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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 21 March 2010: Thanks Eddie and marriedlady, that was nice... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 21 March 2010: How do kids manage to study abroad there for a year or semester? I'm sure that takes more than three months. ... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 15 January 2010: Thank you both for saying that I can find a way to go back. .
I still miss Spain so much!!!!
Sometimes I feel sad because I remember how far away it is and it feels really overwhelming... I'm still in love with that place.
I've done some re... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 15 January 2010: Thank you both for saying that I can find a way to go back. .
I still miss Spain so much!!!!
Sometimes I feel sad because I remember how far away it is and it feels really overwhelming... I'm still in love with that place.
I've done some re... (read in full...)
Is It Possible For An Older Lady To Find genuine Love????
Q. Can An Older Woman Find Love? Most men prefer younger women thats a fact however I Who would love to find romance-its not a cse of being desperate I am divorced and not looking for marriage but a few dates would be nice Come on guys PLE...
A. 3 January 2010: An elegant woman of 70? jejeje, she'd better watch out... my Spanish prof would loooove her!! :)... (read in full...)
Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex
Q. I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...
A. 3 January 2010: Smart girl for realizing that you're not ready at 14. :)
First of all, even if you WERE to have sex with your boyfriend, it's no guarantee that he would stay with you. He had sex with his ex-girlfriend... are they still together? Of course n... (read in full...)
Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex
Q. I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...
A. 3 January 2010: Smart girl for realizing that you're not ready at 14. :)
First of all, even if you WERE to have sex with your boyfriend, it's no guarantee that he would stay with you. He had sex with his ex-girlfriend... are they still together? Of course n... (read in full...)
How can I stop having feelings for my friend's boyfriend?
Q. I have a huge problem, my best friend and me have been friends since 8th grade, two years ago she started going out with a kid that i introduced to her. Before they were going out i thought he was kind of cute and felt really atracted to him but now ...
A. 3 January 2010: You can't make your heart stop feeling love for someone, but you CAN control your behaviour, and you know how unwise it would be to act on these feelings. Think of your friend and how it would make her feel, and how sad it would make you to tarnish ... (read in full...)
I don't like the way I look!
Q. This isn't a relationship question but, I didn't know who else to ask so, Pleasee help me out. I'd appreciate it. Okay so, I have a problem with the way I look, my boyfriend tells me all the time that I'm beautiful, and I'm not fat, etc. But, I...
A. 2 January 2010: I just got back from Spain, and I lost a good deal of weight over there. I'm not down to my ideal weight yet, but I got a good start.
Over there, most people do a lot of walking. It's part of their lives... also, there is a lot of healthy ... (read in full...)
I need an English name similar to my Chinese name which sounds like Melwhi Lam
Q. maybe it looks stupid to ask for help here because of my name thing anyway,my Chinese name sound like melwhi lam .and I'm a girl .in the past ,i usually teach others to pronounce my Chinese name .now it's the problem .I NEED A ENGLISH NAME.my ...
A. 2 January 2010: I think that Melwhi is a cool name.
Perhaps Melody? I've always liked that name.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that her ex called her fat?
Q. one of my friends just broke up with their boyfriend, and i was talking to him and he called her fat, do you think i should tell her?...
A. 1 January 2010: She doesn't need to know that... it would only hurt her.
It's over, just let it go...... (read in full...)
Just friends when he thinks the woman is sexy?
Q. Can a male and female just be friends if he thinks the women is sexy?...
A. 1 January 2010: Thinks she is sexy, or is attracted to her sexually?... (read in full...)
Is It Possible For An Older Lady To Find genuine Love????
Q. Can An Older Woman Find Love? Most men prefer younger women thats a fact however I Who would love to find romance-its not a cse of being desperate I am divorced and not looking for marriage but a few dates would be nice Come on guys PLE...
A. 1 January 2010: First of all, 51-59 isn't old!!
Tina Turner is 70+ and I kid you not, I had a professor in college who was obsessed with her. He didn't know her in person but he was well aware that she was 70+ (her age at the time). I'm not sure if he ever got... (read in full...)
Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?
Q. Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...
A. 1 January 2010: I just wanted to say thanks so much. It really means a lot just to have someone listen.
I really enjoyed my time in Spain, but just wished that there could have been more. There were a lot of things I longed to do but unfortunately didn't h... (read in full...)
Sex w/o condoms safe?
Q. Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I ...
A. 31 December 2009: That is, sex without condoms. It´s practically suicide. Don´t do it! You shouldn´t even be having sex at your age!... (read in full...)
