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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 21 March 2010: Hi Samantha,
I didn't mean to take so long to get back but in answer to your question:
They're all holding magic wands.
It's not a stupid question :-) You haven't read the books or seen the movies.
All the magical characters have ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to say women can't be bad at sex?
Q. Hey This is going to sound like a silly silly question, but oh well. So many answers about sex say women don't have to do much during sex (obviously more is better but...), is it then fair to say women can't really be bad at sex? :S...
A. 27 July 2009: Woooah... brown, black, and white doggy!
Some people like it "doggy" style.
Sorry! I mean no offense to anyone. I just couldn't resist!
... (read in full...)
Is it fair to say women can't be bad at sex?
Q. Hey This is going to sound like a silly silly question, but oh well. So many answers about sex say women don't have to do much during sex (obviously more is better but...), is it then fair to say women can't really be bad at sex? :S...
A. 27 July 2009: Hola Daniel,
Was it the one where Selma marries Sideshow Bob? I can't remember if they actually got married but I remember he tried to kill her. ... (read in full...)
Should I go see the doctor for this?
Q. my girlfriend wants to touch my penis but i feel something uneasy my heartbeats gets high and my blood pressure rises when she tries touch i feel awkward please help what should i do should i go to doctor...
A. 25 July 2009: I'm with jaime. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I am wrong with my actions, regarding this child?
Q. I ave jus encountered the most arrogant orrible parents ever i wntd 2 bang them,on way hme in cab an driver c a little girl undr 2yr an tells me.we stop an i go 2 her nobody around so i ask her can she show me mummy,we walk 2 a house round corner ...
A. 25 July 2009: A two year old loose in the streets? No parent in their right mind would allow that to happen. She could have been killed!... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my best friend?
Q. I am 13 and my best friend (he's a boy) tells me everything... the other day he said to me he thinks he is ready for sex... i said i think i am too... later on he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and he wants it to be with some he trusts ...
A. 21 July 2009: You're 13! You shouldn't be having sex with ANYONE. ... (read in full...)
My husband get angry, throws things and sometimes hits me, what should I do?
Q. hi there, ok my question is more of a long story that i need advice on my husband has this thing where i cant do anything right he will give me a list of things he wants done before he gets home and i will do my best to finish them but he never be...
A. 21 July 2009: You need to listen to these aunts and LEAVE this man. Do not pass GO, and do not collect your $200. This man is dangerous, and you are not safe with him. Furthermore, your children are not safe. All of you deserve to be in a place where you are ... (read in full...)
My wife isnt horny enough for me...Any suggestions?
Q. My wife isn't horny enough for me. She beautiful and has a great bod for 50. But she's a tom boy. She's not affectionate or feminine. I am just a fat overweight husband that looks at my wife and fantisizes. We are intimate about once every ...
A. 21 July 2009: My professor put the weight loss thing in very simple terms: Eat less, exercise more, and do it forever. It's no secret. It's quite simple, it's a question of will power.
By the way, I practice the sport of tae kwon do. When I first took it ... (read in full...)
My wife isnt horny enough for me...Any suggestions?
Q. My wife isn't horny enough for me. She beautiful and has a great bod for 50. But she's a tom boy. She's not affectionate or feminine. I am just a fat overweight husband that looks at my wife and fantisizes. We are intimate about once every ...
A. 19 July 2009: Beingblack is direct, but he's right.
Being overweight isn't good for your health either, but unless you have some sort of illness, you can do something about it.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him to bugger off - nicely?
Q. Hi all...I am stuck in a sticky tangled mess :( I met this guy once last year and talked to him twice or so, but a few months ago he invited me over to his place. We got along really well even though i didn't really know him. We started watching...
A. 19 July 2009: No problem. Did you tell him?
Australia is a free country, no one can force you to date another person. :)
Just tell him you need some time alone. it's not mean. If you don't want a relationship then telling him how you feel will give h... (read in full...)
Should we wait for better facilities, before having first time sex?
Q. right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. ...
A. 19 July 2009: My advice:
You shouldn't have sex with just anyone. There's a time and a place for sex, and you should wait for that.
If you have to sneak around to have sex, then that's a sign you shouldn't be doing it. If you're between 16 and 1... (read in full...)
Is it pathetic of me to forgive my back-stabbing best friend?
Q. Hi A few months ago I was betrayed by my (female) best friend in the worst way that she knew how. We have always hung around as a 3, and she knew that I was a bit obsessed with the guy that we hang around with. We had a thing a while ago, but he e...
