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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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I don't want things to get uncomfortable at work, but could she be indicating that she likes me?
Q. I have this coworker, She have a BF who lives in New Jersey and we live in Texas and work at a restaurant together. She's sarcastic to me, sometimes laughs at my jokes, we hung out once at my house before work just watched tv for 30mins Tod...
A. 22 June 2015: Do NOT tell her preemptively. IF she makes a pass at you then you say "sorry I don't date co-workers" and that's that.
but do not make the assumption that she wants to hook up.... (read in full...)
Why is this ex trying to turn friends against me?
Q. Why is an ex trying to turn my friends against me? I had a brief affair with a guy who was a bit of a player - chatting and flirting with women etc. I told him I didn't think I could be part of his life like it is and told one of my friends that ...
A. 22 June 2015: why would you want to "Iron things out" and count as a "friend" a man who is a player who is so childish as to think he can tell people who to be friends with?
what he wants and what he thinks are irrelevant.... (read in full...)
Do you think it is worth me continuing to see him? Will his feelings for her fade with time?
Q. Dear aunties and uncles About a month ago I met a man who is 60, has been separated for 2 years and is currently going through a divorce. I am 55 and divorced. We have gone out together twice and each time have had a really wonderful fun tim...
A. 22 June 2015: I would not continue in the hopes he will change.
a. he's still legally married. In many states his wife can name anyone he dates in her divorce as a respondent. You don't want that.
b. he really wants the other woman who "friend-zoned"... (read in full...)
How do I choose new boundaries when in the process of breaking up with someone?
Q. I feel it may be time for me to break up with my boyfriend, even though I love him, because we're incompatible in finances and maturity. It hurts me to think of doing a cold cut from him, especially since he's my longest relationship. When you...
A. 22 June 2015: if you love him but see it won't work and he loves you and thinks it will work, then the ONLY way to make this break is a clean NO CONTACT break.
Time will heal and you will end up in years down the road being civil and maybe even friendly... ... (read in full...)
Was it weird and randon that he never normally talks to me and yet at a party he chatted, asked me questions and added me on facebook? Is he interested in friendship or dating?
Q. Hi, So a few months ago, I was on a party and a guy was there, (he's 1 year younger than me). Then a few days later he added me on Facebook and started chatting with me and asking me questions and stuff, he was very nice but I found it weird and ...
A. 22 June 2015: Well
1. his age is not an issue. One year is NOTHING at this point. my husband is 13 yrs younger than I am
2. he may be shy and inexperienced and that's why he contacts you on social media. for this one based on age I would give him a pass ... (read in full...)
Is it generally normal for a Doctor to ask a patient if the patient is married?
Q. I had a followup with a female doctor/consultant after procedure. Big hospital, see different doctor each time usually, so probably won't see again. This one asked me if I am married, was very friendly and when I left told me how nice it was to know...
A. 22 June 2015: my marital status is always part of a medical visit.
would you have questioned it if the provider was male?... (read in full...)
My current Bf claims my vagina is too loose and accuses me of cheating. What else would make it feel loose to him?
Q. I had my daughter at the age of 14 through a c-section.. i have had several of sex partners in the years since then and no one has ever complained about my vagina except my current boyfriend. He believes i'm cheating on him cause he say my vagin...
A. 22 June 2015: What's causing it to feel loose is that his penis is not getting as hard as it used to.
... (read in full...)
I don't want things to get uncomfortable at work, but could she be indicating that she likes me?
Q. I have this coworker, She have a BF who lives in New Jersey and we live in Texas and work at a restaurant together. She's sarcastic to me, sometimes laughs at my jokes, we hung out once at my house before work just watched tv for 30mins Tod...
A. 22 June 2015: So because her boyfriend is not local you think she's interested?
Just because a couple is not living together does not mean that their relationship does not deserve respect.
She sounds like a friendly co-worker and nothing more to me. ... (read in full...)
Has he got a compulsive addiction? Dating him for 4 years. My bf's unusual obsession is joining free dating sites.
Q. I have been in a relationship for more than 4 years. This has been held back by my bf's unusual obsession with joining free dating sites. It had been a good few months and I really thought he at last had learned his lesson. Clumsily he ac...
