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writes:I've read a lot of testimony from others about feelings of shame after masturbating, and I share a similar experience. However, I am only ashamed after thinking about or viewing certain things that under normal circumstances I would find morally wrong, such as hardcore or degrading porn. Yet, I think the "wrongness" of these acts arouses me, and I don't like that it does. Sometimes I even question why I'm masturbating while I'm in the act. I watch it/think about it anyway though. Basically I do not like what I like to get off with. Conversely, my actual sex life does not reflect such things, and I wonder if anyone could throw their opinions about this out there? Thanks
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reader, Yos  +, writes (10 December 2012):
 The link that person12345 is great, i suggest you read it. It talks in great detail about what you have mentioned: why we get turned on by degrading porn and then feel guilty afterwards. It also will tell you what the long term side effects of this could be.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 December 2012):
 Are you crazy????? I feel terrific after doing you-know-what..... and then spend time and mental energy looking forward to the NEXT time that I'll be doing you-know-what.
Case closed...
P.S. My eyesight is shot... but that's been a small price to pay!!!!!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 December 2012):
 You probably feel bad that things you know are terrible are getting you off. If it's making you feel bad, stop watching porn and try to think of other things while you masturbate. This website has tons of articles about this stuff:
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com
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