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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: I can't believe that a customer threw hot coffee at the employees. That's assault!!
There was a customer who hit one of my co-workers with her pocketbook. And another who told the girl that "I can stick my fingers up your ass." I'm not making t... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: I think what the other poster was saying was not to worry about "getting back at," these hateful people. I don't think that anyone actually wished cancer on someone... but seriously...
I don't think anyone WOULD wish cancer on someone else... ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: Oh, and I used to hate those people that would take every garment in the department off the racks... take it ALL in the dressing room... and leave it on the floor for us to pick up.
Man oh man, I WISH I coulda told people where to stick those da... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: people who tell you to 'hurry up' and make a pathetic pained and irritating face when you're already working as hard as you can to get them out because, according to them, they've chosen to leave their baby/dog or a combination of the two in the car ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: No, no, no... I'm not going to call out names... I don't think anyone ever wished cancer on the customers... it was mentioned, however... I am sorry for the confusion.... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 29 June 2009: No problem Jason...
Let us know how it goes, Tbonex.
Exactly what did you say to her, if I may ask?... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: Ahhh thanks Jason, nearly forgot to say thank you!... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: No problem, Tbonex.
I can understand your feelings, did you talk to her about this?
I liked Jason's advice too. That's why I added him, I noticed he gives good advice. :)... (read in full...)
Girls: would you stay with a guy that's so cheap and shallow?
Q. see i use to like this guy when he was studying with me i use to look at him in class because he's so cute well he asked me out and we've been going out for like 4 months and in this period i've never hated any one as much i do not like him when i ...
A. 28 June 2009: Almost forgot to mention, I met a guy like this my first year of college.
Il me parait un cochon!! Il y a beaucoup des hommes dans le monde, bonne chance :) ... (read in full...)
Girls: would you stay with a guy that's so cheap and shallow?
Q. see i use to like this guy when he was studying with me i use to look at him in class because he's so cute well he asked me out and we've been going out for like 4 months and in this period i've never hated any one as much i do not like him when i ...
A. 28 June 2009: If he can't afford it, it's one thing, but it sounds to me like he's just taking advantage of you.
I wouldn't stay with him. ... (read in full...)
Do I go after this girl or not? She's taken!
Q. there is this girl at school i realy like it but she dont no but she is taken and i dont fink she will say yes to me even if she is single but i dont know wot shood i do ???...
A. 28 June 2009: Nothing wrong with being her friend, but as far as pursuing a relationship... wait until they break up. It wouldn't HURT to keep your eyes open, just in case there's someone else... but if you have your heart set on this girl the best thing to do ... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Why don't you just tell her that it bothers you? You should tell her how you feel.
Apparently, she's not sneaking around or anything, so it doesn't sound like she's being unfaithful. I think that in a relationship many people have differen... (read in full...)
I feel like a child compared to my friends because I'm not having sex, drinking and taking drugs!
Q. Im 14 years old and all my friends are already having sex and giving guys BJs and drinking, drugs ect... i really don't fit in but for some reason im friends with them there nice people but i feel as if im werid cos i dont have a boyfriend and im q...
A. 26 June 2009: I'm with Taste of India.
A lot of young people engage in VERY destructive behaviors because they think it's "mature," but then they realize the terrible, terrible consequences of their behaviors, sadly, when it's too late.
Your friends ... (read in full...)
She's really pissed off at me! Was my joke a bit harsh?
Q. Kay my friend is going to sound like a skank but please dont trash her cause I will report you!! Well my friend decided to cheat on her boyfriend for some reason with some random guy she met at a party. They had sex without using anything. She th...
A. 26 June 2009: That wasn't the time or place to be joking.
Imagine how your friend must be feeling. She made a bad decision, but she's in distress and she turned to you for comfort. Maybe you didn't mean to, but you let her down.
You should apologize... (read in full...)
I can check his Facebook mail..Cant resist the temptation!
Q. Hey To cut it short, my exboyfriends facebook account still logs me in and he definately doesnt know. its really hard not to check his emails!! does anyone have a suggestion for me not too do it? Thanks......
A. 26 June 2009: I think you know that it's wrong. ... (read in full...)
How to spoil your man?
Q. Hi all, this time i am seeking suggestions more than answers, actually i want to learn some approaches to spoil my man, he is a really hard worker, and he deserves to be appreciated for that.. what am asking for here, is not a one romantic night to...
A. 26 June 2009: I don't have a boyfriend or husband right now, but I have some ideas. Perhaps if you're musically inclined, you could sing to him or play a song for him?
I've always thought that was so sweet, perhaps because I heard a song where that happened... (read in full...)