A. 22 June 2015: Do not discount his bad behavior by calling it an addiction.
The guy is a cheater and a liar.
He is not to be trusted.
What shall I do you ask.... Is there hope you ask..
well we can't tell you what to do but we can suggest... (read in full...)
Am I playing with Fire wanting more out of this player?
Q. Hi, I have found myself deeply attracted to a "player" I have known of his past and all his sexual encounter/flings he has told me about them! We have been on 3 dates and the 4th one is scheduled for this week,we may either do lunch or dinner!...
A. 18 June 2015: you keep enjoying his company without the sex... that's fine.
if he's a player trying to get in your pants he'll go poof once he realizes that you aren't going to drop your drawers for him.... (read in full...)
I think he's clear of drugs now, but what would be signs if he ever started using drugs again?
Q. Recently my BF of three years told me that he was a cocaine addict and has been drug free for over 20 years. I do not know what the long time effect of cocaine has on the system and are there things I should be aware of; possibly mood swings, ...
A. 18 June 2015: you need to get in touch with Nar-anon.
it's for family and friends of addicts
http://www.nar-anon.org/
I myself go to Al-anon as my husband is in recovery for alcohol.
Once an addict always an addict and always in recovery.
ear... (read in full...)
Am I playing with Fire wanting more out of this player?
Q. Hi, I have found myself deeply attracted to a "player" I have known of his past and all his sexual encounter/flings he has told me about them! We have been on 3 dates and the 4th one is scheduled for this week,we may either do lunch or dinner!...
A. 18 June 2015: I know what you are asking.... and thinking... even if you are not sure what or why you are asking.
Wow this guy gets kudos for learning to play the honesty card so well.
He is being honest. The honesty is he wants sex for a short peri... (read in full...)
His attitude towards me wanting a child in the future is affecting how I treat his 3 year old!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. He has a three year old son with another woman. They only dated for about a month and accidentally got pregnant and things didn't work out between them. I was originally ok with the situation. I ...
A. 15 June 2015: End the relationship. He does not want another child. He did not really want the one he has but he's making the best of it.
you resenting his child and taking it out on the child is wrong.
best thing to do is end it now. that way you gr... (read in full...)
My husband is drinking again!
Q. My husband is at it again, I had gotten our grandkids for the weekend, he stays out all night Friday drinking, then blames it on me, just cause it is his family he feels he can do that, if Idid half the things he do to me he would be upset, iI'm ...
A. 15 June 2015: The best advice I can give you as the woman of a husband who is 6 months into his sobriety... find an Alanon meeting or two or three and start going.
YOU can't fix HIM. all you can do is fix yourself and set your boundaries.
threats w... (read in full...)
How do I tell my wife her vagina is loose without hurting her feelings?
Q. We have been married for around 15 years and have had a good sex life. I'm around 42 and my wife is 40. I have started facing this problem - I find my wife's vagina very loose now. I do not get the same feeling in my penis now as I used to get ...
A. 11 June 2015: are you sure that it's your wife's vagina getting "looser" and not your penis that is not as hard as it used to be and that is what's causing your wife's vagina to feel looser?
http://www.webmd.com/men/guide/life-cycle-of-a-penis
... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by a married man who lied to me. How do I get support for my baby?
Q. Hello everyone, I would like to share my story to everyone and please give me some advices. I dated this guy. He's older than me 15 years old. When I dated him, he told me that he's single and never married before. He always promised me that...
A. 11 June 2015: It's easy. Once you give birth you get a court order for a paternity test.
He will be found to be the father.
then you get a court order for child support and have it garnished out of his paycheck.
just remember that his 3 other ch... (read in full...)
Am I in love with her?
Q. What began as curiosity, turned into a friendship. I joined a club in college in hopes that I would get to know her an I did. I fell for her while she had a boyfriend and it was hard. We remained friends throughout that, and whether or not she know...
A. 11 June 2015: Just remember that love is defined differently for everyone.
And you can love someone and do nothing about it.
I can also assure you that once you truly do love someone you won't have to ask others if you love them... you will know.... (read in full...)
Should I contact her and tell her that I know its her? Or just leave them to it? She's clearly playing some sort of game but should I rise to the bait?
