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Love stories: Help and advice

We're great friends and I know I'll never be his girlfriend...but I want to be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in ...

Why is love judged by something other than the heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I met a guy a year ago, kind of a blind date. We hit it off the first time we laid eyes on one another. The thing is, I am black he is white. He comes from an environment that does not believe in interracial relationships. I know he ...

What is a good gift for a 2 year annvirsary?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend's 2 year annvirsay is approaching very fast. This afternoon we started to discuss what we had planned for this occasion. He mentioned that he has reservations to a very nice fine dining restaurant. I looked online at the fine din...

I've Fallen in love with an older man! What is the right decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 months and am head over heels in love with him, but, he is 18 years older than me, divorced, and has five children. We have very similar beliefs and out looks on life and want the same things in the future. Unlike him ...

When would it be right for me to tell him I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have found the one! I'm madly in love with him! I've known him since high school. We've been best friends for 6 years. Then dated for 2 and a half years. But for the past 6 months he has been stressed out. (Not by me- with work and family) ...

Does "just good friends" always mean just that for a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Okay – I have been out of the dating thing for at least 2 years and was a bit rusty but started seeing a girl (she is 39 and I am 42) recently. We had an instant amazing connection - and still do! First four or five dates were very casual and we had ...

Romantic ideas for my boyfriend? please

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Im a bit stuck, i've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he does cute nice romantic things for me all the time... He sends me lovely texts, rings me till i fall asleep every night, buys me little presents randomly, you know that sort of ...

Do I choose the one I love or my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Ok sooo I am now 17 and im with a boy who's 18. I really do Belive I'm really seriously in love with this guy we've known each other for two years and we just got together. Lately he's been bringing up marriage and sex. He told me that he's going to ...

I've only been seeing him for 2 months, is it too soon to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - How can you tell your in love? I'm pretty sure I am but iv only been seeing someone for about 2 months!! Do i tell him??...

I love the soul, spirit and essence of him, but our relationship is troubled

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - How can I have feelings for a man that feels to me like they are on a different level - as if I love the essence, the soul and spirit of the man and I feel he loves me the same way but he keeps behaving in a way that hurts and upsets me - yet i ...

Why do I get embarrassed talkiing about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi - to anyone who feels the same... I love my boyfriend to bits - when we are alone or around people that I trust I can talk about him freely. However, whenever I am around workmates or certain people I know, I "freak out" incase they might as...

I want to send her a love letter to say sorry, what should I put in it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - My ex and I have been broken up now for a few months. She broke up with me after about a year of dating and after the break up it's been a constant roller coaster. There have been times where we fought and didnt talk for a while yet other times ...

Great boyfriend, but I feel like I don't deserve him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I know this may sound stupid, but its how I feel. I feel like I dont deserve my bf. He is soooo great to me. He is unbelieveably amazing. Ive never had a bf like him before. All my ex bf abused me physically, emotionally and sexually. After a while, ...

She wants space, is this just a nice way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 June 2009 (M) - I wanted to find out what to do as I have been dating a seperated woman for about 1 year and 8 months. She had been seperated for about a year and a half when I met her and she had only been out on 2-3 dates before me. Right away we hit it off and I ...

I said I loved him back but hes still with his babys mum! Am I leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - i have been hooking up with a older boy who has a kid and a baby mama wich is fine but i do have to deal with her from time to time. for the first time in the history of me and this boy he was sober and called me to hang out with him so i was like ...

She can't seem to connect with me at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - We met 3 years ago in july. Moved in together that december and were happy until around April 2008. She became distant, withdrawn and didn't seem to want to connect emotionally with me. She wouldn't tell me she loved me nor would or could she ...

He kept looking at me...was he interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hi i'm a bit clueless when it comes to guys. so i was just out at lunch with my sister we were at a bar and this guy was sat there so we sat down and he kept looking at me. he was on his laptop and he kept looking over at me i caught him ...

How am I suppose to forget her when it was love at first site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I have a little girl trouble. I'll give you all the story. Back when I was 13 I met a girl and I liked her the second I saw her, I'm not a strong believer in love at first sight, but if there ever was, this was it. We proceeded to spend th...

I'm utterly heartbroken! He left me and says I messed it up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - I'm utterly heartbroken. My ex left me and to top it off, he's still contacting me only to tell me how I messed everything up and how I never showed him I loved him enough! I still love him, but being with him is like walking on eggshells, honestly. ...

Too soon to tell or this is a good sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - So, I met this guy a few weeks ago. In a spurt of bold flirtation, I left him my email. He emailed me a few days later and it unfolded from there. We started talking online and then on the phone with two/three hour conversations on average. I've ...

I want to want to write a poem for our anniversary. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I need to wrote a poem for me and my gf's 7 month anniversary to give her tonight (it's a thing we do) but i want to write something a little less run of the mill and a bit different. Any ideas? :)...

How to get over first love after years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 170 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Hello, I'll try to explain my story the best i can, i guess i can be considered to be someone with a tough time getting through an old love story and, i guess, some self-esteem issue. I'll just tell you my story a bit so, i don't know, it...

Messing eachother about forever - should I tell him I want to be an "us"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

3 June 2009 (F) - Its been hard for me the past 3 months. i met this guy not too long ago, but we've been chillin every day and every hour of the day. hes soo confusing like, when its us 2 or other people we chill too, hes the nicest person i can think of for that ...

What is Love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

1 June 2009 (M) - I wrote this for someone else in a discussion about what is love...this is my 1000th post. Salutations to you all, its been a fun journey. Hugs Star.x. What is real love... Love, has long been studied by artists, the clergy, scientists,...