Why two condoms???
Q. me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi
Try and get some info on condoms which you can give to yourbf. 2 Condoms and not safer then 1. I think you should get the info so that he can read it - If he reads it then he would probably understand it better. Also you can go to the clinic f... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 11 January 2008: Hi
Unfortunately if he doesnt want to do something you cant force him. Try and find other things that can please you. If you love each other then nothing should really matter. You both just need to compromise. Do you go down on him?
Regards... (read in full...)
We always argue via telephone. How can I control myself?
Q. My boyfriend and I always argue at phone calls.. Sometimes i ask him "Why didnt' you call me?" and he will say "I am busy" ......... and start the fighting.. he gets mad at me.. How can i handle this? How can i control my self.. please help ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi
You need to understand that if you are going to keep up this behaviour then you are bound to lose this guy (sorry for being so harsh). Guys dont like fighting and bickering. I know my bf doesnt. Try to avoid a fight. Even if your bf gets mad... (read in full...)
Why did she need to keep this from me?
Q. My fiance and I have been in a relationship with each other for three years and only got engaged a while ago. Recently she confessed to me, out of the blues, that on one occasion two years ago, she had allowed a friend of hers to fondle her ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi
I dont blame you for feeling the way that you are feeling. I suggest that you have a serious talk with her and make certain that this would never happen again. Tell her that you would only expect honesty from her and that right now your tru... (read in full...)
16, mature for my age, dating a 25 year old for a year now. His parents approve of our relationship, but I have difficulties with my parents who've only recently found out. Suggestions?
Q. ok i am 16.... i'm mature for my age and look like im 19-22.... i hooked up with my friends brother who is 25... when we first hooked up he didn't know how old i was but assumed i was at least 18... i'd known him for awhile but we had never ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
I am 20 and my bf is 31. My parents didnt approve of our relationship at first but his parents were ok. I had huge problems with my family. We started going out in September 2006 and they only allowed him to come and see me at home in March 20... (read in full...)
16, mature for my age, dating a 25 year old for a year now. His parents approve of our relationship, but I have difficulties with my parents who've only recently found out. Suggestions?
Q. ok i am 16.... i'm mature for my age and look like im 19-22.... i hooked up with my friends brother who is 25... when we first hooked up he didn't know how old i was but assumed i was at least 18... i'd known him for awhile but we had never ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
I am 20 and my bf is 31. My parents didnt approve of our relationship at first but his parents were ok. I had huge problems with my family. We started going out in September 2006 and they only allowed him to come and see me at home in March 20... (read in full...)
The condom split. What to do?
Q. Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi
Get your gf to take the morning after pill. This would prevent an unwanted pregnancy. It is available at the pharmacy
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My girlfriend acts really immature when we're together. Can anybody help here? (Preferably girls)
Q. My girlfriend has been really angry towards me. She calls me dumb and pathetic and a 9 year old girl when i dont see how i could be. If i sit next to her she will kick me and punch me and elbow me until i fall off the couch. She will then tell me to ...
A. 6 December 2007: Hi
You should have a serious chat with your gf. Tell her that you dont like the way she is behaving. I dont think that it is verymature for her to do the things you say she does. About the tatoo thing, you shouldnt do something you dont want to ... (read in full...)
13, My boyfriend wants Sex from me, but I don't think I'm ready. Can you help me?
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 wks and 5 days and he wants to have sex with me and im still a virgin and he is'nt i dont know if im ready or not how would i know if im ready or not. ...
A. 6 December 2007: Hi
You shouldnt do what you dont want to and any guy that doesnt understand that is not worthed. I think that if he is pushing you to do something then you should leave him and find someone that willing to do things you wanna do. You are far too ... (read in full...)
My bf has started working away and I feel lonely and now I have slept with his friend. Please help.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and im in love with him. but recenlty he's started working away and i've felt lonely and slept with his freind - i feel really guilty and don't know what to do. Please help....
A. 3 December 2007: Hi
You would have to tell him or the guilt would eat you up inside. It is understandable that you would feel lonely after the change but you have to be strong for your relationship to survive. Just remember that you and your bf have a realtion... (read in full...)
Which guy do I choose?
Q. I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...
A. 3 December 2007: Hi
You cannot plan who you are going to fall in love with it just happens. I love my bf and i would do anything for him. Dont be afraid of your parents. If you really like this guy then you should take a stand for your relationship. Tell your par... (read in full...)
