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I am sleeping with my husband's best friend

Q.   I am sleeping with my husband's best friend. It started a year and a half ago. Every time we spend together is just amazing. He says all the right things and makes love to me in ways I cannot describe. Trouble is, I love my husband very muc...

A.   24 December 2010: Hey honey, dirtball isn't nagging about his life and his wife and best friend's affair.. he is picturing what your husband might be thinking, it has nothing to do with him nor his life, it's about you.. He is trying to tell you that your husband ... (read in full...)

Sexual tips regarding a large penis?

Q.   Hi, need some advice from guys and girls, please. Slept with my new bf for the first time last night and OMG his penis is huge! I have never been with a man with such a large penis before. Not only that, he had so much stamina (was erect for ...

A.   29 September 2010: My guess here is that he might have taken some kind of pill.. I mean far a guy to last long and get another erection that fast in addition to an over size penis I definately think he takes something to reach that point!! anyways I'm a female so I th... (read in full...)

Photo's of my boyfriends ex on his computer.

Q.   Hi there, I have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and recently found photographs of his ex on his computer. They are photos from her page on a social networking site featuring her in her bikini on holiday, these photos were taken while ...

A.   28 September 2010: Some times people keep track of their ex's, for example they look up some photos maybe what ever news they could get about them. But it doesn't have to mean that there is something wrong with you or your relationship with him! Nor does it have to ... (read in full...)

He disrespects me, should I leave him?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 9 yrs and have 2 children. We've had many issues in the past with his dishonesty and our sexless marriage. I am the one who always wanted sex, but after a few years of not getting it, I became numb and pretty ...

A.   28 September 2010: 1) For what I know a man can't handle a sexless WEEK!! And your saying it's been YEARS!! I definately say that he's getting sex somewhere else, and enough sex to satisfy his system to not want any from you!! So he is totally cheating on you!! 2) "he... (read in full...)

Are they right??? Should we look for someone else?

Q.   I am a guy of 23 years of age in a relationship with a girl of 23 as well but she is 3 days older than me. We both have been pressurized by friends, relatives and people generally that the relationship can't work, they say it will be better if I ...

A.   26 September 2010: WTF???!!! I mean if you tell me she's 10 years older I'd tell you: mmmmmmmmmm you love her and she loves you well Guess it's suppose to work out:s But Man she's 3 DAYS older? I just can't see the age differance!! Plus, you're both in love, who... (read in full...)

Should I go out with him as my boyfriend is away?

Q.   Hello Well my boyfriend has gone away and since he has gone this guy keeps flirting with me and he just asked me out and im kind of falling for him, hes so sweet and funny and good looking but i love my boyfriend and i am so confused Please help me!...

A.   26 September 2010: I have a question for you: If you found out that your BF went out with a girl or started to like a girl just because your not with him, what will you do?! what will you think of him?! will you accept it?! I hope you get my point here!!... (read in full...)

How honest do women like guys to be?

Q.   How honest should you be with someone that was once your sould mate?.... even if it means hurting her?...

A.   26 September 2010: Absolutely HONEST!!! the truth is always better than a lie..Think of it what if you lied and she found out later?!!! she won't ever trust you again.. So try your best to be honest and if you have done something you regret, your confession should i... (read in full...)

Labor and birth stories?

Q.   So, I'm pregnant for the very first time and I was wondering if any of you lovely aunts would feel like sharing your labour and birth stories? I would very much like to know as much as I can about other peoples experiences so I have a good idea on ...

A.   26 September 2010: Hey there:) Well believe me you don't want to hear my story not because it was bad or anything, but because as I've heard it's the weirdest:s My child birth was a complete natural one; I took nothing I didn't get the epidural nor did I take any... (read in full...)

Did I ruin his pride or is sex all he wanted?

Q.   I been talking to this guy for a couple of months.he has really been nice he never made a move on me or anything. when im alone i can call him no matter what time it is.we eventually had sex a week ago and it was horrible he came within 3min and i ...

A.   25 September 2010: Mmmmmm think you should tell us exactly what you guys spoke about!!! that really matters and is important in order to know if it's his pride that was hurt or he got what he wanted.. So what did you say and what did he say all from the top!... (read in full...)

What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?

Q.   My boyfriend and i want to try new postions in bed and we both want to be pleased but we cant find any that please us both. What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?...

A.   25 September 2010: mmmmmmmm why don't you try reverse cow girl but standing?! ... (read in full...)

I don't think I should stay with my girlfriend

Q.   We've been dating a year and a half or thereabouts, and recently she's moved to a different city, and I'm supposed to move with her but I don't know if I should. She's recently made her facebook completely private, so I can't see photos or commen...

A.   24 September 2010: I totally agree with K c100.. He definately has a point here, and you realised at the end you know! You might be in a relationship but she definately ISN'T! so forget about her, she's playing with you and your feelings.. You absolutely deserve ... (read in full...)

What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?

Q.   My boyfriend and i want to try new postions in bed and we both want to be pleased but we cant find any that please us both. What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?...

