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No replies yet... 25 October 2009: This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
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6 July 2009: As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
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Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 21 March 2010: Hi Samantha,
I didn't mean to take so long to get back but in answer to your question:
They're all holding magic wands.
It's not a stupid question :-) You haven't read the books or seen the movies.
All the magical characters have ... (read in full...)
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 11 July 2009: Samantha:
I "blame" a friend who was even more obsessed at the time. I can't wait to go see the Half-Blood Prince in theatres. Maybe you would enjoy the stories. :)
I enjoy the movies, but I think they leave a lot out; the books are more complet... (read in full...)
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 9 July 2009: My order of compatibility (don't remember the %ages):
1. Slytherin
2. Gryffindor
3. Ravenclaw
4. Hufflepuff
... (read in full...)
I feel lonely and unwanted.What do I do?
Q. I feel like so depressed!! I dont know what to do..my parents dont let me go out and hang with friends so i basically stay home all day everyday and it really sucks. i hate that they're so over protective. I feel so lonely and unwanted...and ...
A. 8 July 2009: Don't you participate in extracurricular activities?
Music, soccer, horseback riding, for example?
It's really depressing to be home all day.
I'm not sure what your interests are, but your parents whould let you participate in activitie... (read in full...)
How can I protect my baby sister from my step dad?
Q. My mum has just had a little baby girl she's only 6 months, im really worried about her future and safety. My step father used to touch my other younger sister (17) when she was only 5.He told her he would kill her if she told my mum. But she did...
A. 7 July 2009: You need to go to the police about this! Go to the police, do not pass "GO" and do not collect your $200. Call child protective services, too.
This man belongs in PRISON!
I hope that he does go to prison, and I hope the other prisoners ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity. Now I have a concern about my body...
Q. Two days ago I lost my virginity. I'm almost 99% sure he doesn't have an STD but yesterday I was uh feeling around down there to see if anything changed and I felt what seems like an air bubble on the left side of my vagina and I dont know what it ...
A. 7 July 2009: I hope that everything is okay, but you should get this checked out by a doctor for your peace of mind.
I'm not trying to be mean, but you're too young to be having sex. If you hold off on the sex, you don't have to deal with the burdens of worry... (read in full...)
Any Harry Potter fans out there?
Q. As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...
A. 6 July 2009: "Sings a different [song] every year. It's got to be a pretty boring life, hasn't it, being a hat? I suppose it spends all year making up the next one."
-- Ron Weasley
Hey Samantha, I think that the Sorting Hat answers your question bet... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with sleeping around! Can he still be in love though?
Q. how is it possible that a man can ever be truly committed to someone when they're all so obsessed with sleeping around? how can a man fall in love with anyone, when all they're concerned with is tits and ass? i know it happens--that men fall in ...
A. 6 July 2009: I think that men are stereotyped as sex-obsessed, but that stereotype is unfair.
I think that men are more reluctant to discuss their feeligs pour their hearts out, because it makes them feel vulnerable. There are differences between men and ... (read in full...)
We have no chemistry, but I stay with him because I have no one else...
Q. I am dating my ex that I divorced 10 yrs ago that I was only married to for 2wks .He is nice but for me there is no chemistry, I don't want to be intimate with him. I sometimes feel I am dating him him cause I am not dating anyone else. I guess I ...
A. 6 July 2009: I know you don't want to hurt him, but you need to tell him the truth about how you feel.
I think that you need to spend some time apart from him and sort out your feelings.
You can date him without getting serious or rushing into a commitmen... (read in full...)
How can I find a friend who likes me because of my personality, not my looks?
Q. I find it very difficult to make and keep friends. I am an attractive, 21 year old girl, however I find my good looks a burden. I feel that it is quite a taboo subject to talk about as it is not acceptable in our society to be confident in our ...
A. 6 July 2009: Older women are easier for me to "click" with than women my own age. I'm not sure why, it just worked out that way. Maybe I have more in common with them, despite the age differences.
Also, gay guys are obviously not going to have ulterior... (read in full...)
I used to be able to orgasm but I can't anymore
Q. I used to be able to orgasm but i cant anymore now just before i orgasm i get really sensitive, too sensitive,its horrible, and this prevents me from reaching orgasm. Ive never had this problem before and it only started 3 weeks ago, and its not...
A. 6 July 2009: A lot of women seem to have this problem. I think that you should make an appointment with your dr and get a checkup to rule out any physiological cause. They're used to patients with this problem and I'm sure they can treat this. ... (read in full...)
She smelled my perfume in her car, does she know that her husband cheated with me?
