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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

Ex wants to try again but how can I after I seen what turns him on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 November 2011 (F - Hi everyone, could do with some strong advice before i cry. I split up with my boyfriend a few days ago as i caught him lying to me. He moved out and i stopped all contact. Then thismorning he sent me an email and when i went to reply i found an...

Should I stop watching porn? Its making me very insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (? - This might be dumb but it might be true...a year ago, I never masturbated and only watched porn occasionally. Nowadays, I've gotten myself to orgasm from specifically masturbating to lesbian porn but I've noticed that my self esteem has dropped and ...

Afraid I'm addicted to porn

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

28 November 2011 (M - Ok well i REALLY need advice..here it goes.. Him im 13 and i am adicted to watching porn.. Its kinda wrong but i cant stop watching it.. I masterbate to it till i Ejaculate when ever my parent leave to the store i rush to the computer and go on a ...

How do I lessen the pain for my first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 November 2011 (F - I'm 16, and I've recently watched my first porn videos (just like 4 or so), but I stopped quickly because I felt so bad for watching them, like I've done something I wasn't supposed to. I feel like I did something wrong, and I'm really embarrassed ...

What are healthy fantasies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 November 2011 (M - I am a 26 year old male, and like most people, I masturbate. I am saving sex for someone I am in love with- but in the meantime I have to make due. I'm wondering how many people can relate to my issues or what their opinions on my concerns about th...

I'm trying to feel comfortable about my boyfriend occasionally watching porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 November 2011 (? - I'm hoping to settle this whole porn issue (though it isn't one at all) once and for all. I watch porn myself and I know my boyfriend does. But why do I get so touchy when the subject comes up? Or when I see hot women in a movie? I am attractive, I ...

I found hundreds of porn videos on his laptop. I'm devastated.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

21 November 2011 (F - This is so hard, I dunno where to start :/ I moved abroad about a year ago, I left everything behind because I wanted to pursue some intellectual goals. Everyone supported me and it seemed pretty exciting for me. Things were good, and they got bet...

Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

21 November 2011 (F - I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...

Is my interest in transexual pornography a harmless fantasy or a sign of something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

21 November 2011 (M - I'm not sure how to start, so I will just dive in. I am 36 and married to a woman I love. We have good sex and no problems except that my testosterone may be a little low so we don't have it as much as we used to, but i'm working on that. The pr...

Tons of drama but I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

19 November 2011 (M - Lately me and my gf of 7 years have been arguing A LOT...we see each other on weekends and lately every weekend has had some sort of argument. Yesterday we didnt make it 30min before we started arguing. We broke up 3 years ago and she started ...

My boyfriend can't stop masturbating to porn!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

19 November 2011 (F - Dear Cupid, So a while ago, my boyfriend confessed to watching porn and said he would stop. He thinks it's a bad thing. A teeny bit recently, i told him how i felt about it and he said "sorry for doing that" and promised he'd stop again. Then...

I have gay thoughts when I masturbate to straight porn, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

17 November 2011 (M - Of late, when I masturbate, while watching straight porn, then gay thoughts also come into my mind which makes me confused and tense and don't feeling like enjoying it. Does it mean I am gay or bi-sexual or straight? or it happens with everyone...

Trust issues with an otherwise perfect boyfriend... help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

16 November 2011 (F - Ok so i i've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year.. before we started dating i said i didn't want to get into a relationship because i've dated a porn addict in the past and been cheated on several times (not to sound like the victim here! ...

I'm concerned about the DVDs he's watching as a means to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

13 November 2011 (F - I've become a little bit concerned about my husband in the past few weeks [well, 3 actually]. He's spending a lot of time at the gym and online, and in his room are hundreds of magazines with pictures of shirtless men! Also included was a D...

A little primer on women and sex...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

11 November 2011 (F - A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...

He watches porn every night and it upsets me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

10 November 2011 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 years and we have 2 kids, a 2 yr old and a 3 month old. I caught him watching porn back in 2010, and it started a bit of an argument, he thought I was sleeping, he got extremely defensive and almost ...

What to do about cheating husband who is into porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

10 November 2011 (F - Hi to all of you.i have been with my husband for almost 4 years.we are married for almost 3 years.he was married b4.he has a child with women.the reason he is not with her anymore is that he cheated on her. My problem is that he has cheated on me an...

Found porn on b/f's phone and kind of freaked out about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 November 2011 (F - My bf asked me to call the pizza place on his phone. Whe n I picked it up I saw he accidentally had left up his web browser from when he was walking to work. It had a internet page up of girls in underwear posing - aka porn type stuff. I don't ...

I am addicted to porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

5 November 2011 (M - I am quite badly addicted to porn and it makes me struggle concentrating on anything else properly. If it was happening once in a week , then I guess it would have been okay but I spend most of my time watching porn and getting jerk off in front of ...

Hubby gettin porn in emails!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

4 November 2011 (F - I am a 60 year old women who has been blind sited by my husband's use of porn and emails. As both of us worked and I never saw his work computer I had no idea he received emails from his "buds" that contained naked women, porn video's,s and m, and ...

Dangers of Porn

This question has 53 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

1 November 2011 (F - I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...

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