Worried about going to the pool with my boyfriend because of my weight!
Q. okay so i have been with my boo for like a week now, school is done and he called me and asked if i want to go with him to the pool. but i am 13 and 210 pounds. but i look 160 pounds since im 5"5. but i am highly highly emberassed to go in the wate...
A. 26 June 2009: What sports interest you? Perhaps you could get your parents to sign up for a gym or you could play soccer. Swimming is also great exercise... so is dancing.
There are many. It's more fun to be active if you like the exercise you do.... (read in full...)
Worried about going to the pool with my boyfriend because of my weight!
Q. okay so i have been with my boo for like a week now, school is done and he called me and asked if i want to go with him to the pool. but i am 13 and 210 pounds. but i look 160 pounds since im 5"5. but i am highly highly emberassed to go in the wate...
A. 26 June 2009: Hey,
All females feel self-conscious in a bathing suit. I imagine that your boyfriend likes you the way you are.
If you would like to lose some weight, of course you can. You should talk to a doctor or nurse about how... but, I've become... (read in full...)
I wrote these lyrics... opinions, please!
Q. Heya i come on this site a lot and i know this isn't the regular question asked but i thought some of you guys would give me your honest opinion. I just would like some people to read this song i wrote- i've won a couple of lyrics competitions and ...
A. 26 June 2009: Good one, damluvaam!!
Do you have the music, maybe on YouTube?
These are very, very valid emotions. Maybe a little too angry, but valid emotions.
Eyes was hoping for one week without a "pubes" question... I was hoping for a week withou... (read in full...)
Cooking and romance!
Q. hey just need a quick peice of advice i have relised that i have never cooked for my girlfriend and it is something i would like to do for her, she likes ittalian food. but how could i turn a night to cook for her into a romantic setting. ...
A. 25 June 2009: What to fix? Frutti di mare (seafood) Italian-style? You can't beat that. Spaghetti bolognese (meat sauce) or al pomodoro (tomato sauce)? And some "insalata" (salad)? Oh, I've got an idea! I like the background music idea, but I hav... (read in full...)
Pornorgraphy against Religion!
Q. Hi I'm having trouble with my boyfriend watching porn. Sometimes when i can't satisfy him myself he wants to watch porn... I feel like he's cheating on me when he does this because he's looking at other women (prettier than me might I add) and it h...
A. 25 June 2009: I don't think that the fact that he's watching porn means he's cheating. Does he know how much this hurts you? Some guys, while not unfaithful per se, can be really thoughtless. Maybe he isn't aware of how it makes you feel, and you need to tell ... (read in full...)
Pornorgraphy against Religion!
Q. Hi I'm having trouble with my boyfriend watching porn. Sometimes when i can't satisfy him myself he wants to watch porn... I feel like he's cheating on me when he does this because he's looking at other women (prettier than me might I add) and it h...
A. 25 June 2009: I could be wrong, but I always thought that the rules against shellfish, tattoos, and makeup applied to the Old Testament. Or, just certain denominations? I've digressed, I know, but I'm curious. ... (read in full...)
What should I give my teacher as a "thank you" present?
Q. please help me! i only have a few hours to figure this out: i want to get my teacher a thank you present, because i never was at all interested in the subject he teaches before i had him; he made it fun for me. he's a great teacher and has ...
A. 25 June 2009: I gave one of my professors a picture I made just for him (a charcoal picture). He was one of my favorite profs, he made the school year really special for us. ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 25 June 2009: Hey, just for for fun, I wonder who can top my story of worst customer ever?
That psychotic lady who whaled on me with a verbal 2x4 bc I told her kids I didn't want them hurting themselves?
There was an even worse lady that I saw only once wh... (read in full...)
Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly?
Q. Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly? All my friends are so skinny and size 6 and 8... I dont want to lose a great amount of weight, just enough to look like them and one of them said laxatives helped them. thanks...
A. 25 June 2009: What I meant to say is, that I've already lost some weight and I've been doing it for a few weeks. I think if you enjoy yourself in a sport and forget that you're doing it for your health... it's more effective. ... (read in full...)
Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly?
Q. Can laxatives help me lose weight quickly? All my friends are so skinny and size 6 and 8... I dont want to lose a great amount of weight, just enough to look like them and one of them said laxatives helped them. thanks...
A. 25 June 2009: NO WAY!!!!
That's called "purging," a symptom of bulimia, a dangerous eating disorder!!
If you want to lose weight, of course you can, but don't destroy your health doing it! There's a safe way! And, it's really quite simple, there's no secre... (read in full...)
