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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Pornography category)

Pornography: Help and advice

My husband says he doesn't watch porn or masturbate ever. Is this possible?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

30 January 2013 (F - All I ever read on this site is how men use porn. If a guy says he isn't using porn then he is lying. I read a post just the other day for a woman who wanted a man who didn't cheat, watch porn, look at other women, etc. It got tons of replies all ...

Does barely legal porn set a trigger for middle-aged men when young teenage girls come into their visual range

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

29 January 2013 (F - My boyfriend of 51 years of age likes Barely Legal Porn. That is the only type of porn he likes. He buys the cd's and also the Barely Legal Magazines. He tags the magazine pages with sticky notes of the young girls that he likes. What I have no...

Your thoughts on this? He's verbally abusive, spends time online gaming and watching porn. Have to ask him for his % share of bills. Is this relationship working or is there an answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

29 January 2013 (F - hey guys i am writing this because i am at the end of tether with this man who is supposed to be my husband. We have been married for 4 years and it was long distance. I moved to the US about a year ago and since coming here my relations...

My boyfriend watches an inordinate amount of porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

29 January 2013 (F - I feel like this is a question that's been asked over and over again, and will probably be asked again many times in the future. My boyfriend watches an inordinate amount of porn. He's 22. While the fact that he's watching porn seriously bugs me,...

I want a man who doesn't cheat or look at pornography. Does he exist?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

27 January 2013 (F - I want a man like this does this even exist? Basically i'm after a man who does not engage in any kind of cheating at all (glances at swimsuit pics mildly acceptable.) but no porn, no talking dirty to others, little female friends, no strip clubs. ...

Porn haters, what would you do in this dilemma?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

26 January 2013 (F - Hi I am female who hates porn in a relationship first off but I have a dilemma.... Porn haters what would you do in my situation... Go back to the guy who was viewing artistic porn with the sound off and didn't give it up until I ask for a ult...

Is looking at porn the morning after you've slept with your girlfriend, a bit odd and uncalled for?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

26 January 2013 (F - Would anyone else agree with this? Looking at porn the morning after you've slept with your girlfriend is a bit odd and uncalled for? Why would they want to look at someone else that soon?...

Boyfriends sex drive has dwindled, but then I found out he's been watching porn. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

24 January 2013 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years but we don't live together. When we first got together, our sex life was amazing and we were having sex every day, which naturally has dwindled over time... however recently, it has become roughly ...

Can anyone help me feel better about this? My heart is broken over our breakup.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

20 January 2013 (F - My first love and I broke up a month ago. We had been together for 2 years and even lived together. We broke up because we both have issues, but mainly because he wasn't ready to be with one person forever and because he was in denial about be...

Anyone have a boyfriend who was so satisfied he gave up porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

19 January 2013 (F - Are there any women here whose boyfriend's stopped watching porn because they felt they didn't need it anymore because they were satisfied fully? My ex claimed he would of stopped anyway if I hadn't of told him to stop....

How do I regain girlfriend's trust after watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

19 January 2013 (M - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and she found out that I' had been watching porno from time to time .i love her so much all I truly want to do is to gain her trust and make her happy (I am no longer watching porno I have looked for ways ...

What do most people consider as porn? Would looking at nude pics classify as watching porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

17 January 2013 (F - My ex and I were constantly getting in fights about him watching porn. In the end it wasn't so much that he was watching porn that bothered me but the fact that he disrespected how I felt about it and wouldn't stop. But before that, for a long time ...

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

13 January 2013 (F - PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t mana...

Can or have men been able to stop using Porn once they meet the woman who is the 'ONE'?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

12 January 2013 (F - Is there any men here who stopped using porn once they found a girlfriend who they thought was the one? Am I just dreaming here or can this happen? I have read about this happening as soon as they started the relationship. ...

How I can get him to stop watching AS MUCH porn? It troubled me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4123 days ago

11 January 2013 (F - My boyfriend and I both turn 23 next month (interesting, I know) and we've been together for a notch over 2.5 years. We used to have discussions that turned into arguments about the fact that he is my third sexual partner (my second was a one nigh...

I am sick of my B/f sneaking around behind my back to jerk off! Is it normal for men to be like that?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

8 January 2013 (F - Okay so anybody's advice would be excellent, especially a womans. I'm 18 and have been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1 and a half years, our sex life is average, and I'm always keen even if I don't finish. He's jerked off to internet porn during ...

Is my boyfriend using escort services again? Should I hire a private investigator or just end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

7 January 2013 (F - I'm struggling. The men among you might help me out... 3 years ago, I discovered my boyfriend (then of 7 years) had been visiting escorts. I found this out after becoming suspicious of his behaviour and after some crafty web-history anal...

Husband spends his alone during the week watching porn, then expects sex on a plate at the weekends. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

7 January 2013 (F - My husband and I are on two different work schedules so we only see each other for an hour or so a day until the weekend. During the week my husband just watches porn and then thinks that I am supposed to be available for sex all weekend. It makes...

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

4 January 2013 (F - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

He watches porn, there's talk of threesomes and dominance. What's wrong with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

2 January 2013 (F - So my bf is always stating that I want threesome and I tell him I don't and I never wanted it when it was offered. But he refuses to believe me or pulls some other guy outta the air and says I want it with him. It's so hurtful n annoys annoying, I ...

My husband watches porn while I am at work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

2 January 2013 (F - I have been with my husband for three years marrird for two.I am very depressed .my husband watches porn while I am at work.He doesnt work or do anything around the house.I tried to talk to him about this but he days he doesnt have a problem.He lies ...

How much porn use is too much?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

1 January 2013 (? - How much porn use is too much? I am a 19 year old virgin and am single. I have only one ex where I did not use any porn for most of the relationship until the end when we broke up over distance issues (college). It's been about 5 months since our...

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