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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (23 October 2009):
 You have no reason to feel ashamed... unless, like Daniel says, you committed rape or cheated on someone.
Ejaculation is part of nature. It's what you were made to do. You have no reason to be ashamed, any more than you should be ashamed of eating or sleeping. :)
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reader, CaringGuy  + ♥, writes (23 October 2009):
How did your parents view sex? If you've been brough to belive that sex is wrong, or immoral, then you may think it's shameful. Just think about what has happened in your past and what your views on sex are. You'll find the aswer there.
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reader, marriedlady + ♥, writes (23 October 2009):
 hmmm, i dont know. I feel ashamed when i dont...
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reader, Nik79 +, writes (23 October 2009):
It's probably because u have a little more growing to do emotionally. And confidence with yourself and sexuality will help as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): maybe you have some morals which cause this guilty feeling?
for example, i believe in waiting for marriage to have sex and im pretty sure that if i were to have sex i would feel ashamed.
im not sure what your morals are, but im just guessing.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 + ♥, writes (23 October 2009):
 Its a very good question. It all depends on where it all goes. Is this after you have sex with someone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): that is because of the social stigma on masturbation but if you are not married and you do it moderately there is nothing to be ashamed of.in fact it is good for you.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (23 October 2009):
 Someone probably taught you, either by words or actions, that pleasure and/or sex was 'dirty' and/or 'shameful'.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (23 October 2009):
 Honestly, I don't know. This is the first time I hear about this problem. On an intellectual basis, however, there is no reason to feel that way. Unless you're raping someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Are you catholic , LOL. Dude its natural, for years your told that sex is dirty and something you should stay away from, course it turns out its not its life affirming and grrrreeeeaaatttt, keep on going.
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