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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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My girlfriend sleeps with her lesbian friend but claims they are only good friends and she is not a lesbian!
Q. what if your girlfriend appears to be in love with her lesbo best friend (who has already told my gf she loves her), but says they are only very good friends and she is not a lesbian? they sleep together anytime they can and when she comes home she...
A. 2 March 2010: I feel badly because I don't want to hurt you but I feel that it's best to give a truthful opinion.
I'm not a trusting soul at all; I would be very suspicious. I know that in order for a relationship to work, you have to have trust... but I don't ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher fancy me or am I just being silly ?
Q. Ok i am having this major love/hate realationship with this male english teacher in my school. Ive liked him for atleast 3 years now. But ive always felt a connection between him and me , his eyes are so hypnotic. Then i went to see a play with my ...
A. 25 February 2010: He could get into serious trouble if you were to date him.
I don't mean to be mean, but you're going to get hurt. Don't set yourself up for emotional pain; as a teacher he's off-limits; there's bound to be someone more available.... (read in full...)
Troubles at work, and I can't quit!
Q. My boss hates me! I just started working at Taco Bell because Im a 21 yr old college student and I needed a job with flexible hours plus I have two out of country trips so I need a flexible job. Ok so here's the problem. The hiring manager w...
A. 25 February 2010: I realize you're leaving town in May, but why wouldn't it be possible to start looking?
I wouldn't get a new job and THEN tell them about your trip AFTER they hired you. That would be a mistake.
But why couldn't you do this: Just start looki... (read in full...)
My hairy arm really embarrass me and I feel that I have to cover them up...will anyone be attracted to me?
Q. Hi. I really need some help. Im 13 and I have really dark and hairy arms and always feel like i have to cover up. I also have never had a boyfirend so I always blame the arms. At school even in the summer when its baking hot i keep my blazer on ...
A. 25 February 2010: I don't understand... why can't you wax?
I'm sure your parents would allow you to go to a salon and get it waxed if you told them how much it bothers you.
Get it done at a salon, though, if you go that route.
We all have physical imperfecti... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about my penis size, so much so I cant even use urinals
Q. I'm 18 years old and i'm really self conscious about my penis size, whenever i'm out i need to use the cubicle instead of a urinal just in case someone notices. i dont know if i'm being too paranoid because i've got no one to compare mine to. would ...
A. 24 February 2010: Why, what made you self conscious?
Exactly how big is it?
If you're not sexually active, then it's good to save sex until you meet the right girl, or guy, depending on your sexual inclination.
There is a time and a place for sex, and when ... (read in full...)
When I menstruate..I am in so much pain! What can I do?
Q. hiya, well im 14 and my periods get really sore, so sore that i cant even move out of my bed, its a mission trying to get to the toilet. so i was wondering if anyone could help me. i want to ask my mum about contraceptive pills, they can regulate my ...
A. 24 February 2010: You definitely need to go to your doctor and get this checked out. I understand that we can't give medical advice on a website, but it could be endometriosis. Debilitating menstrual pain can be a symptom. The only way to know is to go to the ... (read in full...)
Do I choose the boyfriend who loves me, or the guy I really like?
Q. ok here it goes...my name is eliza and me and my boyfriend have been toghether for a month he is a good guy but he is reallly immature and really obsessive and grabs my ass and my boobs like every 5 mins. He loves me but sometimes i dont know if i ...
A. 21 February 2010: Yuck. Youre boyfriend is really disrespectful.
The relationship with your friend sounds more stable.
Who should you choose? The person that you love, of course!
You don't get many opportunities for happiness. The relationship with your f... (read in full...)
I can't come out to my parents but staying in the closet is hurting my relationship
Q. dear aunts and uncles. this is a bit long and im sorry but im having a really difficult time at the moment and would really appreciate any help that you can give me. ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half now a...
A. 21 February 2010: Sometimes, people can surprise you. I don't know your parents but I have been in situations where I expected the worst from people, and they still came through for me.
There is NOTHING wrong with being gay. It's unfortunate that some people d... (read in full...)
He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!
Q. Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...
A. 21 February 2010: You don't wanna make him feel bad?
This guy's trying to manipulate you. He has no right to make you feel guilty about refusing to pose for a naked picture. You don't OWE ANYONE a naked picture and you SHOULDN'T do it. You'd be opening up the d... (read in full...)
Is this really American culture? It hurts that he considers what I did in a picture 9 months ago as cheating
Q. Hi dearcupids! You always offer great advice, so here's a question for you. My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight about a picture that was taken of me. Now Im from a different country than him, he's American. In this picture I was at a party ...
