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Love stories: Help and advice

How do I get her to fall back in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

22 November 2009 (M) - The woman i grew up with and was to get married to broke up with me years ago. 2 yrs ago we got back in touch and we both admitted we still love each other. But the last 2 yrs all the guys she tried to meet just use her and degrade her. When i asked ...

He had a huge affect on me but I know it'll go nowhere, please help!?

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21 November 2009 (F) - Last year, during a camp I attended, I met the most amazing guy. He is by far the one I ever adored so much. He's good-looking, friendly, nice, plays various instruments, sings like an angel (as cheesy as that might sound), athletic (he plays a lot ...

I've loved her for all these years but she's married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

20 November 2009 (M) - Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later...

What are the signs someone is in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Can a man tell if a girl is truly in love with him? or the other way around if so, then how? To make my question more clear, do people unintentionally give signs when they're in love? Thanks for your answers....

Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats go...

Is it possible to completely recover from your first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - A few years ago I fell in love with a girl for the first time. She never reciprocated any feelings that I had for her and we were never in any sort of relationship. I haven't spoken to her for the best part of a year, see her as rarely as possible ...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

He's getting me a promise ring for Christmas. What should I get him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 November 2009 (F) - What should I get him for Christmas? He's getting me a PROMISE RING. So, im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. We've had a great relationship, we've been together for basically 6 months, but we both know that if we met sooner, we would have be...

I broke his heart when I was young and want to show him he can trust me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so this is going to be a little long and little confusing, but I'd really appreciate any type of advice, so please read it(: When I was 15 I met this guy who we'll call Rob. He was 18 at the time and we hung out once but he basically ignore...

Obsession or Procrastination? How can I focus on my work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I'm supposed to be writing a thesis but find myself thinking about my lover all the time, and scouring pages like these for answers. I don't think badly of him or suspect him of anything (except being a gorgeous rascal), I just wonder about him and ...

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...

Should I take the leap and tell my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - after alot of ups and downs in my relationship my bf and i made back up things are going really good but i have a problem telling him how i really feel because i am afraid to get hurt.i am thinking like this if i let him know that i love him he ...

How can I surprise my boyfriend in a unique way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Any advise on how I can surprise my bf in an unique, exiting and fun way? He always surprises me with a lot of unique stuff. He is a romantic person. I just want to repay him and I want him also to be surprised. Any suggestions?...

My friends keep telling me to move on, but they don't understand. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Im 18 and 2years ago i dumped the love of my life, for no reason, i tried to get him back and he wouldnt have it and for a year afterwards i fought for him and kept going back but he didnt want anything to do with me(yet he never moved on or found ...

How does one differentiate between a crush and real love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hello :) I read some of the questions posted here and they've left me wondering... What is the difference between a small crush, fancying someone, infatuation and being in love? I know that with each one feelings run deeper. But how exactly do y...

How can I show the girl who rocks my world, how deeply I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Ok i've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly 4 months we've had sex, try to see each other as much as possible and do things together but i would really like to show her how much i care. I reeeeeeeallly love her to bits a...

Am I still with him because I am afraid of being alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for about 3 years now. I love him very much, the deepest love i have ever felt for anyone. We have broken up 3 times and I have been the one to break up with him. The first time we dated 3 mont...

Does he really love me if he needs time to think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I spilt up from my boyfriend of three and a half years almost 7 months ago. There has been a lot of hurt and pain caused, and a lot of things said and done and as a results we have found it really difficult to get back together. However, we still ...

My trust issues may destroy my relationship. How can I work beyond them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hi. i use to go out with a boy on/off for two years, i loved him so much, he was my first love...he use to lie and cheat and make me feel small infront of people, i knew deep down he didnt love me, he only wanted me when he felt like it. a year on i ...

Is it possible to be in love but not know it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Hey, just a question. Do you think its possible to be in love and not know it, and look back to realize that you were in love? I think this has happened to me, but I'm not sure if its just my mind playing tricks on me. Just an idea, Any opini...

Please, help? I love him but its complicated. I just don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, So, I dated a guy almost year ago after he moved here to start school. I found out after we had been together for a year that he still had a girlfriend back home. We broke up, but remained friends. It has been 11 months, and we ar...

Husband filed for divorce, but I don't think either of us wants one. What are some ideas for putting my marriage back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Okay. My husband has told me he has filed for divorce. We have been separated for 8 months now. The first 4 months he did have interest in us going to marital counseling and working on our marriage. We had been married for 11 months when we ...

