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writes:this may be a really stupid question on my part, and i apologize in advance if it is. it's just something i've been thinking a lot about recently and i can't seem to find any answers in laymans terms that i can understand on this particular topic.i started seeing a girl a couple of weeks ago and we are baginning to spend a good bit of time together and it seems to be progressing to the point of what may potentially become a relationship. we have not yet had sex, but that time is quickly approaching and she mentioned something to me the other day that has me baffled. we were having a really great convo about her past and she admitted she had been forced to have an abortion when she was 16 by her mother. well, during that convo, she mentioned that at the time she was having the abortion, her doctor informed her that she has two vaginas. i tried my best not to seem really confused, but i really wanted her to explain. but i was also terrified of asking too many questions and coming across in an insensitive manner. so i left it alone. since then, i've tried to look info up on the internet, but nothing i've seen really explains things in a way i understand, and nothing explains what sex will be like with this condition. but i really want an explanation of what this means. the most i got out of her was that she apparently has or had a septum of some sort?? but what i'm curious about is what exactly this means and does it effect the sex life? and does it feel different down there? i don't have any sort of problem with this, but i'm afraid of being inadequate. i've never been with a woman with this condition and i don't want to be bad in bed. has anyone had any experience in this area and can help give me some advice and information? thanks in advance.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (10 December 2012):
 I think that the fact that she had to be informed that she had 2 vaginas is a sign that the "other one" is not in use nor can it be. Check youtube I know tyra did a segment on this, maybe there's more info there, but it sounds like it can take 'different forms' so read what you can but I think you can ask some follow up in a 'so when are we having sex' talk or something of that like.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 December 2012):
 Most women with this (rare) condition have one vagina that is well formed and one that is not, usually one is shorter and smaller and uncomfortable to have sex with while the other is normal. I'm fairly certain at this point she knows which one is comfortable for her and which is not and she will guide you. This is not the kind of thing you can look up on the Internet to figure out what to do, she will need to tell you what she wants you to do. Just wait until you have sex and ask. You should also be certain she's checked with a doctor that sex is safe.
To answer your other question of how to be good in bed, it's the same advice as to all the other guys. Women do not have many nerve endings in our vaginas, we get pleasure for our clitoris. If you want to be great in bed, look up techniques on giving oral sex, using your fingers (and don't focus on the gspot, look for clitoral stimulation techniques), and using toys.
Try to relax, she's not going to dump you for asking questions. It's an unusual condition and I'm sure she'd rather you go overboard with questions than to either not care, or worse, somehow hurt her.
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