British invasion in my head!
Q. I think I might be going mental! Ever since the Harry Potter series came to the US when I was only eight, I've been completely obsessed with not only the series and with my ultimate goal to move to England before I hit age twenty-five, but also with ...
A. 25 June 2009: Haha, I see that you're down with British slang! Bully for you! ;)
Jason is absolutely right... not only are these feelings normal, but you should pursue your dreams. You might be a little obsessed, but there are healthy obsessions.
I do... (read in full...)
My dog bit me! Will I have a scar?
Q. hi i just got bit by my dog i went to kiss him and he must have panicked or something and bit my lip hes never done this before. anyway it hurts but not too bad my lip has doubled in size due to swelling the cute doesnt seem to be too deep a...
A. 25 June 2009: Neosporin will help prevent scarring!!
You may need to get a tetanus shot or stitches. Get this checked out by a doctor.
... (read in full...)
Do men mind pubic hair?
Q. Hi, I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz h...
A. 25 June 2009: Depends on the guy.
No offense but at your age, you shouldn't be sexually active. If you do, then PLEASE talk to a doctor or nurse about birth control, and PLEASE use a condom.
When all's said and done, what to do with THAT hair is a person... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 24 June 2009: No problem!
I just don't think that insulting a customer back is the way, though. If someone is being obscenely rude or abusive to you (like that stupid lady did to me when I told her kids not to play on the escalator), then... just walk away. J... (read in full...)
I like this guy but don't want to be made fun of because I like him!
Q. Ok...So this is a long dilemma that I have. Right so...I kissed this guy on a night out about 4 months ago. We were friendly, that is that we talked on nights out if we bumped into each other. Anyway that night (that we kissed) we had been flir...
A. 23 June 2009: If you've found someone for whom you have feelings, and he reciprocates your feelings, then I say go for it. You don't get an oppportunity to be happy in a relationship every day, and when you do, it is much too rare and precious for you to let it ... (read in full...)
I'm Muslim and want to convert to Judiasm - How do I tell my parents?
Q. I'm a muslim who will no longer be following my parent's faith. I have never really felt tied to Islam. How can I tell my family that I plan to convert to Reform Judaism?...
A. 23 June 2009: Have you talked to a rabbi, or some other religious leader about your decision to convert? I am sure that they have experience dealing with similar issues from other converts, and they probably have some insight to offer you. They would understand ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 23 June 2009: I worked in retail for a long time, so I can understand your feelings. There's a difference, however, between being polite to someone and putting up with abuse from them.
Are these people really that important that you have to say somethin... (read in full...)
If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogotary way?
Q. If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogatory way? I ask this becuase the following quote is found from the following website: http://organizations.rockbridge.net/projecthorizon/signsofabuser.htm "18. Disrespect for Women in G...
A. 22 June 2009: I think he's just being affectionate. If he were your boss, it would be another story. ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my balding husband
Q. I'm in a similar situation except I'm actually married to the balding guy. We knew each other for eight years before we married and he actually showed signs of balding the year he popped the question. It was not much hair loss and I thought to ...
A. 22 June 2009: What I meant to say in my last post is,
You don't have to be physically perfect in order for someone to be physically attracted to you.
Wouldn't it be ridiculous if the marriage vows read, "To love, honor, and cherish as long as neither one o... (read in full...)
Sister was incredibly cruel to me but has good life! Where's the justic?
Q. Hello, The issue which I am going to write at times discourages me a lot. I have a big sister with whom I was never in good terms. Now she is married and I share no relationship with her at all, I did not even attend her marriage. Since I...
A. 22 June 2009: I can understand your feelings, but I think it's time to move on. Your sister should apologize to you for hurting you, but you can't change people. You only have free will to decide what to do with the time you have.
I won't get into my perso... (read in full...)
Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children?
Q. Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children? I've heard this debated so many times and no one seems to have a clear answer. Being a Christian, I believe the marriage comes first. My husband thinks the children do. I am my h...
A. 22 June 2009: You brought your children into the world... they're your flesh and blood. To say that God wants you to put them second is just not right. I'm not trying to hurt you, but I don't understand why people think it's the Christian way to put your spouse ... (read in full...)
I lost my attraction to my boyfriend and broke it off. Was it a mistake?
Q. Over the last year things in my life have fallen apart. I've been unemployed for the year, had medical issues, and recently broke up with my bf of four years. My bf is a great guy and I do love him, but I have found my attraction to him waning. He ...
A. 22 June 2009: Has he gotten any medical treatment for this problem, by any chance? ... (read in full...)
I lost my attraction to my boyfriend and broke it off. Was it a mistake?