A. 20 February 2010: I've spent several years living in the states and have also lived in the middle east for extended periods, it's remarkable how similar their views on women are.
One reason I'm immigrating. To my fellow US-ians, forgive me for saying that. B... (read in full...)
Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15
Q. Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?...
A. 20 February 2010: That sucks that your parents are pushing you away like that. It isn't right, and I hope that you have someone close to you in your life in whom you can confide.
You can always talk to use here, but I'm worried about you. Do you have someone in y... (read in full...)
Quick question for the girls: what do you look for in a guy?
Q. Quick question for the girls: What is it that you look for in a guy? Both appearance- and personality-wise, I mean. I understand that the answer will vary from person to person, but still, I'm curious......
A. 20 February 2010: Someone who knows how to listen!
Someone who is understanding and can talk about feelings.
Someone nice and sweet who is laid back and never temperamental.
Someone who understands my love for the guitar and supports my guitar playi... (read in full...)
Why the nagative image of Ginger Girls?
Q. Hiya, i'm a 16 year old, female, ginger and i want to know why do guys not like you for being ginger ? it's just a hair colour like blonde or brunette but why pick on the ginger, like i've got a boyfriend, but he's ginger - he's very hot by the way ...
A. 20 February 2010: You're wrong; Guys DO like gingers! Look at Ginny Weasley... everyone at Hogwarts thought she was hot :-)
Harry Potter would love you... oooh... better grab him before Ginny comes along! ;) I know, you have a boyfriend. But... you see?
It'... (read in full...)
In love with my friend and I can never find the right moment or words to tell him. Any suggestions?
Q. Being nervous about approaching someone that you like is normal, but I am in love with my friend and I can never find the right moment/ words to tell him. I was a bit drunk at his little get-together and I was planning on telling him, well, my actua...
A. 19 February 2010: I've learned this the hard way. Trust me... you'll regret what you don't do. It sounds trite, but you don't wanna have to deal with the "what-if-I-had-done-this" thoughts and regrets.
Guys can get scared very easily by the L-word, but you shou... (read in full...)
Straight man with homoerotic thoughts?
Q. I'm straight but I've recently questioned my sexuality because I started liking penis. I don't think I have homosexual tendencies because I have absolutely no "emotional" or "romantic" attraction towards men and don't want to start a relationship ...
A. 19 February 2010: Angzw beat me to it!
You're quite right, though.
Most human beings are not absolutely 100% straight or gay... almost all of us are a little bit bisexual. ... (read in full...)
Should you marry a guy who is not your type?
Q. Should you marry guy if he is not really your type and he is trying to be who you want to be with?...
A. 18 February 2010: I'm confused. Either you love the guy, or you don't love him.
If you don't love him, then hell no, don't marry him. You're setting him up for heartbreak.
Unless you're a gold digger.
I sense that he's a really good person and you feel... (read in full...)
How can I be hot with small boobs?
Q. How can I be hot with small boobs? I have small boobs, wide hips and a small waist. I think it's a very feminine looking body. But guys still drool more over busty women! I don't get it, boobs are only fat. I've seen guys drooling over women with ...
A. 18 February 2010: Large breasts aren't everything. Trust me! Some guys prefer small ones, some guys don't.
I can't remember her name... the girl from all those Pirate movies (dang, I saw all three, I should know this)... I bet that there aren't many guys who... (read in full...)
I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people?
Q. So I'm one of those people whoose always always single, I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people? I've often wondered that it's because I'm a girl with short hair and a flat chest anyone think this ...
A. 18 February 2010: I don't understand your question. The way it's worded confused me a bit. Do you mean that there is a stigma attached to being single or that people stigmatize women who are flat chested with short hair?
I don't think that this is the reason y... (read in full...)
I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people?
Q. So I'm one of those people whoose always always single, I wondered if anyone has noticed anything like a type of stigma about single people? I've often wondered that it's because I'm a girl with short hair and a flat chest anyone think this ...
A. 18 February 2010: I don't understand your question. The way it's worded confused me a bit. Do you mean that there is a stigma attached to being single or that people stigmatize women who are flat chested with short hair?
I don't think that this is the reason y... (read in full...)
Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15
Q. Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?...
A. 18 February 2010: Steve says that you're not practising the religion, but I don't think it's necessarily true.
All Christians believe that EVERYONE commits sins. I'm not sure if you're a practising Catholic or not, but if no one ever committed sins, then what's t... (read in full...)
Help!! I'm in love with someone I can't have...