Q. Im 18 and hes 40 and hes married with 2 young kids, and we had sex in his car last night, and this morning his wife got in his car and she said she could smell perfume, he said it was his mums perfume, do you think his wife knows?...
A. 6 July 2009: Not only are you screwing up other people's marriages, Emma, but other people's families! This guy has two kids... do you realize that this could destroy the guy's family as well as his marriage?
Furthermore, it's dangerous... with all the dise... (read in full...)
I'm I a slut? How can I forget!
Q. If I look at this on the funny side I'd say me and my boyfriend have a horn problem.. But on the not so funny side - I feel like a slut. Me and my boyfriend have done things in places we really shouldn't have. I regret it afterwards and n...
A. 6 July 2009: If you're having sex with only one guy, not fifty... then how does that make you a slut?
Just use protection!!!!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated, do I give him a second chance?
Q. Long story short, my LDR boyfriend recently confessed to have cheated on me multiple times with a FWB the past days and I'm really devastated, I've cried too much since he told me this. Now, he confessed on his own and without pressure coming from ...
A. 6 July 2009: There's a song called "Wait for Me," and I believe in it. It's so true: that if you love someone, you will do what's right and not what's easy. It doesn't mean you're inferior... your boyfriend was a weak person. I think you should dump him. He ... (read in full...)
Tan blondes or Fair blondes? Which do you honestly find more attractive?
Q. I was told by a one of my guy friends that I would be much more attractive if I had darker skin. I have naturally light blonde hair and blue eyes and my skin is very fair. I am not white and pale like a ghost but I am not tan either. He told me I ...
A. 6 July 2009: One of my drama teachers used to say, "There is butter for every bread" (it was a guy, btw).
Some guys would totally dig fair blondes. ... (read in full...)
How can I find a friend who likes me because of my personality, not my looks?
Q. I find it very difficult to make and keep friends. I am an attractive, 21 year old girl, however I find my good looks a burden. I feel that it is quite a taboo subject to talk about as it is not acceptable in our society to be confident in our ...
A. 6 July 2009: Your good looks are a burden?
Oh man oh man, cry me a river!!
You have two choices:
1. Gain 200 pounds and get a VERY unflattering hairstyle. I have a feeling that you'll opt for...
2. Think about your interests, and go to places ... (read in full...)
She smelled my perfume in her car, does she know that her husband cheated with me?
Q. Im 18 and hes 40 and hes married with 2 young kids, and we had sex in his car last night, and this morning his wife got in his car and she said she could smell perfume, he said it was his mums perfume, do you think his wife knows?...
A. 6 July 2009: I don't know, but I hope you do get busted! Why the crap are you having sex with a married man?... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to afford the wedding of my dreams?
Q. I'm a young women (22) who has in fact found the love of my life. I'm sitting here watching some wedding show. I have a single mother who lives off a fixed income. My love's parents aren't well off but have every thing they need. I have no idea how ...
A. 6 July 2009: Hey,
I'd like to help, but could you describe what you had in mind for your wedding? Your dream wedding? Perhaps that would help me think of some ideas.
For example:
I've never been married, but there is a certain Julia Roberts movie ... (read in full...)
I love to wear girls clothes! does this make me bisexual?
Q. i'm 18 years old and i like girls alot and i'm dating one right now but whenever i see i naked guy or two guys having sex i get horny and i love to wear girls clothes..panties,bras,mini skirts,dresses,etc..i'm always wondering if i'm bisexual ...
A. 6 July 2009: There's no connection between cross-dressing and sexual orientation.
It's perfectly simple!
If you're attracted to women, then you're straight. If you're attracted to guys and women, then you're bisexual.
Some people believe that sexual ... (read in full...)
My heart is broken in pieces I really need help
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me this week and it's being so hard to get over the whole situation for me because it ended up in really hurtful terms, he seemed like he didn't care hurting my feelings, he broke my heart in pieces, but after all that he ...
A. 4 July 2009: I'm so sorry for your pain.
Love DOES blind us, but I'm an objective third party.
I say he's a jerk, and you need to avoid hurtful people like the swine flu. Don't let him get you down, you sound like a nice, decent guy and you deserve some... (read in full...)
Want to get rid of these stretch marks! What are the best creams to use?
Q. i'm going on 16 and i'm pretty skinny but now that i'm actually growing lol i'm starting to get stretch marks on my butt and hips, wat's the best coco butter to use for this? i want to either minimize their appearence or just get rid of them, my ...
