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writes:I am a guy of 23 yrs. I was never loved by anyone- not even my parents. I never had any friend. My parents used to torchure me physically as well as mentally. One day I was thrown out of my house because I had failed in exam. I was very depressed and started living alone with a meagre income. I never ever had a relation with any girl untill one day this girl(of age 21) came to my life. She was the first person in the last 15 yrs who wanted to be my friend. I became her friend. I came to know that she was just like me- never loved by anyone. I shared everything with her. My day would start and end with her. One day I told that I love her. She was very happy to know this and said that even she loved me. I never used to keep anything secret from her. 6 months had passed. One day she left me....she called me up and said that she found somebody richer than me and she never loved me! Now I don't know what to do. I am too depressed. I feel like dying. Please help me....please.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 To the anonymous aunt: girls do not go for money! girls girl for a smart, fun, confident and out going guy. money does not come into it (maybe with a minority) as long as you are happy and are happy in yourself then that is all that matters.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (31 January 2011):
Well, if you die you would never know what love feels like. And trust me...that a feeling you do not want to miss out on.
What have you learned from that relationship??? One... you can get a girlfriend. Two...she is not the only woman out there. Three...She will become that man's door mat very soon, and she will wish she had stayed with you.
So, pick yourself up and go find a woman that will love you the way you are, and wants a better life for both of you.
One more...do not hate her, but thank her for teaching you a lesson, and making you stronger.
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reader, Logicgirl  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Dont die over a women like her... She has done a sin, a sin that was breaking your heart and made you feel very very bad. I know it is hard, so hard for you to move on and start a new life. You know, you HAVE to move on in order to become stronger and achieve a greater happiness. You have to experience and complete this trial in order to become stronger at heart. And dont forget, now she's in the PAST and in FUTURE, you will find the very right girl and become happy. Be patient and let the pain fade away, and without knowing it will be gone even though it will ache sometimes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): I know how you feel; I have a childhood male friend who experienced similar situations as you. Just forget this girl and look forward into the future. She lied to you for some reason; or maybe she changed her mind after meeting a rich guy. I can assure you there are many other girls out there who would love to have a boyfriend but they are shy due to the Indian society. As long as you have decent income, many girls will come; if you are poor, then you first have to earn; because girls look for money.
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reader, hammyj +, writes (31 January 2011):
Your story sounds really tough, you have gone through so much and you've done so well so get through your difficulties. Being able to make it through tough times in the past just shows that you are a strong person, and that you can get through this as well.
What that girl did to you was really horrible and I'm sure you didn't deserve it. Honestly, not all women are like that and just because you had this experience with one girl, doesn't mean that you won't find a girl who will love you for you and not for money.
You sound like you're going through a lot, maybe it would help if you contacted a support service, maybe a helpline or something? I hope you feel better and that you get through this.
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reader, auntieloulou +, writes (31 January 2011):
It sound's like you have had a very tough life so far. It was awful what the girl did to you, but you did nothing wrong. She was obviously very shallow and not the right girl for you. I think you massively need some counselling to help deal with your past. You need to go see a doctor asap and talk through your issues. That way you can deal with your past and move on, have a fresh start.
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