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I am married because I fell in love with someone and wanted to stay with her.
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Only 14-25 year olds answer, please: I'm unsure about what to expect when it comes to handjobs and giving head.
Q. hello, i am a 14 year old girl going into eight grade. this is the grade where girls start to give hand jobs. I am just unsure of what i should do if this comes upon me, and how it will come upon me. will he most likely ask me to do it, or will...
A. 29 August 2009: Ok, your are incredibly young to even consider that. You may be able to do it but why not wait until you're older because doing that with randomized people; you'll lose any respect people have for you. Trust me on this, I'm smart enough to know ... (read in full...)
She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!
Q. so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...
A. 29 August 2009: My oh my, sounds like a sad situation. It is messed up that she would do something like that behind your back and lie about or she probably lied when she said she was going to tell you. Many women are bad natured and the thought of doing something ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 4 July 2009: Female reader anonymous, I have been very observant, she has noticed. She has given me reason to inquire her of some issues thst have been pressing me. Well everyone, I have found something out. I asked her about the hotel again I believe yesterday ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 1 July 2009: Female reader, anonymous: Third party involved? I would hope not on that level but I know recently she has been talking to her ex. Whenever I'm away from her of course. How do I know? For one, she seeked him out on MY Myspace account. I checked my ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 30 June 2009: JasonX, you bear a good point. No, I'm not that kind of man I prefer to be more gentle in nature. I'm a Taurus, so sometimes I can be stubborn and aggressive like in nature; but I do like to please my cancer and shower her with gifts whenever I get ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 30 June 2009: SirenaBlusera, even though it hurts me to talk or think about, I'll tell you. It may be long, probably will. I'll explain it in some detail. The first time I remember, she was talking on the phone in the kitchen(cooking), inappropriate conversation ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and don't know anything about sex, please help!
Q. I am too shy to ask this but I really need help, well I am 18 years old, female and I don't know anything about sex because no one around me seems to wanna educate me sexually. Can everybody please explain to me what to do the first night you lose ...
A. 29 June 2009: You know what? You're absolutely right HereToHelpx; it shouldn't matter to ME if she's gay or not, and it really doesn't. SY does have good advice so I'll agree on that.... (read in full...)
I am 18 and don't know anything about sex, please help!
Q. I am too shy to ask this but I really need help, well I am 18 years old, female and I don't know anything about sex because no one around me seems to wanna educate me sexually. Can everybody please explain to me what to do the first night you lose ...
A. 28 June 2009: Well, it's many things you can do the first night with sex. For one, make sure condoms are available, the last thing you need is to get a STD or something first time having sex. Secondly, when you do: do what you may want to do to the person or let ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!
Q. Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...
A. 28 June 2009: Ok, I guess around that same age, you're right. I don't think you're gay, just saying please don't go that way. Too many women in the world:) When the time comes, you'll be fine.... (read in full...)
Tempted to lose my virginity to a married man. Do I or don't I?
Q. Hi, I am an unmarried virgin girl.For the last two years iam in friendship with a married man. He is asking me for sex and to spend 3 nights with him. He says that it will not affect my future marriage. I am tempted to have sex with him. What ...
A. 28 June 2009: Whatever you do, respect a person's marriage and Don't Do It! He obviously is having marriage problems or is just plain stupid. I'm married and I would really feel bad if I was cheated on; it's not cool to play with peoples emotions. Don't get ... (read in full...)
Do LDR's work? Want to get with a guy but he's moving in September!
Q. Hey. I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, bu...
A. 28 June 2009: Good luck, if you two are serious about each other enough, I know for a fact it'll atually work. ... (read in full...)
Do LDR's work? Want to get with a guy but he's moving in September!
Q. Hey. I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, bu...
A. 28 June 2009: I have been in a situation similar to that before. I realized it all depends on the two people. One person could feel one way about it and think it'll work while the other may not be able to handle it. It sucks when you may really like or love ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: I have talked to her, SirenaBlusera; but when I did, she got way too offended as if I was acusing her of something. I wasn't; just wanted to let her know how I felt when she did that but she got too mad to care of my feelings. It sure seemed like ... (read in full...)
Going down on my boyfriend makes me gag! Any tips?
Q. Well this is kind of embaressing.. My boyfriend likes it when I go down on him, but it makes me gag! I don't know whats wrong with me, I think it could be the texture and i don't really like the taste either, I don't mind doing it with condoms tho...
