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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...
A. 7 November 2009: Teachers that have sex with their students SHOULD go to jail.
If teenagers want to have fun, they should be playing video games or something, not having sex. ... (read in full...)
Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?
Q. Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...
A. 7 November 2009: Apparently Monica Lewinsky wasn't bothered by it. At least that's what I hear. :)... (read in full...)
I just can't STOP looking at porn! Help!
Q. So I've tryed to stop looking at porn and porn videos ill stop but then go right back. how could I stop it?...
A. 4 November 2009: It's a question of willpower, pure and simple.
I love tacos al pastor and crave them all the time. I often wonder if food can be addictive. If I were to eat tacos al pastor every time I felt like it... I'd be as big as a house.
I go to... (read in full...)
Would I be overstepping the mark with a birthday card?
Q. Hi! I just have a bit of a small issue. I am friends (very close friends, but I want it to be more) with a guy, we are like two peas in a pod, and it is his birthday soon. I really like him a lot, but he has a girlfriend. Would it be inappropri...
A. 1 November 2009: I'm going to play the Devil's Advocate, and may get some flack for it, but this is my opinion:
It would be wrong of you to try to break them up while he's committed to her, but it would also be wrong of her to expect him to turn his back on your ... (read in full...)
Advice needed. I think I'm in love with my best guy friend but he does not love me back
Q. I know this is a repeated question and it is quite long, but please bear with me. I have the most wonderful guy friend you could ever ask for. He is my best guy friend, and I love him dearly. He is always there for me when I am down, he tells me ...
A. 1 November 2009: You've got to tell him how you feel.
It's scary, I know. But if you hold back then eventually you'll regret it. If the worst happens, you'll be ok, I promise... at least you'll have your answer and won't have to deal with regrets.
Que te ... (read in full...)
He asks me to split the check - is he really interested in me?
Q. I'm a little old fashioned and always had the idea that when a man is truly interested in you he pays for dinner. I've been on four dates with this guy and each time he ask to split the check. Is this guy really into me?...
A. 1 November 2009: It's possible he's interested but in my opinion he needs to learn some manners. He invited YOU out to spend your own money? Puhleeeease. I'd be insulted. ... (read in full...)
Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?
Q. im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help...
A. 1 November 2009: The only way to lose your virginity is to have sexual relations. In other words, it requires a penis.
You can't get pregnant from masturbation, and you can't contract HIV or an STD either.
I could be wrong but I don't recall Jesus mentioning... (read in full...)
Can he be a virgin at 40 plus???
Q. I've known this guy just under a year- both in our early 40's- we met at work but dont work in same place. We have a few friends in common and others who arent. Since we met we have seen loads of each other - we now see each other every week or so, ...
A. 1 November 2009: It's not common, but it is possible. When to have sex for the first time is a personal decision, and virginity, or lack thereof, does not make a person superior or inferior.
I'm not sure where he's from, but in some cultures, it's common f... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 1 November 2009: You deserve better than this, I'm sure. ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 31 October 2009: I don't even know if this is an option in Macedonia, and I don't mean to get your hopes up, but would open adoption be an option?
I worked with a girl who became pregnant, and was very sad to give up her baby, and felt that adoption would mean a b... (read in full...)
Will I ever meet someone I'm truly attracted to?
Q. Have you ever saw the movie Becoming Jane with Anne Hathaway, who plays the role of Jane Austen, the English writer who never got married because she couldn't marry the one she truly loved. Well, I feel just like her. I'm 32 years old and never be...
A. 31 October 2009: Don't settle for being someone's mistress and don't settle for some guy you don't love.
Just because the guy didn't reciprocate your feelings doesn't mean you're inadequate... it means that either he didn't realize your worth, or the chemistr... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 31 October 2009: What if he has bad hygiene? I would be so grossed out. ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: When you make a mistake, you have to swallow your pride and admit, "I screwed up," and face the consequences.
Losing someone's trust is a huge mistake. If you do this, then it's your responsibility to do whatever it takes do patch things u... (read in full...)
Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?
Q. My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...
A. 31 October 2009: Tell me the truth: WHY doesn't she trust you?... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 30 October 2009: We shouldn't give mean advice to ANYONE!! People come here for help, nasty advice defeats the purpose.
I'm sorry about your mom, that must be hard.
Who is your guardian? You need to talk to an adult that you trust about this. Have you t... (read in full...)
Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?
Q. My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out ...
A. 29 October 2009: The other aunts and uncles make a good point when they say that this guy may have ulterior motives. I'm not sure if he does, but I can tell that you feel bad about yourself, and there's something you can do about it that would make you happier. If ... (read in full...)
Does it sound like he told his brother about me?
Q. All last year I had a really big crush on this guy. There were a lot of reasons that led me to believe that he liked me too, but we are both REALLY shy and never went any where. I thought I would get over him over the summer, but I didn't. This year ...
A. 29 October 2009: Just talk to him! You don't have to spill your guts and tell him you love him (that would scare him). Just go up and say hello. What have you go to lose?... (read in full...)
Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?
Q. My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out ...
A. 29 October 2009: Why don't you find a sport you both like and participate together?
:)... (read in full...)
Advice needed for a fellow Agony Uncle
Q. My friend who is a gay man (I am too btw) has tried to dump his boyfriend 6 times to date. Each time he does this the boyfriend cries his eyes out and tells him (my friend) that he can't live without him, etc etc. My friend gets sad and takes him ...
A. 29 October 2009: Hello fellow Agony Uncle,
Caring Guy is right. The best thing that you can do for your friend is to be a good friend to him. What direction the relationship goes in is his decision to make. Be there for him, and listen to him, and give him advi... (read in full...)
Is it true that men like women with a few more curves?
Q. My b/f and I have both gained about 25 pounds since becoming involved with each other 4 years ago. (What can I say, we both love to cook, eat and drink). But I've decided enough is enough and started watching my calories and making time to work out ...
A. 29 October 2009: When he was initially attracted to you, you were at the weight you consider to be ideal. He was interested in you when you weighed 128 pounds... I feel that if you truly love someone, that you're not gonna stop just because that person lost or ... (read in full...)
Should I go to Spain to be an Au Pair?
Q. Hi. I hope you can help.I am 25 years old and i'm from England, and I have recently got a job as an Au Pair in Spain. I'm supposed to move next week! The problem is, my mum doesn't want me to go, as i haven't had any childcare experience, and i ...
A. 29 October 2009: I can't believe this coincidence.
I'm going to Spain for the first time in November, and, like your mom, my mom is in a tailspin.
The important thing is to know what you're getting into, and using common sense. Your safety depends on those... (read in full...)
I already know he's a womanizer. Should I go for it?
Q. I am in a relationship with a divorced man who is well educated. I love him and had sex with him. Recently he has been saying about his past relationships and it appears that he had sex with two other women when he was married just because he had a ...
A. 27 October 2009: Avoid him like the swine flu.
Why would you want to be with someone who can't be trusted?
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How did I let my friend know I just want to be friends?!
Q. Hello everyone i have a question for you all. I am 29 and i have a late 40s guys after me and i have done told him all i can be with him is friends! We Have Slept Together a time are two! and i just can not see myself with him in a relationship i ...
A. 25 October 2009: I'm not trying to be mean, but if you sleep with him and say that you just want to be friends, it sends a mixed message.
Tell him that he is a wonderful friend and that you care about him AS A FRIEND, but that you're not ready for a relation... (read in full...)
Is it shallow for me to pursue women with small breasts?
Q. I have a strong physical attraction to women with small breasts. Is it a shallow thing to actively pursue women with this physical feature or given that it is both not a common thing for a guy to be attracted to and that it is a source of self ...
A. 25 October 2009: What I mean to say is, that if you're going to pursue someone, it SHOULD be someone that you are attracted to.
This isn't exactly a physical feature, but I am only attracted to guys who speak Spanish. People always say stuff like, "English... (read in full...)
Is it shallow for me to pursue women with small breasts?
Q. I have a strong physical attraction to women with small breasts. Is it a shallow thing to actively pursue women with this physical feature or given that it is both not a common thing for a guy to be attracted to and that it is a source of self ...
A. 24 October 2009: It's quite true, you like who you like.
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Why do I feel ashamed after I cum?
Q. How is it that when I cum I feel ashamed after?...
A. 23 October 2009: You have no reason to feel ashamed... unless, like Daniel says, you committed rape or cheated on someone.
Ejaculation is part of nature. It's what you were made to do. You have no reason to be ashamed, any more than you should be ashamed ... (read in full...)
How can I keep from being jealous of my married lovers flirting with other women?
Q. I fear I have lost my married lover due to one jealous outburst in a year. I have always maintained complete discretion but last night I found myself angered by him talking openly with other women at a bar when I don't feel that I can even look at ...
A. 23 October 2009: He's cheating on his wife! If he can't even be trusted to keep his marriage vows, how can you believe anything he says? He isn't trustworthy! ... (read in full...)
What is the theory on being friends with exes?
Q. I'm looking for some advice on being friends with ex's. I've gotten some great answers here to other relationship questions. The girl I'm seeing wants me to commit to her in a relationship, but she told me that she still keeps things from every ex ...
A. 20 October 2009: Sometimes a relationship simply doesn't work out, and it's nobody's fault. That doesn't mean that your ex wouldn't make a good friend. The more friends you have, the better. ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but he is shorter then me!
Q. Hi, I'm currently finishing my last few weeks of high school and just very recently I've been falling for this guy. He's so adorable, cute and kind, but, he's shorter than me! He's heaps shorter than me actually, yet, he's still older. I don't k...
A. 20 October 2009: If you really like him, then you really like him. You feel uncomfortable because men are often taller than women and you're not used to this.
Does he like you? If it's mutual then go for it. While there's always hope of finding someone,... (read in full...)