Sex w/o condoms safe?
Q. Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I ...
A. 31 December 2009: ARE YOU KIDDING??!???!
That is precisely how people become pregnant and catch STDs. ... (read in full...)
No period but I know I'm not pregnant
Q. sooo i been feel throwin up for 3 days now , and i didn't have my period for a month . But i know i ain't pregnant because i didn't have sex ! but like 3 days before i was drunk . I don't know what's wrong with me ! and like 3 weeks ago i was ...
A. 30 December 2009: You need to go to the doctor and get taken care of. This is your HEALTH!!!! Don´t play around with it. ... (read in full...)
Ex leaving threatening messages!
Q. Hi, I have recently emigrated to another country with my 9 year old son. I am a single mother and have been for some time. My son has had very little contact with his father during his 9 years of life (even though his dad lived only 5 minutes down ...
A. 30 December 2009: You need to talk to a family attorney and get some good legal advice, and you need to go to the police, NOW!!!! You shouldn´t have to deal with this guy alone.... (read in full...)
I'm sick of going to bars and nightclubs!
Q. Ok, i'm only 25 years old, but lately, i've been thinking that i'm really sick of going out to nightclubs and bars !. I get annoyed with loads of drunk guys trying to chat me up and dance with me, and one thing that happened recently got me kind of ...
A. 30 December 2009: There´s nothing wrong with clubbing, in my opinion, but it´s all right not to enjoy it.
If you DO drink,though, then DO NOT DRIVE!!! JUST ONE DRINK is one too many and affects your judgement. A car is a huge piece of steel that weighs several ... (read in full...)
Family isn't nice to the guy because of his looks
Q. My parents are normally pretty open minded and supportive of what I do, I am 23 yrs old and have been dating Matt(25) for almost 4 months now. He is the leader singer in a band, has over come an addition as a teenager and has been clean ever since. ...
A. 28 December 2009: You can´t judge a book by its cover.
There is actually a song by that name!!
His band needs to cover that one. ... (read in full...)
Does masterbation cause health problems?
Q. hi there again, this time i want to ask that do masterbration effects health?? I mean i masturbrate 2-3 times daily and day by day i am feelling weaker! I asked a friend and he told me that masterbrating too much can also cause AIDs! So i want to ...
A. 28 December 2009: You CANNOT get AIDS from masturbating. AIDS is caused by the HIV virus, which is spread from one person through another through contaminated needles, sex, etc. and through blood, semen, vaginal fluid.
If masturbation were dangerous there would be... (read in full...)
I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done ...
A. 28 December 2009: That was a sneaky thing to do, and very wrong.
Why did you try to get pregnant, when it´s obvious that he ISN´T ready for a KID?????
Are you trying to trap him into marriage?
That´s cruel!! How would you feel if you were a kid who was broug... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if this is how it is supposed to be?
Q. I'm just writing to ask for a bit of help on what i should do. The thing is, i have been in a relation ship for 9 months now, but the thing is, it is now starting to make me feel depresed being in this relation ship and i dont no what to do, all ...
A. 28 December 2009: What do you mean, you´re not sure if this is how it´s supposed to be?
Are you kidding?!?
He treats you like shit... you deserve someone who will respect you.
You need to learn to stand up for yourself... Say, I´m unique... there´s only o... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if this is how it is supposed to be?
Q. I'm just writing to ask for a bit of help on what i should do. The thing is, i have been in a relation ship for 9 months now, but the thing is, it is now starting to make me feel depresed being in this relation ship and i dont no what to do, all ...
A. 28 December 2009: ANY girl deserves betten than THIS creep!
It´ll hurt you more in the long term if you stay with this loser. He sucks.... (read in full...)
Unmanly stance of my penis
Q. Hi Everybody! Could anyone help me with this problem? When my penis is erect, it doesn't lie down on my tummy; it stands upright, pointing at the ceiling. Then when I stand up, the penis , if it is very hard and if I'm very aroused, simply keeps ...
A. 28 December 2009: I imagine that penises are all a little bit different, so there is a wide range of what is considered normal. You sound normal to me.
Does it bend to the left a bit?
You say you´re 41-50 years old, but if it bends to the left, maybe you´re a bit... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't give me a Christmas present!
Q. My boyfriend didn't get me a Christmas present. I wrapped all his kids gifts and put mine under the tree. We ad a talk prior to Christmas about exchanging gifts. I didn't was there to be any financial burdon on either of us, so I suggested that we ...
