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My match is 10 years younger, which worries me. Share your experience please, if you've lived a similar situation.

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Question - (19 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Has any woman had a long-term relationship with a man at least 10 yrs younger than her, how did it go? i have met a very mature man that is 10 yrs younger than me and it is getting serious but i have some concerns about the age, i look very young for my age which is good. Any comments are helpful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

If it doesn't bother you then who cares what the age difference is, don't compare your relationship to anyone elses. If you care for each other deeply and want to commit to loving each other then it can definately work.

I am with a man more than 10 years younger than myself.

We have our issues like any other couple, but I like being with an older man because he is patient and kind and not as controlling as some men I have been with my own age or older, and he likes my intelligence and wisdom, among other things....and yes there is a lot of sexual chemistry....and a real connection that is undeniable....will it last forever? How long is forever?

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntI am dating a guy who is almost 6 years younger than me, he is 34 (35 in July) and I am 40. I prefer younger men, they make great lovers, they don't have hang-ups like some older men and not set in there ways too much either.

If you feel comfortable with this guy, YOU GO GIRLFRIEND AND ENJOY LOL!!!! Don't worry about the age difference.

Dusky xxxx.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

I am married to a 33 yo man who is 9 years younger. We are very much in love and happily married, I only hope that I can give him a child, if not too late for me. I have clients where his wife is 12 years older, they have been married for 20 years and are still in love. Age only matters if you let it. I admit that the age thing does bother me more than it does my husband. He just feels like the luckiest man in the world....

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

Yes i have dated a guy 10 yrs younger than myself. I was 31 when i met him. I'm sure if i didn't have children, it could of gone a long way, but even though at first it seemed to be great, we had allsorts of probelms and it only last a yr and a half in the end.

I wouldn't go there again thats for sure. He still is a mature 27 yr old compared to a lot of that age group these days, we are still mates, but in some ways, he is still an immature 27 yr old. If that makes sense..

I think you need to go with the flow and suck it n see as they say!

Good luck.

C xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Some relatives of mine have 10 years difference between them and celebrated their 40th wedding anniversay last year - so it can work and if he is your match, then go for it, you only live once. x

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