How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I ...

How can we be honest with my brother AND gain his support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I recently have developed feelings for my older brothers best friend. I am 28 and he is 38. We've known each other for 5 years and he has admitted he has feelings for me also. For about a month now we have been having a secret relationship behind ...

How can I excite my boyfriend in the bedroom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started a relationship about two months ago. We love each other with a passion and everything is perfect between us. We have only had sex twice and it been well but I would like to please him some more. So, I would like to know if ...

I am love sick for this man. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I am 38 years old and from the minute I met this man who is 55 I felt a connection. My friend introduced me to him when we went to see him play. He plays Irish music which I didn't even like when I met him so I know it is not a crazed fan kind of ...

Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...

At my age, being realistic, what are the chances of lasting and marrying her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I'm 18, shes 19. we was best friend for four years before we got together. we got together and we broke up, but it wasnt long before we realised we cant do it without each other, and now we are back together again. we have our ups and downs as wit...

Should I tell him I meant it when I said that I loved him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Last night I said in my sleep "i love you" to my bf for the first time. We have never said 'i love you' to each other yet before. I sleep talk quiet often, but usally I either just mumble things he cant understand or im yelling and screaming when I ...

If I tell him the engagement is off surely it will break up our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and engaged. my friends think i'm insane but i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. it is only a ring and we have agreed not to get married until i have finished university. what is the big deal? maybe it is too soon to ...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

Is it best to confess your feelings for someone or ignore those feelings to avoid rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - when we like someone a lot and eventually fall in love with that person, we never think of rejection until later on, but in those situations is it best to either confess to that person or to ignore those feelings to avoid rejection?...

How can I make our first time together a Crazy, Passionate event?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Ok, new girlfriend, new start, mindlessly love her, we are both very close with each other and enjoy each other's company. We've been together for a month and a half, we've both been in sexual relationships before, and i'd like to have a passionate ...

Should I just come clean about why I renewed my commitment to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I've been going through a rough patch with my boyfriend, and another guy started showing an interest in me. I was very interested in this guy too, and we ended up doing a lot of things in the 'grey area' that doesn't quite count as cheating but is ...

What are some GREAT DIRTY things I can text to my new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I just started a new great fun relationship and I want to send him dirty dirty text messages when he is away. Please don't hold back and help me come up with things to text. Thanks everyone!...

My boyfriend seems unworthy compared to my long-time crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I had a crush on a guy since the 6th grade. I'm now in the 12th grade and it's turned into a repressed lust/gargantuan crush. My heart skips 68923 beats when I see the kid and every other guy to me (even my current boyfriend) seems unworthy. I don'...

Romantic gift ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hi All My partner is a little down lately, and id really like to surprise her with something to cheer her up.. something romantic. The problem is, money is VERY tight right now, and ive done most of the things i can think of (massages, flow...

My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...

LDR: I am happy to be faithful to him but I don't want to hold him back, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 19 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hi guys and girls, I'm sorry if this is a long post! Basically...I left home to go traveling for 18 months 6 months ago. I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years and we moved out and I set off.He couldn't come with me because he is doing a PHD i...

Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t kno...

My husband is a neat freak and I don't have any motivation to clean!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - help!i want to stop this emotional maddnes! my husband is a neat freak and i really just dont care. i really cant find motivation to clean the house. i want to, but when its messed up by him hours later i jsut say screw and dont do it anymore. idk ...

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a ...

Does she look at other men? Is she lying to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I feel terrible. I do not know what to do. I have accused my girlfriend time after time after time of looking at other men and she always insists that she doesn't. But I see her looking around whenever we are outside, so she has to be judging and ...

What should I do about the cold shoulder he is giving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - He doesnt care to know how am doing or if i even still exist and i dont know what to do.I've always tried to guide my heart against wavering men but i think i just let my wall crumble without even trying to uphold it.i met this guy like 3yrs a go ...

He's gay, but I really really like him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am falling in love with my relationships councilor and don't know how to stop feeling like this. I ended my marriage 1 yr ago cause my husband was having sex with men.We were married for 18 years so I am not some ditzy young thing with a silly ...

I think my teacher has feelings for me, what do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Well first of all, hi there! :) Anywho, the question pretty much sums everything up, I believe there could be a chance that my teacher likes me. I know myself that I have strong feelings towards him and I can't exactly say it's a crush because I'...