A. 18 July 2009: There's forgiveness, and there's trust. She betrayed your trust, and that's something that can't be repaired overnight.
I'm not the most trusting soul, and with good reason. ... (read in full...)
Should we wait for better facilities, before having first time sex?
Q. right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. ...
A. 18 July 2009: Wreck, I don't think you've even read the article. We're all entitled to our opinions, but did you actually READ IT?
I have a feeling you haven't. I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you should. Then, if you don't like it... at least yo... (read in full...)
Does every girl bleed, when she loses her virginity?
Q. When u lose ur virginity, do u bleed?...
A. 18 July 2009: Some girls lack a hymen because of sports, that doesn't mean they're not virgins. If no hymen is present, then there probably won't be any bleeding.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him to bugger off - nicely?
Q. Hi all...I am stuck in a sticky tangled mess :( I met this guy once last year and talked to him twice or so, but a few months ago he invited me over to his place. We got along really well even though i didn't really know him. We started watching...
A. 18 July 2009: Just. Dump. Him.
Simple as pie.... (read in full...)
Do breasts get bigger when they are sucked on?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and we've been sexual lately since its summer.. I have 34A breasts and lately it seems like my bras have been "shrinking" and getting tighter.. he likes to suck on my boobs and I heard they get larger when ...
A. 18 July 2009: Then weight loss will make them smaller? :) Yay!!
There's no way that sucking can affect their size. They swell up during pregnancy, and yes as a result of weight gain.... (read in full...)
I don't like the feel and smell of his anatomy. What can I do?
Q. Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/f We've started messing around. I try my best not to get covered in anything. Don't like the smell and feel. He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy. The feel of it makes me feel hor...
A. 18 July 2009: Baby Duck is right, I think that this means that this isn't the time/place.
Don't rush into anything. Listen to your intuition and what it's telling you. Don't get your intuition confused with your urges... deep down, you know the right thing to... (read in full...)
I have a burning sensation in my vagina! It interferes with my life...
Q. ever since i was like 12 years old i used to get this burning uncomfortable sensation in my vagina , not insede i guess i dont know where just my vagina , it stopped happening for a while but now it comes and goes , it just comes out of the nowhere ...
A. 18 July 2009: You really should see a doctor. You shouldn't have to put up with this, I'm sure there's something they can do for you.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 years old---am I too young to get married?
Q. i am just 17 going on to 18 in a few weeks my boyfriend wants to get married to me, i don't know what to do we have been together for 2and a half year he has been a wonderful man to me in every way but i just need some advice. thank you...
A. 16 July 2009: Daniel is right... at 17, you don't even know who you are! No one does. I think you should wait until you have stability in your life.... (read in full...)
Summer time FUN!
Q. This is just an observation, as I am not currently in a relationship of any sorts and haven't been for a long long while, can all the young women from ages 18 to 65, please stop dressing so provocatively. It's bad enough my hormones are in ...
A. 16 July 2009: To SirenBlusera, I know I need to get a girl. This message was meant as a light hearted way of saying "Summer is a fantastic time and I wish I had made more effort to chat you ladies up more often when I was in my 20's and 30's".
It's not too late... (read in full...)
Why does intercourse still hurt?
Q. why does intercourse still hurt if iv had sex at least 15 times?...
A. 16 July 2009: Of course, none of us can diagnose you, but I read about someone who suffered the symptoms you described and it turned out to be interstitial cystitis. I don't mean to scare you, and I don't think you're going to die or anything, but you should get ... (read in full...)
Why does intercourse still hurt?
Q. why does intercourse still hurt if iv had sex at least 15 times?...
A. 16 July 2009: Of course, none of us can diagnose you, but I read about someone who suffered the symptoms you described and it turned out to be interstitial cystitis. I don't mean to scare you, and I don't think you're going to die or anything, but you should get ... (read in full...)
I hate blow jobs but i'd love to know how to give a good one.
Q. I hate blow jobs but i'd love 2know how to give a good one....
A. 16 July 2009: I don't know how either, but with anything, practice is key.
It's not the kind of thing you should do with random people (as you probably know!)
Don't have sex (oral or otherwise) with just anyone.
Technique is something that develops ... (read in full...)
Ideas for bedroom fun that doesn't involve intercourse?
