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anonymous
writes:I have a strong physical attraction to women with small breasts. Is it a shallow thing to actively pursue women with this physical feature or given that it is both not a common thing for a guy to be attracted to and that it is a source of self consciousness for women, is it something I should look for in a long term, serious partner so that she can feel more attractive and confident in herself?
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reader, Accountable + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
There does have to be a balance between pursuing somebody for their physical qualities as well as their personality traits, opinions, etc, but I see nothing wrong with you wanting to find somebody with specific characteristics - you just know what would suit you. As long as you're not with a woman only because you love her small breasts and just tolerate everything else, i see no problem! Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all for the advice, I appreciate your help in assisting my thinking through this issue.
I guess my dilemma is that by looking for a woman with a certain characteristic, such as small breasts, am I potentially missing out on a woman who would be a loving and intellectually stimulating long term partner?
Or should I get into a relationship with a woman that is different to my ideal, would I be always looking at other women who closer fit what I desire?
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 October 2009):
 What I mean to say is, that if you're going to pursue someone, it SHOULD be someone that you are attracted to.
This isn't exactly a physical feature, but I am only attracted to guys who speak Spanish. People always say stuff like, "English is your first language, so what is your PROBLEM?" But, who are they to judge?
Same thing with you! You live in a free country and you are free to date whoever you want to. :)
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reader, MBHP +, writes (25 October 2009):
I have small boobs, and it's probably the only thing i WOULDNT change about myself, glad some men agree! Small boobs stay where they're supposed to be too... always a good thing, don't get droopy like huge ones! x
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (24 October 2009):
 We are attracted to people for all sorts of reasons and whatever makes both of you compatible is what works for you both!Big breasts, small breasts, it is all about your preference and if you desire women with smaller breasts that is fine it is what you are content with that matters.Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): 100% normal and I agree... I've never been attracked to large brested women... it just doesn't do it for me either!
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (24 October 2009):
It's quite true, you like who you like.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): Of course it isn't!
your not being shallow. Why would you be?
You are attracted to woman with small breast.. So what?
Theres men who like large breasted woman, big butt woman, curvy woman, skinny woman.
Every man has their preference. There is nothing wrong in that at all!
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (24 October 2009):
 If you like these girls, go for them. What is the problem?
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reader, satindesire +, writes (24 October 2009):
 I only date brunette, dark skinned men with black hair. You're not shallow...you like what you like.
Other people's opinions shouldn't matter to you! Date who you're attracted to.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Have I got the woman for you. You guys will be like two peas in a pod. The Bopsy twins. Heckle and Jeckle. Tom and Jerry. Eggs and Ham. Bread and butter. Toast and Jam. Chicken and Dumplings.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-boyfriend-lying-when-he-says-he.html
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (24 October 2009):
 remember, anything bigger than a handful is a waste. Youre not being selfish, its what you go for, so go for it.
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