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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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I'm afraid my mom is pregnant...
Q. Ugh, I think my mom's pregnant. I'm 16 and an only child, my parents are married and I love how my life is. I don't want anything to change and i'm in shock.. I feel like crying... My mom is 38 and she got pregnant last year, too, but had an ...
A. 16 December 2009: How do you know that she´s pregnant?
Don´t borrow trouble, you don´t know for sure that she is.
I´m assuming from your post that you have reason to believe she is... but WHY?
I think you should just ask your mom, although she might not b... (read in full...)
Should I cheat or not?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have already lost interest in having sex with my wife whom I think to be frigid and I had been masturbating about my sister-in-law whom I think to be horny as I saw her on many occasions masturbating with her pillow. I have plans to...
A. 16 December 2009: I think that you know that cheating is wrong.
Even if we were to say, ´´Go ahead and cheat, it´s 100% fine!´´... that wouldn´t alter the fact that it´s wrong.
Marriage means going before God (or whatever higher power you believe in) and ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but aren't guys supposed to ask the girl out?
Q. Well like I really like this guy and he trusts me with all of his secrets and I trust him with all mine. I told him I liked him and he said cool. I just heard he was single, but not for long. Him and his ex gf keep going on and off but I really want ...
A. 2 December 2009: Who is the person that makes up all these unwritten laws?
Supposed to? What does that mean? Nowhere in the Bible does it say that you can´t ask a guy out, you wont go to hell for it. It´s not a crime, they cant arrest you.
Go for it, li... (read in full...)
I really like him, but aren't guys supposed to ask the girl out?
Q. Well like I really like this guy and he trusts me with all of his secrets and I trust him with all mine. I told him I liked him and he said cool. I just heard he was single, but not for long. Him and his ex gf keep going on and off but I really want ...
A. 2 December 2009: Who is the person that makes up all these unwritten laws?
Supposed to? What does that mean? Nowhere in the Bible does it say that you can´t ask a guy out, you wont go to hell for it. It´s not a crime, they cant arrest you.
Go for it, li... (read in full...)
Seem to be socially handicapped, is there something actually wrong with me?
Q. I have so much that I don't know how to start. I'm an aunt here on this site, but I prefer to be anonymous. In spite of the fact that I'm an agony aunt, I seemed to be cursed with the inability to click with people or make friends. I'...
A. 29 November 2009: Hey everyone!! I wrote this question and I just wanted to say thanks to everyone!! Thanks for listening to me and writing to me. It means SO MUCH to me. :)
Anonymous female, I wanted to say that is a very good point you make when you say to l... (read in full...)
He cheated and I thought I was over it but I still feel paranoid. Is this normal?
Q. I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. He is my first true love and I haven't been able to notice any other guy since. I am at Uni now and we are still together as we had agreed (he is still at home). He has...
A. 27 November 2009: I am sorry for the pain you´re going true. I don´t want to hurt you, but you deserve to be free, and the truth will free you.
Of COURSE it´s normal. This guy lied to you. He broke your trust.
Furthermore, I have learned to pay close attent... (read in full...)
Why are bigger breasts better?
Q. I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce ...
A. 27 November 2009: Askmen.com... you have to remember that ANYONE can write an online blog. Just because it´s on the internet does NOT mean it´s true! It´s not the Bible, or Encyclopedia Britannica... it´s Askmen.com.
The Internet is a GREAT research tool, when use... (read in full...)
I am just so in love with him, what shall I do?
Q. I need help. I keep having sexual dreams about my teacher and i really want to tell him. It feels that everytime i see him i will explode because i want to tell him. He is so sweet and cool. He is my p.e teacher so he is in great shape. He has th...
A. 27 November 2009: This is VERY common for young girls to experience. You´re at the age where you have sexual feelings but guys your age can be VERY immature (notice I said CAN be). When you get to college, they will done a considerable amount of growing up. I ... (read in full...)
Why are bigger breasts better?
Q. I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce ...
A. 27 November 2009: Who the hell would wanna date the man who wrote that?
Either it´s satire, or the guy is kind of a jerk.
If someone truly loves you, they won´t try to change you. they´ll accept you as you are. There´s nothing inherently undesirable abou... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he isnt "in love with me anymore"..what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he isn't in love with me anymore. He said that he still loves me to death, he is just not in love with me. So he moved out yesterday and said he needed to get away. He said he still wants to be ...
A. 26 November 2009: I´m sorry for the pain you´re in, but when we´re in pain, we can´t see the situation in an objective light.
I´m not sure if this will be comforting (I hope it will), but I have been in a LOT of pain before, and had my heart broken, and people t... (read in full...)
Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...
