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Archived questions from:
July, 2009 (see latest in Pornography category)
Pornography: Help and adviceWhat is he really thinking of when we make love, me or porn stars?
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6 answers
- newest was posted
102 days ago
30 July 2009 (F) -
i have been with my boyfriend nearlly 2yrs now. i am 18 and he is 21. we use to kiss and cuddle all the time but now we dnt do it very often. he never gives me sex i get it once a week. i am a pretty girl i am slim and smart dressed i like to make ...
Insecurites over boyfriend watching porn!
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3 answers
- newest was posted
103 days ago
29 July 2009 (F) -
my boyf looks at porn which in return makes me feel as i am not good enough for him!! i dont no what to do it affects me everyday even when were watching the tele.. and there are some naked girls on there to shopping where he can look at girls.. hes ...
Problems with sex in our relationship....we're only in our 20's!
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3 answers
- newest was posted
117 days ago
29 July 2009 (F) -
Hi I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years but we aren't having sex anymore. We have probably had sex 5 times this year. We're both in our 20's so libido isn't the problem! He complains I am not horny enough- this may be because of the pill? ...
Is it unrealistic for a husband to get turned on by his wife after having kids?
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6 answers
- newest was posted
112 days ago
29 July 2009 (F) -
Am I wrong to refuse sex to my husband when he uses porn to get aroused. Im simply hate the thought of him getting all excited by the bodies of other women (he likes penthouse glamour type images of women) and then using me as some type of ...
Problems with pornography!
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7 answers
- newest was posted
100 days ago
28 July 2009 (F) -
I have got a problem. Last thing I would ever have expected, but there you go… Pornography. Yeah-yeah, you’ve heard it all before, right… But listen. About 6 month ago I find porn on my married-for-a-long-time husband's computer. I try not to over ...
He says if I bring jenny into the situation he will end it!
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3 answers
- newest was posted
108 days ago
28 July 2009 (F) -
Urgent Advice Needed Please Hello everyone who helps people on Agony Aunt. I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when ...
Is he lying about watching porn?
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17 answers
- newest was posted
118 days ago
28 July 2009 (F) -
I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while now, and think that i have caught him for the second time watching porn. The first time, i caught him in the action, however, the second time, i looked at his computer history and found some recent ...
I just want someones view on what I've done and learnt from it : )
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4 answers
- newest was posted
118 days ago
28 July 2009 (M) -
Hello I've been wanting to get this off my chest for a while as it keeps coming back to bite me. A few months ago i visited a brothel. The reason i did this is clear to me now as i was very lonely had not many good friends and was addicted...
If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!
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3 answers
- newest was posted
118 days ago
28 July 2009 (F) -
hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...
Is there something more to the shemale porn he watches?
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3 answers
- newest was posted
89 days ago
27 July 2009 (F) -
my partner of 5 years, who i have two young children to, watches hardcore shemale porn and only she male porn. when we have sex, he has trouble getting his penis up. it seems it only comes up when he plays with my anus. he loves anal sex and i ...
My boyfriend still hangs out with his exes and stays over at their place way after midnight and tells me nothing happened.
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3 answers
- newest was posted
121 days ago
25 July 2009 (F) -
I've been in a really weird relationship for the last year of my life and I would greatly appreciate any thoughts or advice. I apologize ahead of time for the "lengthiness", but I figured details will help you guys out. I've been with my bf for n...
Why is my wife telling me she's found pornography on the computers I use but there's no history of it anywhere?
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10 answers
- newest was posted
120 days ago
24 July 2009 (M) -
Hey there everyone. OK lets go. Firstly little back story. I've been married now for about two years. We also have a little girl 7 months old. I used to look at porn. My wife before we were even engaged knew of this. A couple of months into our ...
He cant get an erection when we have sex but he can get it up when watching gay porn!
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2 answers
- newest was posted
115 days ago
24 July 2009 (F) -
My husband can't get an erection when we have sex, and I feel disappointed. I'm not expecting an orgasm or anything like that; I'm only really expecting loving, caring sex. He is a respectful, lovely guy. He seems to be able to get an erection ...
Question for men about mainstream porn
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9 answers
- newest was posted
73 days ago
24 July 2009 (F) -
there is something I have been wondering about mainstream porn and I would like to hear mens responses. I have noticed in porn that none of the women seem to have the usual bodies of most women. I never see scars, stretch marks or sagging breasts....
