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November, 2009 (see latest in Pornography category)
Pornography: Help and adviceFor the men out there: Does seeing images of half naked men make you feel insecure? How does it affect your self-esteem?
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11 answers
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today
23 November 2009 (F) -
For the guys only: A lot of women write on this site that thier significant other views porn and it makes them feel insecure as the porn stars are well endowed with fake boobs. In addition, the women write they are inundated by the media with i...
Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?
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19 answers
- newest was posted
yesterday
22 November 2009 (F) -
Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it ...
He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2 days ago
21 November 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant...
How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?
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7 answers
- newest was posted
3 days ago
20 November 2009 (M) -
hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...
He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!
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7 answers
- newest was posted
3 days ago
20 November 2009 (F) -
Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...
I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore
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10 answers
- newest was posted
3 days ago
18 November 2009 (M) -
I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...
My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!
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14 answers
- newest was posted
4 days ago
17 November 2009 (F) -
i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...
He watches porn all the time and it's doing my head in!
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2 answers
- newest was posted
7 days ago
17 November 2009 (F) -
My fella watches porn an I've explained to him how it makes me feel, it makes me feel like I'm no good in bed, and I'm wondering is he thinking of those women when we are having sex? I also explained to him that its getting me down. I dont feel the ...
I feel so betrayed... he's addicted to porn.
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3 answers
- newest was posted
today
16 November 2009 (F) -
Hi I was in a very abusive marriage for 12 years and had 3 children when i got divorced i never thought i'd find anyone who would meet up to my standards but i did, we decided to move in together after 3 years of dating and shortly after found out ...
Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?
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3 answers
- newest was posted
8 days ago
15 November 2009 (F) -
hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life ...
I need help to stop masturbating
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9 answers
- newest was posted
7 days ago
15 November 2009 (F) -
i am a 21 year old gal and i masturbate a lot. i know its wrong and i wish to stop. however i keep succumbing to temptation. i have a loving boyfriend and we have a decent sex life. i wish to limit myself only to him. and stop all with watching or ...
He would rather sit and watch porn than have sex with me any more!
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2 answers
- newest was posted
8 days ago
14 November 2009 (F) -
hi there, Can anyone give me any advice? Is there something seriously wrong if my partner of 20 years doesnt want to have sex with me any more but would rather watch porn?...
Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?
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1 answer
- newest was posted
10 days ago
14 November 2009 (F) -
Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his ...
Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?
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13 answers
- newest was posted
8 days ago
12 November 2009 (F) -
Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...
Why does he prefer masturbation over a beautiful loving wife he says he loves?
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8 answers
- newest was posted
10 days ago
12 November 2009 (F) -
I need some good professional or exact advice from a professioal or from someone that has gone through what I am going through! I have a no sex marriage, when I no sex I mean no sex, in any way, touch or any form at all whats so ever. My husband ...
My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!
This question has
6 answers
- newest was posted
4 days ago
11 November 2009 (F) -
I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just ...
Hubby watches women live on their web cams and chats with them - is this cheating?
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10 answers
- newest was posted
10 days ago
9 November 2009 (F) -
Hi everyone, I was hoping for a bit of advice on the subject of the boundries between porn, and cheating. I would especially appreciate a male perspective, although all answers are welcome. The problem is this. My husband, as like a lot o...
Whats wrong if a man can only reach orgasm through masturbation?
This question has
2 answers
- newest was posted
15 days ago
8 November 2009 (F) -
Hello Aunts I have a question for a friend. She recently revealed to me that she is having sex problems with her husband. They have sex for hours but he won't cum. She thinks there is something wrong with her because he can masturbate while watching ...
Is porn to blame?
This question has
1 answer
- newest was posted
15 days ago
8 November 2009 (F) -
hi im 22 and iv been married for 4 years and i love my husband and i do everything i do my hair, makeup and ect. you name it i do it. but in the end i dont feel that hes intrested in me he sais that hes tired and he only wants it once a week, and i ...
Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!
This question has
6 answers
- newest was posted
15 days ago
8 November 2009 (M) -
Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...
My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?
This question has
5 answers
- newest was posted
16 days ago
7 November 2009 (F) -
I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...
I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?
This question has
9 answers
- newest was posted
today
6 November 2009 (F) -
Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...
How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?
This question has
6 answers
- newest was posted
17 days ago
6 November 2009 (F) -
Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...
I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2 days ago
6 November 2009 (F) -
I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as ...
I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!
This question has
7 answers
- newest was posted
18 days ago
4 November 2009 (F) -
I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...
Worried I may have come accross dodgy stuff when viewing stuff on free porn sites! Is this a common worry?
This question has
7 answers
- newest was posted
19 days ago
4 November 2009 (M) -
Hi I am worried becouse I have been viewing porn on the internet on the free porn sites such as porntube and the like. I have used standerd search terms but sometimes have seen images/links to videos that appeared dodgy. The greatest consern to me ...
Wife chooses porn over me!
This question has
4 answers
- newest was posted
20 days ago
4 November 2009 (M) -
Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...
Raped by two men and troubled by porn
This question has
8 answers
- newest was posted
18 days ago
4 November 2009 (F) -
[Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...
What is so wrong about me and my body?
This question has
5 answers
- newest was posted
19 days ago
3 November 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying ...
Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?
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6 answers
- newest was posted
17 days ago
2 November 2009 (F) -
i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...
My husband lied to me about porn use.I am afraid this is the beginning of the end.
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5 answers
- newest was posted
21 days ago
2 November 2009 (F) -
I was out oftown for a couple of days and my husband found a porn magazine tha hadnt gotten shredded when we aed that it was t going to be a part of married life that we were embarking on year ago. I knew I should've shredded it when I found it a ...
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