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writes: I am 19 and been with my boyfriend for over 5 years we have 2 children together. Lately I have been imagining being with other men and have felt unattracted to my partner. How can I let him down gently or maybe even save my relationship?
Why do I feel this way ?
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reader, love-him  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 I think maybe you and your partner shouldnt be together.. sorry to be harsh.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2005):
Its hard to say why you felt this way now since there are many
possibilities. You said you are 19 and had been with him for 5 years so my
guess is you started to have a relationship with him when your 14 and had 2
kids with him at aged 17. If thats the case than being at such a young age
might of clouded your mind as to knowing what you really wanted in life for
a partner and now after years passed and being at the maturity staged you
realized now your partner you are with isn''t the ideal man you had wanted.
Its basically like comparing a mind of a child with a mind of an adult way
of thinking and viewing, things change as times go by. There is another
theory that because your partner makes you unhappy in ways that you felt the
need of another man? To salvage this marriage you have to find out the root
of the problem and confront it in order for anything to be fixed. Talking it
out with your partner on how you felt might be a good idea perhaps. If
anything him or perhaps you need to change in ways to adapt to the situation
to make it more balanced. If all else fails you have to go up front with
your husband on the subject at hand and talk it all out, there is no letting
him down gently.
I hope my advice proves of any use you and may you find the guiding light to
the answer you seek~
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