Is cumming and having an orgasm the same thing?
Q. For a boy is cumming and orgasming the same thing?...
A. 29 November 2007: Hi
It is the same thing for both a girl and a guy.
Regards... (read in full...)
Which guy do I choose?
Q. I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...
A. 29 November 2007: Hi
Is this 35 year old married or does he have any kids?
Regards... (read in full...)
Was I treated unreasonably?
Q. One night my fiance asked if I wanted to go with him to a bar that him and his friends were going to that night. It was a family night so some of his friends were his friend's younger sisters that he is better friends with and they are like 13 and ...
A. 29 November 2007: Hi
You had a right to be mad at him.It is one thing that he uninvited you but it is something else for him to tell you to stay at home! I think you should take a stand and put up some rules. Tell him that you think it would be better if you woul... (read in full...)
Shall I pay my own way or not?
Q. I have started dating this guy and we have been dating for about a month and I havent ever really dated before. i was wondering if i should let him pay everytime we go out or should i offer to pay or how that works!?... ...
A. 29 November 2007: Hi
You should offer to pay but if he says no then just let him pay. When i go out with my bf i dont really pay. My bf and i are both working and we combine out money but when it come to paying for a meal he would do it. I would prefer to pay half... (read in full...)
Will wearing a bra 24/7 stunt my growth?
Q. i ALWAYS wear a bra. Even in bed. Underwired and padded. Will this stop my growth? Thanks...
A. 29 November 2007: Hi
I dont think that it would stunt your growth but i do suggets that you dont sleep with one. I think that if you wear a bra then it just to ensure that they are not sagging (if you know what i mean)
Regards... (read in full...)
Idead for Christmas...
Q. Okay, I have this idea for a christmas present for a lad I really like. I would like loads of messages saying whether you think it is too corny or any better ideas. I have already got him a little present which I am planning to wrap up, put in a nic...
A. 28 November 2007: Hi
I think that is a great idea. Remember that as long as it comes from the heart then it would be appreciated. Also it is the thought that counts so go for it. I wouldnt mind getting a prezzie like that!
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?
Q. Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...
A. 28 November 2007: Hi
You have more then a reason to feel what you are feeling. I would have DUMPED my bf the minute i saw those photos. I thinkit is time you took a stand. Are you and your bf intimate? If you are then there is no need to have those photos on his c... (read in full...)
I really need your help...
Q. My bf dumped me after he found out his best friend, who has a gf himself, had kissed me once at school when he wasn't around. My ex now says that his friend kissed me because he likes me but is just afraid to say so (besides kissing me, he had also ...
A. 28 November 2007: Hi
Why are you allowing your exs friend to kiss you and carry on with? Your behaviour was not appropriate and now through that you lost your bf. If you didnt want to be with him then you should have just told him you should have cheated on him w... (read in full...)
Break...
Q. I'm 18 and have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now, and she proposed taking a break. This came about because she was afraid of the what ifs that she was missing. What should I do?...
A. 27 November 2007: Hi
I think it is still too early for your gf to be wanting a break. I would suggest that you dont take this relationship to heart and be wary of it.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk... (read in full...)
Could the age difference have something to do with it?
Q. Hi I'm 19 and I work with the guy I like. What do I do when he said that he won't have a relationship with a co-worker? And one of our friends say's that they're sure it's not that he doesn't like me. There is also an age differents he's 34, could ...
A. 27 November 2007: Hi
Your age has nothing to do with it. He know that if anything happens between him and a co worker and things dont turn out the way they were meant to be then things would be sour and very incomfortable at work. I just think you should wait and... (read in full...)
One of my boobs are bigger than the other. Is this normal?
Q. My boobs dont look the same. One looks bigger than the other. Is that normal? Will I ever grow out of that? please please please help me!!!! thank you...
A. 27 November 2007: Hi
It is natural. Mine are the same. You shouldnt worry everything is ok. I am not sure if they would grow to the same size or not.
Regards... (read in full...)
Is there a better way of approaching than asking if they want a drink?
Q. when i approach agirl in a club or pub i usally ask if they want a drink , it hardly works and cost money . is there an more succsessfull way because im single and i dont want to be...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi
You can try walking up to them and saying, can i join you. Can i chat to you then see where that takes you. I hope it works for you.
