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Pornography: Help and advice

Any thoughts on why I feel uneasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

31 October 2007 (F - My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, but there are large gaps in between physical intimacy. I also know he views porn videos. Even though it is not on a regular basis - I still feel uneasy. Thoughts?...

Should I be worried about my partner's porn watching?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

30 October 2007 (F - hi i know my partner watches porn he also downloads it on the internet it bothers me sometimes because he trys to hide it i would rather him tell the truth, it also makes me feel am not enough for him but recently i found a half naked local woman on ...


   

His looking at porn has brought me out in spots! How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

27 October 2007 (F - 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of...

Is my boyfriend gay or just open minded?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

25 October 2007 (F - I was on my boyfriend's computer trying to find a document I downloaded for homework and found gay porn on it. He's said that he had sex with another guy in the past and that he likes having stuff up his butt (ie. toys, etc.). We are crazily...

How to bring this up without making it a big thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

23 October 2007 (F - Okay so I've been in a serious relationship for about 6 months. Before this relationship I was a very into having sex and so was my then boyfriend. We normally had sex 1-4 times a day. My current boyfriend though is another story. We rarly have sex ...

   

Do I leave him? If not, how do I get over the fact that he was a member of a sex chat site??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 276 days ago

22 October 2007 (F - 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of the responses on her...

He's been looking at busty women. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

22 October 2007 (F - I know I shouldn't have done it, but because of past relationships I looked into my boyfriend's history on his computer and found that he looked at a couple of youtube clips featuring very busty ladies. He told me he was just curious when the clips ...

Is is ok that my guy watches porn? It makes me unconfortable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

20 October 2007 (? - I've been dating this guy for a long time now and we're thinking about getting married one day(I only mention this because I don't want it to seem like just some little relationship). Well, I know for a fact that he still watches porn. Something i ...

It's one rule for him and another for me. Are his double standards acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

19 October 2007 (F - My b/f and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we were best friends before that. When we first got together my b/f had lost his job of 8yrs and was in a real slump (emotionally at first, then financially). Me being the person I am ...

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

16 October 2007 (F - I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

He's been downloading porn for years, but he doesn't want to touch me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

16 October 2007 (F - my husband of 2yrs watching porn on the net anytime i am not around or in bed.i have caught him only 2months ago on a dating site for sex he said he never do again.now he's on loads of porn sites everyday.i am not a prude in any way but he does not ...

My husband needs to read or watch lesbian porn to get aroused. Is this a behaviour problem, or just a sexual preference?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

15 October 2007 (F - I feel like I'm alone. I haven't found another woman who shares my heartache. Here's the problem in a nutshell... my husband can only get aroused reading, watching or talking about lesbian sex. Before we make love, he prefers to read lesbian porn ...

Is it him or me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

15 October 2007 (F - Should I be worried that I found porn in my boyfriendds things? I've been living with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I feel like we have a pretty great realationship it has it's ups and downs just like everyone else. I was cleaning our...

Is his porn use turning him into a pervert?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

13 October 2007 (F - i have noticed my husband of 14 years is watching porn and it`s making me feel inadaquate and that he`s not satified with me he is 50 and i`m 48. is he turning into a pervert i`m worried...

I kicked my bf out after I caught him looking at porn and am so down.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

12 October 2007 (F - hi there, I am feeling extremely down right now. I found out my bf has been looking at porn again even though he promised me he wouldn't so i kicked him out this time had enough of him making me feel like crap. Yeah i know what your gonna say porn...

My stockings and susps didn't turn him on. Any ideas as to how to get him interested in sex with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

11 October 2007 (F - I am very confused, been married 29 years, been faithful to each other, well I know for sure that I have. Sex life has always been difficult with him not opening up and not letting me initiate it,caught him twice this year with porn behind my back, ...

She found out I looked at porn and now she's broken up with me. How can I tell her I adore her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

10 October 2007 (M - Hey, I'm new to this whole thing but I am in a bad spot. I looked at porn a few times on the internet and lied to my giirlfriend about it. We have been together for almost a year and she wants to break up over it. She is really hurt and I feel like ...

My Husband has rented pornos - should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

9 October 2007 (F - I just found out my husband has rented several porns that imply that the actresses are teens even though they are not. They are depicted as teens and the title includes the word teen in them. Should I be worried?...

My husband does not find me attractive. How can I maintain my self-esteem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

8 October 2007 (F - How can I mantain my self-esteem when my husband does not find me attractive? I have been married for over 20 years and my husband is currently going through a midlife crisis. Throughout our marriage, I have been the one to initiate sex. My husband ...

Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate at age 13?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

8 October 2007 (F - I am 13 and I look at porn and masturbate. I have this urge to have sex, but know I shouldn't in case I regret it later. Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate?...

Is sex REALLY like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

7 October 2007 (F - Hi, I am a 14 year old girl and have just began high school a few months ago. I have viewed porn a few times and now that I have seen people engage in sex, I wonder... is this what sex is really like? Because I think it seems way too extreme for ...

My husband masturbates to porn sites - should I feel betrayed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

7 October 2007 (F - I have been married for 30 years and I have caught my husband viewing porn sites and selecting a person that he obviously likes the look of. Once selected he starts to masturbate. I do not agree with this and I have also caught him doing this to ...

We used to watch porn together - now he does it more often and we have sex less! Is this a problem or am I trippin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

5 October 2007 (F - Ok so my boyfriend is 33 and I am 22. We have been together for a little over three years. When we got together I knew he watched porn, I didnt have a problem with that because I watch as well, sometime with him. For the last few days he has started ...

I think he bought the new computer just to look for porn! He's trying to hide what he does, but I found out. I feel betrayed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

5 October 2007 (F - I know you have heard this a thousand times before. I have just discovered tha my partner has been looking for porn. I know that guys do this sometimes, but what is really scaring me is I think he has set up a separate profile on our computer and ...

My boyfriends online webcam/ chatting is ruining our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

4 October 2007 (F - I'm having a case here, 26 he 33 I am pregnant , almost ready to have the baby and my boyfriend has pretty much been doing this since day 1, I found his "stash" just recently , and this has been the worst time of my life , along with just moving to ...

Am I gay if I watch gay porn and have fantacies of men (but don't want to be gay)?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

3 October 2007 (M - i watch gay porn and fantasize about having sex with men but dont want to in real life, i dont want to be near a man but does it mean im gay...

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