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Love stories: Help and advice

What do you appreciate most about DearCupid.org? This is also a big thank you to all the aunts and uncles on here!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - So, as you have probably gathered, this isn't a question. More of a massive thank you to all the fabulous people on here who give great advice day after day on this site!! I have been on this site for a few years now, and have been posting abo...

Still single and sick of it. How do I put the Zippity Do Dah into my life and Spice things up enough, to learn how to successfully date and become a partner to a nice girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - I posted here before 4 years ago. I imagine you probably receive hundreds of messages like this regularly. I thought long and hard about whether to actually send it. I actually wrote something sinilar to this at the beginning of the year ju...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

How can I encourage a girl to love me again? Because she hates me now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - there was a girl she loved me but i broke her heart. She told me her secrets and i told only my best friend. He told her. i love her so much and she hates me now i tried to talk to her but she dont want to talk to me now i said sorry to her and...

Do you think my guitar playing can play a role in attracting a woman who will love me, into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Hello ladies and gentlemen I have a weird question. How much does guitar playing affect in attracting females? I am a guitarist and I can shred, strum, sing and play ANY song. I compose my own music and cover many rock songs. I have been singl...

I feel as if I've lost myself . I love him but I've changed. how do I tell him I need "time out" without hurting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years. We love each other and all, but we've broken up and made up numerous times. I feel I've changed drastically from being the fun girl to being the obsessed girlfriend. I feel as if I...

Our first Kiss. What's the best time in a school setting to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - Hi all. I've been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now, we have told each other that if one or both of us is uncomfortable with the speed we are taking the relationship at, then we tell the other. So far, so good. We get along great, s...

We want to settle down and have a baby. Getting our finances right to buy not rent is the aim. Have you achieved this goal successfully? How?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and we really want to get our own place. We don't want to rent as we feel that we will be wasting money paying the rent each month and at the end of it we will have nothing ...

I'm losing hope in the existence of true love. Does true love still exist in this modern world?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, Well I am 23 years old now,but since I was 16 when I knew what 'love' was. I always believed that I would find true love and no I haven't till date.. I am a hopeless romantic,like literally 'hopeless'..I love reading nicholos spa...

What do you guys think about a male engagement ring to show that the man is betrothed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - what do guys think about wearing an engagement ring? my bf of 2 years proposed to me out of the blue 6 weeks ago. i was shocked, happy and said yes! when we talked about marriage months ago, i recall he said he thought a man should do the prop...

I worry about how my boyfriend will cope when I am no longer around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, I have been dating a guy for 6 years and 3 months now,my first boyfriend,my first kiss,my first in many ways..we understand each other,there are at times where I don't have to say anything as to why I'm upset and he would just hug me a...

Love really can conquer all. A story of taking a chance and finding true love. Thanks DearCupid.org

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

19 October 2012 (F) - So this is more of a story than a question. I used this website to find advice about 6 months ago. I had asked if it was a smart decision to move 7 hours away with a guy I only met a couple times. The advice was not what I wanted to hear of cours...

My Peace to you. Seeking peace within you - some life lessons, including: Never deliberately create a drama in your life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4177 days ago

19 October 2012 (F) - Just wanted to get my thoughts down. I was diagnosed with breast cancer two years ago and thought I had beaten it. I've just found out that the cancer has spread to my brain and I have 2 tumours. I have just been offered gamma knife surgery to...

Seems he might like to still see me for sex. But how should I handle his offer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I met a man on an on-line dating site. He kept asking me out finally I met him at a coffee shop well we hit it off I don't recall all that he was saying I just knew I enjoyed his company for hours of sitting and talking. It was strange how ...

Does 'taking a break' mean she's broken up with me? Devastated. She is the girl for me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

18 October 2012 (M) - I'm in a crisis state with my girlfriend (hopefully not soon-to-be-ex) our relationship was largely great. we had our issues, but whenever we fought we always worked through them in the end and would kiss and make up. last week we got into a h...

Is saying he loves me a real indication that he does really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend said I love you for the first time over a message on facebook. Since then often sends me messages saying he loves me. He sometimes says it as I am going to leave his house or at the end of a phone call But he never says it randoml...

Even though he is planning to marry me, why do I feel like I am second best? Does the mother of his child have more claim to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a guy we are so good together. he has a child froma past relationship, he loves her so much, that i fear he might have to choose her/(and of courss the mother) over me.,when it gets to the point, wh...

How can I put myself out there to find myself a lovely and really great wife ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

12 October 2012 (M) - Hopefully this isn't too small of a matter to bother you with but regadless if it is well or poorly placed, I have confidence that I could get a relationship started fairly quickly if I could find my girlfriend and hopefully wife but I'm not ...

Will the religion I broke away from also ruin my relationship with my wife? We still get along, laugh, hangout, and are friends. But I fear for the future of us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - I grew up in a particular religion in very religiously conservative family. I got married and had kids very young. I find myself now in my early 30's and married 12 years. About 5 years ago, I started changing my viewpoints considerably. I ...

Oh, how things change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

7 October 2012 (M) - Last time I visited DearCupid, I was a lonely teenager of about seventeen: never had a girlfriend, and moaning pathetically about it to all who would listen. Terrified that I was destined to be alone forever. Now, I sit and type to you as a twen...

My guardian did not want my Bf to stay any longer. Was my Bf's reaction indicative of true love for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

6 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend just left my house, and before he left, he was crying because he said he didn't want to leave me, he wanted to stay longer but my guardian didn't want that. He made me cry too, both of us was crying and it hurts so much to him cry, I wi...

Smile and be happy. Your guide if ever you feel unhappy. What else helps you to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Happiness - such a simple thing, yet nobody seems to be able to achieve it. So, working from my own experience, I have devised these little tips to hopefully help all you unhappy folk lighten up a little. These are just a few ways I've learnt to m...

HOT as fire to ICE cold. Might this work if we resolve things? I am making life changes with him, but now I'm scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I have a problem. I do not easily let people in, because I know if I ever truly give my heart completely to someone, and they break it, it will be the last time. I know myself. I ended up getting very close to someone I knew for six years, but who ...

I am so in love with her. But my friend's actions with her, prior to us being a couple, make me feel bad. How do I learn from this? Stay? Or breakup?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

3 October 2012 (M) - I'm in my first relationship with a girl i am madly in love with and have been dating her for nearly a year. she was the first and only person i've kissed or done anything with physically and are relationship is really really good and we have been...

How to tell if your bf loves you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

3 October 2012 (?) - This how to guide is for all the women out there who cant seem to figure out if their bf really loves them, despite of asking directly from their bf, friend's or maybe looking for answer on google search for signs if their bf really loves them. ...

Is it normal to not say "Yes" straight away to a propasal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

2 October 2012 (F) - I have been dating a guy for some time, but we live on both parts of the world (Australia and America), I have plans to move up next year, get a job, place to live and work hard at it. I have asked him for marriage before, and he said yes but only...