Q. Recently when my man and I are messing around, he asks "what do you want me to do to you?"... I've come up with a couple replies but I need more!!! * Sidenote were trying to postpone intercourse until later on in the relationship so thats kinda o...
A. 16 July 2009: If you're saving sex for later, you might want to avoid a "slippery slope" situation.
I think that you and your boyfriend should discuss exactly what the limits are going to be.
Nothing wrong with kissing... but sometimes sex just happens spo... (read in full...)
It took me all night to get the truth out of him and now I'm wondering if there's more!
Q. Fiance came home an hour late from work.He told me he had to work late. I didn't believe him and questioned him all night. THe next day he told me a co-worker just broke up with bf and didn't have anyone to talk to so he stayed late to talk to her ...
A. 16 July 2009: I see things a little differently.
Is the poster upset that the fiance comforted a co-worker, per se... or upset about the lying?
There's nothing wrong with a man having a close (platonic)friendship with a woman. The fact that he comforted thi... (read in full...)
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 11 July 2009: Samantha:
I "blame" a friend who was even more obsessed at the time. I can't wait to go see the Half-Blood Prince in theatres. Maybe you would enjoy the stories. :)
I enjoy the movies, but I think they leave a lot out; the books are more complet... (read in full...)
Summer time FUN!
Q. This is just an observation, as I am not currently in a relationship of any sorts and haven't been for a long long while, can all the young women from ages 18 to 65, please stop dressing so provocatively. It's bad enough my hormones are in ...
A. 11 July 2009: Amen to that, anonymous female. Amen, amen, amen. ... (read in full...)
My eyes are too dark....
Q. I have always been a tough girl. I don't mind being girly. I love love love bows and color, but I am not sure about something. My boyfriend says he likes blue eyes, he says it a lot. I have brown eyes... I am asian so they are sorta dark. How can I ...
A. 11 July 2009: I;m sure there is something you like about guys that your bf does not have.. ;)
Yeah, this guy does not have a brain. Where do they sell brains?... (read in full...)
My eyes are too dark....
Q. I have always been a tough girl. I don't mind being girly. I love love love bows and color, but I am not sure about something. My boyfriend says he likes blue eyes, he says it a lot. I have brown eyes... I am asian so they are sorta dark. How can I ...
A. 11 July 2009: People accuse me of being a bitch because I say things like that... but I don't think I am a bitch, I think I am a nice person who doesn't put up with crap... and that it what counts... what I think of myself. :)... (read in full...)
My eyes are too dark....
Q. I have always been a tough girl. I don't mind being girly. I love love love bows and color, but I am not sure about something. My boyfriend says he likes blue eyes, he says it a lot. I have brown eyes... I am asian so they are sorta dark. How can I ...
A. 11 July 2009: I think next that "I wish you had a (fill in the blank)bigger penis, larger muscles, etc.) would be the perfect response to his remark about eye color. ... (read in full...)
Is this line true?
Q. Is this line true? "Don't trust guys with two first names."...
A. 11 July 2009: Two first names?
Do you mean he has a double first name, or do you mean he has one real name and one alias?
If the latter is true, I'd be suspicious.
A double first name?
I have a couple friends named Juan Pablo... and a friend named... (read in full...)
Summer time FUN!
Q. This is just an observation, as I am not currently in a relationship of any sorts and haven't been for a long long while, can all the young women from ages 18 to 65, please stop dressing so provocatively. It's bad enough my hormones are in ...
A. 11 July 2009: You need to find yourself a girl, mate...... (read in full...)
What's worse ? being a slut or being 40 years old virgin ?
Q. What is better either having sex with many people or keep virginity until you're way too old ? What do you think ?...
A. 11 July 2009: I think it's a hypothetical question.
No one WANTS to be a 40-year-old virgin, let's face it, but it doesn't make you a bad person, or inferior. If you haven't met the right person, it's unfortunate, but having sex with the WRONG person isn't go... (read in full...)
My eyes are too dark....
Q. I have always been a tough girl. I don't mind being girly. I love love love bows and color, but I am not sure about something. My boyfriend says he likes blue eyes, he says it a lot. I have brown eyes... I am asian so they are sorta dark. How can I ...
A. 11 July 2009: Wow, what a charmer your boyfriend is. No offense but he sounds like a real pud.
That was an idiotic remark for your boyfriend to make. Don't change yourself just because your boyfriend made a retarded comment! There's nothing wrong with you... (read in full...)
Why don't I want to have sex with either women or men?
