stars sluts and whores and saying they're "fake?" They are real human beings. I know that if you're feeling insecure about porn, either from watching and not measuring up or your partner watching and you feeling hurt ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend Watching Porn In A Long Distance Relationship
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now from opposite sides of the world. We are both 18 and we have not seen each other within the last 3 years. Everything is great except for the fact that he watches perverted things like women ...
A. 13 December 2012: The porn isn't the issue here, the issue is that you are "in a relationship" but you haven't been in a relationship in 3 years! You aren't even visiting. You either need to make plans to be together, or break up because this just isn't ... (read in full...)
I just found out a girl I really like has a boyfriend. Should I still attempt to get to know her?
Q. First, just a short question, should I feel sorry for flirting with her a little bit before I knew she's already seeing someone? She was really nice about everything towards me. Anyway, I asked this girl I like for her number, but she said tha...
A. 13 December 2012: No don't try to get to know her better. Either she's taken (off limits) or she's rejected you (off limits), but either way, she is off limits and you need to stop pursuing her. Getting rejected sucks, but you just have to dust yourself off and move ... (read in full...)
Why did he change his relationship status and then go back and change it again the same day?
Q. Why would my friend change his FB status to engaged and then change it back to in a relationship two hours later??? Haven't asked him yet but curious about what you guys think. Doesn't this strike you as being very strange? How can you make that ...
A. 13 December 2012: We are not him so we can't know. Maybe she turned him down. Maybe they changed their mind. Maybe they wanted to surprise someone. Why do you want to know and why can't you ask him?... (read in full...)
Is attraction usually mutual (meaning it is unspoken between 2 people) or am I looking too hard for signs?
Q. I am so emotionally confused right now. I am married to a man I love, but I am mentally attracted to someone else. I am not sure what to make of this man's actions. I was once taking a long walk and he was driving in the neighbourhood. His car slow...
A. 13 December 2012: I think it's probably better for your marriage to assume he's not. Also he sounds like a terribly creepy person. Driving slowly beside you? That just gives me the heeby jeebies.... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my old flame?
Q. I dated this girl in high school. We broke up the summer after her senior year (my junior year). We ended up going to the same college, and screwing around a bit my freshman year (her sophomore year). We occasionally talked here and there after ...
A. 13 December 2012: Yes go for it! This is like one of those movies about fate/love. I don't believe in fate, but if I did, I would say it sounds like you guys are meant for each other. Go for it already!... (read in full...)
How can she just forget 6 years, our dog, our house, and our family with someone who came in the picture for 3 months?
Q. Im a 25 year old male, who just broke it off with my girlfriend of 6 years, due to her cheating. I cheated on her once early in the relationship,when we were already serious. I never told her,but she always had her suspicion. I know there was no ...
A. 13 December 2012: Sorry but you dug your own grave here long ago. She knows you cheated, she knows you lied, and because of that she likely never formed the kind of devotion and love she otherwise would have. She should have left, but she probably didn't want to ... (read in full...)
The only way he'll let me break up with him is if I tell him the truth!
Q. So im kind of stuck in a pickle. what do you do when you dont want to hurt someones feelings, break them by telling them the truth ? That after 4 years of dating you went away alone for acouple months and in just 3 months felt happier with someone ...
A. 12 December 2012: Is he chaining you to a wall? Then he doesn't have to give you permission to leave, you just leave. Don't wait for him to "let" you, just leave if you want. You are going to hurt his feelings no matter what happens, it's normal in a breakup. It ... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?
Q. Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am ...
A. 12 December 2012: Scientists have wasted a lot of time on this, but when people in general watch porn the brain thinks what's happening on screen is happening to them. It's called mirror neurons. Even if the person isn't consciously thinking, oh I want to pretend ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend left me pregnant, doesn't care to see our child or pay for anything,
Q. My ex boyfriend left me pregnant, we already have a child together and he has two before me. When we broke up the first time, he was on craigslist looking for men and women for sex and i took him back, he was looking at porn also and when we were ...
A. 12 December 2012: He is a serial dad. Guys like him get off on the power it gives them, to get women pregnant and then leave them, wrecking their lives. It means he's a control freak. By getting women pregnant and walking out, he feels like he has complete control ... (read in full...)
I've never been in a relationship, before, but there is a girl I want to ask out. Advice Please!
Q. Hi i have a problem im a sophmore in high school that has never been in a real relationship ( sadly never even kissed a girl) but there is a girl in my biology class that i get my mind off of but there are two problems we hardly ever talk,she is a ...
