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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 21 March 2010: Thanks Eddie and marriedlady, that was nice... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 21 March 2010: How do kids manage to study abroad there for a year or semester? I'm sure that takes more than three months. ... (read in full...)
I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.
Q. I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to ...
A. 19 January 2010: Angzw is right. If the man has to defend himself, he has to defend himself, but if a man uses more force than necessary, it's wrong because he's hitting the woman in anger, or as a punishment. That's abuse. He didn't need to punch you repeatedly ... (read in full...)
Best friends only... or is that impossible?
Q. Can an attractive man and an attractive woman ever really be best friends without one of them falling for the other at some point?...
A. 19 January 2010: I felt the same way I'd feel if I had a brother his age.
You'd (hopefully) never feel attraction for a sibling of the opposite gender. I was close to him in the same way I would be close to a sibling. For all practical purposes, he was like my ... (read in full...)
Husbands dirty secret
Q. This morning my husband left for a business trip. He forgot to close out a hidden folder on our computer. I have never seen this folder. It was like I entered into a shrine of women...from porn, pics of famous women, to random naked girls......
A. 19 January 2010: Have you confronted him about this?
It sounds pervy and creepy to me. hey, Caring Guy is right, there is a similar question on here...... (read in full...)
Is an old, young looking guy going out with a young woman, creepy?
Q. If a guy is 45, but literally looks 27, and goes out with a 20 year old, is that creepy?...
A. 19 January 2010: Why do the mods use the word old? 45 isn't old. ... (read in full...)
Is an old, young looking guy going out with a young woman, creepy?
Q. If a guy is 45, but literally looks 27, and goes out with a 20 year old, is that creepy?...
A. 19 January 2010: In Australia, you're treated like adult once you reach the age of 18. That's a considerable age difference, but no, he is NOT a pedophile. A 20 year old is NOT a child under Australian law. ... (read in full...)
I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.
Q. I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to ...
A. 19 January 2010: Most guys are bigger and stronger than the average girl, and there's a difference between defending yourself from physical harm, and engaging someone.
Both of you were wrong. You had no business punching him, and he had no business punching... (read in full...)
Romantic ideas for valentine's day???
Q. I'm looking for help and ideas of what to do on valentines day. in the evening/night me and my boyfriend are going out to a nice restaurant for a romantic meal and then off to a nice bar for some drinks but i want to arrange something for during t...
A. 19 January 2010: If one of you plays an instrument, then you could serenade the other.
That's what I'd do, if I had a boyfriend. I can't seem to find a guys who understands my love for the guitar, so I'm single lol. That's okay with me because the guitar i... (read in full...)
Romantic ideas for valentine's day???
Q. I'm looking for help and ideas of what to do on valentines day. in the evening/night me and my boyfriend are going out to a nice restaurant for a romantic meal and then off to a nice bar for some drinks but i want to arrange something for during t...
A. 19 January 2010: What about a concert?
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Help! I really like my guy friend but I don't know if he likes me back
Q. sorry in advance for all of the spelnng mistaks, im in a hurry :P so me and this guy have been friends for around a year, but we barley saw eachother. just recently, we have started hanging out together again, but his little sister and my lit...
A. 19 January 2010: It sounds to me like he's giving in to peer pressure.
Life is hard because at some point we all have to choose between what is right, and what is easy. Unfortunately it seems that he's choosing to do what is easy... sometimes it's hard to stand... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 18 January 2010: they are much cuter and easier to look after.
And they're loyal!!
I say, go to the pound and ADOPT! ADOPT! ADOPT that pet!! (Universal web chant)
... (read in full...)
Romantic ideas for valentine's day???
Q. I'm looking for help and ideas of what to do on valentines day. in the evening/night me and my boyfriend are going out to a nice restaurant for a romantic meal and then off to a nice bar for some drinks but i want to arrange something for during t...
A. 18 January 2010: It depends on your interests! What do you guys like? What are your hobbies/passions?
My perfect night would involve either the beach, or horses. ... (read in full...)
When you love someone with all your heart... how do you know?
Q. How do you know when you love someone? When you really love them with all your heart? Me and my girlfriend have only been together for a month. We have already had sex and we can talk about everything. Even love. But I feel it is too early for us to ...
A. 18 January 2010: How do you know? Oh, you'll know. You won't have to ask, or even think about it.
You say that you've been sexually active.
Maybe I'm digressing, but this is IMPORTANT!!!!
