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I need some tips on going on top during sex. I'm really rubbish at it, just feel silly jumping up and down!!!

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Question - (5 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Girlies I REALLY need your help. I know this is a bit personal but I need some tips on going on top during sex. I'm really rubbish at it, just feel silly jumping up and down!!! Every time I start on top my man rolls over and swaps places so I'm obviously doing something wrong!! Plus anymore sex tips that will make him like me more would be highly treasured!!fankoooooooooo

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A female reader, PhenomonalWoman United States +, writes (29 September 2008):

While jumping up and down you should move your hips kind of like dancing.. foward back side to side.. just practice it while dancing & then try it youll get better at it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

i know what you mean wen i first started going on top during sex i was rubbish and he did the same switched places it doesnt make u feel great and ruins the rest of sex but i just asked him kinda what i was doing wrong and he showed me what he likes and now i feel pretty conifiedient to go on top alot more even thou i prefer being at the bottom .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007):

Why are you asking for sex tips to make him like you more? You should be asking what is it about him that is good enough for you...guys frequently change sexual positions, they are just enjoying the moment and like variety, I doubt it is because he thinks you are rubbish....I am not going to give you tips, I will leave tht to someone else who thinks it is their job to teach you how to have sex on this site, personally I think you might consider buying a book on the subject, there are many....and porn is not the way to learn how to have sex unless you like doing it outside on a rock or standing with your leg over your head....or some other ridiculous pose.

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2007):

duskyrowe agony auntI love going on top of a guy, you kinda get that sense of power, that way a woman can control the penetration. Next time your fella switches positions, say "hey honey show me how its done talk me thru it". See what I am saying here?, I am sure he will be only happy to oblige to show you. I think it is very important to communicate, of what your likes and dislikes are when it comes to intimacy, after all you guys are not mind readers. I often get tips on the internet on how to have better sex,maybe you guys can do the same together. Look up "The Kama Sutra", it gives you wonderful information about how to turn each other, ie foreplay,massages etc etc,plus it shows you diagrams on various positions. I tell you what, it will work wonders on your love life take it from me my fella never complains LOL. Anyway the very best of luck, let me know how you get on Rose xx

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