A. 4 July 2009: You're young, too, and scars tend to fade more easily when you're your age. It's because mitosis (cells replicating) is faster when you're young.
... (read in full...)
How should I maintain my small figure for the duration of pregnancy?
Q. So, i'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my husband has a thing for thinner models like kate moss and the like. He once told me he married me largely because he knew I'd always be one to stay naturally slender, because of how naturally skinny...
A. 4 July 2009: I hope this isn't a real post.
That baby needs to have proper nutrition and prenatal care or he'll be damaged for life!!
You can always lose the weight after you have him. ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: I can't believe that a customer threw hot coffee at the employees. That's assault!!
There was a customer who hit one of my co-workers with her pocketbook. And another who told the girl that "I can stick my fingers up your ass." I'm not making t... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: I think what the other poster was saying was not to worry about "getting back at," these hateful people. I don't think that anyone actually wished cancer on someone... but seriously...
I don't think anyone WOULD wish cancer on someone else... ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: Oh, and I used to hate those people that would take every garment in the department off the racks... take it ALL in the dressing room... and leave it on the floor for us to pick up.
Man oh man, I WISH I coulda told people where to stick those da... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: people who tell you to 'hurry up' and make a pathetic pained and irritating face when you're already working as hard as you can to get them out because, according to them, they've chosen to leave their baby/dog or a combination of the two in the car ... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 4 July 2009: No, no, no... I'm not going to call out names... I don't think anyone ever wished cancer on the customers... it was mentioned, however... I am sorry for the confusion.... (read in full...)
My teacher moved to Chicago and I miss him...I think I love him
Q. I need help,I think I might love my teacher, but he is the same gender as I am. I thaought at first I didn't because I liked this girl,but now were just good friends. Since summer is over,I miss him a lot since he move to chicago and he is my ...
A. 3 July 2009: Legioness has a great idea.
Sometimes something good (like discovering a hidden talent) can come from something bad (like a broken heart).
This happened to me.
I was in love with a teacher once too. He was the opposite gender but let's jus... (read in full...)
I don't want to lie to my parents but an older man asked me out..
Q. hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse me i`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34. i think he might like me too. i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do. i`ve never been in a serious relationship before...
A. 3 July 2009: By the way, your English is really good.
I'm a Spanish teacher but I'm studying to be an EFL (English as a Foreign Language) teacher. If you have "dudas," perhaps I could help you. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lie to my parents but an older man asked me out..
Q. hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse me i`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34. i think he might like me too. i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do. i`ve never been in a serious relationship before...
A. 3 July 2009: By the way, your English is really good.
I'm a Spanish teacher but I'm studying to be an EFL (English as a Foreign Language) teacher. If you have "dudas," perhaps I could help you. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lie to my parents but an older man asked me out..
Q. hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse me i`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34. i think he might like me too. i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do. i`ve never been in a serious relationship before...
A. 3 July 2009: Hola chica,
A good rule of thumb is that if you have to do it behind your parents' back, it's probably a bad thing.
You should tell your parents the truth. Perhaps you could introduce your friend to your parents. Some parents would fl... (read in full...)
If I am having all these feeling and doubts should I still go though with the wedding?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and we are to get married in 2 months. I started dating her 1 year after my ex-girlfriend. Me and the ex had a terrible break up of course cheating was involved. The relationship ended and for the most ...
A. 3 July 2009: A good rule of thumb is... that if you're about to make an irrevocable, or nearly irrevocable decision... then you need to LISTEN to your doubts!!
Usually, we regret what we DON'T do more than what we do... but you shouldn't do somethin... (read in full...)
Will wearing tight jeans affect my unborn child?
Q. I'm 8 weeks pregnent and like wearing tight jeans,is this gonna affect my baby?...
A. 3 July 2009: I want to help you, but it's best to check with your doctor... you just can't be too careful when you're dealing with something as fragile as an unborn baby... (read in full...)
Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!
Q. My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this ...
A. 3 July 2009: What is this trend with guys shaving their legs, btw?
What's wrong with a guy having hairy legs? ... (read in full...)
Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!
Q. My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this ...
A. 3 July 2009: I don't like it when someone tries to boss me. If she can't accept you as you are, what kind of relationship is that?
If a guy tried to make me get a short haircut, dress a certain way, etc. ... I'd avoid him like the swine flu!!!!... (read in full...)
Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!
Q. My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this ...
A. 3 July 2009: It's unfair to try to coerce someone into doing something that makes them uncomfortable or to use sex as a bargaining tool. There's nothing wrong with telling you how she feels "hey it would look kinda sexy if you shaved off your body hair" but ... (read in full...)