Q. Mod note: OP is 27, the account predates the requirement for age information. >Dont know where to start....such a mess....basically my ex finished with me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. I found out that he lied about stuff and we had been...
A. 10 June 2015: oh let it go.
leave it to them he's not your bf and he's not your worry.
... (read in full...)
Should I send this woman a message? My husband has deleted and blocked her
Q. Hello, I have a really hard time getting over jealousy. Before my husband deploy to overseas he used to have this female friend who would call, text, email, facebook message him and she will talk for 4-5 hours just complaining about her boyf...
A. 10 June 2015: I see no harm in blocking her on facebook
BUT I also think that if he has NOT told her why he's no longer having contact with her, he owes her that closure.
"sally I'm sorry we can no longer have any contact, it's not healthy for me, for my c... (read in full...)
Are we just wasting our time by staying together?
Q. Dear Cupid, Let me start by saying I love my man. Love him, very much in love with him, and I don't doubt he has the same feelings towards me. We just don't have sex, which hurts on so many levels. Allow me to offer some background infor...
A. 10 June 2015: if you are together 9 years and engaged for 5 and not yet married I'd venture a guess to say that it's over and not progressing
You live with your parents. I'm betting he stays because it's cheap and easy.
I'm sorry about your health ... (read in full...)
My dear friend's life is spiralling out of control. What is possible, out there, to support her?
Q. I have a close friend of 42 who is incredibly unhappy in her ten year relationship. She suffers with anxiety and depression caused by lack of intimacy with him and long term frustration. I dont know how to support her anymore. They stay toge...
A. 10 June 2015: Since you mentioned drink... I am going to give my standard suggestion... get thee to an Al-anon meeting.
Al-anon is for friends and family of people affected by alcohol.
it will teach you that SADLY you can't fix her or help her she has to d... (read in full...)
Am I in love with her?
Q. What began as curiosity, turned into a friendship. I joined a club in college in hopes that I would get to know her an I did. I fell for her while she had a boyfriend and it was hard. We remained friends throughout that, and whether or not she know...
A. 10 June 2015: I don't think it's LOVE... you like her, you wonder about what would happen...but love... no that takes time to grow.
So now what's your next question? Because "do I love her" seems to be a segue to "should I tell her" or "what should... (read in full...)
Should I Stay or Should I let her go ? Should I be stressing about some family issues?
Q. Ive been seeing this girl for about almost 2 years now. It all started in school, you know first think she weird, then some how get her number and start texting and become friends lol Anyway this girl has been truly a blessing to me she keeps me ...
A. 10 June 2015: The only person to decide if you are too old for her is HER.
IF she doesn't think you are too old then you are not. BTW how you LOOK is not the issue. Its how you feel and behave.... I'm 55 to my hubby's 42... but unless we tell someone,... (read in full...)
What sort of a relationship is it where insults and sarcasm are common?
Q. I feel so upset/down and uncared for at the moment, it's been building for a couple of days now. My partner hasn't really been as talkative the past few days or affectionate, she gets like that sometimes so basically all I asked was if she was o...
A. 10 June 2015: This is a NON relationship.
She is abusing you. You need to get out of this relationship.
I know that it will be hard for you but at this point I suggest that since you won't leave the way it is (if you would have left you would have done... (read in full...)
Is he too young for me?? 33 versus 25
Q. After seeing the previous question posted about ages, it made me want to ask my own. I am 33 and fallen in love with a guy who is getting ready to turn 25. I've never had a thing for younger guys but he's absolutely amazing. He's everythi...
A. 10 June 2015: If he knows what he wants then his age (25) is perfectly acceptable.
Women tend to live 8 years longer than men...sounds like a perfect gap.
My hubby is 42 to my 55.... (read in full...)
My parents are basically planning to cut ties with my son and I once I move out to be with my fiance!
Q. My parents are basically planning to cut ties with my son and I once I move out to be with my fiance. It hurts a lot and I am not sure what to do. Long story in a nutshell-I was previously married. My parents moved overseas for three years and ...
A. 9 June 2015: It's their loss not yours or your son's. I can't see letting a small impressionable child be around such angry bigoted people as a good thing for the child anyway.