Q. Over the last year things in my life have fallen apart. I've been unemployed for the year, had medical issues, and recently broke up with my bf of four years. My bf is a great guy and I do love him, but I have found my attraction to him waning. He ...
A. 22 June 2009: It's true that another poster asked about her balding husband, but let's not jump to the conclusion that it's the same person. That woman's fiance is not the only balding man in the world! :)
I don't think that it's fair to accuse someone ... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to turn them down
Q. i know a lot of guys who have a big crush on me and thats very flattering but i dont like them back there always flirting with me at school afterschool and even at bazaar's! how do i tell them that i dont like them back because first it was cute ...
A. 22 June 2009: You don't have to be harsh, just tell them that you're not ready for a relationship, or that you just want to be friends. They'll probably get the hint.... (read in full...)
I seem to have an excessive sweat problem!
Q. Hey, I seem to have an excessive sweatt problem, i bath everyday but as soon as i put a fresh shirt on i have these dark patches screaming through. I cant stop the sweatting and im worried girls will look at me with disgust. any help pls ? :(...
A. 21 June 2009: I read an article in Marie Claire magazine by a girl who experienced hiperhidrosis. She went to a series of doctors who seemed to know very little about it, but she found a specialist who was able to cure her with surgery.
I can't guarante... (read in full...)
I seem to have an excessive sweat problem!
Q. Hey, I seem to have an excessive sweatt problem, i bath everyday but as soon as i put a fresh shirt on i have these dark patches screaming through. I cant stop the sweatting and im worried girls will look at me with disgust. any help pls ? :(...
A. 21 June 2009: I've read about a condition called "hyperhidrosis" Of course we can't diagnose, but I think you need to see a doctor about it. It's not dangerous, it's just characterized by chronic, excessive sweating. There are treatments available for this ... (read in full...)
Shave my pubes for him?
Q. Hiaa im 13 and im unsure if i should shave my pubes for my boy or not. Please give me a answer!!...
A. 21 June 2009: I imagine it's okay to shave it, but you shouldn't be having sex! You have the urge to have sex, but it's wrong at this age. The possible consequences are SEVERE and no one your age should have to deal with them. ... (read in full...)
I do not like feeling old because of how he looks!
Q. I am no longer physically attracted to my husband to the point where I have no interest in kissing and diminishing interest in sex. The main reason is because he is balding and is now severly bald. I am also starting to realise other physical faults ...
A. 21 June 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-attracted-to-my-balding-husband.html
Are you the same person that posted this question?
I think that you need to decide whether or not you love you husband. Physical attraction IS important, but T... (read in full...)
I'm not the shy little girl I used to be - how can I get my parents to understand that?
Q. okay so i just turned 19... ive always been a shy mellow gurl until i turned 16. be fore that i was always so focused in school and fling college apps. now i graduated form hs.a nd go to college. i wanted to go out of town for college but my mom ...
A. 20 June 2009: It's hard for parents to let go. You'll always be their "little girl."
Are you in college now? Perhaps if you went away to school, your parents would chillax a bit when they began to see you holding your own. When you live at home, parents ... (read in full...)
Mass on ovary--isn't it dangerous to leave it?
Q. I hope someone somewhere has an answer for me.I had a swollen lymph node last year and went to have tests run..they of course only knew it was a lymph node once they ran an MRI..but when the test came back they told me I also had a mass on my left ...
A. 20 June 2009: Hi,
A rule of thumb with medicine is to always get a second, or even third opinion. I think that you should make a list of questions and talk to two or three doctors about this. Have a talk about the pros and cons of surgery, and invest much tho... (read in full...)
Why am I so hairy? When will the body hair stop growing??
Q. Hi, I am a 15 year old. For people of my age I have so much facial and body hair - i have side burns, chest hair, hairy legs, hairy buttocks and hairy back. I am quite worried about it. I was hoping if you could tell me whether this is normal (...
A. 20 June 2009: It's normal, some guys develop sooner than others... if you REALLY hate it, though, I suppose you could have it waxed at a salon.
You're from Australia, so it's possible that you're Caucasian... it's the result of genes!
Testosterone ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my balding husband
Q. I'm in a similar situation except I'm actually married to the balding guy. We knew each other for eight years before we married and he actually showed signs of balding the year he popped the question. It was not much hair loss and I thought to ...
A. 20 June 2009: The key words here are: "if I really love him."
Do you truly love him?
Love can overcome everything, but if you truly don't love him, then there is no point in staying with him. If you truly love him, then saving the marriage is worth a try.... (read in full...)
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