A. 27 December 2009: You have to be sincere and direct with guys, because some cannot take a hint. It´s difficult to second guess what a person is saying if they won´t tell it like it is... i.e., please get me a present. Maybe he figured you were ok with not having a ... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl to have sex?
Q. how do i ask a girl if she wants to have sex with me??...
A. 26 December 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
Oh yeah, that´s the article.
I used to teach in the public schools in the USA... and I lived in a state with a very high teenage pregnancy rate. It made me very sad... (read in full...)
How do I forgive the person who raped me when I was a child?
Q. For years a family member molested me from the age of 4 till I was 12. When I was 9 he started to rape me, I use to be very sore for days and I bled alot and I got infections and couldn't walk properly. I never told anyone as he always threatened ...
A. 26 December 2009: Even from a Christian standpoint (I was once a Christian, quite devoted really, but that´s another story)... forgiveness does NOT mean that these crimes should go unpunished. It´s not sinful for a judge to sentence a criminal to prison, we have a ... (read in full...)
How do I forgive the person who raped me when I was a child?
Q. For years a family member molested me from the age of 4 till I was 12. When I was 9 he started to rape me, I use to be very sore for days and I bled alot and I got infections and couldn't walk properly. I never told anyone as he always threatened ...
A. 26 December 2009: I´m more spiritual than religious, but I can tell you that forgiveness does NOT mean that you tolerate abuse from people.
I´m not sure about forgiveness, but I ask you this... what is the statute of limitations for this crime in Australia? ... (read in full...)
I seem to dwell in a hole of lonliness
Q. I'm 35 years old. I had a great childhood but once I hit puberty I became depressed (at the time I just thought I was going through a stage). I was mildly depressed through college. After college I was mildly depressed. People cannot see this ...
A. 26 December 2009: It´s not too late for you to change this, and I swear things can change.
Perhaps going to church or a religious service would help you? Possibly, you could talk to a pastor or priest.
I´m not proselytizing, though. I´m more spiritual than r... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl to have sex?
Q. how do i ask a girl if she wants to have sex with me??...
A. 26 December 2009: You´re 13-15!! You don´t!!
There are consequences to having sex, and there always have been. You can easily get a disease from having sex. SOme of these diseases are very, very serious. You can die from having sex! Furthermore, nobody y... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl to have sex?
Q. how do i ask a girl if she wants to have sex with me??...
A. 26 December 2009: You´re 13-15!! You don´t!!
There are consequences to having sex, and there always have been. You can easily get a disease from having sex. SOme of these diseases are very, very serious. You can die from having sex! Furthermore, nobody y... (read in full...)
Have we lost the spark due to my pregnancy?
Q. I'm 19 and pregnant and me and my husband have been together a year. I was never really phsically attrated to him, I was attracted to my love for him, but the longer we are together the more it seems like that may not be enough. He isn't a good ...
A. 26 December 2009: That´s really strange... you say you love your husband, yet you are not physically attracted to him and never were?
I could be wrong, but I have the feeling that you don´t know what you want... I see that you´re 19, and that is common at your ... (read in full...)
Is 5 inches too small?
Q. i am 18 a virgin with a 5 inch penis........i am really shy when it comes to sex...am i an ok size ...
A. 26 December 2009: You´re quite normal, and if a girl would reject you because of that, then she´s shallow and it´s her loss. ... (read in full...)
I want to kiss my teacher.
Q. hey, k I'm a girl going to school and i have this hot teacher. when i have him by me in class all i want to do is kiss him. I'm always smiling at him. i go to his class when he doesn't have students so we can talk. i want to kiss him and i t...
A. 26 December 2009: Exactly how old are you? Are you in college? I see that you´re 18-21.
My concern is that he could potentially get into trouble if you were to get involved.
I wouldn´t kiss him, period.
If he´s your professor in COLLEGE, then I would wa... (read in full...)
Marriage problem with my wife's attitude!
Q. hi i wonder if i can have some advice. my wife behaves so differently since we were married. tell you how. for the past 5 years of marriage, if i take pictures of her she goes extremely angry. for the past 5 years of marriage, if i start to...
A. 26 December 2009: She needs to go to the doctor to rule out a physiological cause for this condition. It´s probably easily treated, but the sooner it gets diagnosed, the better... I hope this helps...... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I like him if he has a girlfriend?
