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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

She found someone richer than me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I am a guy of 23 yrs. I was never loved by anyone- not even my parents. I never had any friend. My parents used to torchure me physically as well as mentally. One day I was thrown out of my house because I had failed in exam. I was very depressed ...

At what point in a relationship can one justify using the word 'love'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hello, a very misleadingly simple question... at what point in a relationship can one justify using 'love' as opposed to the elements of infatuation to describe the mutual feelings between the two involved? As a mere teen-ager, I find the often-used ...

I definitely felt something but I don't know if I'm just being stupid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've been really close friends with this guy for almost 3 years. We had a connection immediately because we are so alike but not long after we became friends we started going out with a girl I really don't get along with. Whenever I've been seeing a ...

Which states perform legal lesbian marriages? And is the marriage upheld if we re-locate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Does anyone know what states perform lesbian marriages, and if the marriage is still considered legal, if the married lesbian couple relocates to a state that doesn't uphold lesbian marriage? My girlfriend proposed to me yesterday, just ...

The most difficult question ever: What is Love???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Last night my boyfriend asked my what does love mean to me. I told him it means everything to me .He said i dont understand. I told him its hard to describe love for me. Then he told me how can i love someone if i cant even describe what it is to ...

This isn't a crush, I want to tell him how I feel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I have been like best friends for about 4 or 5 years with this lad. But since about end off 2009 i have got strong feelings for this guy, he went aways with the army to basic in september 2010 and when he comes back on leave we have grown even ...

I moved up in life, and believe this is the cause for issues in my current relationship. Should I try and get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I Have boyfriend who i have been with for two yrs and we have made it threw a lot of hardships our relationship is falling down the tubes, he wrecked my car just the other day we have been arguing non stop even before he had wrecked my car , i ...

I want to fix our relationship and be a better girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4839 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Ok.. I am going to make this short and sweet and I hope there are other people out there that can relate.I am a lesbian and I am completly IN LOVE with my girlfrind. We have been together for going on 2 years now and I cant picture my life w.o ...

I love my ex so much and I miss her. Should I send her flowers for Valentine's day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I just recently broke up with my ex fiance. We were together for 6 years, we broke up 6 months ago, but we kept talking for many months. I was trying to work things out, but she did not believe that i would ever change. Her reason for leaving ...

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Each year, we here at DearCupid see many submissions asking, "What should I get my boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband/lover/partner for Valentine's Day?" I think it would be great to consolidate these questions and some ideas into one place, so I've ...

Are there any couples out there who are 100% faithful to one another?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I dont know if it's because Ive been reading the articles on this site too often (this being a relationship help site and all), but it seems that everywhere I look, people are unfaithful to each other. Im basically asking, are there any couples ...

Valentines day present ideas :)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I need a little advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 10 months and it is our first valentines day together. We have a very close emotional relationship and i really wanted to get him something special. We are still in high school ...

The sweetness of first love....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Stories of first loves? Did it last? How old were you? What went wrong? Do you still think of them? Are you still together? Stories, please. I'm interested :)...

Love stories about getting with the ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ever gotten back with an ex? How long did you guys separate? Did things work out in the end? I recently got back together with mine after a long break up period of 10 months. I'm curious to know who shares a similar experience and ultimately, if t...

Calling for very romantic ideas to do and buy for valentine's day please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - hey, I know valentimes day is for another few weeks yet but i'm in major stress.! This is my first valentimes day where i am with someone and in a serious relationship I have been with my boyfriend a year now and i want to make this valentimes ...

This guy runs a mile everytime I see him, what have I done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone who takes the time to read this. Im sorry it will probably be long and maybe confuss you but Ill try to keep it short and simple. Ok i go to University and I share a Maisonette with 12 people (including me) we are seperated by 2 fla...

I can't seem to get over my first love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I can't seem to get over my first love. We've known each other since high school, we never were a couple. I was in love with him when he was not in love with me, then the tables turned several times during the course of what is now a 20-year ...

You'll know when love comes your way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - when i was younger i used to think about life how it would play out if i would meet the right person my soul mate well i don't no weither i can say soul mate is the right word but i found him in the strangest place believe it or not in a doctors ...

He treats me like a princess, how do I treat him in return?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - well i met some one a year ago just been talkin as friends the past 3 months we have been meeting up at jungle gym with our little girls same age. Then he tells me that 5 years ago he used to see me walkin about our town and wish he had the courage ...

Not sure if I should settle or not! Help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Hello All!! I have been divorced for a long time (after writing this, it is becoming more clear why), since the mid 90's and have had two other serious relationships along with a few years of trying to work it out with the ex-wife and then few...

Am I falling for him? Is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - i have been in a new relationship for 4 days now, i have been in so much pain with fallin in love because of my past, but when im around my bf i just dont care about anything else and when he holds me and kisses me he doesnt want to let go and nor ...

Female advice needed, what is love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - I want to know what love is. I have female friends and I basically want to marry the girl at the first couple time we talk. But then, I realize... I was not falling in love with any of them. I was just being a male that want to have sex. I real...

How can I believe that I don't have a chance with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - I'm a freshman in college and I can't get over the teacher I fell in love with my senior year at high school. It's been over a year and I expected to be over him by now but I still have fantasies about him and CAN NOT believe that I wont ever have a ...

Have you ever loved someone so much that you can't bear it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Do you ever feel so much love for someone that you feel you can't bear it? I feel so much love for this person it really scares me. I'm scared to let myself feel it. I almost feel as though I can't cope with this feeling. It's as if it's difficult ...