A. 12 December 2012: A sophomore dating a freshman is not creepy at all. You need to just get up the courage and talk to her. Walk with her to her next class, sit next to her in class, etc... Just strike up some conversations. If she's friendly, ask her out after a ... (read in full...)
My bf wants pics of me should I send them?
Q. Hi Recently my bf asked me to send pics of myself in underwear I love him and trust him and I want to do it... its not I don't feel comfortable with it and he said if I don't want to do it its fine but I don't want him thinking I am some kind...
A. 12 December 2012: I have been in a similar situation where someone I knew for years and trusted completely and totally used similar photos to completely ruin me. It was horrible. We're not trying to tell you you're stupid, I'm sorry if you're reading it like that. ... (read in full...)
I feel bad about my sex appeal knowing mean watch much better on a porn movie. Am I second best in a guy's estimation if he watches porn?
Q. I know there are many questions about porn, but plese bear with me. So when men watch porn, do they watch it for the women's bodies? Especially girl on girl, or girls masturbating, or stripping, ie. porn that doesn't involve men at all (so it's not...
A. 12 December 2012: Your boyfriend sounds like an ass to be honest. He seems to have absorbed every possible negative message from porn and treats you like you would expect a guy raised on porn to treat a woman. Like a sex toy to live out his porn fantasies who doesn't ... (read in full...)
My friend is 35 and has never been to a gynecologist. How can I convince her to go?
Q. I would like to ask for advice about my friend. I’m worried about her. She categorically refuses to go to a doctor that’s so important to any woman’s health – gynecologist. We’re also colleagues and our job is asking all employees to do some medical ...
A. 12 December 2012: You can't make her go unfortunately. If she has severe anxiety about the doctor and would rather risk her health than try to cope with it, there's nothing beyond giving her nudges that you can do. It sounds like she has a doctor phobia, she might ... (read in full...)
I walked away from a man I cannot be with. Have I made the right choice?
Q. Hello Cupids. I made a decision. It was agonizing and emotionally painful for me. And it took me a long time to get to this place...I would like to know if you think I made the right choice. There is this man who I have known for some time. ...
A. 12 December 2012: Pain is normal after cutting contact, even ones made for the right reasons. You made this decision for all the right reasons. It's very hard to get over someone, especially as the rejectee, if they are present in your life. This will get easier over ... (read in full...)
How can I get closure with husband weeping around about lost young lover?
Q. How to get closure when husband's young EA lover keeps him hanging on? I recently found out my husband, 58, of 30 years, had been having an emotional affair for the last 18 months with a young female friend, 28, who already has a live in boyfrien...
A. 12 December 2012: Kick the sad, pathetic, loser out the door! What a pathetic excuse for a person he is! Do not allow him to walk all over you by staying in your house. He made his bed, now he can go lie in it, wherever that is.... (read in full...)
He says he's using porn to remind himself of me
Q. My ex boyfriend and i fell out over his porn use. He claimed he looked at women who look like me to recreate the joy he had from the night before, he was a virgin and claimed it left him buzzing. However he didn't say he often used to it to think ...
A. 12 December 2012: If you have a problem with porn it's unlikely you'll do better than a guy who agrees to stop watching for you. If he stopped for you (like actually stopped, not just hiding it) then, in my opinion, you should give him another chance. That's just my ... (read in full...)
Is there a disease that gets worse when you have sex?
Q. Is there such a disease that gets worse when you have sex and therefore the doctor will be able to tell whether you're having sex or not?...
A. 12 December 2012: Is there a reason you don't want your doctor to know you are sexually active? It's important information for them to know for treating you and what sorts of tests and exams they order. A doctor can usually tell if you've had sex from a pelvic exam, ... (read in full...)
What to do? Shall I give my Gf a third chance?
Q. okay so long story short...i am currently with my gf of 8 months. We started out as best friends and eventually started dating (finally got out of the friendzone :) ) But now we are starting to have problems. In the beginning of the relation...
A. 12 December 2012: She doesn't exactly sound like a gem herself (getting so sloshed she can't even walk home, etc...), but honestly something about the way you are writing this is making me think this isn't all her. I can't quite put my finger on what it is. It sounds ... (read in full...)
Am I losing my libido?
Q. Hi guys! It's me, again. That boyfriend that I've been talking about? Yeah, we've been together for over a year now, (hurrah, huzzah, love conquers all!) and I couldn't be happier with him. I do have a little problem, though. Recently, my li...
A. 12 December 2012: Several things.
As someone already mentioned, are you on libido killing meds? Common ones: birth control pills and anti-anxiety or anti-depressants. Those can wreck your libido. The BCPs can even just randomly start doing it after months of not. ... (read in full...)