Q. Hello I am 21 he is 34...In september of 2008 I started to think I liked my coworker we were both having issues with our partners, I was having serious problems with my husband abusing me and he was having problems with his GF. So that created a ...
A. 17 February 2010: If he's lying to his girlfriend, and cheating on his girlfriend, that proves that he isn't trustworthy. Even if he WERE to leave his girlfriend for you, getting involved with this guy would mean setting yourself up for pain and heartbreak. He ... (read in full...)
I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?
Q. Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...
A. 17 February 2010: Hello,
I can totally relate to what you're experiencing in your hometown. I'm an American, but I'm in a very similar situation in my current town and I'm planning to emigrate elsewhere. It's ironic that most of my ancestors emigrated to USA from... (read in full...)
I need to reassure my husband who is feeling insecure about his penis size..what should I say?
Q. I have a question I have been married for sometime. I have only had sex with 2 guys the first guy I was with was somewhat bigger than my husband and we had trouble. My husband and I were talking about sex and the past and I mention that the first ...
A. 31 January 2010: That is a way above average size for a human man. It's small for a HORSE, and hopefully you wouldn't have sex with a horse, lol. I hear Katherine the great did that. ... (read in full...)
I promised my parents I wouldn't kiss anybody until I was married! Is this stupid?
Q. well, i know this sounds stupid. but when i was like 5ish i pinky promised my parents i wouldnt kiss anyone till i was married. i am a christian, and proud(: but i kinda think its stupid.what do you think about this. is it stuupid? my friend told me ...
A. 31 January 2010: I was not only a devoted Christian, I was a strict Southern Baptist, and I never dreamed of waiting until marriage to kiss someone. Kissing does not go against Christian values!! Sex, on the other hand, is something you would be wise to wait for. ... (read in full...)
Are my braces to blame for me not getting dates?
Q. Are guys afraid of braces? Seriously, I have never dated and I want to know if it's something to do with me or if guys are afraid to date me just because I have braces. ...
A. 31 January 2010: Trust me, braces are not that bad! One of my college professors had them on his bottom teeth and he was...um... adorable (he was 30 something years old). I don't think anyone else noticed but me. Beats the hell outta crooked teeth. I kinda miss ... (read in full...)
Why do you think my husband wants me to colour my hair different?
Q. My new husband asked me to change my hair color. Why do you suppose he wanted me to look different?...
A. 27 January 2010: I look amazing with black hair; I wish it had been my natural colour... to match my eyes (well,almost)
For some reason, people sometimes look really good with a hair colour other than their natural one.... (read in full...)
Why do you think my husband wants me to colour my hair different?
Q. My new husband asked me to change my hair color. Why do you suppose he wanted me to look different?...
A. 26 January 2010: Lexie is right, you should be able to talk to your husband about anything. Just ask him.
... (read in full...)
Do I worry too much about breast size?
Q. Moderator's Note: link to website removed. I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their pa...
A. 26 January 2010: One of the most important things I've learnt in life is not to believe everything you read.
I bet this douche was taking a bribe from an unscrupulous plastic surgeon. Don't get me wrong, some plastic surgeons are really good! We need them.
... (read in full...)
My friends say he's not for me....any advise, please?
Q. I really like this guy i don't know what to do he is a bit on the large size and all my friends say he is not my type, any advise would be great, please?...
A. 25 January 2010: You know your own heart better than anyone else. Go for it if you're sure you are interested in him.... (read in full...)
Would YOU let your wife strip?
Q. My wife and I have discussed threesomes, but ultimately said we didn't want to cross that line and risk our relationship; however, it doesn't mean we don't still think about it, from a curiosity standpoint. She mentioned she would like to strip, ...
A. 25 January 2010: I don't think that "let" is the right decision, it implies that the husband is in authority over the wife.
However I don't think she should. Stripping in front of a bunch of strangers is really inappropriate when you're married to someone ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend liking big breasts makes me insecure.
Q. I'm a 20 yrs old, and have been with my boyfriend for only 2 months... hes a lovely boy, but ive noticed he only really seems to find big breasted women attractive.. he mentions other womens breasts a lot, and it annoys me because im quite small up ...
A. 25 January 2010: His ex girlfriend sounds a bit enhanced. When I'm at my ideal weight I'm about a B. You're not small.
It's really rude of him to talk about other women, especially other women's breasts, in your presence. Tell him that it makes you really u... (read in full...)
I am hot for my sister
Q. hi my sister is very hot and i have a thing for her should i tell her?...
A. 24 January 2010: Pisssshhhh!!! Get a hobby!... (read in full...)
How do I stop being miserable?