Q. I have no real desire to have sex with a woman or a man. The only thing that gets me aroused is my own stomach and some other young men's stomachs who are just the right amount overweight. I just masturbate to myself. No other part of a body, man ...
A. 11 July 2009: Aside from lack of sexual feelings, how do you feel emotionally? Do you have a healthy appetite, interests you are passionate about?
I could be wrong, but you may be depressed. Not ALL people who lack libido are depressed, but lack of interest... (read in full...)
Irresponsibly drunk, sent him harsh hurtful words, now things are even more messed up
Q. hiya, i would like anyone to help me regarding my boyfriend. We had a huge argument last saturday and both attended a party that night. We didn't talk as we were both mad at each other and both got really drunk with seperate groups of friends....
A. 9 July 2009: You made a mistake in texting him the harsh words, but now he's giving you the silent treatment.
Will he text you back? Unfortunately, none of us can really say. I agree with Honeypie, though, if you are the love of his life, he'll contact ... (read in full...)
Irresponsibly drunk, sent him harsh hurtful words, now things are even more messed up
Q. hiya, i would like anyone to help me regarding my boyfriend. We had a huge argument last saturday and both attended a party that night. We didn't talk as we were both mad at each other and both got really drunk with seperate groups of friends....
A. 9 July 2009: You made a mistake in texting him the harsh words, but now he's giving you the silent treatment.
Will he text you back? Unfortunately, none of us can really say. I agree with Honeypie, though, if you are the love of his life, he'll contact ... (read in full...)
Do 'cute' guys attract different girls than 'hot' guys?
Q. A general question here....do girls prefer guys who are cute or hot? Because throughout my life i have always been told by girls how cute i am and my brother who is a couple of years older always gets told how hot he is, and he has had heaps of ...
A. 9 July 2009: Remember what Shakespeare said, "Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind..."
I think that is very true, when you fall in love with someone, it transcends all reason.
However, being attractive does help. I'm old for you, but I remem... (read in full...)
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 9 July 2009: My order of compatibility (don't remember the %ages):
1. Slytherin
2. Gryffindor
3. Ravenclaw
4. Hufflepuff
... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my Mom about birth control when she doesn't want me having sex?
Q. im 14 turning 15 in a couple months...i've had sex twice but my mom thinks i've done it once. she doesnt want me to continue having sex because she's afraid of me getting pregnant of an std but i want to keep doing it...im being safe i've used a ...
A. 9 July 2009: You shouldn't be having sex at all, but you should still be informed about birth control. if your mom won't talk to you about it, then you need to see a doctor, nurse or PA.
Remember, ANYTHING is better than un-protected sex, BUT... only abstinen... (read in full...)
My mother loves her clutter, but I'd love to be able to bring friends home!
Q. My mother is a clutter maniac. Ever since my father cheated on her and left the house, my mother has been collecting all kinds of things starting with napkins all the way to old pillows. I moved back with her because of unemployment. I also feel ...
A. 9 July 2009: I'm no shrink but this is symptomatic of obsessive-compulsive behavior, or obsessive hoarding, like the other poster said.
I'm sorry to hear about your father. It sounds to me like she may still be grieving for him.
Have you talked to your M... (read in full...)
How do I know if my teacher is flirting?
Q. Hey, im 16 and i have a situation with my teacher.this year i had a teacher who sends me those same mixed signals and i dont know how to take that. in the beginning he treated me badly. i would come late and sleep alot but so did other students...
A. 8 July 2009: You may be reading too much into it.
Any teacher that would pursue romantic contact with students is a creep. I'm not sure what's going on with your teacher, but "I got into trouble because of him" is not a good sign.... (read in full...)
I feel lonely and unwanted.What do I do?
Q. I feel like so depressed!! I dont know what to do..my parents dont let me go out and hang with friends so i basically stay home all day everyday and it really sucks. i hate that they're so over protective. I feel so lonely and unwanted...and ...
A. 8 July 2009: Don't you participate in extracurricular activities?
Music, soccer, horseback riding, for example?
It's really depressing to be home all day.
I'm not sure what your interests are, but your parents whould let you participate in activitie... (read in full...)
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 6 July 2009: "Sings a different [song] every year. It's got to be a pretty boring life, hasn't it, being a hat? I suppose it spends all year making up the next one."
-- Ron Weasley
Hey Samantha, I think that the Sorting Hat answers your question bet... (read in full...)
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