Q. Okay, so I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. Me and him are really close though. We flirt all the time, and he treats me like were going out, and he's the nicest to me. He's showing signs he likes me, but do I tell him I like him? ...
A. 26 December 2009: If you guys flirt all the time, he´s being disrespectful to his gf.
I would advise you to wait until they break up before telling him, but he doesn´t sound like he´s worth waiting for. If he treats her disrespectfully, he´s not trustwor... (read in full...)
He's married but we love each other, what should I do?
Q. Ive just recently started a new job. Me and the manager being very close he knows everything about me and my history of abuse and current abusive situation with my family. It was agreed during holidays i would come work for him to get some extra ...
A. 25 December 2009: He doesn´t sound like he loves his wife at all!! He´s cheating on her!!!! How can you do that to someone you love?!!
Anyway, why would you WANT a man who runs around on his wife? What does that say about his character? I´m sorry because ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to dating black men?
Q. I am trying to date to try to get over my last relationship.. I know that they say finish a chapter before you start another, but I say the only way to get over the last one is to have sex with a new one. Anyway, I am an interracial dater and it i...
A. 25 December 2009: q1605, you crack me up. Sorry about your divorce btw.
In London they understand that people are human, regardless of race... and here in Barçca a similar situation exists. :)
Why even address people by their ´´races,`` we´re all human.... (read in full...)
Should I go back to dating black men?
Q. I am trying to date to try to get over my last relationship.. I know that they say finish a chapter before you start another, but I say the only way to get over the last one is to have sex with a new one. Anyway, I am an interracial dater and it i...
A. 25 December 2009: I love cats, and there are some very affectionate, loving cats out there.
Don´t forget dogs, though... millions of them dying in shelters every year when they could have provided love and companionship to someone. :( Ditto for cats... I have o... (read in full...)
I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant
Q. pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...
A. 23 December 2009: You need to tell your mother, NOW.
I´m concerned about possible illnesses as well... not to scare you but this behaviour is risky.
There´s a drug called nPeps... non industrial post exposure prohpylactics... if you have been exposed to an il... (read in full...)
My husband says he watches porn because I don't look the same after having kids. Should I leave?
Q. I am thinking of leaving my husband, is this too extreme? When we met I made it very clear to him that I'm not intereted in being with someone who uses porn. I find it insulting and disrespectful. At the time he said this is fine as he is not inte...
A. 23 December 2009: Whether or not you leave is your decision. Have you asked him to attend marriage counseling with you? That may be an option. You should talk to a counselor, and insist that he go with you.
I´m going to get flack for being ´´unprof... (read in full...)
Should I go back to dating black men?
Q. I am trying to date to try to get over my last relationship.. I know that they say finish a chapter before you start another, but I say the only way to get over the last one is to have sex with a new one. Anyway, I am an interracial dater and it i...
A. 23 December 2009: There´s nothing wrong with dating someone of a different race, or the same race.
I gather from your post that your mum is white, but your dad is black? I imagine that loads of white men would be attracted to you. I have a cousin who is much ... (read in full...)
Remaining a virgin is seriously important to me, but how can I find a partner who shares this feeling?
Q. Dear Cupid: I started going to college late, but now I am attending UCLA, a famous university. I want to remain a virgin until I find my one and true love, but she must also be a virgin. No one that I know is a virgin, and if I tell someone,...
A. 16 December 2009: (2) GIVE UP TRYING TO FIND A VIRGIN BRIDE IN AMERICA, because our women here have been completely and utterly corrupted...You'll even find that ladies who attend religious services regularly here are just as promiscuous as the sluts you'll meet down ... (read in full...)
What is the least painful sexual position for a virgin?
Q. Im 14, and me and my bf are ready for sex for the first time, im kinda scared though, whats the easiest/ least painful position for first timers?...
A. 16 December 2009: NO ONE is ready for sex at 14!!!!
Maybe you have the urge to have sex, but you´re not ready for the possible consequences.
What if you were to get pregnant?
Are you ready to support a kid?
You need to do the right thing and abstain unti... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mom is pregnant...
Q. Ugh, I think my mom's pregnant. I'm 16 and an only child, my parents are married and I love how my life is. I don't want anything to change and i'm in shock.. I feel like crying... My mom is 38 and she got pregnant last year, too, but had an ...
A. 16 December 2009: How do you know that she´s pregnant?
Don´t borrow trouble, you don´t know for sure that she is.
I´m assuming from your post that you have reason to believe she is... but WHY?
I think you should just ask your mom, although she might not b... (read in full...)
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