Regards... (read in full...)
What to get my man for Christmas?
Q. I need help! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months and a day. If we are together on Christmas Eve we wll be together for 4 months. I know what he likes. He likes Nascar, WWE, Baseball, Football, etc. I just don't know what to get him ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi
Why dont you get him a Tshirt of hos favourite player? Also you can get him a nice DVD regarding his favourite sport. Remember whatever you get him, he would appreciate it as long as it comes from your heart. It is the thought that counts. ... (read in full...)
Is there something else I can use instead of a condom?
Q. Is there something else i can use instead of a condom?...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi There are birth control pills that you can go on. There is also an injection that you get every 3 months (not sure if this is available to you) Why dont you like condoms? Regards... (read in full...)
My bf keeps talking to his ex's, what should I do??
Q. I need some advice in a hard situation. My bf and I have been together for almost 5 years, and we have a 3 year old together. I have always thought of him as "the one" but about a year ago, we started having major issues....so we called off our ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi It is a pleasure. You are just like me i dont wana have any contact with my ex but for guys it is so easy for them to say. Guy are so difficult to undersatnd and they say women are hard to understand?!? Regards... (read in full...)
Someone we don't know is telling him things.
Q. Ok my boyfreind and i have been going out for a month and a couple weeks and a person that nether of us know that well told him that i don't trust him and he belived her and we have been fighting and alot of stuff we both said was not true and i ...
A. 23 November 2007: Hi
What stuff?
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My bf keeps talking to his ex's, what should I do??
Q. I need some advice in a hard situation. My bf and I have been together for almost 5 years, and we have a 3 year old together. I have always thought of him as "the one" but about a year ago, we started having major issues....so we called off our ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
I dont think you are psycho for going through his stuff. I think that he is reacting b/c he feels that you have caught him.I think it is time that you set up some rules.Do you still wanna be with this guy?I think you shoulld tell him to make ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what are your thoughts about tattoos? Can tattoos have a negative effect upon obtaining dates?
Q. Hey, so I'm wondering what most girls think of tattoos. I've already got one, a cross on my right bicep and I've never heard any complaints about it. But this Christmas I'm looking at getting a koi fish done on my forearm (half sleeve), and event...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
I think that tatoos are very sexy BUT I dont think i would like my guy to be over tatooed. I think the cross and probably the koi fish would be ok but getting both arms sleeved?!? I dont think so. I dont find a guy with loads of tatoos appealin... (read in full...)
Ladies, what are your thoughts about tattoos? Can tattoos have a negative effect upon obtaining dates?
Q. Hey, so I'm wondering what most girls think of tattoos. I've already got one, a cross on my right bicep and I've never heard any complaints about it. But this Christmas I'm looking at getting a koi fish done on my forearm (half sleeve), and event...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
I think that tatoos are very sexy BUT I dont think i would like my guy to be over tatooed. I think the cross and probably the koi fish would be ok but getting both arms sleeved?!? I dont think so. I dont find a guy with loads of tatoos appealin... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my best years by not having sex?
Q. I'm in my teens. Now is the best time to be having Sex, and I'm not! I was not so long ago, and I think I took Sex for granted because I was enjoying my girlfriends company so much. Am I wasting my best years?? Do many guys suffer this when it com...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
No you are no wasting anything. You just enjoying your life. I think you should only have sex when you are ready and it should be with someone that you really love and have a stable relationship. I dont think you should go out and have sex b/c ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty for not being fair to him.
Q. Hi, I'm writing because I need advice, perspective. I met a guy over 1 year ago in Toronto. It was a friend of a friend and a roommate at the same time. Not long after he moved in (we were 3 living in a house), we hooked up for all the wrong re...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
Reality check!!!!!
He doesnt deserve you and your love. He is crazy for treating you the way he did. He saisd such mean things to you and you still wanna go back. Arent you feeling anything? I dont think he should treat you the way he has a... (read in full...)
Someone we don't know is telling him things.
Q. Ok my boyfreind and i have been going out for a month and a couple weeks and a person that nether of us know that well told him that i don't trust him and he belived her and we have been fighting and alot of stuff we both said was not true and i ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
Your bf should know you better than to go and believe someone that you dont even know that well. Tell your bf your side of the stort about how the hell would this person know things about you as your dont knoe her that well to go and confide ... (read in full...)
He had a foursome before he went out with me, should I be worried?