I want a child of my own but everyone says not yet!
Q. Hey, i feel so strange, im in college at the moment, in my last year. me and my best mate are both in serious relationships, she always says how she would never have a baby at this age and she thinks its stupid, however, i would do anything to be ...
A. 19 October 2009: Once you are married and have a kid, you can't give free reign to all your own wants anymore. Furthermore, at 17, you're not in a position to provide the kid with the best of everything. You have your whole life ahead of you to have a kid. Now is ... (read in full...)
Are these actions normal for a man almost 30 yrs old?
Q. My boyfriend (29) and I (25) were really enjoying having sex the other night and when he wanted to have anal sex I said no because I knew that my stomach was not up for it. He knows that I really do not like it yet I have promised to continue doing ...
A. 18 October 2009: Speaking of moving... I think I WILL move to Tristan de Cunha!! With the sickos in this world... I want to get as far away as possible.... (read in full...)
Why do I keep attracting nerds?
Q. So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. W...
A. 17 October 2009: Rhythm and blues is right!
¿Cuál es lo que tienen de malo los nerds?
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Are these actions normal for a man almost 30 yrs old?
Q. My boyfriend (29) and I (25) were really enjoying having sex the other night and when he wanted to have anal sex I said no because I knew that my stomach was not up for it. He knows that I really do not like it yet I have promised to continue doing ...
A. 17 October 2009: I agree with Grimm Reality. This guy deserves to have his ass kicked. Why would you want a man like that???
Hey Grimm Reality do you read Curtis (the comic strip)? Because that's what Curtis is about this week... the Dysentery Value Meal, lo... (read in full...)
The guy I was dating dumped me after we had sex!
Q. I am really hurting--but I know I have to go on and forget this. I just don't know how. I was dating a man for two months and really fell for him. I cared about him very much and he told me he was very attracted to and interested in me. One ...
A. 12 October 2009: I am sorry that you are hurting.
This guy IS a loser and you DO deserve much better.
He didn't even have the balls to say this to your face, so he had to do it via email. Rhythm and Satin are correct that he's a bastard and cold, but he's a... (read in full...)
I can't afford protection so are there any other methods of birth control?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to live with him in his car. He hates his father and his mother kicked him out. He asked me to help him clean it out because of all the vodka bottles in the back seat. He chain smokes, so that will take some getting used to. ...
A. 10 October 2009: Sometimes we have to choose between what we want to do, and what is the right thing. It sounds like this is one of those situations.
What if you were to get pregnant? It's very likely that you would get pregnant from unprotected sex. That's c... (read in full...)
I can't afford protection so are there any other methods of birth control?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to live with him in his car. He hates his father and his mother kicked him out. He asked me to help him clean it out because of all the vodka bottles in the back seat. He chain smokes, so that will take some getting used to. ...
A. 10 October 2009: Sometimes we have to choose between what we want to do, and what is the right thing. It sounds like this is one of those situations.
What if you were to get pregnant? It's very likely that you would get pregnant from unprotected sex. That's c... (read in full...)
She needs time but I'm home suffering in agony over her!
Q. okay, well basically i'm lost. My girlfriend and i broke up yesterday because i snapped and found a call from another guy on her phone and text him cussing him out for calling her. this guy has defended her in school and apparently he knew about ...
A. 10 October 2009: Just because a guy called her doesn't mean she was cheating!
How do you know that he isn't just a friend? Doesn't she have guys who are friends? There's nothing wrong with that as long as they're not snogging.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man out?
Q. I have another question, is it wrong for woman to ask man out on a date? Does it start a cycle of a woman taking the male role in the relationship?...
A. 10 October 2009: Why would it be wrong? It's unorthodox, but that isn't necessarily bad.
If you're shy about asking him out, just be friendly and drop some hints. He'll get them!... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 10 October 2009: Have you talked to a doctor or dietician about this?
You should make an appointment with two or three, anything involving medical treatment... you should get a second opinion. I bet the other posters are right, there's a wide range of options.... (read in full...)
Shouldn't she inspire me to get my driver's license?
Q. I really fell for this girl I met online. We dont live too close by, but its not that far either. About 30-40 minute drive. We have been talking for months and we planned on getting together a few months back, but things didnt work out. Then we ...
A. 10 October 2009: I didn't get my license until I was nearly 18 years old.
I was ready for the freedom, but overwhelmed by the responsibility of driving. Driving IS scary, because your life and others' lives are in your hands.
You say that you should have ... (read in full...)
Is every single girl obsessed with looks?
Q. Ok. Im 16 and male. I am quite intelligent, although lack in strength and im not the best-looking person one could meet...although im not the worst. I dont understand teen girls much as you can probably guess but whenever I get my hopes up it just ...
A. 4 October 2009: Meet girls with common interests and make friends with girls. Infatuation wears off eventually but friendships are forever and they often lead to more than friendship.
Every girl is different... me, for example. I want someone who knows ho... (read in full...)
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