A. 27 June 2009: Of course he likes you going down on him. You don't need to deepthroat him and choke yourself(if that's what you are doing). but if you are not, maybe it disgusts you or you're just not use to it. I don't know. That's the only way I can think a ... (read in full...)
Some tips for guys that are having trouble getting over their gf or wives past sex history.
Q. Something that may help other men that are bothered by their gf or wife's sexual past. This was my original question a few weeks ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-change-my-resurfaced-feelings-about.html I am posting these new th...
A. 27 June 2009: That is very interesting. I am married to and so far its fine. I haven't been married for a year yet but we still are so that's a good sign. When I first met my wife(she was my girlfriend first of course!), I was still a virgin. Not anymore. Our sex ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!
Q. Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...
A. 27 June 2009: You are not missing out, trust me. Keep your virginity at least wait till you are of legal age. And whatever you do, don't go gay. It is not a cool thing to do:(... (read in full...)
Our first date tomorrow, should I kiss her or not?
Q. I am going on a date tommorow with a girl from school, weve only talked a couple times but i asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime and she said yes, so we set up a date tommorow. My question is at the end of the day when im dropping her ...
A. 27 June 2009: You'll know but you really do not want to come on too strongly as that may be a turn off to a woman. many women have different personalities so whatever is best for your situation. You should see how she reacts to you throughout the day you are with ... (read in full...)
How does the guy feel when he touches a girl's breasts?
Q. When a guy is touching a girl's breasts, it feels good for the girl, but what's the guy how does the guy feel?...
A. 27 June 2009: Quite naturally a guy will feel great fondling a girls breast not to mention horny.... (read in full...)
Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...
A. 27 June 2009: I definitely agree with old guy.... (read in full...)
Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...
A. 27 June 2009: First off, Old Guy; sounds like you got good sense. I will completely agree with you. Secondly, WTF? That kind of thing makes me mad and I don't even know you. You should really tell your parents about this and have this no good, manly, wanna be ... (read in full...)
I have deep feelings for my cousin...
Q. hi... I dont know where to start im in a really bad situation and its horrible and wrong and i dont know how to get this sorta thing out of my head and how to help make it better.... so The story... 4 years ago i met my 2nd cousin, I started ...
A. 27 June 2009: What you do is get yourself a man not your kinfolk and stay away from incest. Not only is it illegal but that's completely gross and there are way too many men in the world why pick your cousin? You really need to think about that.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: That's good info everyone. Thanks alot!... (read in full...)
What way do MEN act when they're in love?
Q. Hi guys, this question is for you men. I was wondering the way you act when you are in love, like do your hearts beat so fast when she calls, do you feel bad if she didn't call, do you keep remember her voice, her laugh, what she had said when she ...
A. 27 June 2009: All of that and much more indeed. Many men may have the same traits when they are in love but it actually depends on the person as well. I know when I first fell in love, I did everything in my power to please that person I was with(I still do that ... (read in full...)
Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?
Q. well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doi...
A. 27 June 2009: Please do not send him a naked picture of yourself. That's not right plus he may not even be the age he says he is. He could be some old perv or worse. Wouldn't even matter if he's an old perv, could be a young one or even a female. I wouldn't do ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Well it worked Sincerely Yours, lol! I feel better already:)) Thanks.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thats a thought to consider a female reader, anonymous. But I don't want to leave her so I'll try my best to make things better. Even with that, I don't deserve such disrespect; not when I don't do anything crazy like that.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Sincerely Yours, I never have tried that. You asking that makes me smile for some reason. She likes chocolate, so maybe that's a good idea. I think I have a more better plan now, thanks!... (read in full...)
Could my parents legally stop me moving in with him?
Q. I am a 16 year old female and have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Basically, I want to move out of my parents house and live with my boyfriend. My question is, could my parents legally stop me moving in with him?...
A. 27 June 2009: I have to totally agree with a reader, anonymous. That's what I was saying too.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Yes that situation is frustrating to me Sincerely Yours. And yes I agree with you as you are right. I wanted someone's else opinion about it as to see what other people think. It helps, so thank you. I still have yet to talk about it to her again ... (read in full...)
Should I fly and see my ex, who has a gf, or should I wait for him to come to me?
Q. My ex and I dated for three years, one of those years was our freshman year in college. After that, my family's business was suddenly not doing well, and I needed to come home, as there was not enough money for tuition. We broke up and since, he ...
