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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

I think he's 'the one' - But am I ready for that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4506 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I dont really believe in the idea of soulmates or "the one" in the sense that its my destiny or fate, but I do believe that certain people click together more so than others. And I'm pretty sure I've found that. The problem is that neither of us ...

Falling in love is easy but staying in love takes work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - As I am going thru a separation after 18 years and my life feels like it is falling apart I thought I would share this article with you all. Today society needs a wake up call as far as I am concerned. Plan to Stay in Love by Andy Stanley Fal...

How do you know if you love someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - How do you know if you love someone?...

The timing is perfect - so how do not mess things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4510 days ago

25 December 2011 (M) - Hi. I've known this one girl for a very long time (25 years to be exact). Always been friends and we were even next door neighbors for 16 years... and then she moved an hour away the summer after sophomore year of high school and we lost touch for ...

The Magic called Love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4500 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Love...what a small word for something so immense. In love, our hearts defy our minds. Perhaps that is our flaw: trying to control something that is so tumultous. It is impossible to control who we fall in love with. Our hearts, for whatever reason, ...

I'm terrified that I'm going to like him too much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4512 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I just need a little advice about this guy I just met. It's important to know that I have just been broken up with by the guy I deeply loved (first love) and we had been together for four years (since being 17) and he decided to end it six weeks ...

Am I too young to get married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend were really good friends before we ever started to date. she had some emotional issues with things and then she started caring for me as more than friends when she relized that i was a caring person and wanted/tried to ...

I wasn't entirely sure about commitment and let him go. Now I know I was wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Please someone shed some light on my heavy heart. I recently broke up with my partner of 8years. I was deeply in love with him..almost to obsession. He wanted to get married and start a family but throughout our r/ship, there were a lot of red flag...

Is love really worth fighting for? Should you have to fight for love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Is love really worth fighting for. weve all seen it in the movies where the hero saves the planet defeats the bad guys and tattered and torn he gets the girl or the girl gets the guy.... roll credits. In the movies the hero faces impossible odds ...

I am so in love and really want to start a life with my Bf, but we are still rather young. Am I being irrational? Should I tell him how seriously I feel for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - In the midst of a joking conversation, my boyfriend (22) and I (21) of six months somehow got on to the subject of children and I joked that because of one of his dorky, but lovely and endearing traits (Star Wars obsession) we shouldnt procreate, ...

So I was wondering, when do I say "I love you" to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - so I was wondering, when do you say I love you? Me and my bf have been together for almost 5 months. I know it's not like super long but it's like since day 1 we have spent everysingle day together, like literally everyday all day. I practically ...

Should I risk losing face by telling him how I feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - This guy and I briefly dated over the summer. We fell really hard for each other and he told me he loved me very quickly. He had to move out of the state after a few weeks but told me he still wanted a relationship because he loved me. At first, the ...

Why hasn't this co-worker asked me out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - 6 months ago I accepted a promotion at my current workplace. There was this man who came to my team quite often. I realized all of a sudden I was seeing him a lot even though we do not work together much. I would bump into him in the kitchen, in ...

How can I make my boyfriend (in his 40's) feel really special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4522 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Can I ask any guys who have been in a long term relationship that has not worked or have divorced ...in the very early stages of a new relationship (or even before it has begun) what sort of things can a woman do that make you feel really special, ...

Is she interested in getting back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

8 December 2011 (M) - So me and my ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago. We live together and still live together. She broke up with me for some reasons she wasnt clear on. She wasnt having a relationship with another guy though. She has alot going on, between school, ...

Crush doesn't notice me and if I dump boyfriend everyone will hate me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - well i have a crush on someone who barely even notices me even worse ive got a boyfriend and i feel like i cant dump him cause every one will hate me so what should do????? ...

My girlfriend is buying me an expensive Christmas gift. I am not sure how to reciprocate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

8 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is incredibly sweet and generous; I love her. It turns out that she asked my family some gift related questions and that she is buying me an expensive gift (maybe $200?!) for either my December birthday or Christmas. When my family ...

Help me to deal with my bi-polar boyfriend before things get worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for 5 months, and even though some will say its too soon, im in love! I believe in love at first sight and thats kind of how i would describe it. We spend alot of time together, and when we feel that we are spending to ...

My boyfriend drinks all the time but I am scared to talk to him about it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - Every single day I text my boyfriend all that comes out of his mouth.. "I am high." Or... "I am drunk." And I hate it.. I want to tell him, "Don't talk to me until your sober, and if you don't stop I won't see you anymore." But I don't want to say ...

Should I continue with my old gf or start afresh with new one? Please help me decide.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - I am in a confused state of mind right now.i am 26yrs and my girlfrnd is 21.I was in dis relationship for 6 years nw although we had a break up in between for 8 months becos of her infidelity.After accepting her back,she changed for d better she was ...

Is this love? Why is he closing himself off after being so close?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Dear all, I have been with my BF for around 9 months. it has not been an easy relastionship - so recently I started detaching myself. Anyway, since I have been doing this, he has been declaring his love and the sex seems to be differnet. It seems he ...

My fiancee does not want her parents told we are engaged. How do I build a better relationship with her parents? Kind answers only please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

5 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months and are now happily engaged. Seems simple enough, right? Well we are both 17 and out parents don't exactly approve. My father says that he is happy that I have found someone I would like to ...

I have developed feelings for a mentor who is married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - ive developed feelings for a mentor, whose married, and i need advice on how to get rid of my feelings for him? i think about him all the time and wish i was were he was. is there a way to stop or block the strong connection. ...

The big question ... What do girls think when ....

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

4 December 2011 (M) - What do girls think when they see a decent-looking guy with a fat, ugly girlfriend? What do they assume about him? I'm pretty sure that if a guy is seen with a hot girl, people think he must be something special. So is it the opposite if he's...

He seems to like me except when he's around his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - There's this guy in my classes and he really seems like he likes me. He stares at me sometimes.. When he talks to me, he looks right into my eyes. He teases me in a friendly way. He sometimes "jokes" around about stuff. Um.. Like, for exam...

What do you think of this matchmaker's insights?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - I was watching this um...interesting show the other day, "Millionaire Matchmaker" and my first impression was, "eh. Superficial, loud. Predictable to an extent." But, the "matchmaker" said something that interested me in a sense. Her advise w...

I want to let him know that I'll be thinking of him, should I write this short story?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - i posted earlier about this situation between this guy and I. So my next question... We've been kind of shaky since September, but I really do care a lot about this guy. At this point, I'm not afraid to put myself out there. I want this gu...