As for family, they are blood relatives. Family is what you make it. Like Ho... (read in full...)
Why would my ex add me on Facebook only to delete me again?
Q. Hi guys I have a situation, Ive posted about this before. My last serious ex gaa got back in touch, I'm finding it strange. I'll tell what happened breifly. Everything was hunky dory he went to mqgaluf for his 21sr came back and apparently had ...
A. 9 June 2015: I will never understand why folks feel the need to be friends with a former lover/partner if you don't have children together.
Being Civil and friendLY is one thing. Being FRIENDS is a totally different game that rarely works.
There is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was unappreciative of the meal I cooked and he never wants to spend time with my family. I wanted our relationship to work but now I'm having second thoughts!
Q. My boyfriend can just irritate me so much sometimes. I brought over all the ingredients to his house to make BLT's. Instead of thanking me and being appreciative he complained I got wheat bread. Then he freaked out that I was cooking the bacon in ...
A. 9 June 2015: I have three ways to make bacon depending on how i want it done.
breakfast... in the pan with a bit of water to avoid splatters
for me... in the microwave burnt to a shattering crisp. goes on my salad.
for sandwiches: on the indoor ... (read in full...)
He is the man of my dreams. Does an 8 year age gap matter?
Q. I have fallen in love with a man 8 years younger than me... I am 35 he is 27... Does this matter? I didn't know his age until very recently, I thought he was about my age, I thought he was 30/31. We've not yet had a sexual relationship but I do lov...
A. 9 June 2015: if you are single and he is single and you want this and he wants this then I see no issue with it.
Why in the world would a man being younger than you be morally incorrect???
I'm 55. My husband of nearly 3 years just turned 42....... (read in full...)
He says there is is no need to spend on me until we get married!
Q. I'm 24year plus and my guy is 30 plus we both love eachother despite i was aware that he had a child out of wedlock and he is a contractor by proffession and im a pertime student and working as a secretary in a small studio where i earn little ...
A. 5 June 2015: Basically what you are saying is that the only way you can tell if your boyfriend loves you is if he gives you money?
If he gave you an engagement ring would you know he loves you?
Perhaps you need to define for yourself how you define love.... (read in full...)
I think it is wrong for a guy to ask for a woman's personal address after one date. I don't know how to handle it. Also he sent me the text at midnight and it woke me up.
Q. Having met a guy via a dating website a couple of months ago and exchanging personal emails (quite lengthy ones) we decided to meet up a few days ago. We live about 2 hours from each other so I was happy to meet half way. I'm really careful about ...
A. 5 June 2015: There was a time that for EVERY date a man came to your house and picked you up and opened the car door and helped you in.
Times have changed. His asking seems odd but not a huge red flag to me.
As for the texting at midnight... I will ... (read in full...)
I now know he lied to me about his ex, in order to break up with her, and be with me and it concerns me. Should I listen to my heart over this?
Q. I'm not sure how to handle the situation I'm in. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR and have been together about 2 years. We have plans to be engaged next year and move in together. However, there's something in my heart that I'm not able to let g...
A. 5 June 2015: You know he can lie and cheat. You don't trust him. With good reason.
IF you do not trust him, then you have no relationship.
IF you have been LDR for two years already, at your age what is stopping one of you from moving to be with t... (read in full...)
Is there any point in trying for long- distance? Or can we offer a future promise to each other?
Q. Extremely in love with a guy who was here for work. We've been together for a year. He leaves for his home country soon, as well as to complete his studies. I am thinking of discussing long-distance with him seriously, yet will there be a point...
A. 5 June 2015: LDRs have a very short life span if there is no end in sight.
IF you will be apart for 3 years or more how often will you see each other, if less than once a month or so then I would say not to bother.... it's very hard to maintain an ... (read in full...)
Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.
Q. My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...
A. 27 May 2015: no one said i was not having orgasms. I'm just not having sex. two totally different things.... (read in full...)
2 years of sleeping with ex who is married. Do I walk away?
Q. Been sleeping with ex for almost 2 years. He's married. I said to him "when you get divorced we can spend more time together". He said, "you'll find someone" I said so will you, since he's been saying he's getting divorced. He responded, "I have ...