Has anyone else turned their relationship into a song or a poem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - A poem I have recently written How many times have you forgotten me? Your love not worthy of my time Was it a crime to forget your day of birth No love hear just thinking, maybe Missing your birthday was just a simple mistake Am I not ...

How do you find out your partner's ring size without giving the game away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

11 January 2011 (M) - Hi all. First of all, I'm not thinking of popping the question, at least yet, just in case you get that impression from my question lol. I'm just curous as to how you find out your partners ring size when it comes to buying an engagement ring with...

Should I listen to my horoscope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Should I listen to my horoscopes? I have been reading my horoscopes on Facebook for the past couple of weeks and they always seemed pretty true. I know they're always vague so they shouldn't be taken too seriously but I have noticed something ...

So do LDRs ever work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

10 January 2011 (M) - do long distance relationships ever work out? ive been seeing a this girl for a little over 2 years and we are in love. the thing is that she got an opportunity to go work in europe for 2 years and she decided to take it. We both want her to stay ...

I want to be thoughtful but, I'm broke!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - I want to do something nice for my Sug but i dont have any funds. I know she knows i love her but i want to do something sweet for her to show i think about her non-stop..what should i do?...

Does love exist without sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - Do you think love can exist without sex??..How can people be together 2-3 days out of a 7day wk without having sex when the see one another? This seems strange to me, but at the same time i think it's because im not use to it....

Is this infatuation of something more? I don't want to scare him off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

10 January 2011 (F) - There's this wonderful man that I met the night before he was leaving back to his country. We clicked, we talked for hours (until morning!), then we slept together. I thought it would be a one-night-stand. I don't usually go for one-night-stands ...

I waited for her to be ready for a relationship, but in the meantime she had unprotected sex with another guy and might be pregnant !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - Hi I'm a 23 year old guy from the UK and I've just had the worst couple of days of my life. I haven't slept, I can't eat and all I can think about are the awful things that I found out the other day and that are still unfolding. As ever this is...

Am I weird for wanting to marry the only man I've ever dated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm a woman, 23 years old, and I have only dated one man seriously in my life. He's my boyfriend at the moment, and we've been together since I was 17 (yeah, first real bf at 17, I was a late bloomer!) He loves me and wants to marry me, ...

Do these signs seem like he is in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Does it mean a man loves you if he tells you the following things: You give me butterflies, you take my breath away, you make my heart beat faster, you are beautiful, hot, sexy and make my life better and that he thinks about me constantly. He also ...

Truth about Loving Two Men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - There is nothing more painful than finding yourself stuck smack in the middle of two wonderful men in your life that you love very much. Society first off would like me to believe that I can not "LOVE" two men at one time. I wish Society were ...

Is it normal to feel this nervous around someone I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

8 January 2011 (F) - well my problem is i'm too shy, especially when it comes to guys (that i like) because there's a guy that i like for almost more than a year, we're both in college and he likes me too. i mean he made it very clear that he wanted to talk to me and ...

How do I tell an acquaintance I fancy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

7 January 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts and Uncles. I was wondering how to tell an aquaintance of mine that I like him? We have known each other for a few years and I have liked him for a majority of that time. We dont talk much, but we are comfortable around each other. A...

I'm not sure what love feels like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - I'm not sure what love feels like but there is this girl, everytime we do anything and she laughs i feel a good feeling inside. and puts a smile on my face knowing shes happy. Is this what love is?...

What do men think about short women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - What do men think about short women? Are they cuter than a girl that's of average height? I'm really into this girl that's 5 ft. I'm 6 ft 3 and she always jokes that I'm a giant compared to her. I don't think our height difference is a problem, but ...

Real love can never happen unless you can trust, give, and communicate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - You are at work palms all sweaty thinking about tonight and part of you wants to just say,"forget it." Everyday you are falling for him and you know where this is leading. You want so bad to make this work but your past is holding you back. When ...

I know he is the one I want, he knows me the best, but while we were together we were horrible towards one another.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Im confused about matters of the heart. First, ive been with this guy for what would be 2 yrs on the 14th. We broke up. Its been a long time coming but it still hurts to let go. We've both been horrible to each other within these 2 yrs; evrything ...

Are we moving too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months now and I know for a fact that we are perfect for each other. We understand eachother because of the tough ish that him and I have gone through before meeting each other. I have never ever ...

Can we be in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I am 13, and dating a 14 year old. He is in high school versus me being in middle/jr high. Is it possible for us to be in love? I am pretty sure I love him, he tells me he loves me all the time, just randomly. One day he said "you may not believe ...

What did he mean by 'don't expect much' ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I have known this bloke for 18 years we used to go out when i was 18 but i wasnt very nice to him and split on bad terms, didnt speak for many years. Now we have been in contact and we have started seeing each other again. I live 1o hours away so ...

His dad read our MSN conversations and stopped him from seeing me...and its pretty much over now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - About a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and two months. I still love him, and he says he still loves me. It's all very confusing. Basically, his Dad installed a tracking device on his laptop, and read through our MSN conversa...

Stories of first loves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Do you ever think about your first love? It's almost been anyway since we last split and during the time we did split, there was still intense stuff going on such as the continuation of the blame game, ex sex and so much more. He really has moved on ...

Was I just a fling or did he really like me?

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1 January 2011 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl from england, and I went on a trip to america in summer and met this guy, who's from germany. He's 18 and really sweet, fun and caring. I was with him all the time, and he was constantly hugging me, kissing me (on the cheek), ...