A. 27 June 2009: Do you like drama? If so, then by all means do that. He has a girlfriend now so respect that and keep your distance and don't cross any boundaries. If you were to do that anyway you'll seem kinda desperate for him. But, it depends on how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Could my parents legally stop me moving in with him?
Q. I am a 16 year old female and have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Basically, I want to move out of my parents house and live with my boyfriend. My question is, could my parents legally stop me moving in with him?...
A. 27 June 2009: Well of course, with your age. Unless rules are totally different where you at. I know in the United States people are considered a minor at 16 and that would be unacceptable. If I had a daughter at that age and she told me she wanted to move out ... (read in full...)
I worry about how I taste!
Q. Okay this may sound weird but here goes: My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean my...
A. 27 June 2009: You obviously taste good enough if your boyfriend wants to do it. As long as you really aren't a nasty person down there, if he wants to, why not let him?... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Thanks Sincerely Yours, SirenaBlusera, and JasonX. I agree with you, I know she is not snooping around or anything, SirenaBlusera; but that kind of thing hurts. Also, that's a good pointer, JasonX; I'll try that.:)... (read in full...)
Having problems with my girl - I need your help!
Q. My girlfrien has been acting funny, we went from talking and texting like crazy to no it seems like she is just talking to me, to make me happy. She went on a 3 day trip for work and said "don't know if I will have time to call during the trip" What ...
A. 27 June 2009: This sounds like she just wants some space from you. Did you do anything recently to make her mad? Even so, if you are together then she should be able to have the time of the day to talk to you. What kind of job does she have? I know for a fact ... (read in full...)
For the guys: If you were showing all the signs of being into one girl, would you be likely to see others too?
Q. Out of curiousity for all you men out there- If you met a girl and are seeing her for a month, and you text her everyday and you ask all your friends (that are friends with her) about her and you mention her to your close family, are you likely t...
A. 27 June 2009: If he is really interested in you then his focus will be on just you. Keep him interested but it should be a 100/100 type of thing if you both really like or want each other.(Sex doesn't mean somebody actually likes or wants to be with you). Don't ... (read in full...)
Hopelessly in love...with a player.
Q. Ok first of all, i'm a 22 year old virgin. i've never had a boyfriend and i had my first kiss just last year at 21. i've always been pretty shy especially when it comes to talking to guys. this is gonna be long, but please help me. here goes...ab...
A. 27 June 2009: Just like Tupac Shakur said, "Sucka for love." From what I read you really don't need to be involved with that kind of person who will treat you like that. You can do alot better and find someone who is more into you and ONLY you. And of course he'd ... (read in full...)
My wife has left me after her mother's death!
Q. My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she ...
A. 26 June 2009: She needs to realize that everybody is going to die some day and that she claims she wanted to spend the rest of her life with you. I understand she is upset with her mother's death but you two were married or still is and you're suppose to be able ... (read in full...)
Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?
Q. Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incide...
A. 26 June 2009: She needs to get over him he not doing anything for her is he. I know I would be insulted my wife going to see another man. And then alone? If she can't handle you going with her then she's definitely up to something. Could be no good. But hey, just ... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: I can understand that, if it was before. This one was while she was with me, so what's up with that. Thank you a reader, anonymous... (read in full...)
Why did I feel horny instantly when I saw her?
Q. i have a girlfriend and we're both bisexual. we had sex for a couple of times already, and we just love doing it, every time she comes to our house, we go straight in my bedroom and start kissing and touching each other and have sex. now, we barely ...
A. 26 June 2009: You really like her, apparently.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Thank you MANswers, that's good advice.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Male reader, anonymous; thank you too. She should have more respect as I honestly do like to treat her with it.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Female reader, anonymous; thank you as well. positivity is good for relationships.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 26 June 2009: Thank you, TheAgonyAunt. To be honest, it was only about 2-3 months after they had broke up because he cheated on her. But you're probably right, so thanks.... (read in full...)
She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!
Q. so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...
A. 26 June 2009: First off, it's only natural you feel badly about that as she is suppose to be with you and not that other person. The fact that she did that does say something and she should apologize for disrespecting you like that. If you two wanted an open ... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 25 June 2009: The thing is her ex cheated on her why would she think about him in such a way? I don't know but I guess it's hard to just not completely love someone that you have for a while. I'll be cool about it but approach the situation in a good way.... (read in full...)
She mentions her ex too often for comfort...
Q. My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...
A. 25 June 2009: Thank you.... (read in full...)
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