A. 27 May 2015: "I'm getting divorced" in this case is code for "sleep with me until you figure out i'm never leaving my wife for you"
yes time to end it with your married lying lover.
... (read in full...)
Not sure how she feels. But should I try to do some extra nice things for this customer, who I really like, for when she gets back from trip to Japan?
Q. so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) We started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...
A. 27 May 2015: stop overthinking it.
she seems to like you
you like her
when she gets back, take her out for coffee or something and give her the box of stuff you have saved for her.
... (read in full...)
Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?
Q. So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...
A. 27 May 2015: Kudos to him for wanting to be a stable male figure in this boy's life.
IF you can manage to behave as an adult and accept that this man will be in your life as the father of one of yours and quasi father to your other one, I would gracious... (read in full...)
Is it not as easy, as it seems, to get pregnant for some people? Anything else that could help?
Q. My fiancé and I have been trying for a baby for 8 months now, in that time we've only conceived once but sadly that pregnancy ended in miscarriage a few months back. Recently we've been trying like rabbits to conceive again, in every position you ...
A. 27 May 2015: 50% of all pregnancies end in miscarriage. Always has been this way and always will be. the fact that we can determine to the millisecond when a woman conceives does not change that.
Just because you are producing large amounts of ejaculate... (read in full...)
I'm worried if we apart that my boyfriend will cheat like he has in the past
Q. I'm in a relationship which has survived, well kind of survived my boyfriend sleeping with another women, but now he is about to go work aboard for 3 months over summer, I don't know if I trust him enough to keep our relationship going. We met when...
A. 27 May 2015: " it's a long time without sex "
That's your big problem right there... if you are apart from the one you love you don't think of sex with others.
Committed people go months and months without having sex with their partner and do not... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 27 May 2015: Right IF you bring it up to satisfy YOURSELF you HURT YOUR WIFE by needing to figure this out.
STOP trying to make sense of human nature... let it go and stop bringing it up.
IF my husband was this pig headed and stubborn and I kept saying "... (read in full...)
He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!
Q. i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than ...
A. 27 May 2015: You can never make it work with a man who has retroactive jealousy and is so very judgmental.
It will never work. Best to let him go and move on and find a mature man who loves you for you and does not judge you for things you did before y... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 27 May 2015: OP you mean to tell me you NEVER ever have wanted to have NSA sex just for the fun of it?
You never wanted to scratch an itch?
In addition, this is all about the past... how is the present and why is figuring out the past so important?... (read in full...)
Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.
Q. My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...
A. 27 May 2015: Well you asked me for my input... and here it is.
My ex husband left me. I did not throw him out. He wanted OUT of the marriage and this was his excuse.
The current marriage is a much better marriage.
the sex is the worst I have e... (read in full...)
Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.
Q. My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...
A. 26 May 2015: welcome to my world..... my screen name is based totally on the fact that I was married to my then husband and had met my NOW husband and I didn't know what to do and I was SO VERY confused...
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Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 26 May 2015: so your true issue is "Is my wife capable of lying to me?"
is that your concern?... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying? She says she can't remember back 15 years ago whether the guy had a large penis or not
Q. Ive been married to my wife 15 years. When I first met her, i remember her telling me of a former sex partner who was big in penis size. When i brought that fact up recently, she denies anything was ever big. She says she dont remember even ...
A. 26 May 2015: OP, my current husband and I will be married 3 years in October. He is my 4th husband.
He is the WORST lover I have ever had. Totally. and I make no bones about it and neither does he.
And yet... he is my heart and my soul and my love... (read in full...)
Will my compromise work? My boyfriend has become very sexually posessive, and it's starting to bother my husband.
Q. My husband has always allowed me to have sex with other men and this has, up till now, made for a very fun and happy marriage of almost 20 years. I have been with my latest lover for a couple of years now and am very much in love with him (and wi...
A. 22 May 2015: As a former swinger and supporter of the poly lifestyle, I understand your feelings.
I think however that your boyfriend is being unrealistic. HE is your SECOND not your FIRST and your FIRST has final say not your second.
Tell boyfriend to... (read in full...)
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added them and they have added *o_Very_Confused!
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