Q. Hi, at this moment in time I just don't know what to do been searching for so many answers so thought i would just see if this message can save me...im 25 years old, dont like my job, have no friends, live at home and nothing is going for me. I dont ...
A. 24 January 2010: I'm going to tell you something very personal, and I hope it doesn't make you uncomfortable.
You might feel hopeless, but I can tell you that there is hope. I know this because a couple of years ago, I was in a very similar situation. I'm a bi... (read in full...)
Can my grandmother make me give up my baby for adoption?
Q. im 14 and pregnant i dont live with my mother and father i live with my grandmaa and my parents arent together but my mom said she would help me i wanna keep this child its daddy will be 18 in a month and we have beeen dating for over a year and i ...
A. 21 January 2010: Is open adoption a possibility? Have you and your grandma talked to an attorney about that?
I don't know what it entails. However, I knew of a case where the mum was about your age. She gave up the baby for adoption, but she was allowed to visit... (read in full...)
Friends with married men... too close for comfort???
Q. Why do women (even married women) think it is okay to become 'close' friends with a married man, and keep this relationship from their spouses? Is this okay?...
A. 20 January 2010: There's nothing wrong with having platonic, opposite-sex friends. However, it's wrong to keep secrets from your spouse.
It's really a case-by-case thing, and we can't have rules for everything. Sometimes we just have to use common sense.
... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly compared to Monica Bellucci (my boyfriend's heart throb!)
Q. I feel so ugly... my boyfriend has a huge celebrity crush on Monica Bellucci, and has seen many movies in which she has sex scenes, with a lot of nudity. I know that she's really beautiful, especially for her age, but it still makes me feel bad that ...
A. 20 January 2010: I'm not trying to be mean, but your boyfriend is a rude pig. He has NO IDEA how to treat a woman! I'm really appalled by these comments your boyfriend has made. If he can't see how hurtful they are, he's really thick. If he realizes how hurtful ... (read in full...)
My husband got laid off and has turned into a couch potato!
Q. Ok please help me understand. My husband has been laid off for 3 or 4 month now and he has be come a couch potato. He is so lazy even our daughter sees it. She will say daddy you are a lazy butt. He sleeps till 11:00 or 12:00 every day and then ...
A. 19 January 2010: What a lot of people are doing, is taking a job just to tide them over until they can get a job that meets their qualifications. He doesn't have to do it for the rest of his life, but at least he could find it easily and he would have the ... (read in full...)
I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.
Q. I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to ...
A. 19 January 2010: Angzw is right. If the man has to defend himself, he has to defend himself, but if a man uses more force than necessary, it's wrong because he's hitting the woman in anger, or as a punishment. That's abuse. He didn't need to punch you repeatedly ... (read in full...)
Penis Pumps - Worth it? Or not?
Q. Hi I've been looking into getting a penis pump - does anybody have one and are there any long term gains from using one? And any problems with them...? What do you think ladies? Any explination would be helpful!...
A. 19 January 2010: Pump up your muscles women dig that a lot better.
If you're not a great listener already, work on your listening skills. I'm a woman and I can tell you that my number one quality I look for is someone who knows how to listen, someone who understa... (read in full...)
Best friends only... or is that impossible?
Q. Can an attractive man and an attractive woman ever really be best friends without one of them falling for the other at some point?...
A. 19 January 2010: I felt the same way I'd feel if I had a brother his age.
You'd (hopefully) never feel attraction for a sibling of the opposite gender. I was close to him in the same way I would be close to a sibling. For all practical purposes, he was like my ... (read in full...)
Husbands dirty secret
Q. This morning my husband left for a business trip. He forgot to close out a hidden folder on our computer. I have never seen this folder. It was like I entered into a shrine of women...from porn, pics of famous women, to random naked girls......
A. 19 January 2010: Have you confronted him about this?
It sounds pervy and creepy to me. hey, Caring Guy is right, there is a similar question on here...... (read in full...)
I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.
Q. I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to ...
A. 19 January 2010: Most guys are bigger and stronger than the average girl, and there's a difference between defending yourself from physical harm, and engaging someone.
Both of you were wrong. You had no business punching him, and he had no business punching... (read in full...)
Best friends only... or is that impossible?
Q. Can an attractive man and an attractive woman ever really be best friends without one of them falling for the other at some point?...
A. 18 January 2010: Sure!!
I don't think that attractive has anything to do with it, because that's a subjective word.
One of my best friends from college, for example. I know he wasn't attracted to me (my friend was gay) and I thought of him as a brother I neve... (read in full...)
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