I hope that you've gotten some proper education about birth co... (read in full...)
Help! I really like my guy friend but I don't know if he likes me back
Q. sorry in advance for all of the spelnng mistaks, im in a hurry :P so me and this guy have been friends for around a year, but we barley saw eachother. just recently, we have started hanging out together again, but his little sister and my lit...
A. 18 January 2010: unless his other friends are around, then he is still really nice but his friends are really rude so he has to go along with them, well he dosen't have tobut they actually force him to
Sounds like someone is giving into peer pressure! What kin... (read in full...)
Best friends only... or is that impossible?
Q. Can an attractive man and an attractive woman ever really be best friends without one of them falling for the other at some point?...
A. 18 January 2010: Sure!!
I don't think that attractive has anything to do with it, because that's a subjective word.
One of my best friends from college, for example. I know he wasn't attracted to me (my friend was gay) and I thought of him as a brother I neve... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with my married boss?
Q. Am considering sleeping with my boss. He is married with a family, and from the outside all seems fairly happy and normal, I am single and have not been in a relationship for a while (so had been feeling rather lonely). I've known him for over 6 ...
A. 18 January 2010: I think you know the answer to this: NO!!!!
You know it's wrong to destroy a family like that.
If your boss is pressuring you for sex, then you're being sexually harrassed and I think you should get some good legal advice. He doesn't deser... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 17 January 2010: Puppies are cute!!
And they love UNCONDITIONALLY. Ditto for kittens.
Millions of them are dying in shelters... why bring a kid into the world that you're not prepared for? Get one of those millions of pets out there that NEED HOMES!!!!!!... (read in full...)
What is your definition of respect?
Q. I am in a relationship with a man who calls me the C word often for "acting like one". He feels this acceptable, am I missing something here? Men please describe your level of respect for and what kind of person fits the label? Ladies please let ...
A. 17 January 2010: There is NO EXCUSE for him to say that to you. it's verbal abuse. Texasgal is right, dump him NOW!!... (read in full...)
What music to heal my pain?
Q. Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years. Can anyone recommend any songs that I can...
A. 16 January 2010: It's about a guy in a similar situation... but please don't do what this guy did... the lyrics are a tad vindictive.... (read in full...)
What music to heal my pain?
Q. Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years. Can anyone recommend any songs that I can...
A. 16 January 2010: "LA County" by Lyle Lovette cracks me up.
I know your situation is not funny, but a little humour helps.
I clarify that I AM NOT suggesting that you do what the guy in the song does!!!!
This guy, if you haven't heard of him, is VERY di... (read in full...)
I am close to my dad now, should I tell him or not?
Q. well 3 yrs ago i was sexually abused by my sister's boyfriend, i wasnt very close to my dad back then, so he is the only one out of my family who doesnt know, i dont want to worry him if i tell him, but i dont know wearther it will cause arguments? ...
A. 16 January 2010: YES!!!!
I've learned that if you have the chance to tell someone how you truly feel, and let it pass you by, that you'll regret it.
You need to be sincere, as long as you are not being hurtful.
Just be gentle, as CaringGuy says.... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 16 January 2010: I had to work my way through college. My parents weren't in a position to help me out then. I'm not bitter about it, BUT... it sucks. I've gotta admit that I felt jealous of the other kids who got to have a social life, date, participate in fun ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 16 January 2010: NO WAY is ANY 14-year-old ready to take care of a baby!!
Please open up your eyes to the consequences of what your'e doing, because I PROMISE you you're making a mistake.
You haven't finished high school, let alone realized all the other rites ... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 15 January 2010: Thank you both for saying that I can find a way to go back. .
I still miss Spain so much!!!!
Sometimes I feel sad because I remember how far away it is and it feels really overwhelming... I'm still in love with that place.
I've done some re... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 15 January 2010: Thank you both for saying that I can find a way to go back. .
I still miss Spain so much!!!!
Sometimes I feel sad because I remember how far away it is and it feels really overwhelming... I'm still in love with that place.
I've done some re... (read in full...)
Colour of manhood...
Q. I am brown in color. My penis is of almost my skin color. My wife tells that a guy's manhood's color should be pretty dark/black and mine is different. is this a fact?...
A. 15 January 2010: You sound normal to me. With penises, there is a wide range of what is considered normal.
Just as long as it doesn't bend to the left (Bill Clinton gets around, you know, lol). :)... (read in full...)