Is it wrong for girls to watch porn?
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20 answers
- newest was posted
110 days ago
24 July 2009 (F) -
Another problem for ye. People think its weird if you/a girl watches porn. I personaly think its natural and everyone should be doing it!! Is there something wrong with me? Or is it them? Am I normal? Is it wrong to look at those kind of things? ...
I have been in a gay relationship for 4 years, but I've found out that he's been looking at heterosexual porn!
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4 answers
- newest was posted
119 days ago
23 July 2009 (M) -
I'm 25, been in a gay relationship with my partner of 4 years, he's 28. We have good jobs and live together in our city flat. In most respects, our life is good, no issues there, apart from our sex life. My partner does not seem to want se...
The sun is out, people are out, but for some reason I'm inside masturbating to porn. Help!
This question has
4 answers
- newest was posted
106 days ago
23 July 2009 (F) -
Hi guys, this is kind of embarrassing , so i've opted to go annoyomous.. :) I'm a female 24, had 3sexual partners..the 3rd right now. I had the first for 3yrs, the second a fling , and this guy, who is really great, turns me on and i feel very ...
What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum alone?
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3 answers
- newest was posted
105 days ago
23 July 2009 (M) -
My fiance and I had sex three or four times throught the day recently, one of those times (the first) a condom was used, the rest we didn't have any, so one was not used. My question is this: What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum ...
Husband looking at porn....seeking help to save my marriage
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16 answers
- newest was posted
95 days ago
22 July 2009 (F) -
Hi there, Umm this is my first time on here and I read some people's posts and well I really need an answer to my problems.I've been going to therapy for the past 2 1/2 months because my Husband of 1 year said that I'm to emotional. I did it for h...
His use of porn is now affecting our relationship.
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5 answers
- newest was posted
126 days ago
20 July 2009 (M) -
I'm 24 and my boyfriend's 28, and his usage of porn has began affecting our relationship. Even worse, it was pictures of scantily-clad women in magazines like FHM, Maxim etc. - and it's made me question whether our relationship has a future. ...
I masturbate to lesbian porn but only date men. Am I gay?
This question has
12 answers
- newest was posted
112 days ago
19 July 2009 (F) -
I'm a woman who likes to watch lesbian porn for hours and masturbate to it...do you think i'm gay. The reason i ask is i only go out and have relationships with men....
Is this normal behaviour for a 14 year old girl?
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12 answers
- newest was posted
125 days ago
19 July 2009 (F) -
Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to sit on youtube for 20 minutes and watch sex scenes at least 2 times a week?? Cause I do this and I am feeling like I'm the only one!! Is this ok??...
He said he has a 'lust' problem and looks at other naked girls. He wants me to help him, should I believe it?
This question has
6 answers
- newest was posted
129 days ago
17 July 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. While we were on a walk at the park when i found pictures of girls (not models) posing nude. We argued about this for hours. He told me that he has a problem with lust and sometimes likes to look. ...
Does my husband have the Madonna/Whore complex?
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8 answers
- newest was posted
125 days ago
16 July 2009 (F) -
My husband of over a decade avoids looking at me when I am undressed and when we have sex. Lately I have let him continue his conversations with me while I change clothes right in front of him just to see how he reacts. I wait in the nude for a ...
What do you do when your man prefers porn over you?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
129 days ago
16 July 2009 (F) -
I'm in my 40's and still get compliments from 20yr. old guys!..but my man prefers porn over me? ive tried everything i'm willing to do for him..but he still does this..we have a child together.. and i want to be a family..but it hurts to know..that ...
My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and it makes me feel insecure about my own body!
This question has
10 answers
- newest was posted
111 days ago
16 July 2009 (F) -
i just turned 17 and im a cup A :( i have a boyfriend. he is my first ever boyfriend and i am also his first. last month i told him my bra size. he told me it's fine and he doesnt mind small breasts as long as there's something to touch. lat...
How can I get out of this trap of a marriage and keep custody of my children?
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3 answers
- newest was posted
130 days ago
15 July 2009 (F) -
Dear All, I'm married to a British man(I'm Indian) and we have 2 children under 4yrs of age. We have lots of arguements atleast one every day. Just one for example: I have bought water/liquid absorbing doormat(light green,one of those JML magic ca...
Found violent porn on husband's computer how do we talk about this?