I caught my wife exchanging explicit pictures on her cell phone, is divorce imminent?
Q. I caught my wife exchanging explicit pictures on her cell phone she says she has no attraction to this man it was purely an emotional connection I don't know if I will ever be able to trust her again children are involved is divorce imminent?...
A. 11 December 2012: If it was emotional then why was she sending sexy pictures? An emotional affair on it's own can be devastating. If you don't trust her and won't ever again, then it's time to end this.... (read in full...)
Why is my husband into this kind of disgusting porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. I have always been aware that he watched porn (before marriage). The first time I found a video I threw it away, and I didn't say anything to him about it and neither did he. Needless to say he got ...
A. 11 December 2012: "He was so mad at me for thinking that he would get off on rape."
No he's mad at you for finding him out when he's trying to hide it. I doubt he's going to actually rape anyone. I also do not think that what someone is into is a vacuum totally divo... (read in full...)
My sex life with my boyfriend of seven years is unsatisfying.
Q. I am 25 yrs old my boyfriend of 7 years just turned 24 and our sex life sucks we don't have one he sleeps all.day and plays video games all night we don't sleep together anymore when I'm in the mood he tells me I'm a freak to leave him alone he ...
A. 10 December 2012: I think you already know what you have to do. He has some serious issues he needs to work out and doesn't seem willing to do so. If he is unwilling to seek help, you need to cut him loose. Maybe that will be the kick in the ass he needs to get help, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said the doctor told her she had 2 vaginas. Help! Can someone explain this?
Q. this may be a really stupid question on my part, and i apologize in advance if it is. it's just something i've been thinking a lot about recently and i can't seem to find any answers in laymans terms that i can understand on this particular topic. ...
A. 10 December 2012: Most women with this (rare) condition have one vagina that is well formed and one that is not, usually one is shorter and smaller and uncomfortable to have sex with while the other is normal. I'm fairly certain at this point she knows which one is ... (read in full...)
Does anyone feel shame after masturbating?
Q. I've read a lot of testimony from others about feelings of shame after masturbating, and I share a similar experience. However, I am only ashamed after thinking about or viewing certain things that under normal circumstances I would find morally ...
A. 10 December 2012: You probably feel bad that things you know are terrible are getting you off. If it's making you feel bad, stop watching porn and try to think of other things while you masturbate. This website has tons of articles about this stuff:
http:... (read in full...)
She accused me of cheating, but she's on a dating site?
Q. I have had to constantly re-assure my girlfriend since day one. I have put up with allegations that I am cheating or will end up cheating on her. I am often accused of finding others attractive when we are out. Despite this, I have tried to ...
A. 10 December 2012: That's a very common among cheaters. It's called projection.
This cheater or wanna-be cheater is not worth your time.... (read in full...)
My bf wants pics of me should I send them?
Q. Hi Recently my bf asked me to send pics of myself in underwear I love him and trust him and I want to do it... its not I don't feel comfortable with it and he said if I don't want to do it its fine but I don't want him thinking I am some kind...
A. 9 December 2012: Do NOT do it. If anything happens and you two break up, those pictures could end up in the inbox of everyone at your school/online/on facebook/with your parents. That would give him a whole lot of power over you and be a whole lot of risk to you for ... (read in full...)
I know I'm going to break up with him. But am I right to wait until after Christmas? Should I return his Christmas presents after we break up?
Q. Something has snapped in me this week and I have finally decided, after a lot of heartache, that I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He is no longer making any effort with me, and despite me bringing it up several times and him prom...
A. 9 December 2012: Just do it now, it will hurt the same no matter when you do it.... (read in full...)
Although I'm getting an abortion, hiding the pregnancy is taking its toll on me
Q. Last week I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend's child. I'm 5 weeks in, and I've been going out with my bf for just over 9 months. I'm to say the least.... totally devastated. This was a complete accident and neither of us ever had any ...
A. 8 December 2012: 44% of women who get abortions are between 18-24. No one ever expects to get an abortion or hopes to, but unplanned pregnancies happen, abortions happen. You'll get through this. I hate to think of you dealing with this alone, I know I'd want so... (read in full...)
Did I ruin the relationship, due to my dislike of porn? Or are there bigger issues of concern in this relationship?
Q. Disclaimer: This is long but I really need advice and help. Please! I'm having a hard time letting go of my ex boyfriend. We were together for 20 months and just broke up last Sunday. We were living together the past 2.5 months. He was my first ...