Want to get rid of these stretch marks! What are the best creams to use?
Q. i'm going on 16 and i'm pretty skinny but now that i'm actually growing lol i'm starting to get stretch marks on my butt and hips, wat's the best coco butter to use for this? i want to either minimize their appearence or just get rid of them, my ...
A. 30 June 2009: I would recommend seeing a good dermatologist. I'm sure they can do something, even if it's pricey you can always save your $$$.... (read in full...)
I don't think he is completely over her and it worries me...
Q. hi ok so me and my boyfriend have been together about a year now...the problem is i am utterly jealous of his ex girlfriend. they don't speak anymore... it ended on bad terms but i still find that i compare myself to her. I have seen phot...
A. 29 June 2009: Have you discussed this with your boyfriend? I know this may seem obvious but you should tell him how you feel. Just don't rehash it or your insecurity could drive him away.
Why do you believe that he still has feelings for her?
He's no... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing giving him an ultimatum? How do you think he will react?
Q. I dated this man two years ago for 5 months and was utterly in love with him. We had an amazing connection, unlike anything I've felt before or since. We ended it because he had just come out of a serious relationship (he was engaged), which had ...
A. 29 June 2009: Sounds like he has commitment problems!
Sometimes, particularly in love and war, when we are faced with a choice, we're forced to decide what is "best." You did what was best.
I'm sorry for your pain, but you are better off without a guy wh... (read in full...)
I know things could be a LOT worse, but seriously?
Q. December of last year was not my best month. The first of December, my mother passed away from breast cancer. The seventh of December, I got into a car accident that left me with a broken leg (currently in the cast) and $1600 in debt. The twentieth ...
A. 29 June 2009: Holy crap, that f---ing sucks!! I'm SO sorry.
I'm sure that you are in the thoughts/prayers of many people.
I think it would help if you had someone to talk to, perhaps a counselor, a pastor, you may even write me. I'm not sure how I c... (read in full...)
Can women over 50 find love?
Q. Do you think a woman over fifty should just give up on being sexually yearned for by a handsome man her own age? Suicide is out for me because I love life mightily, but after giving out my heart so fully for a series of loving relationships wi...
A. 29 June 2009: Have you talked to this friend of yours?
Have you discussed your feelings with him?
I know that it REALLY sucks when you love someone and that person doesn't reciprocate your feelings... but, are you SURE that he doesn't?
If he's truly a... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 29 June 2009: No problem Jason...
Let us know how it goes, Tbonex.
Exactly what did you say to her, if I may ask?... (read in full...)
Sex during your period -- can you get pregnant?
Q. can you get pregnant if you had unprotected sex while on your period....
A. 29 June 2009: Yes, you can. It's not as likely to happen during your period as it is right before your period, but you can get pregnant ANY time. If an egg is present, then all it takes for conception to occur is for a sperm to join that egg. Be careful!... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: Ahhh thanks Jason, nearly forgot to say thank you!... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 28 June 2009: No problem, Tbonex.
I can understand your feelings, did you talk to her about this?
I liked Jason's advice too. That's why I added him, I noticed he gives good advice. :)... (read in full...)
Honestly, who in their right mind would be ok with their spouse or significant other talking sexually explicit to the opposite sex?
Q. Sometimes my wife will talk on the phone to other people like her "homies" or somebody she says she knew since she was little. The thing is, I have heard her say sexually explicit things to the other people(males)on the phone. It could have been ...
A. 27 June 2009: Why don't you just tell her that it bothers you? You should tell her how you feel.
Apparently, she's not sneaking around or anything, so it doesn't sound like she's being unfaithful. I think that in a relationship many people have differen... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 25 June 2009: Hey, just for for fun, I wonder who can top my story of worst customer ever?
That psychotic lady who whaled on me with a verbal 2x4 bc I told her kids I didn't want them hurting themselves?
There was an even worse lady that I saw only once wh... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 24 June 2009: No problem!
I just don't think that insulting a customer back is the way, though. If someone is being obscenely rude or abusive to you (like that stupid lady did to me when I told her kids not to play on the escalator), then... just walk away. J... (read in full...)
What can I say to people who are disrespectful towards me?
Q. I know that this is not a relationship question, but just thought I'd ask. If you have experience working in retail, this question is for you. I am a college student with about one more semester to go. My degree is going to be in Elementary Educa...
A. 23 June 2009: I worked in retail for a long time, so I can understand your feelings. There's a difference, however, between being polite to someone and putting up with abuse from them.
Are these people really that important that you have to say somethin... (read in full...)
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