This question has
16 answers
- newest was posted
124 days ago
14 July 2009 (F) -
Short question: I have found lots of violent porn on my husbands computer. 1st time. Never knew he looked at the stuff. OK, so now I want to discuss this with him, but have no idea how to bring it up, without him knowing that I was on his comput...
Pregnant and betrayed by my porn loving boyfriend
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3 answers
- newest was posted
125 days ago
13 July 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months. I am 8 and a half months pregnant with his baby. We are both young (i am 16 and hes 22) and He has told me, not just told me but promised me and looked me in the eye and said "babe i dont need ...
I'm concerned about the porn I found on his computer!
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7 answers
- newest was posted
130 days ago
13 July 2009 (F) -
So recently I was on my boyfriend's computer and saw that he had google searched and dowloaded a porn video. The name sounded weird to me so I looked it up later and it turns out it was from a porn site where men have sex with women while they're ...
Men want porn but have to settle for us
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13 answers
- newest was posted
105 days ago
12 July 2009 (F) -
Hi there. I just have a quick question about porn watching please... It seems to me, that porn is what men want, but us (real women-their wives with stretchmarks from their children) is what they have to settle for... Is that true? Thanks ...
Should I put a naked picture of myself on the Internet (covering my face)??
This question has
10 answers
- newest was posted
131 days ago
11 July 2009 (F) -
Ok. There has been a previous question about porn and double standards. I have wondered this very thing myself. But thought that physically meeting someone is perhaps not comparable to just watching porn. So... My husband watching p...
We want to be porn stars!
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2 answers
- newest was posted
135 days ago
10 July 2009 (M) -
My girl friend and I want to be porn stars how do we tell our parents we want to do this for a living and how we get into porn we are only 18 ...
Sex has become a much higher priority to him than me
This question has
7 answers
- newest was posted
130 days ago
10 July 2009 (F) -
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we've been living together for almost 2 years. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and that he loves me with all his heart. The problem is, our sex life has steadily gone downhill over ...
When is it a good time to try to conceive again?
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2 answers
- newest was posted
138 days ago
9 July 2009 (F) -
I just gave birth to a baby girl 2 and a half months ago and my husband and I are trying to concieve again. the problem is its hard to pinpoint my fertile days because i have had 2 periods in one month. What does this mean for me and when will it be ...
He takes creepy picture of other girls and is addicted to porn! Should I leave him?
This question has
5 answers
- newest was posted
140 days ago
6 July 2009 (F) -
Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. Anyone can plainly see that were madly in love with each other. In the beginning there were problems with him being faithful and he "talked dirty" with another girl and...
I love my boyfriend but I think about girls in sexual ways!
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5 answers
- newest was posted
130 days ago
6 July 2009 (F) -
Ok, so here goes.. I'm with this guy, love him to bits, seriously love him, never felt like this before. It drives me crazy! BUT... I have a slight thing. I don't know what to do or make of it. You see i do love my boyfriend very much, bu...
Since I was pregnant with our 2nd child he's gone off sex... What can I do?
This question has
3 answers
- newest was posted
130 days ago
5 July 2009 (F) -
i have been with my husband for six years now and married for one year. we have two children together when i got pregnant with my 2nd child my husband refused to make love as he felt uncomfortable. i have caught him watching porn on the computer and ...
If it's okay for men to meet visual and sexual needs through porn then surely its okay for married women to date and go on romantic outings with other men to have their romance 'needs' met?
This question has
34 answers
- newest was posted
132 days ago
4 July 2009 (F) -
I often hear men (and some women) claim that porn is ok for men within relationships because they are 'visual' and only seeking thrills....etc If this is the case and these people like to stereotype then the other side of this argument is that wom...
I want to be his everything but he looks up things I dislike...
This question has
4 answers
- newest was posted
138 days ago
3 July 2009 (F) -
I was just on my partner's internet history and I saw that he had been looking up "pegging". For those who don't know this is when a woman penetrates a man's ass with a strapon. I've known for a while he likes femdom [even though I hate it] a...
For him: oral sex while he watches porn. For me: 3 minutes, no kissing, no passion. Help!
This question has
6 answers
- newest was posted
143 days ago
2 July 2009 (F) -
I live with a guy for almost a year we have had are share of troubles. At first he said he didnt love me but he has grow to love me but we never have sex maybe once a month but he always wants me to give him oral sex everyday while he watchs porn. ...
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