A.   24 September 2010: your very welcome hun!:) you could also check out www.ivillage.com it also has some good ideas that might help. For me and my mate to get sync orgasms we usually switch positions in order to build up the sensation with what works best for him and ... (read in full...)

She's not scared to lose me, is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Q.   My girlfriend was really depressed and she was telling me how her life was all messed up and how her mum was making her feel miserable. at the end of it she said i love you don't you forget it. and then when i asked her if she's scared to lose me ...

A.   23 September 2010: I think it's a great thing!! In others words she's telling you that she really trusts you especially when she said I love you DON'T YOU FORGET IT.. She's insisting on that she loves you and trusts you and expects you to do the same:) ... (read in full...)

How to make a decision to date the new guy or the ex?

Q.   I was just hoping someone who may have been in a similar situation could give me some advice. Im dating a guy for 2 months now and I am crazy about him. We always have a good time. Im not sure where we stand right now- havent had any discussions ...

A.   23 September 2010: You mentioned that he's you EX and in your question you said he was a FRIEND??!!! I think you should be more specific to what he really is.. Because if he was just an old friend and you have old feelings for him and nothing went wrong with him in ... (read in full...)

Why do girls stay with cheaters?

Q.   Why does a girl stay with a cheater or essential give them a another chance. And then EXPECT to be treated like the only girl in the world or push something that isn't there to begin with. Often times i find that they were lacking what they wanted...

A.   23 September 2010: Okay nice observation to start with:) My observation here is that such girls definately have low self-esteem in addition to that its not the guy himself who they're hung up to its the idea of the relationship itself no matter what it is and how bad ... (read in full...)

What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?

Q.   My boyfriend and i want to try new postions in bed and we both want to be pleased but we cant find any that please us both. What positions can we try so that we are both satisifed?...

A.   23 September 2010: there are tons of positions and twists to ordinary positions that might please any couple:) I reccommend that you check out www.cosmopolitan.com and chech the sex and love section:) hopefully you'll find what you're looking for there:)... (read in full...)

How bad is this relationship?

Q.   My friend recently confided in me that her and her husband of 6 years (they have kids too) have been having a difficult time lately. Apparently they had a very heated argument one night and he said something extremely hurtful and she (in the heat ...

A.   23 September 2010: mmmmm Well its pretty bad:s We all definately know the differences between males and females! females are quite more emotional than males and also more "fragile", so she might have been overwhelmed by his words and got really hurt so spontane... (read in full...)

First True Love Never Lasts. Prove me wrong

Q.   Alrighhhtty, We'll cut to the chase. The love between my ex and I is well..confusing.So I'm asking for help, any advice, thoughts and suggestions. Help me out here! Get this, I went to middle school with my ex, totally didn't know each other t...

A.   23 September 2010: First love never lasts?! mmmmmmm come to think of it it's quite of true!:s First love is the most pure love and most honest one, It's the love that grows and lives in our hearts and believe me it can't ever be forgotten!! And yes it doesn't last... (read in full...)

Falling in love after losing the love of your life?

Q.   please, can i really fall in love after losing the love of my life in secondary school...

A.   23 September 2010: Agree with Cerberus:) I truely believe in the saying: " Love is in the air" If it didn't work out with the first it might definately work out with the other.. All you have to do is give your self some time and believe me your first love will fad... (read in full...)

Men: why are you quiet during sex?

Q.   To the men only: Why is it that some of you hold back from moaning or making noises during sex? Are you focusing too hard on your performance? ...

A.   23 September 2010: cool question!!! anyways I've only had 2 sexual partners and they both made noises and both moaned:s I think it has nothing to do with focusing on the performance, its some sort of a spontaneous reaction to the performance itself.. So I just thin... (read in full...)

Is it normal to have sexual thoughts just out of the blue?

Q.   Is it normal to have sexual fantasies/thoughts while doing everday things? such as school or just sitting at home watching TV? It's been happening to me alot lately. No I'm not sexually active as a matter of fact I'm still a virgin - I've never had ...

A.   23 September 2010: Well OFCOURSE it's normal:) 90% of us do!! (if not more too lol) To be honest don't know if you should act on it some say its healthy and good to expriment and others say it's not.. But according to me I guess that you should wait so that your first ... (read in full...)

Super complicated relationship, should I trust her again and give her another chance?

Q.   hi well its started we met online on msn, she used to love and tell me that she loves me so much but i was with another girl so i kept blocking her and telling her that i love another girl till a day me and the other girl argued together so i went t...

A.   23 September 2010: I only had to reach half of the story to conclude that she's a playa!! ditch her she just having fun using you and all the other guys out there.. She isn't trust worthy no matter what she says. you don't need her explanation nor do you need us for ... (read in full...)

We all have flaws so how do we learn to accept it?

Q.   Im finding it hard to accept the girl in the mirror. Im not the type of girl that has self esteem issues, Im actually a very confident individual. But lately I really hate myself. I'll be honest as much as I like to think Im attractive in m...

A.   23 September 2010: Pats dear, People see what YOU show them!!! If an outstanding mind-blowing beatiful model had low self-esteem and thought low of her self people will see her that way!! On the other hand if an ugly elf thought high of herself and had great confiden... (read in full...)

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