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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

There's going to be heartbreak tonight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

28 September 2009 (M) - Hey, I am a 15 year old boy, and I have to chose between two girls in a few hours, both of whom I have feelings for, and neither of whom have an indication of what internal turmoil I am currently going through... The first girl, I had met...

Are my resentful thoughts called for and how long should I allow myself to recover?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 September 2009 (M) - My partner left me after 18 years together. Three weeks later I found out that she was with someone else. She wasnt upset in anyway and ended it with a twn minute coversation in a supermarket coffee shop with her friend sat next to her. It really ...

Does she have feelings for me? She's my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - hi everybody! i soo confused at the moment what to do... im really close with my best friend and we are seriously overly protective of each other and love each other to bits and are upset when either of us upsets one another... last year she was ...

We broke up but still say I love you and still text! what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - Okay so i had this serious relationship for almost 7 months. The guy and I were each others 'first' and I was his first girlfriend. We discussed a future together and everything. I really love him, and up until yesterday he said the same. Weve been ...

My boyfriend has been away for three weeks, and I feel hollow and vulnerable without him. Is this feeling normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - This is really strange but, my boyfriend has been away to Canada for three weeks out of 10 and without him I just feel very hollow, and like half of me is gone/ just no here. I don't know why I feel like this but I feel very vulnerable. And I just ...

She is afraid to have a relationship with me in case she loses her support system

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

25 September 2009 (M) - I am friends with a girl. I haven't known her long. Just under a year. When we first met we talked about getting together but she was just trying to get out of a bad 5 year relationship. Since we started hanging out as friends she would tell me ...

I love her, but she is screwing with my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - This week has been so very tough and my story is long one but i shall try and be brief. I meet a girl when i was 18 and it was love at first sight but she was with her childhood love, this eventually ended and we got together when about 24. It was...

It's a love story... or is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - hi again i know i'm not actually 40 i'm 13 i think they got it wrong and soz for length had a lot to explain Right, in my last post i said about being shy about hugging my bf well now i've done it there's more problems.so, i was at cooking class...

I've really fallen for him but all he focuses on is the distance between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - So I dunno how to start this or what to say tbh. I know this might sound stupid, but oh well. There is this guy i've spoke to for ages now, must be 2 years at least maybe longer or shorter..but anyway he is the nicest guy i've ever met and is reall...

It's been 43 years, I want to contact and comfort an old gf, but I don't want to hurt my wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

23 September 2009 (M) - I was friends with a girl and we even dated off on over a two year period. We just drifted apart. I married and realized I was still in love with my old girlfriend. I tried to keep in touch with old friend but she refused to have any kind of ...

Falling for my long ago ex-history teacher...is this wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is long...Four years ago, I graduated from a small blended middle/high school in Tennessee. I moved to New York for college, and while I was there, I lost a lot of weight. I look a lot more attractive now than I used to. A couple of ...

From a street whore to being delivered...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

18 September 2009 (F) - We got married 15 years ago, I wasn’t really in love with him, I just wanted to be loved. I was abused when I was 7 years old by my mom and by my brother so I always looked for older men to love me. I never had a father in my life. I was a church ...

Becoming more than FWB

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I see a lot of questions on here about people who are stuck in the FWB situation and often they want to know if there's a chance of becoming more. Most of the answers tell them that no, there isn't so I wanted to share my story. When I was in my la...

Are we too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

14 September 2009 (F) - It seems like we're perfect together. Both of us have mellow personalities and neither of us have tempers so when something bad happens we end up laughing. We never fight, we never get tired of talking or things to talk about, we disagree but never ...

She only wants me forever, but can I really trust her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - Ok, me and her have been together for the last 3 years but for some reason I have my doubts about her. Well, everything with us has always been great and we love each other to death and have had many great times, the only bad thing is it is a ...

I've been too shy to say I like her, so now I think she thinks I'm a weird! Please advise..!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - There is this girl in two of my classes and I think I'm in love with her. The first couple of days that schools started she would say hi to me, when ever she saw me looking at her she would smile, but I just didn't have the guts to talk to her. Now ...

I've fallen for my best friend. What should I do? I don't want to ruin what we have

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 74 days ago

9 September 2009 (M) - Alright so ive known this girl for about 2 and a half years and ive always had a little bit attracted to her. weve always been really good friends. But within the past few months she has gone through family issues and has become very dependent on me ...

My heart aches desperately

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I am embroiled in a passionate affair with a man who once taught me English Literature. I was besotted by him at school, and over the course of my sixth form years developed a close friendhip with him. Our relationship oozed frighteningly powerful ...

Adults: Were you really in love as a teenager?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I am fifteen years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for ten months. We have been in a long distant relationship for seven out of those ten months. Sometimes I feel like I love him so much it's unbearable, and I miss him s...

I'm not sure if I love him as a friend or more. How do I know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

3 September 2009 (F) - Im involved in a rather complicated situation. I have been frineds with this guy for 3 years almost now. He came into my life when I was going through a huge crisis. I was honestly about to have a break down. And he came in, and was there for me...