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*hillystarjoan
writes:Hello again aunts =) I am having a little problem in my relationship right now. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now and we currently live together. He is a wonderful man, but he can never seem to please me in bed. I bring it to his attention all the time and he knows this but nothing. I am a sexually active woman, and I have my needs... wink wink. It is now becoming a big problem, and I become very sad at the thought of it. Because of this, I rarely want to do it anymore. Plus, I have noticed that he has been looking at porn more often. It doesn't bother anymore as much as it used to. What can I do to save the relationship? I feel it going down the drain...
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reader, Hanna  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 This may sound a little strange but have you tried suggested spicing up your relationship, ie Ann Summers, ramdom sex in different parts of your home? Hey, what you got to lose?
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Hi there Hun, I read your post with great interest and feel that I must reply to this.
You say you bring it to your fiance's attention that he does not satisfy you in bed...... In What way does he not satisfy you? You do not say how.
Have you tried showing him physically what you want in bed instead of verbally? For example..... say he goes down on you and you want him to reach the right spot, instead of saying " No you are doing it all wrong blah blah blah" and giving him a hard time about it. SHOW HIM...... "Oooh Honey could you lick me just there that is where it feels good" No wonder the poor guy is resorting to watching porn, maybe you should sit down and watch porn together to get a few tips on how to turn each other on in the bedroom.
If you make it a HUGE PROBLEM it will keep on being a HUGE PROBLEM. You guys should sit down and discuss what turns you on in bed, also reading Kama Sutra may be beneficial to you both too. If I was you I would get this sorted out before you guys get married, otherwise you don't want this to end in the divorce courts.... Do you? Good luck and keep me posted.
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