A. 8 December 2012: "I get that you dislike it but he likes it and it doesn't take away his time or attention from you so why cant you leave him alone? How exactly is he hurting you? He isnt."
She spent several paragraphs explaining how it hurt her. Just because he c... (read in full...)
Although I'm getting an abortion, hiding the pregnancy is taking its toll on me
Q. Last week I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend's child. I'm 5 weeks in, and I've been going out with my bf for just over 9 months. I'm to say the least.... totally devastated. This was a complete accident and neither of us ever had any ...
A. 8 December 2012: "It totally goes against the sort of person I see myself as. "
Then use this as an opportunity to help your views of this. 1 in 3 women has had an abortion. You should dig deep and figure out what kind of women you think gets an abortion, what is ... (read in full...)
Why am I so hesitant about having sex with this man? What could be holding me back?
Q. I met this man on an online dating site. The first time we went out he scared me be the way he was over excited to see me. He literally ran towards me to hug me I felt so frightened that I automatically put my hands up. We had talked on the ph...
A. 8 December 2012: This guy is way way way too pushy. No wonder you are hesitant! Your intuition is telling you something is off, because it sounds like it is. Like others have said he clearly has issues with boundaries and acceptable behavior. He may not be malicious ... (read in full...)
Can I fix my marriage? If the answer is "yes", then what should I do?
Q. my wife and i are at the end of our marriage, I think. I made mistakes. When I was dating her i was also dating another. I proposed to her with hickies from another woman on me. While married i felt feelings for her sister for 2 weeks and just r...
A. 8 December 2012: Sounds like your marriage is so full of holes that if you could fix it, you'd both be 80 years old, I think it best you move on and go your separate ways. Learn from your mistakes when you both find someone you are actually compatible with.... (read in full...)
How can I avoid becoming one of her punching bags at work?
Q. What makes some people fly off the handle so quickly? There is this woman at work. I have heard her get so aggressive so quickly at work. She acts like she has to fight so fiercely over issues that are nothing more than day to day things. So far I ...
A. 8 December 2012: What a horrible person to work with. If your workplace is allowing this kind of behavior despite numerous complaints, I'd say they probably aren't a very good place to work! When I worked in a crappy job, the people in it were often bad people even ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my anxiety over this science teacher? She puts me on the spot, I want to run from the room.
Q. Hi... Okay this is going to sound proper weird but recently we got a new science teacher for chemistry... me and my bf are in the same class and he said he is good at chemistry because he has chemists in his family. Thing is we met in science li...
A. 8 December 2012: Then learn the answers! Ask your boyfriend for help studying if you think he's that good. Everyone feels anxious when they're called on, but once you start answering correctly, you start to feel more confident and wanting to learn more so you can ... (read in full...)
Does he have to have feelings for her? Can a man be in a relationship with a woman just for sex?
Q. Hi Cupids. Is it possible for a man to be "in a relationship" (I mean an actual relationship where they are dating, not a FWB or no strings situation) with a woman just for the sex or because the sex is good? Does he necessarily have to have...
A. 7 December 2012: Yes, but it's rare to continuously have sex with someone without feelings developing.... (read in full...)
How soon after a missed period should you take a pregnancy test?
Q. How long would you wait after a missed period to take a pregnancy test? I am not irregular, since I have started tracking my period 5 months ago it was always the same time 30 days apart. Yet I was supposed to start on Monday and still no period... ...
A. 5 December 2012: Many pregnancy tests can now tell you before your missed period, you have to read the back of the box to find out which ones.
It's only Tuesday now though, being one day late is rarely an indicator of anything at all. I'd wait until at least th... (read in full...)
Porn rears it's ugly head, again!
Q. Hi everyone i have been with my bf for 6 yrs now. About 6 months back i found porn on his laptop.he apologized, we broke up and patched up again. He promised he would not watch again. I posted here regarding that and i got many answers which helped ...
A. 3 December 2012: More people don't watch porn than are gay (three times as many), how many gay people do you know?
I think the study was pretty well conducted on account of it being done by the Kinsey Institute... It also matches most other well-conducted studies ... (read in full...)
Porn rears it's ugly head, again!
Q. Hi everyone i have been with my bf for 6 yrs now. About 6 months back i found porn on his laptop.he apologized, we broke up and patched up again. He promised he would not watch again. I posted here regarding that and i got many answers which helped ...
A. 3 December 2012: He's already shown he is not willing to stop watching porn, he simply believes he has the right to decide what is acceptable in your relationship and that if you don't agree, he can lie about it. He's shown his true colors (he'd rather lie than deal ... (read in full...)
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