Should I get the morning after pill?
Q. should I get the morning after pill? I just had sex tonight w/o protection but he didn't cum inside. do you think I should?...
A. 14 January 2010: Sex without protection??? That is CRAZY!!! You're playing Russian Roulette with your health, and your life. Please go to the Dr. and get some information about how to use condoms and contraceptives. You're setting yourself up for tragedy if you ... (read in full...)
Should I get the morning after pill?
Q. should I get the morning after pill? I just had sex tonight w/o protection but he didn't cum inside. do you think I should?...
A. 14 January 2010: Sex without protection??? That is CRAZY!!! You're playing Russian Roulette with your health, and your life. Please go to the Dr. and get some information about how to use condoms and contraceptives. You're setting yourself up for tragedy if you ... (read in full...)
Do women enjoy their clitoris being "tapped" on
Q. Do women enjoy men "tapping" or hitting their penis against the vagina, especially near the clitoris area. A couple of my mates said their girlfriends enjoyed doing so because it stimulates the clitoris. I would simply like to know your p...
A. 13 January 2010: I thought that "tapping" was a technique that bass players use!!
It seems like the lead guitar players get all the girls, though, and not the bass players... lol... so maybe not.
I'm just kidding. I think it depends on the girl's preferenc... (read in full...)
Best way to shave my bits and pieces?
Q. Hope its ok to ask this on here. Simple question for the guys- what is the best way to shave my c*ck and balls? I use an electric shaver for my face but this is far too scary to use down there! Do I use a razor/shaving gel? I want to lea...
A. 13 January 2010: Waxing really isn't excruciating. It hurts, of course, but you could try a small area and see how bad it is.
I've only had my eyebrows waxed, but it wasn't that bad. ... (read in full...)
Phone dropped in toilet...
Q. This isn't really a relationship question but I gotta ask. My boyfriend was texting me one day, supposedly while he was using the restroom and he dropped his phone in the toilet(I know, nasty.) well, he got it to work, he used a hair dryer to dry it ...
A. 13 January 2010: YUCK!! Replace it!!! Yuck, it's got poo all over it now! Even if the toilet had been flushed... that phone was in contact with a surface that was touched by poo. ICK!!!!
Replace it... it's just a phone, not an irreplaceable item of sentimen... (read in full...)
Do tattoos hurt?
Q. ok so i just have a little question, could anyone tell me if getting a tattoo or piercing is sorer? i had amy tragus pierced back in june and it was sore, not to forget i have a terrible fear of needles but really want a small tattoo thanks...
A. 13 January 2010: Thanks for sharing, though Troubled. These are pretty. Don't think I'll ever get a real tattoo, because I want to wait until I'm 100% sure that I want it.
Tattoos just aren't me, though. I think they do look sexy on guys! They're like gla... (read in full...)
He loves me but hes not going to leave the other girl
Q. I found out that my man is seeing someone. When i asked he said he love me although he is not going to live his gal friend. What should i do....
A. 12 January 2010: I agree, you should slam the door in his face.
He's a selfish pig, and I am sorry to say this, but you can't make him change.
You DO deserve better!... (read in full...)
He loves me but hes not going to leave the other girl
Q. I found out that my man is seeing someone. When i asked he said he love me although he is not going to live his gal friend. What should i do....
A. 12 January 2010: I agree, you should slam the door in his face.
He's a selfish pig, and I am sorry to say this, but you can't make him change.
You DO deserve better!... (read in full...)
We tried to make a go of it, but he hits me when I want answers about his affair
Q. I need some advice so please take the time and read my post. I have been with my h/b for 29yrs married for 21yrs,two years ago i found out he was having an affair with a 28 year old co worker i belive he was thinking of leaving me to be with her she ...
A. 12 January 2010: What a terrible way to treat you!
I am sorry that my answer is going to hurt you, but if I were you, I would leave him. He's terrible. I don't consider him a man, I consider him a selfish, temperamental child. I can't imagine how hard it must ... (read in full...)
I really like my friend, but he has a girlfriend, should I tell him?
Q. Okay, well for the past 3 or so months I have REALLY liked someone. He is really good friends with a lot of my close friends. One night I was with him and I really felt he was starting to share the same feelings. And then I went on holidays a couple ...
A. 12 January 2010: Chances are that they will break up eventually.
This is a really frustrating situation to be in. I can offer the vantage point of someone who has been in a similar situation... just maintain a friendship with him, but don't reveal your feel... (read in full...)