A. 19 November 2009: My heart is just breaking for you. No one deserves this.
You DO need to get away from him, and go to the police, and press charges. You don't want me to tell you to go to the police, because he's threatened you. I know that you're be afraid, ... (read in full...)
I have a date and I don't know what to talk about!
Q. ok i need help and pretty fast!! I just accepted this date from a guy i have liked for months and months. Well i don't know that much about him and previously on dates lets just say i suck at them. When i'm out with my friends im this bubbly outg...
A. 18 November 2009: Don't be nervous, just be yourself.
I can understand your fears and your doubts, but remember, that listening is important, as well. Ask him questions about himself, and look him in the eyes and listen to what he's saying, with interest... (read in full...)
I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.
Q. I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...
A. 18 November 2009: I know that it hurts, but trust me, this guy wasn't for you and you will heal, and move on. I've had my heart broken and I learned that, although you need love (and I'm sure you'll eventually find love), that a relationship with a man is not going ... (read in full...)
I'm willing to compromise in my home. How can I get my daughter-in-law to pitch in?
Q. My husband and I both smoke. I know it's a nasty, unhealthy, disgusting habit but we have it, nonetheless. We don't smoke in other people's homes out of respect for their space but feel we have the right to do what we want in our own home. ...
A. 18 November 2009: It's good that you're not smoking around the kids... secondhand smoke is potentially more dangerous than firsthand smoke.
Just a suggestion, but have you tried to quit smoking? This is your health, and so very important. I've never been on chemo... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 18 November 2009: 1. Because they have been deceived and believe the guy is single.
2. They know he's married, and have no morals.... (read in full...)
How do I introduce myself to the guy that caught my eye?
Q. so i like this guy and i have said hey to him a few times....i smile at him make eye contact all the usual stufft that a girl does when she like a guy...but i havnt tod him my name yet..so how do i introduce myself to him without looking like a ...
A. 18 November 2009: Don't be afraid! Just be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not for you. Just be friendly to him, at worst you'll have a new friend.
Who knows, he may even reciprocate your feelings. Just take the leap of faith, a... (read in full...)
Why won't any man have sex with me?
Q. I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...
A. 18 November 2009: Exactly where in the USA do you live?
In my hometown, it's unheard of to have sex with someone NOT related to you, lol.
Seriously, though, the most important thing is to save sex for the loving relationship. You sound like you have a lot of go... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: Hey well-help,
I was just reading Yahoo news, and they have this article about the three sexiest men of the year. One of them is Brad Pitt. Some of the regulars on this page know this, but I think Brad Pitt is revolting.
It just proves that... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: Everyone your age has something they feel self-conscious about.
I got taunted about having double joints. It doesn't bother me, I was grateful to be illness-free and not crippled. Sadly so many people are not so fortunate.
You're fine t... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: That boy that taunted you is ignorant.
Breast milk comes from the milk glands, which are the same size in ALL women.
A VERY small-chested woman can nurse her babies just as well as Dolly Parton.
Your friend, Jodie, is very rude. Te... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: Marriedlady, if you're referring to necrophilia... that would be strange. There are people who are into necrophilia, and I think it's gross, but I think this guy is in love with how this woman was in life, or how he imagines her to have been in ... (read in full...)
I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?
Q. ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...
A. 18 November 2009: If he's had unprotected sex with all these girls, chances are high that he has a disease.
You can get sick the very first time you have sex. You could literally be putting your life and your health in danger.
If you abstain, you'll look back... (read in full...)
Is it bad to talk to yourself?
Q. Is it bad to talk to yourself? I dont do it in public but if I'm by myself such as in the car driving I usaully talk to myself. The reason I do it is because I dont have nobody else to talk to all my friends that were always ears have babies now ...
A. 18 November 2009: I sing to myself quite often.
If you realize that you're talking to yourself, and you aren't having hallucinations, then I don't think it's bad. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: It doesn't sound insane, but you have to be realistic.
If you allow yourself to dwell on your love for this woman, and fall for her, or what you imagine her to be, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
Many people have had "amores plat... (read in full...)
Any tips for losing weight quickly?
Q. hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing...
A. 18 November 2009: Take up martial arts, if that's an option. It's an expensive sport, but it's worth it. A lot of places let you have a trial class or two to see how you like it.
I had really low self-estemm and I was disgusted with my body, but I took up karat... (read in full...)
I am sweating too much!
Q. i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...
A. 17 November 2009: The other aunts are correct.
There is a condition called "hyperhidrosis," and the primary symptom is sweating profusely. It's not life-threatening, just annoying, but the good news is that there's something than can do about it. You need to ... (read in full...)
I am sweating too much!