Q. Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months and it's great and so is the sex. until one day he let it slip that he done a foursome before he went out with me.? Is this something to worry bout? Also he watches a lot of porn and has magazine...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
Guys like porn but i dont thinkthey like it better than the real deal if you know what i mean. I think that you should try lokking at the porn together (if you are comfortable) and that should enhance your sex life.I dont think you should w... (read in full...)
I cheated, it will never happen again, but the guilt is driving me crazy, how can I go on like this?
Q. Hi everybody....Im coming to you a as a cheater. I feel like such a horrible person. Although I know Im not, I made one terrible mistake. The worst I have ever made in my life. I have been with my GF for a little over 3 years, and cheated on ONE ...
A. 22 November 2007: Hi
From your post i can tell that you are truely really sorry. There are 2 things that can be done from my point of vies. If i was your gf then i would like to know rather then be in the dark.However, things would not be that same between yourll. ... (read in full...)
We want to spice up our relationship, and we decided on a threesome. Any tips?
Q. Hey, Me and my boyfriend have been trying to spice things up a bit. Over the fast few months we have been getting a lot more "explorative." He wanted to have a threesome with another girl and i told him i would if I could have him and three more ...
A. 21 November 2007: Do you not have a problem with another girl (your best friend) making your bf moan? I think you should choose a stranger so that you would not be awkward b/c believe me things would reallt be akward when you see her afterwards. Who were the guys ... (read in full...)
Am I really that old-fashioned? I'm so tight, sex is painful and I want to wait for the right guy...
Q. I'm 21, one partner away from being a virgin, and I have a small problem -- or rather, I have a problem with being small. Sex is painful. It was painful after the first time, and no, practicing with a well-lubed dildo hasn't helped. I am one...
A. 21 November 2007: Hi
There is nothing wrong with wanting to wait and any guy that doesnt respect your wishes doesnt deserve you and should HIT THE ROAD. You can ask a guy to wait it is up to you after all.Do you want to know if it is ok to wait of what you should d... (read in full...)
How do I get over this jealousy I feel?
Q. hey I'm a really jealous girlfriend and my boyfriend can't stand it because I hold the past against him.... he kissed a girl like 6 months ago right in front of me at this party and I have been jealous since... I hate other girls texting him I ...
A. 21 November 2007: Hi
A bit of jealousy os okay in a relationship but it is all about trust. I was like that whne i first started my relationship. You just need to build a foundation of trust and things would be ok. If you keep bringing up his past and nagging ... (read in full...)
Do guys that have "one nite stands" like to cuddle?
Q. Last year when my boyfriend and I broke up I met this cutie.. he's 24, I'm 32. We had an amazing nite of sex, but I got back with my boyfriend and I haven't talked to him since. Now I'm single again and last weekend I was out with friends and I ...
A. 21 November 2007: Hi
Guys are different. Maybe he is one of the guys that likes to cuddle. Why do you think that things are so different and why is this bugging you?
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He cheated on me, help me get this out of my head?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. He ended up cheatin on me wen he had to move back home earlier this year. i haven't forgiven him as such but i am givin him a second chance. i can't stop thinkin that he is lyin to me i know i'm ...
A. 21 November 2007: Hi
You should have a serious chat with your bf. Ask him what he wants. If he wants to work things out then he should act like it,if he doesnt then you cant have the hope of being together and you should therefore go your seperate ways. I think th... (read in full...)
Do verbal compliments really get guy's hot?
Q. I am just wondering if most people are very verbal during sex. I am quite shy and am not comfortable with talking dirty or complimenting my boyfriend during sex. Does being more verbal get guys more excited? ...
A. 20 November 2007: Hi
Different guys prefer differemt things. When i first started having sex. I would probably only moan but never speak dirty. After i got used to my bf i remember hearing him say to me moan for me or he should speak dirty and then i started.... (read in full...)
He cheated on me, help me get this out of my head?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over three years. He ended up cheatin on me wen he had to move back home earlier this year. i haven't forgiven him as such but i am givin him a second chance. i can't stop thinkin that he is lyin to me i know i'm ...
A. 20 November 2007: Hi
I completely understand what you are going through. My bf text a girl that liked him for a long time and i found out about it. I was devastated b/c i felt that he had betrayed me.You shouldnt worry about what people say b/c only you know wha... (read in full...)
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