Do tattoos hurt?
Q. ok so i just have a little question, could anyone tell me if getting a tattoo or piercing is sorer? i had amy tragus pierced back in june and it was sore, not to forget i have a terrible fear of needles but really want a small tattoo thanks...
A. 12 January 2010: I think that a lot depends on the person. When I got my navel piercing, I barely felt a thing. That doesn't mean that it wouldn't be painful for someone else. I have a high tolerance for physical pain, however.
I don't have any tattoos,... (read in full...)
Am I too young to have a baby?
Q. Can I have some advice please. i'm 16 and with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I have thought this through 100 times and all the aspects that need to be covered. I am also a trainee hairdresser, but I really want a baby. so does my boyfriend, ...
A. 12 January 2010: If you're not in a position to provide everything for your child, you're not ready.
Think about it from the child's perspective... is that the kind of life any child would want, or deserve?
There are so many things that you haven't done, or... (read in full...)
Is giving her a full kiss on the mouth cheating?
Q. my partner danced with another girl at a family wedding, whilst i was pregnant and he didnt really acknowlege that i was there as he was so drunk, (he did ask me to attend and everything was ok until he got drunk) then he kissed this girl i dont ...
A. 10 January 2010: If you have to sneak around behind someone's back to do it, then in my opinion, it's cheating. It's betraying someone's trust. What he did wasn't as bad as having intercourse with another girl, but it was extremely disrespectful... he had better ... (read in full...)
At my age can I buy a vibrator?
Q. I'll get straight to the point. Im 14 and masturbate. I have for a couple of years but have done the same thing the whole time. It feels amazing but Im getting tired of doing it that way and like to try new things. Any suggestions? Please don't say ...
A. 7 January 2010: If you wanted to order one online, you could get a prepaid Mastercard or Visa. ... (read in full...)
Is It Possible For An Older Lady To Find genuine Love????
Q. Can An Older Woman Find Love? Most men prefer younger women thats a fact however I Who would love to find romance-its not a cse of being desperate I am divorced and not looking for marriage but a few dates would be nice Come on guys PLE...
A. 3 January 2010: An elegant woman of 70? jejeje, she'd better watch out... my Spanish prof would loooove her!! :)... (read in full...)
My mum is eating herself into an early grave... how can I get her to change?
Q. Please help. I'm really worried about my mum. She's been overweight for as long as I can remember but I'm really starting to worry about her health now. She's very heavy - she must be obese although I'm sure she doesn't realise this or is in denial. ...
A. 3 January 2010: Caring Guy is right. I sense that there is more to the story. No one's body needs that much food; sometimes, when people are in severe emotional distress, they drug themselves. Some people resort to drugs, and other people use food to medicate ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?
Q. My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her ...
A. 3 January 2010: She needs to do it in private, and she shouldn't be soiling a perfectly nice toy.
However, it was very wrong of you to stop her from masturbating, per se. It's not inherently evil, or dirty, or harmful. You need to have a talk with her and apol... (read in full...)
Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex
Q. I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...
A. 3 January 2010: Smart girl for realizing that you're not ready at 14. :)
First of all, even if you WERE to have sex with your boyfriend, it's no guarantee that he would stay with you. He had sex with his ex-girlfriend... are they still together? Of course n... (read in full...)
Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex
Q. I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...
A. 3 January 2010: Smart girl for realizing that you're not ready at 14. :)
First of all, even if you WERE to have sex with your boyfriend, it's no guarantee that he would stay with you. He had sex with his ex-girlfriend... are they still together? Of course n... (read in full...)
Is It Possible For An Older Lady To Find genuine Love????
Q. Can An Older Woman Find Love? Most men prefer younger women thats a fact however I Who would love to find romance-its not a cse of being desperate I am divorced and not looking for marriage but a few dates would be nice Come on guys PLE...
A. 1 January 2010: First of all, 51-59 isn't old!!
Tina Turner is 70+ and I kid you not, I had a professor in college who was obsessed with her. He didn't know her in person but he was well aware that she was 70+ (her age at the time). I'm not sure if he ever got... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 1 January 2010: I just wanted to say thanks so much. It really means a lot just to have someone listen.
I really enjoyed my time in Spain, but just wished that there could have been more. There were a lot of things I longed to do but unfortunately didn't h... (read in full...)
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