Q. i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...
A. 17 November 2009: The other aunts are correct.
There is a condition called "hyperhidrosis," and the primary symptom is sweating profusely. It's not life-threatening, just annoying, but the good news is that there's something than can do about it. You need to ... (read in full...)
My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!
Q. i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...
A. 17 November 2009: Have you talked to a counselor about this? Don't get me wrong; we're glad to listen to your problems... but something tells me that a marriage counselor could really help. You need to tell him how you feel, and open his eyes up to the effect it ... (read in full...)
My b/f and his friends make really sexist jokes, should I worry?
Q. My bf and his friends (who are in their mid 20's) make jokes really sexist jokes. They also find it funny and entertaining talking about women being bashed up and abused by their bf's as well as women being raped and sexually assaulted. How can they...
A. 17 November 2009: Nothing wrong with being a Christian, or a non Christian; If you are a Christian, though, why aren't you dating a guy with Christian values? There are plenty of nice, wonderful decent guys who are Christian, Jewish, Hindu or even completely ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 17 November 2009: Anon, you say it's "unlikely" that pregnancy will occur.
First of all, you can easily get pregnancy from having sex. It's not unlikely.
Even if it WERE unlikely, there is STILL a chance!! As devastating and tragic as teenage pregnanc... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!
Q. Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...
A. 17 November 2009: Any time you have sex, there is a chance of pregnancy occurring. It's not fair to bring a child into the world and not be able to provide it with the best of everything.
Imagine that your girlfriend did get pregnant, from the perspective of the b... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?
Q. Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...
A. 17 November 2009: If he hit you, he belongs in jail. What are you doing with him??? GET OUTTA THERE!!!!
Don't raise your voice, shout, or argue with him. It's not going to do you any good. The only thing that will is to get the hell out of this relation... (read in full...)
Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???
Q. This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended...
A. 17 November 2009: Everybody needs exercise. Your body NEEDS exercise, even if you're at your ideal weight. In order to stay healthy, you have to take care of your body. It's a proven fact that regular exercise drastically reduces your chances of getting sick down ... (read in full...)
I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?
Q. Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont ...
A. 17 November 2009: I think it would help if you had someone to talk to.
If you're feeling sad for no reason then you could be depressed. It would be a good idea to get this checked out.
You say that you sometimes have bouts of crying for no reason... are yo... (read in full...)
My friends gang up on me! What have I done to deserve all this?
Q. Ok, i have so many problems right now and i feel so stressed. Firstly a few months ago i fell out with my 3 best friends because they never involved me in anything they did and 'ganged' up on me all the time, one of them was even meant to be going ...
A. 10 November 2009: Nearly everyone feels insecure as a teenager. I imagine that your friends treat you cruelly because they're feeling insecure, too, and you are a convenient scapegoat.
It sounds like your self-esteem is really in the gutter. You ARE special ... (read in full...)
My bossy boss!
Q. I have a boss that is very emotionally abusive towards me. I can never do anything right it seems no matter what. I have talked to her only once about it but it still occurs. I do my absolute best to please her but its not enough. The worst is she ...
A. 10 November 2009: That sounds really stressful and I would like to help, but could you be more specific? What kinds of things did she do? Can you give me some examples? ... (read in full...)
Why did this girl cancel her hair appt. with me to go with a stranger?
Q. Evening all! This isnt a love question but im hoping you might have some advice. I am a qualified hairdresser and worked in a salon for a few years before settling down in to an office job-more pay and less hours. When some of my colleagues fou...
A. 9 November 2009: She sounds really rude. I wouldn't take it personally. Some people are ungrateful. ... (read in full...)
Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?
Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...
A. 8 November 2009: Unfortunately, you can get an STD from oral or anal sex as well as intercourse. It's very dangerous to engage in these activities. While only abstinence will protect you 100%, condoms can lower the chance of getting sick. ... (read in full...)
Am I shallow because I like men, based on their looks?
Q. I need some advice/opinions/anything on this issue I have. As long as I can remember I’ve been really attracted to blond/blue eyed/boyish looking men (Brad Pitt when he was young, Jensen Ackles, Patrick Wilson type guys). I’ve ‘chased’ a few guys in ...
A. 7 November 2009: I don't understand what's so special about Brad Pitt? Even when he was younger, I asked myself the same thing. I don't mean to insult anyone, but if I were a cat, I would bury Brad Pitt in kitty litter.
LePew makes a good point... are you with... (read in full...)
How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?
Q. I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...
A. 7 November 2009: No WAY!! Is this for real?
Yes, you should tell the parents. ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...
A. 7 November 2009: Teachers that have sex with their students SHOULD go to jail.
If teenagers want to have fun, they should be playing video games or something, not having sex. ... (read in full...)
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